FabSwingers.com forum: Struggle to finish from oral

By *aliwacker OP Man
10 weeks ago

I have had alot of sexual experiences over the years but i just cant seem to cum via oral is this common ?

Like it feels so good but its never enough to make me finish . I want to be able too .

Or have i just not met my match ?haha

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By *eliWoman
10 weeks ago

Hey OP!

You're definitely not alone in this, it's a thread that pops up at least once a week. There's also a poster who pops up on threads about blowjobs who explains he hasn't come from one since dinosaurs roamed the earth.

Is it something you want to experience? I think it's less about meeting your match than your mind in the moment. Or maybe you're someone who doesn't come from oral, it happens.

This kind of thread doesn't have a reverse psychology effect like it would on men sadly. A woman says 'oh I've never done X' results in many men offering to do it for her, saying they've not met the right one yet, she should meet them. Women won't be tripping over themselves to see if they can make the non-comers, come.

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By *tu.xMan
10 weeks ago

around

I was the same but then an expert lady friend worked her magic .so to answer your question ya you ain't met your match lol

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
10 weeks ago

Hatfield

I’ve made guys cum from oral some in mins some in what seem seems hours

Same when gong down on ladies .. some love it immediately.. others make me work for it …

Me.. I can’t cum via oral alone but add sex and hand job and I’m there

Good luck if it’s something you really want .. lay and think of England as they say ..

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By *aliwacker OP Man
10 weeks ago

No im not expecting that at all . Ive always struggled obviously it has happened before but on the odd a

Occasion probably 4 to 5 times in my life ! I just wondered if any other males was in the same boat .

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
10 weeks ago

Hatfield

"No im not expecting that at all . Ive always struggled obviously it has happened before but on the odd a

Occasion probably 4 to 5 times in my life ! I just wondered if any other males was in the same boat . "

Short answer is yes

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By *dnxyzMan
10 weeks ago

LondonX

I have genuinely never cum from a BJ.

I think it is a combination of of a few factors... Someday, hopefully for me

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By *ellinever70Woman
10 weeks ago

Ayrshire

If you're able to cum, does it really matter how it happens?

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
10 weeks ago

Hatfield

"If you're able to cum, does it really matter how it happens?"

I guess the answer should be no .. but us guys are simple folk at heart built to be both thick and jealous .. if we see other guys getting bjs and cuming in mouth we want some … it’s probably in our dna .. but as some guys can’t cum via bi the want talks over .

Me I’m happy any which way and different things take me over edge .. mouth or other location

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By *umagainandagainMan
10 weeks ago

Altrincham

I have never had any problems reaching a blowjob from oral.

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By *ardforall56Man
10 weeks ago

lisburn

You not met a good cocksucker yet.My wife and others could suck my cock for a week and I would never cum.Then you find the ONE you will find it hard to let go then.Good luck in your search.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

I struggle to finish from oval.

Cricket. It’s a tough wank.

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
10 weeks ago

Hatfield

"I struggle to finish from oval.

Cricket. It’s a tough wank."

You can pull at my stump anytime

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

It's not uncommon OP.

Some people haven't met the right people for sure, there are plenty who give oral as an obligation rather than a genuine joy and it's markedly different.

There's also mental blocks and prior physical behaviours that get in the way.

Try not to dwell on it. One of my partners it took over 6 months before I was finally able to do it without him having to help it along. And a lot of that was more about his headspace than anything actually physical 💜

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By *ntelligent_tall69Man
10 weeks ago

mums cellar

A lot more common than you think, we all like it different, I don't think I'd ever come from porn film oral or fast and furiously.

Love sloppy sensual you can find a lady who you think is out of this world but the next guy won't enjoy at all. Sure the same is true for the ladies

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By *ickandHilaryCouple
10 weeks ago

Barnstaple

"I have had alot of sexual experiences over the years but i just cant seem to cum via oral is this common ?

Like it feels so good but its never enough to make me finish . I want to be able too .

Or have i just not met my match ?haha"

Love a bj but never cum

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
10 weeks ago

Sheffield

"I just cant seem to cum via oral is this common ?"

We're all wired differently and enjoy different forms of stimulation.

