FabSwingers.com forum: Forgotten my wedding anniversary

By *imboInLimbo OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Baldock

I’ve come downstairs this morning to a boutique of flowers and a card, apparently it’s our wedding anniversary today……yes I feel bad.

Who here are the organisers, the ones who remember every Birthday and anniversary and send cards, and who like me is a little bit useless 🙈🙈

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By *illiam101000Man
10 weeks ago

Melton Mowbray

Don't worry, another 1 will be around the corner soon. They turn up like Christmas. Lol.

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By *ild_oatsMan
10 weeks ago

the land of saints & sinners

Just give him a good blow job and he will never know that you forgot….

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham

We're both really good at this 😍

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By *agic.MMan
10 weeks ago

Orpington

Unacceptable 😑

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

I don't quite get how you could forget if it's important to you both. There are so many ways to remember that I wonder if you are not as invested anymore? Just something to ponder.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
10 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"I’ve come downstairs this morning to a boutique of flowers and a card, apparently it’s our wedding anniversary today……yes I feel bad.

Who here are the organisers, the ones who remember every Birthday and anniversary and send cards, and who like me is a little bit useless 🙈🙈"

So instead of making it special you decide to come on here instead

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By *imboInLimbo OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Baldock

"I don't quite get how you could forget if it's important to you both. There are so many ways to remember that I wonder if you are not as invested anymore? Just something to ponder. "

I knew the 20th was my anniversary, it’s just come around a lot quicker than I realised

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By *imboInLimbo OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Baldock

"I’ve come downstairs this morning to a boutique of flowers and a card, apparently it’s our wedding anniversary today……yes I feel bad.

Who here are the organisers, the ones who remember every Birthday and anniversary and send cards, and who like me is a little bit useless 🙈🙈

So instead of making it special you decide to come on here instead

He went to work at 6am. I called him first to say sorry!

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By *olarbear73Man
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

I’ve recently starting putting dates in my calendar on my phone as I’m rubbish myself. I get a wee alarm reminder a week before the event to give me time to forget about it again till the day before

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By *erry bull1Man
10 weeks ago

doncaster

"I’ve come downstairs this morning to a boutique of flowers and a card, apparently it’s our wedding anniversary today……yes I feel bad.

Who here are the organisers, the ones who remember every Birthday and anniversary and send cards, and who like me is a little bit useless 🙈🙈"
steak and blow job will

Make him think you remembered

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By *allySlinkyWoman
10 weeks ago

Leeds

" I get a wee alarm reminder "

To empty your bladder ?

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
10 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

I am better at remembering these things compared to Mrs P

Hope you make it special OP X

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By *icecouple561Couple
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10 weeks ago

East Sussex

Oh 😳.

Imagine the flaming a man would get if he admitted the same thing

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By *imboInLimbo OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Baldock

"Just give him a good blow job and he will never know that you forgot…. "

😂 yes I will make it up to him later

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By *imboInLimbo OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Baldock

"I’ve recently starting putting dates in my calendar on my phone as I’m rubbish myself. I get a wee alarm reminder a week before the event to give me time to forget about it again till the day before

Going to have to start doing this!

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By *eliWoman
10 weeks ago

So you're always a little bit useless when it comes to special dates? Are these dates important to you or do they matter more to your husband?

If they're not particularly important (to you) then why not have a discussion saying just that? You can both have a more equal approach to it.

I'm an organiser. I don't mind if people occasionally mess up, it happens, it's life. I'd be a bit offended if it kept happening and they were posting about it on a fuck site. Not quite as cute as receiving actual effort.

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By *abs Big BangersWoman
10 weeks ago

Cotswolds

Life gets busy

Mistakes happen

Days and dates fly by sometimes

It's easy enough to say sorry and plan something for the weekend instead of tonight

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By *dalisqueWoman
10 weeks ago

land of make believe

You forgot because it wasn't important enough for you to make a reminder.

If your husband doesn't particularly care either then it is fine.

I have friends who don't do their birthdays and anniversaries with their partner,choosing to buy gifts & plan treats when the mood takes them.

I am an organiser with a terrible memory so I have lots of paper & digital reminders for everything!!

Happy Anniversary!

It is my sons 32nd birthday today lukily I remembered 😅

🩵

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By *obilebottomMan
10 weeks ago

All over

It happens and no need to 'punish' yourself. I am sure you can still have a lovely time and congratulations and many happy returns.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

"Oh 😳.

Imagine the flaming a man would get if he admitted the same thing

I think my answer would be the same.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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10 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Oh 😳.

Imagine the flaming a man would get if he admitted the same thing

I think my answer would be the same. "

I think that's fair.

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By *imply_SensualMan
10 weeks ago

Cheshire

I am another advocate of the calendar of my phone, with reminders a couple of days before for those things where a card might be needed.

Thankfully, no wedding anniversaries to remember (or forget about) any more

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
10 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

I would put more value in how you celebrate your marriage on an on going daily basis than a single day of the year OP, if your marriage is good and your husband knows it then missing the actual day shouldn’t be too much of an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Get the date you got married tattooed onto your arm, it's pretty tough to forget then. 👍🏼

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By *imboInLimbo OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Baldock

"Life gets busy

Mistakes happen

Days and dates fly by sometimes

It's easy enough to say sorry and plan something for the weekend instead of tonight

Thank you!

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By *imboInLimbo OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Baldock

"You forgot because it wasn't important enough for you to make a reminder.

If your husband doesn't particularly care either then it is fine.

I have friends who don't do their birthdays and anniversaries with their partner,choosing to buy gifts & plan treats when the mood takes them.

I am an organiser with a terrible memory so I have lots of paper & digital reminders for everything!!

Happy Anniversary!

It is my sons 32nd birthday today lukily I remembered 😅

Thank you, and happy Birthday to your son

🩵"

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham

"I’ve come downstairs this morning to a boutique of flowers and a card, apparently it’s our wedding anniversary today……yes I feel bad.

Who here are the organisers, the ones who remember every Birthday and anniversary and send cards, and who like me is a little bit useless 🙈🙈"

We have a family calendar, all colour coordinated for each family member 🫣 and I also send myself messages to remind me of stuff

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham

👨‍❤️‍👨 Oh and happy anniversary to you both 😍

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Happy anniversary 🎉

I hope you have a great day and night

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
10 weeks ago

Voldsøy

Happy anniversary!

Special dates matter to me. Well, birthdays and anniversaries anyway.

However, they don't matter much to Mr. He never forgets the dates. It's more like, he'll know it's coming up, but he puts it off until last minute and then forgets a card.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
10 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

Happy anniversary to you both ❤️❤️

We both forgot ours this year 😂

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By *oodmessMan
10 weeks ago

yumsville

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
10 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Happy anniversary!

Special dates matter to me. Well, birthdays and anniversaries anyway.

However, they don't matter much to Mr. He never forgets the dates. It's more like, he'll know it's coming up, but he puts it off until last minute and then forgets a card."

Same here! Everyone is wired differently, OP, and show their affection in different ways. I think some of the comments suggesting you don’t care or shouldn’t post about it are a bit harsh. I hope you have a lovely day ❤️

Mrs TMN x

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By *issmorganWoman
10 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm one of the organised ones, who remembers everyone's birthdays etc.

For a couple of years, my other half thought our anniversary (our first date) was a day later than it was, for some reason.

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By *randMrsShebaCouple
10 weeks ago

Birmingham

Lol 😂

Why don't you keep it as a point he can use if he forgets?

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