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By *rHotNotts OP Man
6 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

They will only do XXX with someone they rarely trust. I see it a lot on here, responding to do you like XXX and having to caveat it it with trust. Does that mean they will do YYY with people they don’t really trust?

I wouldn’t do anything sexually with anybody I diddnt trust and I’m a massive risk taker.

But he got me thinking, don’t they really mean someone who makes them feel safe and comfortable and someone they have the right kind of communication with maybe non-verbal communication. Because you can really trust someone but they can still fuck things up in the bedroom accidentally, if they are not listening or don’t understand you.

Anyway, random thoughts, what do you think?

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
6 weeks ago

West Suffolk

There’s levels of trust. I wouldn’t say we trust anyone we meet but at the same time we trust them with knowing our address, entering our home and entering a hole or two.

But I wouldn’t lend them money, give them my phone number or know where i work.

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By *luebell888Woman
6 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I go down the woods for sex with my fuck buddy but would never go down the woods with a strange man.

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By *ansoffateMan
6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Trust isn't a binary yes or no thing for me. In fact trust is just the start of a process, I want quality of connection so someone is present with me in the moment.

It's not even really about messing it up, that can be funny with the right person. It's just some things don't work unless that's there for me, so I wouldn't go there with that person.

Trust without connection feels like sex by numbers to me. I'd rather watch Netflix and order a pizza.

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By *vaRoseWoman
6 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

There are certain acts I will only consider when there’s a deep sense of trust and a genuine bond. It is not about being precious, it is about safety, control, and knowing exactly who I am dealing with. Some things are far too intimate, too exposing, to be shared with just anyone.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
6 weeks ago

Chatham

I require trust with all my play partners.

However there are some acts that require the level of trust I only have with my dominant of 10 years. So while there may be pics and stories of me doing it. It isn't something I do with just anyone.

Hope that makes sense

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