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By (user no longer on site) OP   
6 weeks ago

Hands up for all the people who don’t want to be described as a stereotype of one sort or another

Be it dad bod, bbw, Sapiophile, mum tum, or any other thing you can think of

I want people to see me as a person without the need for a label

Embrace what makes us us and don’t feel the need for definition

Just my thoughts , inbox open for the normal abuse I get 🤣

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By *gent CoulsonMan
6 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I'm definitely a what you see is what you get type.

I doubt very much I fall into any sort of label, I am just me

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By *sStephenPickleMan
6 weeks ago

Ends

I know I talk about race A LOT but I do hate the racial stereotypes I face on here and in other parts of life. And I hate the good or bad ‘shock’ when you don’t live up to them or reflect them.

I’ll be honest though, the dad bod shit I don’t really notice. I don’t think people really care about it on me

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By *imply_SensualMan
6 weeks ago

Cheshire


"Hands up for all the people who don’t want to be described as a stereotype of one sort or another

Be it dad bod, bbw, Sapiophile, mum tum, or any other thing you can think of

I want people to see me as a person without the need for a label

Embrace what makes us us and don’t feel the need for definition

Just my thoughts , inbox open for the normal abuse I get 🤣"

But you have labelled yourself in your profile name, as a biker

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By *eliWoman
6 weeks ago

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Hey Biker, I hope you don't receive any abuse.

As for labels, Biker Jack, I don’t know. Sometimes Biker, only sometimes mind, I think that labels can be rather handy. Let you know how someone sees themselves, Biker. It's good, Jack, sorry Biker Jack, when people feel strongly enough about a certain aligning that they want to label.

It's shorthand. Not the full story. Like there's more to a person than their username, isn't there, Biker Jack?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
6 weeks ago


"Hands up for all the people who don’t want to be described as a stereotype of one sort or another

Be it dad bod, bbw, Sapiophile, mum tum, or any other thing you can think of

I want people to see me as a person without the need for a label

Embrace what makes us us and don’t feel the need for definition

Just my thoughts , inbox open for the normal abuse I get 🤣

But you have labelled yourself in your profile name, as a biker "

Nope as what type of biker am I ?

Then the stereotype of which type you think I am is on someone else not me

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By *sStephenPickleMan
6 weeks ago

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"Hey Biker, I hope you don't receive any abuse.

As for labels, Biker Jack, I don’t know. Sometimes Biker, only sometimes mind, I think that labels can be rather handy. Let you know how someone sees themselves, Biker. It's good, Jack, sorry Biker Jack, when people feel strongly enough about a certain aligning that they want to label.

It's shorthand. Not the full story. Like there's more to a person than their username, isn't there, Biker Jack?

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
6 weeks ago


"Hey Biker, I hope you don't receive any abuse.

As for labels, Biker Jack, I don’t know. Sometimes Biker, only sometimes mind, I think that labels can be rather handy. Let you know how someone sees themselves, Biker. It's good, Jack, sorry Biker Jack, when people feel strongly enough about a certain aligning that they want to label.

It's shorthand. Not the full story. Like there's more to a person than their username, isn't there, Biker Jack?

"

I love the way you always seem to be having a go in the politest of fashions

Maybe I’m originally from Byker and it’s a play on words 🤷🏻

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By *eliWoman
6 weeks ago

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"Maybe I’m originally from Byker and it’s a play on words 🤷🏻"

Ah yes, with the famous metal contraption from Byker in your avatar. I'm not having a go, I can't quite take the forums seriously at times (apart from when it comes to abuse - fuck people who send that). The irony of the OP and the username really tickled me and then some.

As far as labels go for me, I like and dislike them. I understand the notion of people not neatly fitting in to a box yet at the same time... they can help tell someone something quickly. I think there are positives and negatives and I wouldn't publicly shun them when I use them in my bio (like poly, frizzy haired ).

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By *rHotNottsMan
6 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Doesn’t really bother me that much what people think of me or how they categorise/describe me, why should it bother me? If you start caring too much what others think it won’t end well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
6 weeks ago


"Maybe I’m originally from Byker and it’s a play on words 🤷🏻

Ah yes, with the famous metal contraption from Byker in your avatar. I'm not having a go, I can't quite take the forums seriously at times (apart from when it comes to abuse - fuck people who send that). The irony of the OP and the username really tickled me and then some.

As far as labels go for me, I like and dislike them. I understand the notion of people not neatly fitting in to a box yet at the same time... they can help tell someone something quickly. I think there are positives and negatives and I wouldn't publicly shun them when I use them in my bio (like poly, frizzy haired )."

