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By (user no longer on site) OP   
10 weeks ago

After hitting 50 I’ve realised that there is a lesser demand for us older chaps in here. I’ve had some great times but I feel as if it’s came to an end for me on here and I should hang up my swinging pants.

This is just what I’ve been feeling the last few years of wilderness on here.

I would appreciate your comments greatly

Thank you

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By *ildTimes.Man
10 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

Just lie about your age...that's what the women do 🤣🥪

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By *iss.BellaWoman
10 weeks ago

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"Just lie about your age...that's what the women do 🤣🥪"

He's been "42" for a few years

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
10 weeks ago


"Just lie about your age...that's what the women do 🤣🥪

He's been "42" for a few years "

t

Why didn’t I think of that

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By *ir tootMan
10 weeks ago

Raccoon city


"Just lie about your age...that's what the women do 🤣🥪

He's been "42" for a few years "

I thought he was 60 🤔 toot is confused. 🤷

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
10 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

Where did you get the pants that are just for swinging?

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By *iss.BellaWoman
10 weeks ago

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"Just lie about your age...that's what the women do 🤣🥪

He's been "42" for a few years

I thought he was 60 🤔 toot is confused. 🤷"

Exactly, 42 is his fab age apparently

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
10 weeks ago


"Where did you get the pants that are just for swinging?"

I got the swinging pants completely handmade of the best goat leather kinda Tarzan esk

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By *ir tootMan
10 weeks ago

Raccoon city


"Just lie about your age...that's what the women do 🤣🥪

He's been "42" for a few years

I thought he was 60 🤔 toot is confused. 🤷

Exactly, 42 is his fab age apparently "

Bloody hell wild.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
10 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity


"After hitting 50 I’ve realised that there is a lesser demand for us older chaps in here. I’ve had some great times but I feel as if it’s came to an end for me on here and I should hang up my swinging pants.

This is just what I’ve been feeling the last few years of wilderness on here.

I would appreciate your comments greatly

Thank you"

Wait till you're 51 and you'll be out of everyone's age range 🤷‍♂️😆

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By *ittlebirdWoman
10 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"After hitting 50 I’ve realised that there is a lesser demand for us older chaps in here. I’ve had some great times but I feel as if it’s came to an end for me on here and I should hang up my swinging pants.

This is just what I’ve been feeling the last few years of wilderness on here.

I would appreciate your comments greatly

Thank you"

Don’t despair OP. 50 is no age at all. I’m nearly there myself and my age is right on here.

If you’re fatigued by it then take a break

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Maybe you’re going after the wrong people, in the wrong circles. I wouldn’t say 50 is too old

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By *oobiliciousxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

northfleet

Nooo!!! Older men I find are polite gentlemen. And most are mature...MOST! Sick of being asked for snap from men my age HAHA!

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By *rHotNottsMan
10 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think 50s on here are fine. I felt a bit like you when I hit 50 though I think Late 40s the best time for Mann on FAB and then of course you gonna hit a few more filters at 50, but there is plenty of demand still, it’s like anything you have to get good at using the platform, most guys complaining on here simply don’t know how it works

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By *ildTimes.Man
10 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"Just lie about your age...that's what the women do 🤣🥪

He's been "42" for a few years

I thought he was 60 🤔 toot is confused. 🤷

Exactly, 42 is his fab age apparently "

42 but look younger, kind of the reverse to you, guess being on fab 12 years ages you 😂😂🥪

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
10 weeks ago

Norwich

Bye.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
10 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity


"Just lie about your age...that's what the women do 🤣🥪

He's been "42" for a few years

I thought he was 60 🤔 toot is confused. 🤷

Exactly, 42 is his fab age apparently

42 but look younger, kind of the reverse to you, guess being on fab 12 years ages you 😂😂🥪"

Then I'm 39 yay

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By *inger_SnapWoman
10 weeks ago

Hampshire

Bye then 👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
10 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity


"After hitting 50 I’ve realised that there is a lesser demand for us older chaps in here. I’ve had some great times but I feel as if it’s came to an end for me on here and I should hang up my swinging pants.

This is just what I’ve been feeling the last few years of wilderness on here.

I would appreciate your comments greatly

Thank you"

In all seriousness dude don't take it too personally.. Get out to organised social events, make new friends sexual or not ..

