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By *neformany95 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Loughborough

So what would your ideal first date or meet up be

Do people like a social first or straght into sex

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By *each needs some creamWoman
10 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

For the most part straght down to sex after an hour or so leave.

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By *obilebottomMan
10 weeks ago

All over

'Free now?' seems to be very popular

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

Always social with at most a snog at the end.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
10 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).


"So what would your ideal first date or meet up be

Do people like a social first or straght into sex "

Different people do different things.

Personally, I always have a social first.

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By *antricSeeker60Man
10 weeks ago

Durham

Like to have a social first to feel the vibe.

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By *he MinionMan
10 weeks ago

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Depends.

If it is 100% a social meet, then ice skating. Funny as anything and lots of clinging onto one another.

If its not purely a social and sex is all that matters and both people are fully aware, then a few drinks to say hi and of to the hotel or wherever pre arranged and lets get it on

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago


"So what would your ideal first date or meet up be

Do people like a social first or straght into sex "

Build up is key.. I love to get dressed up, nice dress and heels.

Find a bar, some nice live music.. enough atmosphere to talk but cheeky touches and flirts you can get away with.

Touches of the thighs.. nails digging into them half way up.🥵 eye contact so strong you know you both want it. That for a few hours before the fucking, please x

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By *rGMissACouple
10 weeks ago

London

If it's was me I would want to meet for a casual drink or coffee first to feel the vibe, before commiting to anything. Plus it's nice to have some build up and create some sexual tension surely ?

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By *rGMissACouple
10 weeks ago

London

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham


"date - So what would your ideal first date or meet up be

Do people like a social first or straght into sex "

For me it's a social & if it goes well a good long kiss at the end, then an arrangement to meet again and again and again and again and again and again and again

That's my plan and it seems to be working well

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
10 weeks ago

Reading

I’m not looking for one offs meets so my personal preference is a social first where we can chat, flirt and hopefully a bit of snogging at the end of an evening. I have had occasions where the spark was there online but in person it just disappeared so I like to make sure that the connection is genuine before I get naked with them.

Plus as a single person, it helps ensure that the person I’m meeting is who they say they are and that I feel safe being alone with them.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
10 weeks ago

Leeds

From here? A social, always a social 1st, online and real life are very different and that vibe isn't always there, plus cat fishes etc.... that and I value my life too much to hook up with a total stranger.

I need attraction and to actually like the person I'm fucking.

Mrs

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham


"I’m not looking for one offs meets so my personal preference is a social first where we can chat, flirt and hopefully a bit of snogging at the end of an evening. I have had occasions where the spark was there online but in person it just disappeared so I like to make sure that the connection is genuine before I get naked with them.

Plus as a single person, it helps ensure that the person I’m meeting is who they say they are and that I feel safe being alone with them."

This was the plan with BF and it's working well 😁

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By *issmorganWoman
10 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Always a social meet first, then we can gauge if there's attraction for us both, over a no pressure drink.

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By *ansoffateMan
10 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

We fall deeply in love at first sight and then fuck like bunnies for the next 6 months.

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By *uffnmuffCouple
10 weeks ago

London

social

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
10 weeks ago

Reading


"I’m not looking for one offs meets so my personal preference is a social first where we can chat, flirt and hopefully a bit of snogging at the end of an evening. I have had occasions where the spark was there online but in person it just disappeared so I like to make sure that the connection is genuine before I get naked with them.

Plus as a single person, it helps ensure that the person I’m meeting is who they say they are and that I feel safe being alone with them.

This was the plan with BF and it's working well 😁 "

It’s working for me as well

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham


"I’m not looking for one offs meets so my personal preference is a social first where we can chat, flirt and hopefully a bit of snogging at the end of an evening. I have had occasions where the spark was there online but in person it just disappeared so I like to make sure that the connection is genuine before I get naked with them.

Plus as a single person, it helps ensure that the person I’m meeting is who they say they are and that I feel safe being alone with them.

This was the plan with BF and it's working well 😁

It’s working for me as well "

♥️

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
10 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

Usually straight to sex and send them home.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
10 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Always a social first. Somewhere we can have a quiet drink and a chat.

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By *linyMan
10 weeks ago

Manchester/London

Always a social first to make sure they’re actually genuine in showing up, there’s chemistry/an attraction then as others have said maybe a kiss and arrange to meet another time so there’s no pressure or rushing.

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By *parkle1974Woman
10 weeks ago

Leeds

I've never had sex on the first meet up. If the chemistry is there then a follow up will be planned.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
10 weeks ago

cardiff

A date date. Not a social or a meet. But a date.

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

Typically tea/coffee with cake and a handcrafted panini, in some artisanal coffee shop or some chic café. Quite often it's an informal light luncheon, a walk around an art gallery, museum, a food festival, or some notable exhibition that's currently doing the rounds...I find that mågíç happens pretty much soon after and we take things further...•*

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By *each needs some creamWoman
10 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

This is not a dating site so, even if I was going to meet up for a social it would not be a date.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

First date ideal for me is a nice chill coffee somewhere, with the option but not the obligation to spend more time together beyond that 💜

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By *enelope2UWoman
10 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

It's ONLY a social first and by social I mean actually seeing how they are interacting in an environment.

So for the thick simple fab terms a proper DATE!

If he can't put effort in on an initial introduction... there's zero chance there's sexual chemistry compatabilities because I despise boring lazy fucking.

Hopefully there will be... then the rest is history we will be on a sex and fuck buddy repetition with no limits to our sexcapades..

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

I prefer a social. Somewhere with good parking (seriously)

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By *KTim61Man
10 weeks ago

Tipton

I didnt have a date with the couple I met, but exchanged many mail, then we decided to meet, at mine.

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