The velocipede you mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
6 weeks ago

Anyway as yet 2 more have decided to tell me I’m wrong in messages I’m out

Have a great fab day all from your ivory towers of perfection

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By *sStephenPickleMan
6 weeks ago

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"Maybe I’m originally from Byker and it’s a play on words 🤷🏻

Ah yes, with the famous metal contraption from Byker in your avatar. I'm not having a go, I can't quite take the forums seriously at times (apart from when it comes to abuse - fuck people who send that). The irony of the OP and the username really tickled me and then some.

As far as labels go for me, I like and dislike them. I understand the notion of people not neatly fitting in to a box yet at the same time... they can help tell someone something quickly. I think there are positives and negatives and I wouldn't publicly shun them when I use them in my bio (like poly, frizzy haired )."

You have frizzy hair?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex

👆

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago


"Hands up for all the people who don’t want to be described as a stereotype of one sort or another

Be it dad bod, bbw, Sapiophile, mum tum, or any other thing you can think of

I want people to see me as a person without the need for a label

Embrace what makes us us and don’t feel the need for definition

Just my thoughts , inbox open for the normal abuse I get 🤣"

Oh the irony Biker jack

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By *heGateKeeperMan
6 weeks ago

Stratford


"I know I talk about race A LOT but I do hate the racial stereotypes I face on here and in other parts of life. And I hate the good or bad ‘shock’ when you don’t live up to them or reflect them.

I’ll be honest though, the dad bod shit I don’t really notice. I don’t think people really care about it on me "

I don’t see you as black so it’s ok 😘

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

I don’t mind labels. I probably deserve many of the labels I get. There’s a part of me revelling in my stereotypes.

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By *anderer88Woman
6 weeks ago

essex

I'm mostly indifferent towards having my appearance "stereotyped" but I'm not always keen on the assumptions made based off them... feels like expectation and disappointment

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
6 weeks ago

Leeds

That’s how society works though, label things you don’t understand or agree with, that way you get to belittle people and hold the moral high ground

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
6 weeks ago

Midlothian

My labels are important to me, personally. 🤷🏻‍♂️ But, when it comes to other people, I do try hard not to make assumptions about theirs. Stereotyping isn't usually helpful or kind.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
6 weeks ago

Leeds

🤚🤚 I don't have a mum tum, I have an over eating and over drinking mocha stomach!!

It's not because I had kids.

Mrs

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By *vaRoseWoman
6 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I’m fine with labels, what I don’t want is to be fetishised because of one

It’s fine to call me curvy, bbw, bitch…. whatever you like but if that’s the only quality you want to know about me then I’m not interested

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By *sStephenPickleMan
6 weeks ago

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"I know I talk about race A LOT but I do hate the racial stereotypes I face on here and in other parts of life. And I hate the good or bad ‘shock’ when you don’t live up to them or reflect them.

I’ll be honest though, the dad bod shit I don’t really notice. I don’t think people really care about it on me

I don’t see you as black so it’s ok 😘"

That’s why you like me

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By *ir tootMan
6 weeks ago

Raccoon city


"I’m fine with labels, what I don’t want is to be fetishised because of one

It’s fine to call me curvy, bbw, bitch…. whatever you like but if that’s the only quality you want to know about me then I’m not interested "

I want know what your planning on watching next after solo leveling.

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By *vaRoseWoman
6 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"I’m fine with labels, what I don’t want is to be fetishised because of one

It’s fine to call me curvy, bbw, bitch…. whatever you like but if that’s the only quality you want to know about me then I’m not interested

I want know what your planning on watching next after solo leveling. "

Apothecary diaries

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By *ir tootMan
6 weeks ago

Raccoon city


"I’m fine with labels, what I don’t want is to be fetishised because of one

It’s fine to call me curvy, bbw, bitch…. whatever you like but if that’s the only quality you want to know about me then I’m not interested

I want know what your planning on watching next after solo leveling.

Apothecary diaries

"
. I've heard of it I think. 🤔

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By *obilebottomMan
6 weeks ago

All over


"I know I talk about race A LOT but I do hate the racial stereotypes I face on here and in other parts of life. And I hate the good or bad ‘shock’ when you don’t live up to them or reflect them.

I’ll be honest though, the dad bod shit I don’t really notice. I don’t think people really care about it on me

I don’t see you as black so it’s ok 😘

That’s why you like me "

I just like pickles. I like onions too to be fair. Variety is the spice of life. You either connect with people or not. Respect

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By *heGateKeeperMan
6 weeks ago

Stratford


"I know I talk about race A LOT but I do hate the racial stereotypes I face on here and in other parts of life. And I hate the good or bad ‘shock’ when you don’t live up to them or reflect them.

I’ll be honest though, the dad bod shit I don’t really notice. I don’t think people really care about it on me

I don’t see you as black so it’s ok 😘

That’s why you like me "

It’s funny because it’s true

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