Although you are correct that being 50+ sucks on here there's no need to hang up the boots .. What are you now looking for on here now you've hit 50 ??

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By *mmaleiaWoman
10 weeks ago

Trowbridge


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Wait till you're 51 and you'll be out of everyone's age range 🤷‍♂️😆"

Speak for yourself 🤪

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By *ansoffateMan
10 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I had a similar feeling and tried one of those 'dating apps' it was so depressing, I had to delete it within 20 minutes.

The way I figure it, I've got two years left till I'm 50 and then I'm going to move to Vegas and bet everything I have on red at the Roulette wheel, once every day. The first day I lose I'm donating my body to medical science. If I win I'm going try and spend the winnings before tomorrow comes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
10 weeks ago


"Nooo!!! Older men I find are polite gentlemen. And most are mature...MOST! Sick of being asked for snap from men my age HAHA! "

Thank you for your lovely comments, I’d be flattered to have a lady like yourself at all interested in me.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
10 weeks ago

Brum

Have you tried turning it off and back on again?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
10 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"I had a similar feeling and tried one of those 'dating apps' it was so depressing, I had to delete it within 20 minutes.

The way I figure it, I've got two years left till I'm 50 and then I'm going to move to Vegas and bet everything I have on red at the Roulette wheel, once every day. The first day I lose I'm donating my body to medical science. If I win I'm going try and spend the winnings before tomorrow comes."

Will medical science accept it?

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By *iss.BellaWoman
10 weeks ago

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https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1703565

Have a look and join in OP

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Eurgh give it up when you hit 50.i did.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

10 weeks ago

East Sussex

If you really want to go then do but 'you have to be in it to win it' is very true. Are you you searching for people who are looking for the over 50s?

Oh and I have 18 years on you

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends


"If you really want to go then do but 'you have to be in it to win it' is very true. Are you you searching for people who are looking for the over 50s?

Oh and I have 18 years on you "

Hey sexy

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By *orny PTMan
10 weeks ago

Peterborough


"After hitting 50 I’ve realised that there is a lesser demand for us older chaps in here. I’ve had some great times but I feel as if it’s came to an end for me on here and I should hang up my swinging pants.

This is just what I’ve been feeling the last few years of wilderness on here.

I would appreciate your comments greatly

Thank you"

Read this

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1703565

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

10 weeks ago

East Sussex


"If you really want to go then do but 'you have to be in it to win it' is very true. Are you you searching for people who are looking for the over 50s?

Oh and I have 18 years on you

Hey sexy "

Moi?

Hello

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends


"If you really want to go then do but 'you have to be in it to win it' is very true. Are you you searching for people who are looking for the over 50s?

Oh and I have 18 years on you

Hey sexy

Moi?

Hello "

Can’t believe you replied to me

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By *anorthernsoulxMan
10 weeks ago

Durham


"Nooo!!! Older men I find are polite gentlemen. And most are mature...MOST! Sick of being asked for snap from men my age HAHA! "
I thought snap was for teens or twenties at the oldest

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By *ear NecessitiesMan
10 weeks ago

The woods

50+ is admittedly quieter on here, but if you can just about get away without a zimmerframe and hold a conversation you'll do just fine. If you have patience though...

But then, fab was never instashag

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
10 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity


"

Wait till you're 51 and you'll be out of everyone's age range 🤷‍♂️😆

Speak for yourself 🤪"

Yeah but you have boobs 🤷‍♂️😆

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

10 weeks ago

East Sussex


"If you really want to go then do but 'you have to be in it to win it' is very true. Are you you searching for people who are looking for the over 50s?

Oh and I have 18 years on you

Hey sexy

Moi?

Hello

Can’t believe you replied to me "

Believe it!

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By *oobiliciousxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

northfleet

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By *oobiliciousxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

northfleet


"Nooo!!! Older men I find are polite gentlemen. And most are mature...MOST! Sick of being asked for snap from men my age HAHA! I thought snap was for teens or twenties at the oldest "

You'd be surprised how many men ask for snap! It's like playground sometimes haha

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By *entleswinger69Man
10 weeks ago

exeter


"Maybe you’re going after the wrong people, in the wrong circles. I wouldn’t say 50 is too old"
I should think not

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By *entleswinger69Man
10 weeks ago

exeter


"Nooo!!! Older men I find are polite gentlemen. And most are mature...MOST! Sick of being asked for snap from men my age HAHA! "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Central

We're all getting older and many of us adjust who we're looking for, as we change.

