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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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Not because women aren’t invited but say none of them wanted to come?

I remember floating the idea of a cricket social at sixes and I wondered if men would come even if no women said they’d come.

Women, would you come if you knew you’d be very much outnumbered? Maybe even the only woman?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

A social with no women you say. Been to a few..

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
5 weeks ago

Reading

I'd expect there to be more men than women. But if there were no women there at all but me? No, that would not be for me.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
5 weeks ago

Altrincham

I'd attend a social with single men but I'd take hubby with me or find a GF to take or I'd go if I knew some of the single men - I wouldn't go alone

I like the idea of a social just for women that would be fantastic!

🤔 Wondering if I should arrange one 🤔

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"I'd attend a social with single men but I'd take hubby with me or find a GF to take or I'd go if I knew some of the single men - I wouldn't go alone

I like the idea of a social just for women that would be fantastic!

🤔 Wondering if I should arrange one 🤔 "

Think there’s a women’s social for women in Manchester. If you’ve not been see if it still runs

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"A social with no women you say. Been to a few.."
oh yeah?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

5 weeks ago

East Sussex

I have been the only woman at a social with the exception of the hostess. It's not an experience I'd repeat. You are acutely aware that as the only available option you can't tell if men genuinely want to talk to you or are just thinking they might as well give it a go.

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By *abula Rasa KinksMan
5 weeks ago

Manchester

Yes, I would definitely attend a social just for men.

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"I'd expect there to be more men than women. But if there were no women there at all but me? No, that would not be for me."
would you leave immediately?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London


"A social with no women you say. Been to a few.. oh yeah?"

Not sure but I think (think) they were all a bit…gay.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
5 weeks ago

Reading


"I'd expect there to be more men than women. But if there were no women there at all but me? No, that would not be for me. would you leave immediately?"

I mean ... this hypothetical is already reaching. I probably wouldn't have gone to this thing anyway. The only thing that would tempt me is knowing someone there. If the only people I know there are men then it would depend on how well I knew those men. But I wouldn't have any problem taking one look at the sea of men and noping out of there immediately.

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"A social with no women you say. Been to a few.. oh yeah?

Not sure but I think (think) they were all a bit…gay. "

Don’t assume though

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"I'd expect there to be more men than women. But if there were no women there at all but me? No, that would not be for me. would you leave immediately?

I mean ... this hypothetical is already reaching. I probably wouldn't have gone to this thing anyway. The only thing that would tempt me is knowing someone there. If the only people I know there are men then it would depend on how well I knew those men. But I wouldn't have any problem taking one look at the sea of men and noping out of there immediately."

As a sport LOVER you could maybe be interested.

I love that you’d be like ‘nope’ turn around and leave

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By *rHotNottsMan
5 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yeah, I would attend and I’ve run men’s events before like men’s breakfasts , retreats and things, but not for swingers. It’s good when Mann get together outside of their immediate circle of friends. Iron sharpens iron and all that.

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By *ozzybear1981Man
5 weeks ago

preston

I’d happily attend one, any social aspect I enjoy and it’s just nice to meet and converse with others no matter what gender they are.

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By *oeBeansMan
5 weeks ago

Derby

Yeah, I probably would. If you did have a cricket social, I'd a million percent be up for it. Any sort of different themed social is always interesting and depending on the guys that attend, it could be an amazing time.

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By *rHotNottsMan
5 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Oh sorry I thought you meant men’s event. I guess I’d still attend. It’s usually the other way round that isn’t it more women than man off-line, the millions of online men seem unable to get out of the house 🤔

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By *EAT..85Woman
5 weeks ago

Nottingham

This should definitely be a thing pickle. Then put up pay to view cameras for us women

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By *verageHoesCouple
5 weeks ago

Leeds

I think I'd prefer a jolly boys outing. No distractions, just men having a good time.

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"This should definitely be a thing pickle. Then put up pay to view cameras for us women "

Would you enjoy watching me destroy everyone in a cricket nets session? Kinky fucker

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By *.hrisMan
5 weeks ago

Bath

If there's beer and food, then I'm there!

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
5 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

It depends who’s going.

There’s a lot of people I get along with and sure, I’d love to share a drink with them.

Then there’s some that I don’t, and we’d have nothing to talk about.

So, it depends.

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"Oh sorry I thought you meant men’s event. I guess I’d still attend. It’s usually the other way round that isn’t it more women than man off-line, the millions of online men seem unable to get out of the house 🤔"

You and me bro. We’re going to organise it.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Not because women aren’t invited but say none of them wanted to come?

I remember floating the idea of a cricket social at sixes and I wondered if men would come even if no women said they’d come.

