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"There are some amazing single guys on Fab! " There really are! | |||
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"Doesn’t matter how respectful, friendly, polite someone is that doesn’t deserve them a reply. But if you have the time want to reply to them and feel free… if I don’t like the look of someone I just delete . "I got an instant block after deleting a message after looking at his profile earlier on. | |||
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"I 100% agree theres the not so great of all categories " Was going to comment but this is spot on | |||
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"I 100% agree theres the not so great of all categories Was going to comment but this is spot on " 👌😊 | |||
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"Doesn’t matter how respectful, friendly, polite someone is that doesn’t deserve them a reply. But if you have the time want to reply to them and feel free… if I don’t like the look of someone I just delete .
I got an instant block after deleting a message after looking at his profile earlier on."I wouldn’t block someone for that, but I’m sure there are men that send dozens or more of messages daily so it seems a useful thing to do so they don’t accidentally end up pestering the sane person when they’ve clearly indicated not my type/not attracted to you by deleting the message | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x"   | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x" 🫶 | |||
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"Guys, we gotta start being dicks again, we're loosing our mystic and cool guy allure!!!" Noooooo!!! | |||
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"Guys, we gotta start being dicks again, we're loosing our mystic and cool guy allure!!! Noooooo!!!" 🙊🙊🙊 *pulls the pretty girls hair in the school playground * | |||
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"Guys, we gotta start being dicks again, we're loosing our mystic and cool guy allure!!! · Noooooo!!!" • Do not disappoint this vociferous vixen...⬆️ | |||
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"There are some amazing single guys on Fab! " This..one was so good I'm marrying him | |||
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"There are some amazing single guys on Fab! This..one was so good I'm marrying him "Aww I absolutely love this!! ❤️ | |||
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"Mr sex girls don't like hair pulling till they 21 lol " I found that out the hard way!! | |||
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"Guys, we gotta start being dicks again, we're loosing our mystic and cool guy allure!!! Noooooo!!! 🙊🙊🙊 *pulls the pretty girls hair in the school playground *" 👀 | |||
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"We only meet single guys on here and we've never had a bad meet." Meet me. I’ll change that record 😂😂 | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x" The few I've chatted to have been lovely 😍 | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x" Thank you I appreciate this message on here | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x" That’s so refreshing Donna. Too many are negative and you are very kind. Thank you xxx | |||
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"Men are cool, cocks are awesome. We can all be pricks, feel single white men- get a hard time nowadays." Why is that? X | |||
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"Men are cool, cocks are awesome. We can all be pricks, feel single white men- get a hard time nowadays. · Why is that? X" • Anaemia? Hypoglycemia? Albinism? | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x" Thanks for this, Donna. Those of us who try hard to be polite, original, appreciative and friendly will take some heart from it | |||
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"Guys, we gotta start being dicks again, we're loosing our mystic and cool guy allure!!! · Noooooo!!! • Do not disappoint this vociferous vixen...⬆️" Thanks Nero - I like this description. Might even change my work email signature in line with this... | |||
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"Our inbox is full and nobody is toxic. We don't reply to it all. They say stuff like "do you want a shag now" nonsense but it's not offensive or particularly creepy or wrong considering this is a swingers site. I hope we don't meet stalkers but so far they are respecting boundaries. " I think overall, this is very important. Considering everything that is going out there in the world, Fab is a relatively safe space. Only once have I felt unsafe, but fortunately it was a group social in a public place and the host quickly sorted it. Apart from that, I can say I feel safe here. People I’ve met in person, socially or otherwise have all been nice. | |||
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"There are some great guys on the scene. I don't get this nice guys finish last sentiment from some guys. From time as a single guy on the scene and as a couple (Fab and club scene) I don't see it myself. Guys who tend to be dicks don't get far in my experience. Being a "Nice guy" is not the sole thing people want. So if you're a nice guy, good, you should be, that should be a base level. But that doesn't make you special or owe you a shag, most people are decent enough. And to be fair lots of people who think they're nice people because they follow polite respectful etiquette or won't overtly verbalise their prejudices. But that doesn't mean once you scratch the surface they're nice people (especially depending where your coming from). Nope, sorry being a nice guy alone doesn't cut it. Same as just being conventionally attractive or in great shape or having a huge cock alone doesn't cut it. Also being a arrogant wanker is a massive turn off. Contrary to the expressed opinions on many guys on here. The scene is full of great guys. Being a "good guy" is literally the base. The guys that do well tend to be comfortable in their own skin, comfortable around others and just have something about them. They come in all shapes, sizes and backgrounds. People know a good sort when they find one and these are the effortless souls that just do well on the scene. It's also fair to say as a guy on the scene if you are one of these guys who just gets it a breakthrough can be so important to more opportunities. Top guys once they get noticed or even recommend tend to start picking up the action, getting party invites and sometimes chased. Because people see and people talk. I think this is especially true of the club scene. We've seen and known over the years certain guys who regularly clear up at a club. They tend to be average guys who just have a nature and energy about them and who just get it. Mr" Oh, the nice guy thing. I sometimes get that thrown at me. You'd prefer I was an utter shit then? I'll just be me. If I'm not dripping in women, who cares. At least I know I'm a decent human being 🤓 | |||
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"The majority of the decent ones don't seem to use the forums "The majority don't use the forums. Any gender, or dynamic. Decent or otherwise. There are some lovely men in the forums. There are some lovely men who don't use them. | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x" A bit late to this sorry.... thank you for being lovely as the first person/people i've shown my face pic to on here.... as a single guy new here you made me feel welcome.... thank you. | |||
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"The majority of the decent ones don't seem to use the forums
The majority don't use the forums. Any gender, or dynamic. Decent or otherwise.
