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"Oh no darling, cock everywhere! I’m in heaven 🤤🤤🤤" 🤣🤣🤣 Guess it does depend on your view point! | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster." You won't know how many people look at your profile, people who peruse in ninja mode won't show up. I've never had anyone tell me how to set up my profile, what photos to use or what messages to send. How do you define a time waster? | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster." So basically you are blaming other men for women not looking at your profile and interacting with you. I don't see how the website making a stricter filter to prevent male time wasters is going to help you improve on you. Also time wasters also include females, couples, TV,s, CD,s ect anyway. What in your opinion is a time waster anyway? | |||
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"Man with 50 verifications complaining about the other men on Fab hurting his chances. Excuse me while my eyes roll out of my head" Roll  | |||
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"1...they definitely look at your profile... 2... Attraction will get you a reply... If you can't be seen then you won't get a response " Probably you must have missed the public pictures on my profile plus you met me last Saturday at the social ☺️ | |||
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"You get what you pay for. Why do you think Fab has the biggest numbers of members.. It's the cheapest. Apologies any mods, but it's a factual comment 😘" I agree with you | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster." What definition of "time-waster" do you think should be used? What are the criteria? | |||
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"I just get in with life. It's not really the most important thing in the world and everyone else has a life too. I enjoy everything as it happens in life. No-one else owes me anything." Well done. The key for heaven are yours | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. So basically you are blaming other men for women not looking at your profile and interacting with you. I don't see how the website making a stricter filter to prevent male time wasters is going to help you improve on you. Also time wasters also include females, couples, TV,s, CD,s ect anyway. What in your opinion is a time waster anyway? " In two years here I could write a book of all weirdo I have met/chatted | |||
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"No, there aren't too many men. There simply aren't enough women." Very well said mate | |||
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"I’m not entirely sure what the issue is, you appear to be doing alright " only because I meet people in clubs and they can see me in person and all of sudden I drive attention to me...the Italian accent is still a,winning horse | |||
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"1...they definitely look at your profile... 2... Attraction will get you a reply... If you can't be seen then you won't get a response Probably you must have missed the public pictures on my profile plus you met me last Saturday at the social ☺️" I was just generalising | |||
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"I’m not entirely sure what the issue is, you appear to be doing alright only because I meet people in clubs and they can see me in person and all of sudden I drive attention to me...the Italian accent is still a,winning horse" Ahh I see, so you struggle with making the connection first online? I’d say that’s the same for 99% of folks. We only have the photos, videos and bio to judge from to make a decision to interact or not. Just like you do when you click on a ladies/couples profile. Altering the numbers isn’t going to guarantee more connections Maybe a video highlighting the knicker dropping accent? | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster." I don't think there's any dating or swinging platform you wont have a lot of men, even regular dating apps. Just put your best foot forward (profile) and try to interact with people outside of meets (I enjoy the forums personally) Helps if you have a healthy sex life outside of the platform, so your self-confidence don't take a dip. Goodluck! | |||
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"No, there aren't too many men. There simply aren't enough women. · Very well said mate" • Well, perhaps my remark was somewhat dismissive and not wholly correct. A fine balance of numbers between men and women isn't going to be the panacea to your grievances. There are others important factors already mentioned by most of the folk on here. | |||
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"I wouldn't message you back op because I don't fancy you, so if there were only 20 blokes on here you still wouldn't get a response from us!" That was brutal you sound exactly like me 🤷🤔🤣, however absolutely and unequivocally correct!! Because we are all sexually positive beings that doesn't negate attraction and mean we'll fuck anything that moves. 😘 | |||
