FabSwingers.com forum: What have you learned from being in this site ?

By *attooedlad199521 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Iv got quite a few things I could say 🤣

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By *hat.coupleCouple
10 weeks ago

Kent

I've learned loads, but nothing life changing.

Mrs x

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends

Incels.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

That to sone people it’s still the 70s.

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By *imply_SensualMan
10 weeks ago

Cheshire

"Iv got quite a few things I could say 🤣"

Go for it....

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends

"That to sone people it’s still the 70s. "

I’d even go as far as the 60s for some

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By *annessaTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Denham

Not everyone tells the truth

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By *oldyoudown41Man
10 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Be yourself because you can’t be all those things everyone wants you to be…

The list is endless

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By *eneralKenobiMan
10 weeks ago

North Angus

Patience mainly

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By *ndymac888Man
10 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Patience.

And that I like my bum licked more than I thought 😂

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By *orthampton jamesMan
10 weeks ago

Northampton

To be very patient and see how things go with couple's and ladies never be pushy, be a decent man

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By *heel markMan
10 weeks ago

beside the sea

Don't mention the Clique🙊

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
10 weeks ago

Coleraine

Soooo much

1. First lots about each other in the exploration we have had

2. How many couples are not couples

3. That pressured meets do not work

4. That despite this being a swingers site people are very judgmental

5. Men are frightened of saying they are bi curious

6. Loads of men think you’ll meet after two messages

7. Guys think women love cock pictures

8. Couples dont show enough of the guy

9. The site seems not to act on reported members

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By *layfullsamMan
10 weeks ago

Solihull

Learnt to enjoy the forums and take anything else as a bonus

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By *ongLaster15Man
10 weeks ago

Spalding

The male to female ratio is less than I’d hoped, and fab isn’t so keen on tributes

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

"That to sone people it’s still the 70s.

I’d even go as far as the 60s for some"

Agreed

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By *attooedlad199521 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Bournemouth

This is all true

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By *attooedlad199521 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Bournemouth

"Soooo much

1. First lots about each other in the exploration we have had

2. How many couples are not couples

3. That pressured meets do not work

4. That despite this being a swingers site people are very judgmental

5. Men are frightened of saying they are bi curious

6. Loads of men think you’ll meet after two messages

7. Guys think women love cock pictures

8. Couples dont show enough of the guy

9. The site seems not to act on reported members

Very true

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By *atwick_CougarWoman
10 weeks ago

Unknown

I have found that I am not alone in what I like, there are other people just like me

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By *illy IdolMan
10 weeks ago

Midlands

How popular swinging is. Maybe I was naive.

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By *nnocentOneWoman
10 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

A lot of men post photos that are from other sites. What's the point in that?! Women can reverse image search or Google image search. I've caught out & reported so many fakes!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

And a few things I really didn’t expect but learned on here (and maybe it’s just about here):

There is more prejudice about bi men than gay men.

Straight men (I’ll include straight and fab straight) are actually easier to talk to than gay men. Mostly.

Labels and categories aren’t really all that. They’re less restricting than people think they are.

There is, behind all the boobs, dicks, lamppost pissing and flaming a lot of kindness out there too.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends

I learned how hard I could love another person.

Sigh.

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

That those with integrity, authenticity and empathy rarely reaches double figures on here.

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By *illy IdolMan
10 weeks ago

Midlands

"That those with integrity, authenticity and empathy rarely reaches double figures on here."

The hot ones do. Just be patient, Nero.

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

"That those with integrity, authenticity and empathy rarely reaches double figures on here.

The hot ones do. Just be patient, Nero."

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They have to be fit though, innit.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
10 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

There is someone out there that will find you attractive and want to meet

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
10 weeks ago

Basingstoke

People are rarely, in person, that which they make themselves out to be online.

Trust no one until they have proven themselves trustworthy.

Never compromise your standards or lower your expectations. There was a reason why you set them in the first place.

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By *electableicecreamMan
10 weeks ago

The West

Through Fab?

