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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

12 years ago the most precious thing in the world was taken from me, my son, it's true to say that as the years have passed it has got somewhat easier, I have my daughter that I am so grateful to have I love her dearly. I'm not normally one to sit a wallow in my own self pity, but today I think I'm allowed and I'm not going to apologise for it, I'm going to sit and shed a tear and pray that wherever he is in this universe he is happy. However it's times like these I really hate being on my own, what I really want is strong man hugs times like this I feel so lonely I want to scream.... that's all I wanted to say, sorry I just needed to get it off my chest

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Having one child does not replace the loss of another.

I'm sorry for your loss.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I know how you feel to have a child whether born or unborn is the most devastating thing in this world..I miss my child deeply and well it hurts to this day..not a day goes by without me thinking of the child..

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I lost a child in the early stages of pregnancy and I still wonder. My thoughts are with you. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending big man hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't say I know how your feeling as I don't ever having children but just wanted to send you lots of hugs xxxx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Big big man hugs xxxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My thoughts are with you, this mad lot are very supportive when we need them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even bigger big bear (((hugs))) from Big Ted

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I'll give you a big hug(I can do manly ).Lost my wife many years ago, it still hurts but it will get easier, over time. will never go away and that's a good thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you so much, I'm sobbing like a baby right now, so can't answer you individually, but I appreciate your support xx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Thank you so much, I'm sobbing like a baby right now, so can't answer you individually, but I appreciate your support xx"

Tears are there for a reason, let them flow for now.

We never forget our children. I think of my son every day. My grandmother, on her deathbed, called for her daughter who had died as a baby.

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

Cant even begin to comprehend your pain.

Big hugs n prayers for you n your boy x

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD

we are blessed with 2 children, you are a strong strong woman, I could not imagine loosing a child but I know I would never be the same again, I admire your strength and honesty amongst us all-big hugs to you.

shed a tear, shed a river, he will be watching knowing its all fit him.

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wondering if your tattoo is for your son,if so it would be nice to see it at the top of most fabbed,ive given it a start,hope that's ok,x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww...reading this post has made me have tears in my eyes and the kind responses from the lovely people show how caring they are ..I can't imagine how you feel but it must be the worst thing in the world to lose your child ..sending lots of hugs to you xxxxx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

To this day I can't be around kids for long..my sister has 2 and I spent a lovely day with them but god when I got home I sobbed my heart out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mourn him, celebrate him. Because he will live forever and never get old. It does get easier as time goes by but only when you actively try to let go of the guilt. There is nothing to be ashamed of and were he able to tell you, he would!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if your tattoo is for your son,if so it would be nice to see it at the top of most fabbed,ive given it a start,hope that's ok,x"

It is, the big rose symbolises my daughter, the middle rose is for my son, the bud is a miscarriage I had. Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very sad to read SK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having had several miscarriages and a still birth myself, I know how upset you can get at times, keep your chin up and live your life to the fullest for him honey, sending you lots of love and hugs xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if your tattoo is for your son,if so it would be nice to see it at the top of most fabbed,ive given it a start,hope that's ok,x

It is, the big rose symbolises my daughter, the middle rose is for my son, the bud is a miscarriage I had. Thank you x"

youre very welcome,get fabbing everyone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you every, for those of you in a similar position, my heart goes out to you In"

Only just seen this.... I couldn't even start to imagine the pain of losing a child.

My world would crumble without my son.

Heart goes out to everyone who's had to live through this pain

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I share your grief. My son would have been 23 on 27 May. I pray I never experience such pain again in my lifetime.

The pain never goes, you just learn to live with it.

My thoughts are with you.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 12/05/13 03:55:46]"

Thinking of you and sending you hugs (((hugs)))

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone, it's always a tough time, I`ll be fine tomorrow, I feel rather foolish now for posting, I`m sorry. For those of you in a similar position, my heart goes out to you In

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you everyone, it's always a tough time, I`ll be fine tomorrow, I feel rather foolish now for posting, I`m sorry. For those of you in a similar position, my heart goes out to you In"

You have know reason to feel daft!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you everyone, it's always a tough time, I`ll be fine tomorrow, I feel rather foolish now for posting, I`m sorry. For those of you in a similar position, my heart goes out to you In"

Don't be sorry there are times when we need hugs and to talk xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you everyone, it's always a tough time, I`ll be fine tomorrow, I feel rather foolish now for posting, I`m sorry. For those of you in a similar position, my heart goes out to you In

You have know reason to feel daft!!!"