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"I wouldn't message you back op because I don't fancy you, so if there were only 20 blokes on here you still wouldn't get a response from us!" I think you are missing the whole point. Probably it's not your fault | |||
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"I wouldn't message you back op because I don't fancy you, so if there were only 20 blokes on here you still wouldn't get a response from us! That was brutal you sound exactly like me 🤷🤔🤣, however absolutely and unequivocally correct!! Because we are all sexually positive beings that doesn't negate attraction and mean we'll fuck anything that moves. 😘" Absolutely not at all. Don't take offence as I can't be anyone cuppa but the point was a,different one and their response is one of the reason this website should need a steer | |||
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"If women are not attracted to you, OP, it doesn’t matter how many “timewasting” men are on this site. They’re still not going to respond. " If you think it's all based on attraction here then we are talking about two different things | |||
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"The reality is that many members here feel the right to treat other members like shit...this is the whole point" I thought the whole point was just to get more attention. You said so above. | |||
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"There are the correct amount of men on here. Just need more of my type. " Lol I find you could you could extrapolate that to the world in general | |||
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"I wouldn't message you back op because I don't fancy you, so if there were only 20 blokes on here you still wouldn't get a response from us! That was brutal you sound exactly like me 🤷🤔🤣, however absolutely and unequivocally correct!! Because we are all sexually positive beings that doesn't negate attraction and mean we'll fuck anything that moves. 😘 Absolutely not at all. Don't take offence as I can't be anyone cuppa but the point was a,different one and their response is one of the reason this website should need a steer " As per our initial comment and zero offense taken, there are other platforms that require additional cost, detail and transparency. Fab exists as it requires less of those. So.. you take your choice, with our filters open we received quite a number of messages every day from those who'd obviously not read our profile and were in the hope we'd merely accommodate their fantasies and desires. This was understandable, but tiring in deciding which to delete (which was the majority). Sorry OP and respect the fact you've been open in sharing face pictures and everything but you can't expect an echo chamber of your values and wants from a site which charges a minimal cost to many. Bluntly it's a case of accept that or pay more elsewhere, for us we accept as we're very sporadic in the time invested to the 'lifestyle' and pick and choose selfishly as we have the inclination and time. | |||
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No idea the numbers but the odds are well against most guys on here and generally it's easier for us to visit clubs and cinemas as you know when there that guys are up for play
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"In addition we have mutual friends and by the fact know you are an attractive and respectful character. So we are very inclined to believe you are in the good category! 😉" Thank you for your lovely message. I tried to write that privately but your filter is preventing that. Thank you anyway | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster." And what would the "stricter filter" be? In your opinion. I'm curious. | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster." What if vanilla men filled the quota and there was no space left for kinky men 
What if none of the men I want to meet got onto the list
What if the left over men made a rival site and all the girls jumped ship 🤔🤔
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. And what would the "stricter filter" be? In your opinion. I'm curious. " Probably raise the joining fee and sign a kind of behaviour disclaimer | |||
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"Men are the timewasters or women are? Bit confused, sorry. "The answer is YES | |||
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"Probably raise the joining fee and sign a kind of behaviour disclaimer " • I'm more than happy to sign a behaviour disclaimer and promise to behave like a cunt. No ordinary cunt, but my calibre of cunt. | |||
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"Probably raise the joining fee and sign a kind of behaviour disclaimer • I'm more than happy to sign a behaviour disclaimer and promise to behave like a cunt. No ordinary cunt, but my calibre of cunt." Probably your answer is the reason women don't want to deal with single men on here. I am sure you won't love if a man is a cunt with your sister or daughter | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster." It won’t help that you have a silhouette profile pic Mrs | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. It won’t help that you have a silhouette profile pic Mrs" I am sure you didn't notice the two public picture or it was too much effort looking for it? | |||
