FabSwingers.com forum: Unwanted neighbour keeps bothering me

By *ee642024 OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Crook

i know a man who is local.known him a long time.he joined fab and found me on there and we chatted.he then saw we in my garden one day and after that he came to my door d*unk at early times in the mornings. He was not agressive but persistent.weve not had sex but thats what he wants. I know he lives near me and has a partner and a child.he has been to my door again this morning (not d*unk) i told him he cannot come in and that my son was in.he went. I contacted the police but they cant do nothing because he hasnt been agressive or tried to get in.what do i do to get him to stay away?

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By *low eaterMan
10 weeks ago

hereabouts

Make sure he knows you’re not interested in him and also inform him that you’ve already been to the police regarding unwanted contact , you will update them with any further unwanted contact and you’ll escalate the situation if necessary.

He will probably feel some kind of way about this though so either message him or have this conversation in a public space.

Or make friends w people happy to cave his face in, violence does work sometimes

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
10 weeks ago

South Wales

I’m really sorry to hear that you’re having to go through this. It’s sad that it would have to turn violent before the police get involved as I would consider this harassment regardless of aggression. Might be worth speaking to the police again in the hope they will actually listen to your concerns and maybe have a word with him about harassment xx

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By *mmaleiaWoman
10 weeks ago

Trowbridge

If he’s on here, maybe message him & tell him you have no interest in him & to stop coming to your door or it’ll be a police matter.

If he’s no longer on here, shout it out the window at the top of your voice so all the neighbours hear

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Chichester

Maybe tell him to never contact you again or you will talk to his wife. Sometimes these men need to learn life the hard way.

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By *oodmessMan
10 weeks ago

yumsville

The police are nobs sometimes, there's no reason why they shouldn’t act under harassment or some kind of intimidation or public disorder. I phoned them a month ago over a motorbike ripping though the estate at wicked speeds. It was doing circuits daily. The answer I got was 'if it's not in the area we can't do anything'.. I said, 'it can't be in the area if it's doing 70 mph'.. it's if you get someone half bothered I think.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
10 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

It's scary when men do this and you are struggling to think of how to get them to stop.

My advice is - Don't Lie....

Be very honest and say....

'We are not friends and I don't want any contact with you at all. I don't want you to come to my house for any reason. '

Because what you said to him was , 'You can't come in because my son is here.' ..

The implication of that is that if your son is not there then he can come in.

Be CLEAR for both your sakes and if he does turn up again re engage the police.

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