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By *JB1954Man
10 weeks ago

Reading

Try being my age on Fab. . I have not given up .Odds get a lot lower to meet. It is finding compatible people . So until I get zero responses to people I contact or sometimes contact me. Then will stay

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By *spenfallsMan
10 weeks ago

Northamptonshire

I'd say it's all about aims and expectations.

The OP is pondering 'retiring' at 50, whereas I have just joined at 57, new to the scene.

I'm definitely NOT expecting to shag my way through half the members, or possibly even any of them, but I've found liberated, non-judgemental folks here to chat to and have a laugh with, and in some cases enjoy some online fun. If that eventually leads to club nights or private meets for me then cool, if not, fine.

If the sole interest in Fab is to hook up with people for sex, then that surely gets harder as we age. just as it does in the vanilla world... But there's more to life than just fucking.

... Or so I repeatedly tell myself. 🤣🤔😬

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By *ealitybitesMan
10 weeks ago

Belfast

I'm always curious why so many think age is the reason they aren't having much luck?

I didn't join fab until I was 52 and I've been able to pick and choose who I wanted to meet without having to compromise.

My age has never once been a topic of conversation and it has never prevented me from chatting to women of a similar age.

I don't worry about being outside preferences and just focus on those I am compatible with.

Age is only a factor if you allow it to be.

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By *hoenix_1Man
10 weeks ago

richmond


"Nooo!!! Older men I find are polite gentlemen. And most are mature...MOST! Sick of being asked for snap from men my age HAHA! "

Polite much older mature man here

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By *hoenix_1Man
10 weeks ago

richmond


"If you really want to go then do but 'you have to be in it to win it' is very true. Are you you searching for people who are looking for the over 50s?

Oh and I have 18 years on you "

And I have another 3 years on you sext people

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By *inkyboots69TV/TS
10 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

I feel you pain, well sort of, I thought I was past it for Fab but still get plenty of action (it probably help I dress like a slut lol). What is slightly (only slightly) frustrating is that I get messages from guys that have a 45/50 age limit on their profiles, so they can message me, but I can't find them and message them.

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By *haiababeWoman
10 weeks ago

North devon

Just to say, still well on my age range. I persoanlly go about 10 up or down, an dhave discovered in general i prefer up. Forgot how imature some guys in their laten30's can be. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Hang in there OP don’t hang up your swinging pants just yet.

Maybe expand your searching. Lots of mature people on fab in the south west of England.

Also if you’re open minded, there are many couples who are mature and like to bring in a third for some extra fun.

Myself I enjoy meeting older people and one of my fab bucket list items is to 69 with a 69-year-old

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By *heonixrising500Man
10 weeks ago

Barnsley

Stick around there are plenty that prefer older

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
10 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"Where did you get the pants that are just for swinging?"

Trevor and Simon off Saturday TV 🤣🤣

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By *oiluvfunMan
10 weeks ago

Penrith


"Nooo!!! Older men I find are polite gentlemen. And most are mature...MOST! Sick of being asked for snap from men my age HAHA! "

The OP has 2 more years of life then, according to your profile…..

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I’m going to go with mental age instead of physical age. Worried that’d make me below 16 though 🤣

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By *oiluvfunMan
10 weeks ago

Penrith


"

Wait till you're 51 and you'll be out of everyone's age range 🤷‍♂️😆

Speak for yourself 🤪

Yeah but you have boobs 🤷‍♂️😆"

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By *eardedguy83Man
10 weeks ago

Worcestershire

At 63 I’ve learnt to manage my expectations. Being mature is a turn on for some

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
10 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"I’m going to go with mental age instead of physical age. Worried that’d make me below 16 though 🤣"

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By *host63Man
10 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

Wait till you get past 60 like me

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
10 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge


"Where did you get the pants that are just for swinging?

Trevor and Simon off Saturday TV 🤣🤣"

What TV do you use for the rest of the week? Or do you have 7?

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By *rHotNottsMan
10 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I'm always curious why so many think age is the reason they aren't having much luck?

I didn't join fab until I was 52 and I've been able to pick and choose who I wanted to meet without having to compromise.

My age has never once been a topic of conversation and it has never prevented me from chatting to women of a similar age.

I don't worry about being outside preferences and just focus on those I am compatible with.