I do tho hun, I can hear it all now. . . Another damn look at me thread grrr sometimes I just don't think, can't delete it now either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"12 years ago the most precious thing in the world was taken from me, my son, it's true to say that as the years have passed it has got somewhat easier, I have my daughter that I am so grateful to have I love her dearly. I'm not normally one to sit a wallow in my own self pity, but today I think I'm allowed and I'm not going to apologise for it, I'm going to sit and shed a tear and pray that wherever he is in this universe he is happy. However it's times like these I really hate being on my own, what I really want is strong man hugs times like this I feel so lonely I want to scream.... that's all I wanted to say, sorry I just needed to get it off my chest"

Its been over that since i lost the love of my life and i still miss him dearly,can't imagine the loss of a child hope you get your hugs soon xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you everyone, it's always a tough time, I`ll be fine tomorrow, I feel rather foolish now for posting, I`m sorry. For those of you in a similar position, my heart goes out to you In

You have know reason to feel daft!!!

I do tho hun, I can hear it all now. . . Another damn look at me thread grrr sometimes I just don't think, can't delete it now either "

Oi!!! Everyone on here has used the forums at some point or another for a little support.

That's why I love the forums, it's a little community of individuals who can help, share and discuss previous experiences in life.

So no you don't have to feel daft AT ALL!!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you everyone, it's always a tough time, I`ll be fine tomorrow, I feel rather foolish now for posting, I`m sorry. For those of you in a similar position, my heart goes out to you In

You have know reason to feel daft!!!

I do tho hun, I can hear it all now. . . Another damn look at me thread grrr sometimes I just don't think, can't delete it now either

Oi!!! Everyone on here has used the forums at some point or another for a little support.

That's why I love the forums, it's a little community of individuals who can help, share and discuss previous experiences in life.

So no you don't have to feel daft AT ALL!!! x"

Exactly

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Only just seen this thread. Can't imagine what your going through, but would like to offer a cyber hug xxxxx

Don't worry about posting, there are some very understanding and supportive people on here.

Best wishes xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Sugar, it is best to just let your emotions out... On Friday just gone it was the anniversary of the day I lost my son. He was 5.5 months old when he stopped breathing and 4 days of intensive care before I finally made the decision.

Not a day will go by over the past 6 years where I wish things could be different and that he was with me.

Losing a child is one of the hardest things and deepest loss you can go through.

I am thinking of you, message me if you want to... Big hugs xxxxx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

My mother who sadly passed away 2 days before my 7th bday had 3 pregnancies with her ex husband, 1 was stillborn and 1 only lived a few days

My half brother and his father emigrated to Australia before I was born, I have never met him...

Massive (((((hugs)))))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs sugar, losing a child is heartbreaking, lost 5 through miscarriage. Thinking of you xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Do not feel daft posting, i just hope its made you feel a little better. There is a great community feel about this place.

I lost my dad at christmas and i dont know how i would of got through it if it wasnt for the support on here.

I cant imagine how you are feeling, but if posting has made it slightly easier that is a positive.

xxxxxxxkarenxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"12 years ago the most precious thing in the world was taken from me, my son, it's true to say that as the years have passed it has got somewhat easier, I have my daughter that I am so grateful to have I love her dearly. I'm not normally one to sit a wallow in my own self pity, but today I think I'm allowed and I'm not going to apologise for it, I'm going to sit and shed a tear and pray that wherever he is in this universe he is happy. However it's times like these I really hate being on my own, what I really want is strong man hugs times like this I feel so lonely I want to scream.... that's all I wanted to say, sorry I just needed to get it off my chest"
full understand what you went through, I still recall the dreaded phone call I took at work, and that day my world fell apart, they say it gets better but does it, never a day goes by where I don't spend time alone to think back to that day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have to apologise for anything you do today...you reflect on the one you lost....love him cherish him , be angry with him. Be angry st yourself. Even after all these yrs it's still grief,,,,, scream and rant as much as you want..sending huge. Virtual((((((hugs))))) ,xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as we remember them then they are never really gone.

Sending lots of loving thoughts your way today. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs from me too. Times like this, I wish I was still there for you. But I'm only a phone call away xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big hugs from me too. Times like this, I wish I was still there for you. But I'm only a phone call away xxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Thank you everyone, it's always a tough time, I`ll be fine tomorrow, I feel rather foolish now for posting, I`m sorry. For those of you in a similar position, my heart goes out to you In

You have know reason to feel daft!!!

I do tho hun, I can hear it all now. . . Another damn look at me thread grrr sometimes I just don't think, can't delete it now either "

Well your certainly not foolish and anyone who thinks its a look at me thread aren't worth worrying about.

I can't empathise nor begin to understand what your feeling but as a mother I know it's my worst nightmare the though of losing my child. But bigs hugs and take today for what it is and no regrets for anything you do or say as today it's allowed xxxx

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By *elaxedsexyfunMan
over a year ago

Northants

I really don't know what to say apart from I think you are very brave to express your feelings on here.

I was feeling a bit down but you have made me realise my problems are nothing.

Lots of love and hugs and I am thinking of you!

Take care g x

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