I learned where my 'no' is. That is I learned where my boundaries are and tried enough things that I don't feel fomo anymore.

I learned I'm not poly and that I have no interest in pursuing sex with couples.

I learned I'm not bothered about club's or parties and that I really enjoy day time social events in nice bars or cafes.

I learned that two women in my life is plenty and if there is friendship it's a blessing.

I have, incredibly, learned that I don't need women in my life at all. Nothing surprised me more than this. I am single, not looking and happy.

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By *ickshawedCouple
10 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I've learnt what a dirty Chewbacca is

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By *imply_SensualMan
10 weeks ago

Cheshire

I have learned that amongst a lot of the negativity around this place and success rates etc, there are some really good, genuine, and sexy people on here.

I have also learned that if i was in a couple, I am not sure how willing I would be to share a partner.

Clubs can be great, or garbage - it can depend on the night you go and the event being held. I have had some good club nights though.

That older or younger have equal to offer

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

Single guys are not really single

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By *inky PerkyCouple
10 weeks ago

Kingston

"Soooo much

1. First lots about each other in the exploration we have had

2. How many couples are not couples

3. That pressured meets do not work

4. That despite this being a swingers site people are very judgmental

5. Men are frightened of saying they are bi curious

6. Loads of men think you’ll meet after two messages

7. Guys think women love cock pictures

8. Couples dont show enough of the guy

9. The site seems not to act on reported members

All of this apart from 5).

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
10 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

I like to think that I teach. 😏

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By *oonshadowWoman
10 weeks ago

great yarmouth

Everyone is weird or difficult to work out, myself included

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By *dalisqueWoman
10 weeks ago

land of make believe

"I've learnt what a dirty Chewbacca is "

Some lessons are so unnecessary 🤢🤮

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By *idesWillTurnMan
10 weeks ago

Berkshire

That every single day on the forum

A guy will post a new thread being like

"I'm completely over this site..

Why do I not get any meets"

And a woman will post a thread being like

"What's the problem with all these men?"

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
10 weeks ago

from mars

That I’m in my own lane ….

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By *tanXXXMan
10 weeks ago

North east

To accept zero messages on a daily basis

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

Don’t take this site so serious it’s not good for your mental health

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By *olf-of-OdinMan
10 weeks ago

Winchester

I have learnt that I'm not alone in being a bit of a horny deviant.

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By *ressF4FunMan
10 weeks ago

Near Naas

Not to expect much just let things flow naturally less disappointment and a more positive outlook of the site

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By *ealitybitesMan
10 weeks ago

Belfast

That there are some genuinely genuine people and some genuinely unstable people here.

The former are amazing and the latter are crazy.

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By *avexxMan
10 weeks ago

cheshire

"Don’t take this site so serious it’s not good for your mental health "
..this

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By *JB1954Man
10 weeks ago

Reading

Once a certain age . Then not much interest in profile. So any response from profiles that you contact is a bonus. Then go from there and never know if meet will occur.

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By *eardedguy83Man
10 weeks ago

Worcestershire

Manage your expectations

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By *ardforall56Man
10 weeks ago

lisburn

Never knock a door for a meet always get them to come to the door.

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By *Wgent72Man
10 weeks ago

Manchester

Certainly had a roller coaster of emotions being on here...one minute up...next minute down

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
10 weeks ago

from mars

I’m unique … 🍒

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By *obboMan
10 weeks ago

Lincoln

That the world is a mental place. Especially when I saw a guy fuck a kiwi on cam.... that was life changing

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham

I've found that the situation I was looking for wasn't as obscure as I thought it might be

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By *obilebottomMan
10 weeks ago

All over

Everyone is different

People do have biases

There are lot of nice people around

There are some not so nice people around

There are some seriously sad people around

Know when to zip it and avoid the agents provocateur

There is a totally new lingo I had no idea about that rapidly learning

Lots of people like cake

Apparently my bum is not that bad

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
10 weeks ago

from mars

"Everyone is different

People do have biases

There are lot of nice people around

There are some not so nice people around

There are some seriously sad people around

Know when to zip it and avoid the agents provocateur

There is a totally new lingo I had no idea about that rapidly learning

Lots of people like cake

Apparently my bum is not that bad

Ice cream 🍦 is better ☺️

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Motherwell

Sexuality can be fluid for some people. Mx 😹

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By *partharmonyCouple
10 weeks ago

Ruislip

I've learned that no matter how weird a fictitious sexual practice you can think up, there are people who like wierder, and there are enough of them to make it worth coming up with a term for it.

