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By *horThe viking123 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

South shields

Why does it seem to be so difficult for males on here to actually get a response?

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
10 weeks ago

from mars

It’s not so difficult 🤷‍♂️

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Probably because they have a tendency to throw themselves straight in the woe is me bucket rather than taking a step back every now and then 💜

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By *ewrocksWoman
10 weeks ago

button moon

Because men out number women. By alot.

Most male profiles tell us nothing. 1 line and a cock pic, over and over again.

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By *infullyObedientWoman
10 weeks ago

Woodley

You've only been here 2 weeks and you prile has one line in it.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
10 weeks ago

Between Sudbury n Haverhill

Look for the 100’s of other posts from single guys saying the same lol

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By *randMrsShebaCouple
10 weeks ago

Birmingham

Too many of you. It's nothing personal.

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By *ear NecessitiesMan
10 weeks ago

The woods

Nothing here is guaranteed but have a solid profile, avoid too many dick pics and don't send any unless asked for and send more than a hi as an introduction and ya never know.

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By *ndymac888Man
10 weeks ago

Dumbarton

I do ok mate, but I don’t send that many messages to be fair.

Work on your profile a bit, the face pic is fine so more of those, save the dick pick for private messages though.

Also your bio isn’t really selling you it has “rebound fuck” sort of feel, remember most woman will check your profile on hidden before deciding weather or not to open your message.

Good luck 🤞

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Chard

Low effort = low reward

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By *vaRoseWoman
10 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

You haven’t asked for feedback on your profile so I’ll refrain from that

What I will say is there are a lot of guys here, but the ones I’ll reply to are the ones who have really put some effort into their profile. Good bios, good varied photos and a decent opening message. Why would I reply to someone who hasn’t bothered to put some effort into their online presence when there are others who have waiting on a reply in my inbox

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
10 weeks ago

notts

It’s a swinging site. Not instashag for desperate women

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane


"It’s a swinging site. Not instashag for desperate women "

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By *aybeLadyWoman
10 weeks ago

West Dublin

Oh dear. Another post about not getting replies 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, if you were a woman (perish the thought) and perused your own profile would you give it a second thought?

Most women on here, who are already inundated with messages from men, will often look at the sender's profile first and then immediately decide what to do.

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By *horThe viking123 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

South shields

Thanks for the feedback and it's definitely all helpful things I will take onboard

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
10 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

One pic and looking to meet a 99yr old woman…

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham

Just because it's a sex site doesn't mean all the women on here aren't choosy AF 🤷🏼‍♂️

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
10 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

What HE puts himself through (after she hasn't replied in 7 minutes)

"Okay... maybe she’s just busy. Why won't she reply? Was it the cock pic or 6? Or maybe I said too much in that last message? Was it too soon to mention that I like dogs? Everyone likes dogs though, right? What if she’s allergic? Did I come on too strong? Maybe I shouldn't have called her babe or showed her my hard on. I knew I shouldn’t have used that winking emoji. Winking is creepy. Or maybe she matched with someone else? Doesn't matter she knows I live with me mum does it ? Maybe my cock is too veiny. She's a bit on the pudgy side she won't be thinking about other men will she ? She did say she likes tall men — maybe she met a 6'4" Viking type. Should I message again? Yeah it's been eight minutes dammit. No, wait, that’s needy, I'll wait 15 before calling her a slag!!! Or is it assertive? Bugger it, I knew I should’ve waited a bit longer to try again - i'll be done as a stalker. — now she’s ghosting me!!! Fuck it she had massive ears. I'd still do her though. Fuck it i'm goin' on the forum.

What *She* is thinkin' :

"Left my phone in the car."

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham


"What HE puts himself through (after she hasn't replied in 7 minutes)

"Okay... maybe she’s just busy. Why won't she reply? Was it the cock pic or 6? Or maybe I said too much in that last message? Was it too soon to mention that I like dogs? Everyone likes dogs though, right? What if she’s allergic? Did I come on too strong? Maybe I shouldn't have called her babe or showed her my hard on. I knew I shouldn’t have used that winking emoji. Winking is creepy. Or maybe she matched with someone else? Doesn't matter she knows I live with me mum does it ? Maybe my cock is too veiny. She's a bit on the pudgy side she won't be thinking about other men will she ? She did say she likes tall men — maybe she met a 6'4" Viking type. Should I message again? Yeah it's been eight minutes dammit. No, wait, that’s needy, I'll wait 15 before calling her a slag!!! Or is it assertive? Bugger it, I knew I should’ve waited a bit longer to try again - i'll be done as a stalker. — now she’s ghosting me!!! Fuck it she had massive ears. I'd still do her though. Fuck it i'm goin' on the forum.

What *She* is thinkin' :

"Left my phone in the car."