Women, would you come if you knew you’d be very much outnumbered? Maybe even the only woman?"

In 👍🏻

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"Not because women aren’t invited but say none of them wanted to come?

I remember floating the idea of a cricket social at sixes and I wondered if men would come even if no women said they’d come.

Women, would you come if you knew you’d be very much outnumbered? Maybe even the only woman?

In 👍🏻"

Yes, Sid 🫶🏾

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
5 weeks ago

Reading


"

As a sport LOVER you could maybe be interested.

I love that you’d be like ‘nope’ turn around and leave"

Cricket is insanely boring (sorry)

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By *viatrixWoman
5 weeks ago

Redhill

I once attended a social that I don’t think it was on purpose, but it ended up being all women and one man.

T’was a bit…. tense. You could cut the atmosphere with a knife and all that. After an attendee made a snide remark that she’d be sending her rejects to me 😂😂😂 I just said my goodbyes and went home.

I think blokes are so much better at getting along. I would happily attend if I were the only woman. I am rubbish at telling who is hitting on me or not anyway, so happy to tag along and have a couple of pints and a packet of crisps, guv’nor! 🍻

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"

As a sport LOVER you could maybe be interested.

I love that you’d be like ‘nope’ turn around and leave

Cricket is insanely boring (sorry)"

It’s ok. I know just the thing to do to you

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair

Yes.

In fact I already do. 😇

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Yes.

In fact I already do. 😇"

Sassy AF

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
5 weeks ago

from mars

Yes … but I’ll be leaving with one 🍒

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

5 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

You lost me at cricket Steve. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️😂

I'd rather watch cars going round a roundabout all day. 🤷‍♂️😂

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By *adgeyMan
5 weeks ago

Bingley

Costs double for single guys

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"You lost me at cricket Steve. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️😂

I'd rather watch cars going round a roundabout all day. 🤷‍♂️😂"

Meet me at MK on Silverstone weekend

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

5 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"You lost me at cricket Steve. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️😂

I'd rather watch cars going round a roundabout all day. 🤷‍♂️😂

Meet me at MK on Silverstone weekend "

That I could do.

Used to love going to Santa Pod for the banger racing. 😁

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"You lost me at cricket Steve. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️😂

I'd rather watch cars going round a roundabout all day. 🤷‍♂️😂

Meet me at MK on Silverstone weekend

That I could do.

Used to love going to Santa Pod for the banger racing. 😁"

Ok. Let’s bang then.

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Costs double for single guys"

I'm not quite sure how that happens? The women I imbibe with will walk over to the bar, order a Martin Miller's Gin and pay £15 for it. When I walk over to order the same drink they charge me £15 as well. 🤷🏻

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By *i versMan
5 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

Would rather there be women but aye, why no

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By *ayHaychMan
5 weeks ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Depends what the function of the social is.

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Ends


"Depends what the function of the social is. "

I’m not ruling out an orgy.

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By *andy_EyeCandyTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Southsea

Am I allowed to attend?

I do have a willy

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By *eliWoman
5 weeks ago

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Depends who was hosting and attending - some people make it far too sexual and it's creepy.

Actually, on second thoughts, no I wouldn't. I think men developing friendship on here is lovely and I don't want to change that dynamic by being there.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
5 weeks ago

North Angus

Will there be bacon?

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Depends who was hosting and attending - some people make it far too sexual and it's creepy.

Actually, on second thoughts, no I wouldn't. I think men developing friendship on here is lovely and I don't want to change that dynamic by being there. "

We always need a mascot. 🌈

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"Depends who was hosting and attending - some people make it far too sexual and it's creepy.

Actually, on second thoughts, no I wouldn't. I think men developing friendship on here is lovely and I don't want to change that dynamic by being there. "

Final answer?

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Ends


"Will there be bacon?"

Is that code? 👀

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By *eneralKenobiMan
5 weeks ago

North Angus


"Will there be bacon?

Is that code? 👀"

Nope, it’s a deciding factor 😁

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"Will there be bacon?

Is that code? 👀

Nope, it’s a deciding factor 😁"

I’m a vegetarian but if you would like to EAT bacon I’m open to it

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By *eneralKenobiMan
5 weeks ago

North Angus


"Will there be bacon?

Is that code? 👀

Nope, it’s a deciding factor 😁

I’m a vegetarian but if you would like to EAT bacon I’m open to it"

I’ll bring the honey bbq sauce 💪🏻

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By *ad NannaWoman
5 weeks ago

East London

I'd come to watch a cricket match.

I'd even give out the tea and sandwiches at lunch.

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"Will there be bacon?