There are some lovely men in the forums. There are some lovely men who don't use them. "^^ this ♥️ | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x A bit late to this sorry.... thank you for being lovely as the first person/people i've shown my face pic to on here.... as a single guy new here you made me feel welcome.... thank you." You’re more than welcome, I do try to be polite to anyone who takes the time to message us. It’s not always possible but I do try x Donna x | |||
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"Not me. I’m a cunt but then again I’m not single." I had that attitude when in my 20s.... not single and thought i was God's gift. | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x A bit late to this sorry.... thank you for being lovely as the first person/people i've shown my face pic to on here.... as a single guy new here you made me feel welcome.... thank you. You’re more than welcome, I do try to be polite to anyone who takes the time to message us. It’s not always possible but I do try x Donna x" Very much appreciated | |||
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"Not me. I’m a cunt but then again I’m not single. I had that attitude when in my 20s.... not single and thought i was God's gift. " I’m 37. I know what I am and don’t need to pretend to be anything else. | |||
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"Not me. I’m a cunt but then again I’m not single. I had that attitude when in my 20s.... not single and thought i was God's gift. I’m 37. I know what I am and don’t need to pretend to be anything else." So am i.... you are exactly right though, it is up to you | |||
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"The majority of the decent ones don't seem to use the forums "Ahhh so this was the snide remark in question! What makes you think a majority of the decent guys on Fab don't use the forums? Where do you think the discrepancy lies between those that do and don't? 🤔 | |||
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"Men are cool, cocks are awesome. We can all be pricks, feel single white men- get a hard time nowadays." Lmfao | |||
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"Without the amazing men, there would be no women! " Exactly 👌 I get that we are all not great or what ever. And yes theres some proper dickheads out there. I feel a lot of woman let that reflect in other men | |||
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"I've never had offensive messages... just some odd ones but then I don't really mind those either. " I can not understand why some guys when they are told not interested get abusive, sad little people | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x" Absolutely. It's a shame that all single men are tainted by the same brush. But I would say all still have elements of the whole male privilege thing even if they don't think they have, they still do. | |||
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"The majority of the decent ones don't seem to use the forums
Ahhh so this was the snide remark in question! What makes you think a majority of the decent guys on Fab don't use the forums? Where do you think the discrepancy lies between those that do and don't? 🤔"It wasn't a snide remark in the slightest, I'm going by what I have experienced. | |||
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"Without the amazing men, there would be no women! Exactly 👌 I get that we are all not great or what ever. And yes theres some proper dickheads out there. I feel a lot of woman let that reflect in other men" I very much doubt it - I'm pretty sure the vast majority of women on here will take each man as an individual and on his own merit. It's why some men on here do very well, whilst the others flounder around in their own ignorance. K. | |||
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"Doesn’t matter how respectful, friendly, polite someone is that doesn’t deserve them a reply. But if you have the time want to reply to them and feel free… if I don’t like the look of someone I just delete . "Is that what keeps happening to my messages?!! 😪😪😅 | |||
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"Remember guys, the deadbeats make the good guys stand out. You should all be thanking them 👍" I want to believe this …. But I’m still not convinced. I believe I’m a good guy and have been told so by those I’ve been lucky to meet… and yet interaction with folk still seems quite difficult…. But that’s just how it goes … good guy or not I bet  | |||
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"We are all here for fun and to make friends why would anyone be a knob about it - i don't get it!" Lots of knobs on here 🍆🍆🍆 | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x" Awwww fanx. 