"

I am *she* 😂 🫣 🤷🏼‍♂️

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Central

Several reasons but the main one is that most people are not mutually compatible. People don't need to engage, when they're not. And nobody should settle for what's wrong. With the high volume of choice here, it's good for everyone, helping them to more readily find those who are right for them

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By *urry BlokeMan
10 weeks ago


"What HE puts himself through (after she hasn't replied in 7 minutes)

"Okay... maybe she’s just busy. Why won't she reply? Was it the cock pic or 6? Or maybe I said too much in that last message? Was it too soon to mention that I like dogs? Everyone likes dogs though, right? What if she’s allergic? Did I come on too strong? Maybe I shouldn't have called her babe or showed her my hard on. I knew I shouldn’t have used that winking emoji. Winking is creepy. Or maybe she matched with someone else? Doesn't matter she knows I live with me mum does it ? Maybe my cock is too veiny. She's a bit on the pudgy side she won't be thinking about other men will she ? She did say she likes tall men — maybe she met a 6'4" Viking type. Should I message again? Yeah it's been eight minutes dammit. No, wait, that’s needy, I'll wait 15 before calling her a slag!!! Or is it assertive? Bugger it, I knew I should’ve waited a bit longer to try again - i'll be done as a stalker. — now she’s ghosting me!!! Fuck it she had massive ears. I'd still do her though. Fuck it i'm goin' on the forum.

What *She* is thinkin' :

"Left my phone in the car."

"

This floored me GC

Bravo

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By *agic.MMan
10 weeks ago

Orpington


"What HE puts himself through (after she hasn't replied in 7 minutes)

"Okay... maybe she’s just busy. Why won't she reply? Was it the cock pic or 6? Or maybe I said too much in that last message? Was it too soon to mention that I like dogs? Everyone likes dogs though, right? What if she’s allergic? Did I come on too strong? Maybe I shouldn't have called her babe or showed her my hard on. I knew I shouldn’t have used that winking emoji. Winking is creepy. Or maybe she matched with someone else? Doesn't matter she knows I live with me mum does it ? Maybe my cock is too veiny. She's a bit on the pudgy side she won't be thinking about other men will she ? She did say she likes tall men — maybe she met a 6'4" Viking type. Should I message again? Yeah it's been eight minutes dammit. No, wait, that’s needy, I'll wait 15 before calling her a slag!!! Or is it assertive? Bugger it, I knew I should’ve waited a bit longer to try again - i'll be done as a stalker. — now she’s ghosting me!!! Fuck it she had massive ears. I'd still do her though. Fuck it i'm goin' on the forum.

What *She* is thinkin' :

"Left my phone in the car."

"

How long did it take you to write this comment... 7 minutes? 🤭

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
10 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

95% of people on here won't be compatible with eachother OP, just as in normal life.

Sending messages only to those who'll most likely be interested in your type, your interests and being very, very patient is the best advice I could give.

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By *oeBeansMan
10 weeks ago

Derby


"What HE puts himself through (after she hasn't replied in 7 minutes)

"Okay... maybe she’s just busy. Why won't she reply? Was it the cock pic or 6? Or maybe I said too much in that last message? Was it too soon to mention that I like dogs? Everyone likes dogs though, right? What if she’s allergic? Did I come on too strong? Maybe I shouldn't have called her babe or showed her my hard on. I knew I shouldn’t have used that winking emoji. Winking is creepy. Or maybe she matched with someone else? Doesn't matter she knows I live with me mum does it ? Maybe my cock is too veiny. She's a bit on the pudgy side she won't be thinking about other men will she ? She did say she likes tall men — maybe she met a 6'4" Viking type. Should I message again? Yeah it's been eight minutes dammit. No, wait, that’s needy, I'll wait 15 before calling her a slag!!! Or is it assertive? Bugger it, I knew I should’ve waited a bit longer to try again - i'll be done as a stalker. — now she’s ghosting me!!! Fuck it she had massive ears. I'd still do her though. Fuck it i'm goin' on the forum.

What *She* is thinkin' :

"Left my phone in the car."

"

Get out of my head! 😳🙈

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
10 weeks ago

scunthorpe

It can be difficult for single men but it can be difficult for everyone!

Take couples looking to meet couples….that’s 4 people who all have to have an attraction, be looking for similar things and be socially and sexually compatible….that’s not easy to find but you get out of fab what you’re prepared to put in.

Donna x

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends

Why? What a great question

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By *IXEN200Woman
10 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne


"What HE puts himself through (after she hasn't replied in 7 minutes)

"Okay... maybe she’s just busy. Why won't she reply? Was it the cock pic or 6? Or maybe I said too much in that last message? Was it too soon to mention that I like dogs? Everyone likes dogs though, right? What if she’s allergic? Did I come on too strong? Maybe I shouldn't have called her babe or showed her my hard on. I knew I shouldn’t have used that winking emoji. Winking is creepy. Or maybe she matched with someone else? Doesn't matter she knows I live with me mum does it ? Maybe my cock is too veiny. She's a bit on the pudgy side she won't be thinking about other men will she ? She did say she likes tall men — maybe she met a 6'4" Viking type. Should I message again? Yeah it's been eight minutes dammit. No, wait, that’s needy, I'll wait 15 before calling her a slag!!! Or is it assertive? Bugger it, I knew I should’ve waited a bit longer to try again - i'll be done as a stalker. — now she’s ghosting me!!! Fuck it she had massive ears. I'd still do her though. Fuck it i'm goin' on the forum.

What *She* is thinkin' :

"Left my phone in the car."

"

Very well said 👏

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