Is that code? 👀

Nope, it’s a deciding factor 😁

I’m a vegetarian but if you would like to EAT bacon I’m open to it

I’ll bring the honey bbq sauce 💪🏻"

For the food. Not the bodies

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By *eliWoman
5 weeks ago

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"Depends who was hosting and attending - some people make it far too sexual and it's creepy.

Actually, on second thoughts, no I wouldn't. I think men developing friendship on here is lovely and I don't want to change that dynamic by being there.

Final answer?"

It's a pass. The potential for actual bromance and less seeing other men as stopping them from getting the vagina they want is too strong.

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By *idsAndyMan
5 weeks ago

Worcestershire

Yeah I would, if I knew the guy and we got along why not

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By *eneralKenobiMan
5 weeks ago

North Angus


"Will there be bacon?

Is that code? 👀

Nope, it’s a deciding factor 😁

I’m a vegetarian but if you would like to EAT bacon I’m open to it

I’ll bring the honey bbq sauce 💪🏻

For the food. Not the bodies "

Will there be twinks?

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By *ansoffateMan
5 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Sure. I travel down south sometimes to see the lads. I've known them for decades though.

But yeah in principle why not. Sixes looks a bit like a family venue though. And cricket, well if I was into cricket, I live in Lancashire - I'd already be doing it.

Now a fire, BBQ and a bin full of ice and beer/cider in the sun. I'll play cricket then sure.

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"Will there be bacon?

Is that code? 👀

Nope, it’s a deciding factor 😁

I’m a vegetarian but if you would like to EAT bacon I’m open to it

I’ll bring the honey bbq sauce 💪🏻

For the food. Not the bodies

Will there be twinks? "

I don’t know but I look like a bear so

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"Sure. I travel down south sometimes to see the lads. I've known them for decades though.

But yeah in principle why not. Sixes looks a bit like a family venue though. And cricket, well if I was into cricket, I live in Lancashire - I'd already be doing it.

Now a fire, BBQ and a bin full of ice and beer/cider in the sun. I'll play cricket then sure."

Lancashire, more like lancashite amirite

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By *ansoffateMan
5 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"Sure. I travel down south sometimes to see the lads. I've known them for decades though.

But yeah in principle why not. Sixes looks a bit like a family venue though. And cricket, well if I was into cricket, I live in Lancashire - I'd already be doing it.

Now a fire, BBQ and a bin full of ice and beer/cider in the sun. I'll play cricket then sure. Lancashire, more like lancashite amirite"

Yup, moving early next year is the plan.

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"Sure. I travel down south sometimes to see the lads. I've known them for decades though.

But yeah in principle why not. Sixes looks a bit like a family venue though. And cricket, well if I was into cricket, I live in Lancashire - I'd already be doing it.

Now a fire, BBQ and a bin full of ice and beer/cider in the sun. I'll play cricket then sure. Lancashire, more like lancashite amirite

Yup, moving early next year is the plan."

Good man 🫡

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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Ok lads, I’m going to organise a social. Brum?

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By *exxyyDy11Man
5 weeks ago

North West

I would yeah

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
5 weeks ago

from mars


"Ok lads, I’m going to organise a social. Brum?"

Top man !

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By *ear NecessitiesMan
5 weeks ago

The woods


"Ok lads, I’m going to organise a social. Brum?"

If free I'd be up for this, I have lots of female mates and very few male friends so would be good to change it up

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"Ok lads, I’m going to organise a social. Brum?

If free I'd be up for this, I have lots of female mates and very few male friends so would be good to change it up"

We’ll go out on the pull after

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By *estructionDollyWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester

If its just a social and I knew some of the attendees I'd be fine being in a minority of women, but I wouldn't want to be the only woman as that would be awkward especially if I felt like men were flirting with me because I was the only available option. That would be horrible.

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By *ear NecessitiesMan
5 weeks ago

The woods


"Ok lads, I’m going to organise a social. Brum?

If free I'd be up for this, I have lots of female mates and very few male friends so would be good to change it up

We’ll go out on the pull after"

Pickle, you're a cracking fella... but I'm still not pulling the pickle

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By *inx000Couple
5 weeks ago

Manchester


"I'd attend a social with single men but I'd take hubby with me or find a GF to take or I'd go if I knew some of the single men - I wouldn't go alone

I like the idea of a social just for women that would be fantastic!

🤔 Wondering if I should arrange one 🤔 "

Do it Do it 🥳😅

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By *heGateKeeperMan
5 weeks ago

Stratford

I’m on it. Night out after?

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man
5 weeks ago

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"I’m on it. Night out after? "

BIG night out after. I’m on it.

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By *ikerAdeMan
5 weeks ago

Hadleigh

Yes of course

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