I have a similar issue where I enjoy getting blown but often don't cum from it.

Sometimes it's angles, types of stimulation or just where your brain is at.

Same as you may find certain angles better than others

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By *orny PTMan
10 weeks ago

Peterborough

"I have had alot of sexual experiences over the years but i just cant seem to cum via oral is this common ?

Like it feels so good but its never enough to make me finish . I want to be able too .

Or have i just not met my match ?haha"

Friction. Saliva can take this essential stimuli away.

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By *orny PTMan
10 weeks ago

Peterborough

"If you're able to cum, does it really matter how it happens?"

Yes, it does as it's diff'rent strokes for diff'rent folks.

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By *iddle ManMan
10 weeks ago

Walsall

This seems a common problem amongst guys, I have never had such trouble, sure some people are better than others, but there a number of factors involved, not just the other person.

Maybe you just haven't met that special person skilled enough to "suck you dry"

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By *eezymanMan
8 weeks ago

london

Exact same

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By *ewtfaceMan
8 weeks ago

Bracknell

I think I'm quite easy to bring off orally. Never have any trouble coming in a ladies mouth (if that's what she wants)

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By *IXEN200Woman
8 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

An ex used to tell me if his head wasn't in the right space then his c**k certainly wasn't going to work

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By *i versMan
8 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

You've obviously no got with anyone that knows what to do I think cause if she's good and when you look into her eyes while sucking I always know I'm going to blow. Especially when she knows how to use her mouth and hands. Had my cock suck by guys also and they definitely know what they are dojng

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By *reamerBMan
8 weeks ago

Fantasy

Have never finished from a BJ. Be more interest in watching one now than recieving hahaha

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By *oeBeansMan
8 weeks ago

Derby

Using the old "can't cum from oral" thing to get women to knock down your inbox to try. You're a smart man OP 😎

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By *r.mr.Man
8 weeks ago

Dublin 18

I've never had a problem with that love to finish in her mouth it's so fucking hot

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By *ubInTrainingTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Coggeshall

Maybe you haven’t had it done properly…? X

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

It’s the one time in your life when you might win an argument with a woman. Don’t worry about cumming just get the last word in.

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By *jekimMan
8 weeks ago

Wigan

I struggle with this massively

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By *ittlebirdWoman
8 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Sometimes it’s all in the mind OP and others. It’s a mental block rather than a physical one. This isn’t unique to men either.

You may be putting too much pressure on yourself to cum.

Relax a little. Go with the flow. If you cum you do. If you don’t then do something else 👍🏻

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By *sStephenPickleMan
8 weeks ago

Ends

^ she could make me cum

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
8 weeks ago

Midlothian

"Sometimes it’s all in the mind OP and others. It’s a mental block rather than a physical one. This isn’t unique to men either.

You may be putting too much pressure on yourself to cum.

Relax a little. Go with the flow. If you cum you do. If you don’t then do something else 👍🏻"

I've found a lot of truth to that. People can get hung up on finishing, like they have to or it's all pointless, when it's ok to slow down and just enjoy the sensations along the way. I find it very difficult to cum by another person, but I still enjoy the journey even if I don't arrive. I think a lot of pleasure is potentially overlooked by focusing on the expected end.

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By *ust want fun 888Man
8 weeks ago

nearby

I definitely have no problem coming from oral, actually, dependent on who gives me the blow job as they honestly do very, some women could nearly make me come in a minute while others don’t make me come at all, but 99% of the time I have no problem

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By *ndyman 201Man
8 weeks ago

hereford

"I think I'm quite easy to bring off orally. Never have any trouble coming in a ladies mouth (if that's what she wants)

Haven't a problem cumming in a ladies mouth, expecially during 69 her on top,,nobody misses out, ,,

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By *hirleystockingsTV/TS
8 weeks ago

kendal

This is very common. I have given BJs to quite a lot of men and very few cum. Lots have to use their hand to assist bringing themselves off. I love it when you get one who does cum with oral as they tend to get quite vocal as they do

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By *dnxyzMan
8 weeks ago

LondonX

"If you're able to cum, does it really matter how it happens?"

Yes!

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