Age is only a factor if you allow it to be. "

Some people will always blame the things they cannot change, when they’re not getting the results they want. It’s a mindset.

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By *infullyObedientWoman
10 weeks ago

Woodley

Nothing wrong with 50 😃

I'd say at least you're being honest about your age, many on here are older than they say they are to get through filters. Just a first lie of many usually 🤣

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By *illan-KillashMan
10 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

50? You're just a nipper.

66 is the new......... something or other. I forget.

But anyway, you can hide your profile, take a break and come back if and when you feel like it.

Go to a few socials, meet new people, make new friends, you never know, you just might have some new adventures.

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By *linyMan
10 weeks ago

Manchester/London

I’m 35, plus VAT, plus admin fee, handling charge, international shipping and service charge!

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By *ature bi couple61Couple
10 weeks ago

Derby

Join some clubs

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By *ea monkeyMan
10 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Nothing wrong with 50 😃

I'd say at least you're being honest about your age, many on here are older than they say they are to get through filters. Just a first lie of many usually 🤣"

I’ve been on here for over a decade, it’s amazing how many guys have been in their 40’s for over ten years

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
10 weeks ago

Between Sudbury n Haverhill

Turn bi. Loads of bi men in here who will suck you off. Perhaps not your ideal but better than nothing if that’s all you’ve been getting

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
10 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

I hope not. Unless someone’s found the elixir of youth, we are all going to to get older.

And if rising age means you get less sexy, I think I’m going to just continue to be me, here or not here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
10 weeks ago

Thank you for your feedback, it made for some great reading, you did make me laugh and I was flattered by some of the comments.

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
10 weeks ago

Up North


"Nothing wrong with 50 😃

I'd say at least you're being honest about your age, many on here are older than they say they are to get through filters. Just a first lie of many usually 🤣

I’ve been on here for over a decade, it’s amazing how many guys have been in their 40’s for over ten years"

That is amazing, what’s their secret? 😝

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By *avexxMan
10 weeks ago

cheshire

to be 50 again

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By *entleman JayMan
10 weeks ago

Wakefield

I’ve met lots of people in my fifties.

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By *ealitybitesMan
10 weeks ago

Belfast


"Nothing wrong with 50 😃

I'd say at least you're being honest about your age, many on here are older than they say they are to get through filters. Just a first lie of many usually 🤣

I’ve been on here for over a decade, it’s amazing how many guys have been in their 40’s for over ten years

That is amazing, what’s their secret? 😝"

I was in a chat group in 2018 with a guy who was 55 on his fab profile but admitted in the group to knocking a few years off and he was really 58.

Fast forward a couple of years and he had left and returned but was now 50.

He had a couples profile shortly after where he was 48 and he was 52 on his most recent profile.

Based on what he said on the chat group he is actually 65 now.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago


"Nothing wrong with 50 😃

I'd say at least you're being honest about your age, many on here are older than they say they are to get through filters. Just a first lie of many usually 🤣

I’ve been on here for over a decade, it’s amazing how many guys have been in their 40’s for over ten years

That is amazing, what’s their secret? 😝

I was in a chat group in 2018 with a guy who was 55 on his fab profile but admitted in the group to knocking a few years off and he was really 58.

Fast forward a couple of years and he had left and returned but was now 50.

He had a couples profile shortly after where he was 48 and he was 52 on his most recent profile.

Based on what he said on the chat group he is actually 65 now. "

It’s like the film interstellar

Only it’s not interstellar

It’s fab

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By *punk n gushCouple
10 weeks ago

deal


"After hitting 50 I’ve realised that there is a lesser demand for us older chaps in here. I’ve had some great times but I feel as if it’s came to an end for me on here and I should hang up my swinging pants.

This is just what I’ve been feeling the last few years of wilderness on here.

I would appreciate your comments greatly

Thank you"

We're just over that and still enjoy it and still get offers so don't give up

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By *NGthe2ndWoman
10 weeks ago

Here and there


"Nothing wrong with 50 😃

I'd say at least you're being honest about your age, many on here are older than they say they are to get through filters. Just a first lie of many usually 🤣

I’ve been on here for over a decade, it’s amazing how many guys have been in their 40’s for over ten years

That is amazing, what’s their secret? 😝

I was in a chat group in 2018 with a guy who was 55 on his fab profile but admitted in the group to knocking a few years off and he was really 58.