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By *idssissyTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Nr cricket ground birm

I'm more sexually innocent and naive than I thought I was but at times more adventurous as well.

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By *layfull pairingCouple
10 weeks ago

Bristol

That I’m not as odd as I originally thought I was

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By *weetiepie99Woman
10 weeks ago

cardiff

That there are a lot of sycophants, and cheats

That a lot of the forum people are shagging a lot of the forum people

That's about it

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
10 weeks ago

Niche

That there are very few lines folk won't cross.

Fewer still if there's sex offered.

People would sell out their values in a heartbeat for sex.

Nothing is sacred and there are no boundaries. Nothing.

The things people will describe and brag about on here is a sad reflection of humanity.

Nothing surprises me on here.

It's depressing if you pay too much attention to it.

All the whinging and whining and ranting is a serious mood hoover.

It's why I do my own thing and swerve the rest. Life is short. Have to live it well and choose to be happy 🫶🫡

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
10 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

"That those with integrity, authenticity and empathy rarely reaches double figures on here.

The hot ones do. Just be patient, Nero.

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They have to be fit though, innit."

Ah bruv.. please tell me you're watching the current season of Taskmaster with Fatiha El-Ghorri. Everything she says end with innit or bruv - she's class!

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By *NormalMan01Man
10 weeks ago

Harrogate

There’s always someone bigger.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
10 weeks ago

Niche

"There’s always someone bigger. "

And harder 🤣🤣🤣

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

"That those with integrity, authenticity and empathy rarely reaches double figures on here.

The hot ones do. Just be patient, Nero.

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They have to be fit though, innit.

Ah bruv.. please tell me you're watching the current season of Taskmaster with Fatiha El-Ghorri. Everything she says end with innit or bruv - she's class!"

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It's not my usual vernacular.

I've never watched Taskmaster - I know I really should, seeing that JoeBeans is an avid fan. I've never heard of "Fatiha El-Ghorri" either. 🙂

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By *ikesEmBigMan
10 weeks ago

Herts

My penis is more impressive than the rest of me

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By *ntelligent_tall69Man
10 weeks ago

mums cellar

Honestly,

My cock is entirely average

Men have learned the use of a wide angle lens

Some single men are real tools

More women are nasty than I thought. (But most are still lovely and maybe the ones that aren't only aren't because of some of the tools)

I'm not such a big pervert as I thought I was

I really am unshockable

I need to get over my fear of large social situations with strangers

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By *ittlebirdWoman
10 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

That I like it here.

Never Google anything you read in the forum… even though I always do.

That there are some genuinely lovely people who I’ve made great friends with.

That I’m incredibly selective with who I spend my time with.

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Chard

"I've learnt what a dirty Chewbacca is "

Me too, I didn't want or need to.

I learned that maybe it's ok to be the weirdo I am too!

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By *tr8MrEMan
10 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

There's more weird people in the world than just me...and I do mean fucking weirdos

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By *C79Man
10 weeks ago

Caterham

More confirmation than learning. My appeal in the swinging world is basically the same as outside.

I'm a dime-a-dozen middle age white guy with average everything so I blend into the "of no real interest" category for 99% of people I cross paths with. Saying that, there have been some exceptions to that statement & I'm grateful for those.

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By *rRiosMan
10 weeks ago

dublin

"Straight men (I’ll include straight and fab straight) are actually easier to talk to than gay men. Mostly. "

I find this quite interesting and turns my assumption upside down. Is it a guarded thing or an elitist thing or something else entirely?

