FabSwingers.com forum: How long into a relationship?

By *ornymarshal2014 OP Man
13 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

I know relationships are different and people are different..but what's the appropriate time to tell someone you are into swinging? At the start? Or when you know eachother and have built trust?

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By *bi HaiveMan
13 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'd say as soon as possible.

That way if it's not for them, you can make an early decision to end it, or instead, stop swinging and focus on them.

Leave it too long and you're potentially wasting both of your time. Plus they may resent not being told immediately.

It's never been an issue for me. My last three relationships (two of which I'm still in) dating back to 2012 have all come via Fab.

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By *ornymarshal2014 OP Man
13 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

Do you lie first and pretend to be vanilla...or you just out everything and ask them to accept you the way that you are?

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By *ornymarshal2014 OP Man
13 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

You are a very very lucky person indeed....I wish I could find that...but alas

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By *ittlebirdWoman
13 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

If you keep it a secret OP it’s not “building trust” as when it comes out… which all things do eventually, the trust will be broken. Just be open and up front is my advice 👍🏻

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By *ucka39Man
13 weeks ago

Newcastle

At the beginning whilst you are still trying to get to know eachother makes sense

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
13 weeks ago

Reading

It depends on how important it is to you. If it's very important then right at the beginning. If it's something you can take out leave then one trust has been built.

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By *urvyCuckoldressCouple
13 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

We knew from the beginning of our relationship as we met at a social on another adult site.

We’ve often wondered how couples negotiate starting when they have been together a while

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By *ornymarshal2014 OP Man
13 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

Ok so 1st or 2nd date? 3rd?

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By *adyBugsWoman
13 weeks ago

cognito

What is a relationship?

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By *ellinever70Woman
13 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Is swinging more important to you than having a fulfilling relationship?

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By *ornymarshal2014 OP Man
13 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

The relationships usually start of great and I pretend to be vanilla, however the itch eventually comes...

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