Fast forward a couple of years and he had left and returned but was now 50.

He had a couples profile shortly after where he was 48 and he was 52 on his most recent profile.

Based on what he said on the chat group he is actually 65 now.

It’s like the film interstellar

Only it’s not interstellar

It’s fab "

I'm guessing his name is Benjamin Button

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By *NGthe2ndWoman
10 weeks ago

Here and there

Oh and I'm passed 50.

Doesn't mean you lose it. Might need more breaks though

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By *ray_BTWMan
10 weeks ago

Worcester

Hey im over 50 and finding a lot younger women these days are more attracted to the mature guy...im definitely not complaining about my age just embrace it..don't give up.

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By *umagainandagainMan
10 weeks ago

Altrincham

I don't care about age. I have had some great sex with men well into their 80's. I would be very willing to meet an old woman but they don't seem interested.

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By *avexxMan
10 weeks ago

cheshire

50 is the new peak

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
10 weeks ago

Niche

It's less about the number and more the attitude and personal care. Style it out and keep living well!!

Lots turn a corner when they hit a certain birthday. They start to 'act their age'. Dress much older. Become Victor Meldrew misery moan'ers/moan'ettes...

To hell with that. I'll be living and loving life till the joints give out 😎👌🫡

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By *gent CoulsonMan
10 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Stick around till you hit 60, it's even worse lol

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By *immers123Woman
10 weeks ago

South Molton


"Just lie about your age...that's what the women do 🤣🥪"

I've had messages from men who are about 60 claiming to be early 40s

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By *ambertMan
10 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Different strokes for different folks in all honesty. Hugh did alright

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By *uenevereWoman
10 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"After hitting 50 I’ve realised that there is a lesser demand for us older chaps in here. I’ve had some great times but I feel as if it’s came to an end for me on here and I should hang up my swinging pants.

This is just what I’ve been feeling the last few years of wilderness on here.

I would appreciate your comments greatly

Thank you"

There's plenty of us over 50 on here, so being older in itself doesn’t make meeting significantly less likely.

However, if you're feeling unhappy or negative that can feed into the way you interact. Anything in your messages or profile that comes as negative or needy, however unintentional, also might not be helping your cause.

Maybe give Fab a rest for a bit and try getting out with friends, or if you want try others ways of meeting, get yourself to socials and clubs.

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By *xfordjohnMan
10 weeks ago

Oxford

I'm over 70 and still getting meets so don't give up.

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By *j NorthMan
10 weeks ago

Wakey

43 . Been on here years . I think I'm too polite these days

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By *iking_WitchWoman
10 weeks ago

Hinckley

Why?!

I'm sorry that you're not feeling it but 50 isn't old. Unless you are looking for 18 year olds and have a low income , you still are very appealing to a wide range of people I'm certain.

Embrace your age. Aging is a privilege x

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By *avexxMan
10 weeks ago

cheshire

me too wont be long now...

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
10 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

Last guy we met was 50.

One of Mrs CDs regular guys is in his 50s and we play with a couple in their mid 50s.

Plenty of fun to be had.

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By *electableicecreamMan
10 weeks ago

The West

Five more years and I'm closing my fab account and heading to Switzerland for the long sleep

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By *ioniosioMan
10 weeks ago

London


"Nooo!!! Older men I find are polite gentlemen. And most are mature...MOST! Sick of being asked for snap from men my age HAHA! "

Still, you have a max age limit to 52 😉

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Chichester


"Just lie about your age...that's what the women do 🤣🥪"

lol pretty much

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By *ecky and justCouple
10 weeks ago

Godalming

I’m 55 now, been here over 10 years and having more sex than ever.

Becky as well.

Don’t give up, get out and socialise.

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By *odgerMooreMan
10 weeks ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

I think OP is highlighting that a huge number of people have 50 as their upper age limit - it can be a pain seeing someone you fancy and you can’t message them. The answer is always ‘post a rant in the forum…!!’ Im due one about the site being shiiiiiiit and full of timewasters… pic hunters…. Dreamers…. I’ll update as and when I get it posted

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By *alcolm XtraMan
10 weeks ago

Northfleet


"Nooo!!! Older men I find are polite gentlemen. And most are mature..."

Like fine wine...

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By *viatrixWoman
10 weeks ago

Redhill

I did move my filters for men up to 55.