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By *exyScientistsCouple
10 weeks ago

Castlebar

I've learnt a lot. Lots of things I probably should have already known or believed about myself. But actually all good things ❣️

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
10 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

"That those with integrity, authenticity and empathy rarely reaches double figures on here.

The hot ones do. Just be patient, Nero.

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They have to be fit though, innit.

Ah bruv.. please tell me you're watching the current season of Taskmaster with Fatiha El-Ghorri. Everything she says end with innit or bruv - she's class!

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It's not my usual vernacular.

Oh I've been observing.. I'm well aware

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I've learnt being respectful and genuine doesn't actually get me anywhere on here, well not in my area anyway 😂

Ahh well keep chipping away

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By *uenevereWoman
10 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Far too many fully grown men still think with their penis

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By *rad670Man
10 weeks ago

South Lakes

Patience is a virtue.

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By *pontaneous_coupleCouple
10 weeks ago

Hoddesdon

Not every couple profile is actually a couple lol x

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By *alloSpaceboyMan
10 weeks ago

The Fortress of Solitude

Straight = Bi-curious on most male profiles.

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By *agicm696Man
10 weeks ago

High Wycombe

No one really wants to talk to you even if ur genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Every time I click on a hot looking profile, they're always in the midlands...

I've concluded the midlands is the beauty capital of fab.

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By *aizyWoman
10 weeks ago

west midlands

Never ever google things I don't understand on the forums

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

That the Lounge is the most entertaining part of it.

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By *tr8MrEMan
10 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"Never ever google things I don't understand on the forums

Like Alabama Hotpocket you mean??

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By *Silver-Man
10 weeks ago

North Wales

That a lot of guys have a thing for taking pics of their dicks over toilets

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
10 weeks ago

North West

"Never ever google things I don't understand on the forums

Ah that’s part of the fun … dirty Chewbacca … my favourite google search yet! 🤣🤣

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
10 weeks ago

Home

Being a single fella is a major disadvantage

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
10 weeks ago

Norwich

You'd think it was about meeting people on here but it's more about so many other things but quite rarely about meeting

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By *quirrel!Man
10 weeks ago

Mansfield

Everyone’s so far away!

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
10 weeks ago

Bristol

"Everyone’s so far away! "

This

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

Kent/London/Greater London

"Not everyone tells the truth"

^^^^^^^ This

& Also trust nobody 🤭 & always always video call before a meet to make sure they are who they say they are, too many Cat-Fish everywhere, Fact

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By *pontaneous_coupleCouple
10 weeks ago

Hoddesdon

"Not everyone tells the truth

^^^^^^^ This

& Also trust nobody 🤭 & always always video call before a meet to make sure they are who they say they are, too many Cat-Fish everywhere, Fact"

If they won’t video call it usually means they won’t show up for a meet they planned. Some people just want the chat and pictures

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
10 weeks ago

Bristol

"Not everyone tells the truth

^^^^^^^ This

& Also trust nobody 🤭 & always always video call before a meet to make sure they are who they say they are, too many Cat-Fish everywhere, Fact

If they won’t video call it usually means they won’t show up for a meet they planned. Some people just want the chat and pictures

Or they’re just not who they’re claiming to be

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By *avecooper69Man
10 weeks ago

Benfleet

"Not everyone tells the truth

^^^^^^^ This

& Also trust nobody 🤭 & always always video call before a meet to make sure they are who they say they are, too many Cat-Fish everywhere, Fact

If they won’t video call it usually means they won’t show up for a meet they planned. Some people just want the chat and pictures

Yes this is very true !!

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By *istol PeteMan
10 weeks ago

Suffolk

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By *istol PeteMan
10 weeks ago

Suffolk

It's definitely a woman's world out there, battling against a 1000 hornys guys to get a message through or replied too is tough, but I really enjoy the site and reading profiles that have similar ideas to mine is validity I'm not a freak!