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""I dont get attention" post Look inside 50 verifications" Again...I meant on fab!!! If you read my verifications rather than stopping on the numbers only you would have noticed they refer to meet in clubs | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. And what would the "stricter filter" be? In your opinion. I'm curious. Probably raise the joining fee and sign a kind of behaviour disclaimer " Raising the joining fee to what level? The obnoxious, people you find unattractive, undesirable people, the great unwashed all have money. Money doesn't stop people behaving ike cunts. A "behaviour disclaimer", seriously? | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. It won’t help that you have a silhouette profile pic Mrs I am sure you didn't notice the two public picture or it was too much effort looking for it?" I'll be quite frank, I currently have 562 unread messages. Anyone who has a silhouette as their profile pic is automatically ignored. If you can't be bothered to put up a profile pic that might attract someone to you, then why do you expect people to look at you/read your messages? I haven't got time in the day to spend looking at every message I receive or the profiles who send them. That's just the reality of being a woman on here. The people/messages who interest me initially are 100% the people with interesting profile photos. You have to draw people in somehow. It's such a simple thing that might increase the interaction you get. But if you want to just vent/moan and aren't interested in advice then fair enough, good luck. | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. And what would the "stricter filter" be? In your opinion. I'm curious. Probably raise the joining fee and sign a kind of behaviour disclaimer Raising the joining fee to what level? The obnoxious, people you find unattractive, undesirable people, the great unwashed all have money. Money doesn't stop people behaving ike cunts. A "behaviour disclaimer", seriously? "True, even wankers have money. The high cost for single men at swingers clubs doesn't deter the "wanking dead". If men have the money, they will pay it. | |||
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"Probably raise the joining fee and sign a kind of behaviour disclaimer • I'm more than happy to sign a behaviour disclaimer and promise to behave like a cunt. No ordinary cunt, but my calibre of cunt. · Probably your answer is the reason women don't want to deal with single men on here. I am sure you won't love if a man is a cunt with your sister or daughter " • The point I'm trying to make is that how on earth do you expect Fab to enforce, assess and/or differentiate acceptable grades of behaviour? 'Good' behaviour for some could be misconstrued as 'less-than-acceptable' behaviour for others. | |||
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"Probably raise the joining fee and sign a kind of behaviour disclaimer • I'm more than happy to sign a behaviour disclaimer and promise to behave like a cunt. No ordinary cunt, but my calibre of cunt. Probably your answer is the reason women don't want to deal with single men on here. I am sure you won't love if a man is a cunt with your sister or daughter " Irony is clearly taking a battering today 🤣 | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. It won’t help that you have a silhouette profile pic Mrs I am sure you didn't notice the two public picture or it was too much effort looking for it?" That’s just rude!! I did notice your public pics but to see them you have to click on your profile, all anyone sees straight away is a black profile pic but don’t worry I won’t offer advice again Mrs | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. It won’t help that you have a silhouette profile pic Mrs I am sure you didn't notice the two public picture or it was too much effort looking for it?" The website doesn't need to implement stricter filters. Natural selection will do the job. Some of is will go to the 10 second effort of displaying a profile picture, so that if we do decide to message a woman on here she can see we did go to the 10 second effort. That 10 seconds is an indication of the potential we have also put more than 10 seconds into other aspects of fab, those small things add up. And engagement happens. OP your issue definitely isn't the other men in this case | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. And what would the "stricter filter" be? In your opinion. I'm curious. Probably raise the joining fee and sign a kind of behaviour disclaimer Raising the joining fee to what level? The obnoxious, people you find unattractive, undesirable people, the great unwashed all have money. Money doesn't stop people behaving ike cunts. A "behaviour disclaimer", seriously?