After all, two of the best FWBs I had were a few months/a year older than me. I may or may not have slid the younger limit bar too…

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By *hunky GentMan
10 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

Naaah bruv.

Keep rockin n rolling.

There's life in us old dogs.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
10 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We are now in the 50’s age bracket and can see a shift in who looks at us.

However we’ve got a social arranged at a club Friday and a FFM arranged on Saturday and a social Monday.

If you let age define you then it will.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Really op. It seems to keep the old blokes get all the love, I've seen some gorgeous young girl on here, then you look at there verifications and they've only met old overweight blokes, it does make me think why bother trying to stay in shape.

Maybe you just need to put weight on lol

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By *NormalMan01Man
10 weeks ago

Harrogate


"After hitting 50 I’ve realised that there is a lesser demand for us older chaps in here. I’ve had some great times but I feel as if it’s came to an end for me on here and I should hang up my swinging pants.

This is just what I’ve been feeling the last few years of wilderness on here.

I would appreciate your comments greatly

Thank you"

Still ‘ere then…

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago


"I think OP is highlighting that a huge number of people have 50 as their upper age limit - it can be a pain seeing someone you fancy and you can’t message them. The answer is always ‘post a rant in the forum…!!’ Im due one about the site being shiiiiiiit and full of timewasters… pic hunters…. Dreamers…. I’ll update as and when I get it posted "

It is annoying if your a year or two out of there age range, should fab allow a year or two either side of your set date?

Wanton dreamer here 😜

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By *horshammer132Man
10 weeks ago

Stockport

I'm a happy swinging 56 this year.. I just get on with it.. some women respond, some don't. I guess it's like everything else ..people have preferences! I've met younger women who like older guys and women and couples that don't care.. be nice, be polite and accept the knock backs and celebrate the wins lol crack on...

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By *2000ManMan
10 weeks ago

Worthing

Just use fab as a social club op plenty of chat on a wide on varied subjects.

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By *ikestokissMan
10 weeks ago

london

A lot of women like older men

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By *allipygousMan
10 weeks ago

Leicester


"After hitting 50 I’ve realised that there is a lesser demand for us older chaps in here. I’ve had some great times but I feel as if it’s came to an end for me on here and I should hang up my swinging pants.

This is just what I’ve been feeling the last few years of wilderness on here.

I would appreciate your comments greatly

Thank you

Don’t despair OP. 50 is no age at all. I’m nearly there myself and my age is right on here.

If you’re fatigued by it then take a break "

With respect Littlebird, a woman's fab experience of hitting 50 bears no resemblance to a single male's. A woman will always be desired in here due to having a vagina and breasts, no matter her age, looks, size or shape.

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By *horThe viking123Man
10 weeks ago

South shields

Why does it seem to be extremely difficult for some people on here? I'm quite new so still unsure how it all works

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By *weetRoseyxWoman
10 weeks ago

North West

No issue with an older gentleman.

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By *tr8MrEMan
10 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield


"No issue with an older gentleman. "

Good god!!! I'm definitely older 😜😜

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By *erkshire8299Man
10 weeks ago

slough

I am a decade older than you.

Still young at heart .

Like looking at the photos and videos on here more than porn sites ...don't get many replies ...but like the Forum and the website overall is very good.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane


"After hitting 50 I’ve realised that there is a lesser demand for us older chaps in here. I’ve had some great times but I feel as if it’s came to an end for me on here and I should hang up my swinging pants.

This is just what I’ve been feeling the last few years of wilderness on here.

I would appreciate your comments greatly

Thank you"

I don’t think you age preferences are doing you any favours mind 18-99 that’s like saying you’d do anyone & I really think you wouldn’t 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

This means I've only a few months left of being a youthful whippersnapper.

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By *ikestokissMan
10 weeks ago

london

Hi OP

I hope you are encouraged to stay on, I am so pleased to read the support you have received from the guys and girls following on from your post. There are some lovely people in the FAB community and just enjoy the filth 😉😊💦

Get in to the party seen and become a regular, it will all come together for you.

Keep your pecker up pal

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By *ddie1966Man
10 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Don't go. You've still got 5 .ore years of frustration yet.

Only once a gent is past 55 does it start getting desperate.

Anyway, to the other point.

Ladies never lie about their age on Fab.

It's just the margin of error gets bigger...

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By *entleman JayMan
10 weeks ago

Wakefield

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