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By *imale46ukMan
10 weeks ago

chesterfield derbyshire

i have not had a meeting yet must be doing something wrong

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
10 weeks ago

Edinburgh

That some people are more flakey than ever

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

That a lot of people are wolfs in sheep’s clothing

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By *avethefish400Man
10 weeks ago

Chichester

"i have not had a meeting yet must be doing something wrong "

Maybe but don’t forget the ratio of men to women is very high so us guys have up our game

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By *effdelightMan
10 weeks ago

Grimsby

Loads about myself. Been great

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By *weetRoseyxWoman
10 weeks ago

North West

1) it’s ok to be sexual and there’s other women who enjoy sex as much as me!

2) I feel the art of seduction and lust is lost when two or more people are behind keyboards x

3) never trust an account until proven otherwise, sadly lots of fakes x

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
10 weeks ago

Willenhall

I need to visit Sydney University.

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By *reen as JadeCouple
10 weeks ago

Cheshire

Alot of guys like women's feet x I do get my feet on show more than I used too. X

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By *onny 1000Man
10 weeks ago

Belfast

There’s lots of time waster’s on it

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By *effdelightMan
10 weeks ago

Grimsby

"Alot of guys like women's feet x I do get my feet on show more than I used too. X"
I am very fond of your tits. Call me a traditionalist 😂

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By *ilverjagMan
10 weeks ago

swansea

Well, what I've learned is that it doesn't get better than fab for meeting like minded people. Of course you've got idiots, but it shouldn't take anyone too long to figure out when they are dealing with one of life's inadequates or under achievers, and then treat them accordingly. Thank you, "Legs" for pointing me in this direction many, many years ago

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By *avexxMan
10 weeks ago

cheshire

a hell of lot of men arent straight

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
10 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

That a lot of people like to talk a good meet but that's about as far as they end up going...

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By *sianMale890Man
10 weeks ago

Stockport

I have learned in my 10 years being on this site a valuable amount off lessons/experiences and self reflection...

Mainly to be more reserved around people, when I first joined I noticed I was more a happy go lucky kind off guy and willing to engage or talk more with people as was with my nature..

Be it on the forums or chat rooms etc or when visiting swingers clubs when I used to go there...

With age and experience I slowly over time noticed peoples real nature or true side surface from behind their masks and I don’t mean one particular group or gender etc etc I mean people in general overall and began picking up on these tell tale sign more and more..

Overtime I gradually began withdrawing more and talking less with people due to then more questioning and looking at peoples motives overall..

I get and acknowledge that I have my own issues or things to work on and always will but these days on here I’m more like a ghost who observes..

If I get along with someone I’ll engage and talk etc but I have learned keep the group off people you are in touch with small and simple..

Everyone else keep at an arms length be civil and not go around causing problems with them but at the same time being wary off others and keeping a distance…

Which is a shame personally for me but that is life

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By *aomilatteCouple
10 weeks ago

Midlands

The amount of people into watersports and/or fisting

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

What a Vajankle is. Trust me if you don’t know, keep it that way.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
10 weeks ago

Stratford

That I’m funnier, better looking and more desirable than I’d previously given myself credit for

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By *upersonic SamMan
10 weeks ago

wigan

The buses only come every few years and never two at once

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By *r SensualMan
10 weeks ago

London

It’s a marathon not a sprint

A lot of the profiles that fit what I’m looking for are so far away geographically

Self-righteousness is rife on here

Plenty of attached “single” women

Couples where the woman is clearly used as sex bait

I’m very photogenic

There are some great people here just that it takes time to find & get to know them

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
10 weeks ago

Hatfield

I’ve learned I was right that there are some lovely people in the world and there are some arse holes

Best forget and ignore thr a holes and focus on the good …

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Fuck all.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
10 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

We have learned that we shouldn't be on this site as we don't want dick pics in our inbox.

Or at least thats what they say to us when we ask why they do it .

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By *allipygousMan
10 weeks ago

Leicester

Some of the regular (popular?) forumites are more precious than the one ring.

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