True, even wankers have money. The high cost for single men at swingers clubs doesn't deter the "wanking dead". If men have the money, they will pay it."Yup. The lure of (perceived) cock hungry women is what draws them in. That some men think all they have to do is post a cock pic and write the equivalent of "need get dick wet" and they'll be buried with cock hungry women begging them for a pounding is astonishing. *that concludes my Ted Talk | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. It won’t help that you have a silhouette profile pic Mrs I am sure you didn't notice the two public picture or it was too much effort looking for it? That’s just rude!! I did notice your public pics but to see them you have to click on your profile, all anyone sees straight away is a black profile pic but don’t worry I won’t offer advice again Mrs" Of course you need to click on it..I won't send my picture on a,recorded mail | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. It won’t help that you have a silhouette profile pic Mrs I am sure you didn't notice the two public picture or it was too much effort looking for it? That’s just rude!! I did notice your public pics but to see them you have to click on your profile, all anyone sees straight away is a black profile pic but don’t worry I won’t offer advice again Mrs Of course you need to click on it..I won't send my picture on a,recorded mail" You are so rude and arrogant that’s probably why you don’t succeed on here!! I was giving a polite helpful bit of advice to put a profile pic on as that’s your first opportunity to get noticed. | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. It won’t help that you have a silhouette profile pic Mrs I am sure you didn't notice the two public picture or it was too much effort looking for it? That’s just rude!! I did notice your public pics but to see them you have to click on your profile, all anyone sees straight away is a black profile pic but don’t worry I won’t offer advice again Mrs Of course you need to click on it..I won't send my picture on a,recorded mail You are so rude and arrogant that’s probably why you don’t succeed on here!! I was giving a polite helpful bit of advice to put a profile pic on as that’s your first opportunity to get noticed." I don't open messages from "silhouettes" I don't click in their profiles to "have a look" I just delete I think that was the point this helpful lady was trying to share with you | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. It won’t help that you have a silhouette profile pic Mrs I am sure you didn't notice the two public picture or it was too much effort looking for it? That’s just rude!! I did notice your public pics but to see them you have to click on your profile, all anyone sees straight away is a black profile pic but don’t worry I won’t offer advice again Mrs Of course you need to click on it..I won't send my picture on a,recorded mail You are so rude and arrogant that’s probably why you don’t succeed on here!! I was giving a polite helpful bit of advice to put a profile pic on as that’s your first opportunity to get noticed. I don't open messages from "silhouettes" I don't click in their profiles to "have a look" I just delete I think that was the point this helpful lady was trying to share with you" Thankyou | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. It won’t help that you have a silhouette profile pic Mrs I am sure you didn't notice the two public picture or it was too much effort looking for it? That’s just rude!! I did notice your public pics but to see them you have to click on your profile, all anyone sees straight away is a black profile pic but don’t worry I won’t offer advice again Mrs Of course you need to click on it..I won't send my picture on a,recorded mail You are so rude and arrogant that’s probably why you don’t succeed on here!! I was giving a polite helpful bit of advice to put a profile pic on as that’s your first opportunity to get noticed." It can't be that...being perceived arrogant means you need to have some sort of interaction with the other person. You see? You are just assuming but I am the arrogant 🤣🤣 | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. It won’t help that you have a silhouette profile pic Mrs I am sure you didn't notice the two public picture or it was too much effort looking for it? That’s just rude!! I did notice your public pics but to see them you have to click on your profile, all anyone sees straight away is a black profile pic but don’t worry I won’t offer advice again Mrs Of course you need to click on it..I won't send my picture on a,recorded mail You are so rude and arrogant that’s probably why you don’t succeed on here!! I was giving a polite helpful bit of advice to put a profile pic on as that’s your first opportunity to get noticed. I don't open messages from "silhouettes" I don't click in their profiles to "have a look" I just delete I think that was the point this helpful lady was trying to share with you" Why is that? Also I always send the picture along with my message | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. It won’t help that you have a silhouette profile pic Mrs I am sure you didn't notice the two public picture or it was too much effort looking for it? That’s just rude!! I did notice your public pics but to see them you have to click on your profile, all anyone sees straight away is a black profile pic but don’t worry I won’t offer advice again Mrs Of course you need to click on it..I won't send my picture on a,recorded mail You are so rude and arrogant that’s probably why you don’t succeed on here!! I was giving a polite helpful bit of advice to put a profile pic on as that’s your first opportunity to get noticed. It can't be that...being perceived arrogant means you need to have some sort of interaction with the other person. You see? You are just assuming but I am the arrogant 🤣🤣" You are showing your arrogance in this thread, you post moaning and people are trying to give you advice yet you shoot them down, you obviously don’t want a solution | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. It won’t help that you have a silhouette profile pic Mrs I am sure you didn't notice the two public picture or it was too much effort looking for it? That’s just rude!! I did notice your public pics but to see them you have to click on your profile, all anyone sees straight away is a black profile pic but don’t worry I won’t offer advice again Mrs Of course you need to click on it..I won't send my picture on a,recorded mail You are so rude and arrogant that’s probably why you don’t succeed on here!! I was giving a polite helpful bit of advice to put a profile pic on as that’s your first opportunity to get noticed. It can't be that...being perceived arrogant means you need to have some sort of interaction with the other person. You see? You are just assuming but I am the arrogant 🤣🤣 You are showing your arrogance in this thread, you post moaning and people are trying to give you advice yet you shoot them down, you obviously don’t want a solution " 😘😘😘😘😘 | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. It won’t help that you have a silhouette profile pic Mrs I am sure you didn't notice the two public picture or it was too much effort looking for it? That’s just rude!! I did notice your public pics but to see them you have to click on your profile, all anyone sees straight away is a black profile pic but don’t worry I won’t offer advice again Mrs Of course you need to click on it..I won't send my picture on a,recorded mail You are so rude and arrogant that’s probably why you don’t succeed on here!! I was giving a polite helpful bit of advice to put a profile pic on as that’s your first opportunity to get noticed. I don't open messages from "silhouettes" I don't click in their profiles to "have a look" I just delete I think that was the point this helpful lady was trying to share with you Why is that? Also I always send the picture along with my message" There are far too many messages from silhouettes to open and wade through It's my initial filtering technique and I don't think I'm alone The why doesn't really matter to be fair, the only reason i shared was because someone tried to give you helpful advice and you were pretty rude in return | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. It won’t help that you have a silhouette profile pic Mrs I am sure you didn't notice the two public picture or it was too much effort looking for it? That’s just rude!! I did notice your public pics but to see them you have to click on your profile, all anyone sees straight away is a black profile pic but don’t worry I won’t offer advice again Mrs Of course you need to click on it..I won't send my picture on a,recorded mail You are so rude and arrogant that’s probably why you don’t succeed on here!! I was giving a polite helpful bit of advice to put a profile pic on as that’s your first opportunity to get noticed. I don't open messages from "silhouettes" I don't click in their profiles to "have a look" I just delete I think that was the point this helpful lady was trying to share with you Why is that? Also I always send the picture along with my message There are far too many messages from silhouettes to open and wade through It's my initial filtering technique and I don't think I'm alone The why doesn't really matter to be fair, the only reason i shared was because someone tried to give you helpful advice and you were pretty rude in return " 😘😘😘😘😘😘 | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster." Ooooo please pick me, I'm not like the other men. Boring. | |||
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"Unless I get a message first from a woman, there is no way on earth I get a reply. Most members don't even look at my profile. They all preach how single men should be set up their profile, the kind of messages they need to write etc etc but in reality a picture wrongly taken is enough to prevent a single interaction. This is the reality so I honestly think this website should implement some kind of stricter filter in order to limit the amount of men time waster. Ooooo please pick me, I'm not like the other men. Boring. " | |||
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"Am I supposed to write what you like? If what I write is boring to you please skip me" That’s what most of the woman have been doing…skipping past you | |||
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"Does no-one use the green arrow these days? " It really should be used more, thread after thread of “poor me” | |||
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"Am I supposed to write what you like? If what I write is boring to you please skip me That’s what most of the woman have been doing…skipping past you "Is it my impression or you have taken my thread too personal? | |||
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"Am I supposed to write what you like? If what I write is boring to you please skip me That’s what most of the woman have been doing…skipping past you
Is it my impression or you have taken my thread too personal? "I have taken your rude comments aimed at me personally | |||
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"Am I supposed to write what you like? If what I write is boring to you please skip me That’s what most of the woman have been doing…skipping past you
Is it my impression or you have taken my thread too personal?
I have taken your rude comments aimed at me personally "Ok so that's your issue ☺️ | |||
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"Am I supposed to write what you like? If what I write is boring to you please skip me That’s what most of the woman have been doing…skipping past you
Is it my impression or you have taken my thread too personal?
I have taken your rude comments aimed at me personally
Ok so that's your issue ☺️"It’s obviously your problem that you can’t get messages let alone meets, we get plenty. We shall all wait for the next “poor me” thread you start | |||
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"Too many men? Interesting concept. " Some men think limiting the number of men will improve their chances of a shag. Obviously limiting the male profiles wouldn't improve their chances an iota, a crap profile is a crap profile. Funny they always think of limiting the number of men, after they themselves have joined. Spooky that.... | |||
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