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"There are some amazing single guys on Fab! " Fancy a hug? | |||
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"...and she enjoys cåke. Fåçt... .. .... ... ... ...⬆️" Cake, CAKE. Fuck - there's cake too? | |||
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"The majority of the decent ones don't seem to use the forums
Ahhh so this was the snide remark in question! What makes you think a majority of the decent guys on Fab don't use the forums? Where do you think the discrepancy lies between those that do and don't? 🤔
It wasn't a snide remark in the slightest, I'm going by what I have experienced."Saying the majority of decent guys don't use the forums in the literal forums does come off a bit snide 😂 in your experience, what has been the main difference between those that do and don't use the forums that makes them more decent. Maybe us lowly forum men could learn something! | |||
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"The majority of the decent ones don't seem to use the forums
Ahhh so this was the snide remark in question! What makes you think a majority of the decent guys on Fab don't use the forums? Where do you think the discrepancy lies between those that do and don't? 🤔
It wasn't a snide remark in the slightest, I'm going by what I have experienced.
Saying the majority of decent guys don't use the forums in the literal forums does come off a bit snide 😂 in your experience, what has been the main difference between those that do and don't use the forums that makes them more decent. Maybe us lowly forum men could learn something!"That's your opinion which everyone is entitled too. | |||
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"The majority of the decent ones don't seem to use the forums
Ahhh so this was the snide remark in question! What makes you think a majority of the decent guys on Fab don't use the forums? Where do you think the discrepancy lies between those that do and don't? 🤔
It wasn't a snide remark in the slightest, I'm going by what I have experienced.
Saying the majority of decent guys don't use the forums in the literal forums does come off a bit snide 😂 in your experience, what has been the main difference between those that do and don't use the forums that makes them more decent. Maybe us lowly forum men could learn something!
That's your opinion which everyone is entitled too."So you basically have no basis or explanation for your opinion. Cool 👍 | |||
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"The majority of the decent ones don't seem to use the forums
Ahhh so this was the snide remark in question! What makes you think a majority of the decent guys on Fab don't use the forums? Where do you think the discrepancy lies between those that do and don't? 🤔
It wasn't a snide remark in the slightest, I'm going by what I have experienced.
Saying the majority of decent guys don't use the forums in the literal forums does come off a bit snide 😂 in your experience, what has been the main difference between those that do and don't use the forums that makes them more decent. Maybe us lowly forum men could learn something!
That's your opinion which everyone is entitled too.
So you basically have no basis or explanation for your opinion. Cool 👍"As I said, I am going by my experience on here. I owe no-one an explanation. | |||
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"As I said, I am going by my experience on here. I owe no-one an explanation." That's fair enough, I think it's always good to challenge opinions and see the place they from to understand the other person's viewpoint. Otherwise inferences can always be made based on a loaded sentence but hey, you do you! | |||
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"It's just a shame that the majority on here make it almost impossible for the nice ones to shine through! I often see myself being ignored but it most likely is because of me being a low level pond muck" • The "majority on here" do not make it "impossible for the nice ones to shine through", for the majority on here have never (personally) impeded my journey on Fab nor let myself get caught in the slipstream of their bad behaviour. Your lustre isn't going to be affected by the dullness of others. The only people who are ignored are the ones sitting on the bench offering self deprecating comments. | |||
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"I find that men who claim to be nice guys usually turn out to be the opposite. They blame other men for their own shortcomings and come across entitled." • I couldn't agree more. Nice guys are just "guys". Let others label you as such based on your actions. Self-aggrandisement isn't attractive. | |||
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"I find that men who claim to be nice guys usually turn out to be the opposite. They blame other men for their own shortcomings and come across entitled. • I couldn't agree more. Nice guys are just "guys". Let others label you as such based on your actions. Self-aggrandisement isn't attractive." Exactly. If you genuinely are a nice guy you won’t need to tell people. They will know. | |||
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"As I said, I am going by my experience on here. I owe no-one an explanation. That's fair enough, I think it's always good to challenge opinions and see the place they from to understand the other person's viewpoint. Otherwise inferences can always be made based on a loaded sentence but hey, you do you!" Sparkle is the most genuine kind heart person, I don’t think many would see her comment as snide… I think you’re well out of line and owe her an apology. | |||
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"As I said, I am going by my experience on here. I owe no-one an explanation. That's fair enough, I think it's always good to challenge opinions and see the place they from to understand the other person's viewpoint. Otherwise inferences can always be made based on a loaded sentence but hey, you do you! Sparkle is the most genuine kind heart person, I don’t think many would see her comment as snide… I think you’re well out of line and owe her an apology. " Erm... No | |||
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"As I said, I am going by my experience on here. I owe no-one an explanation. That's fair enough, I think it's always good to challenge opinions and see the place they from to understand the other person's viewpoint. Otherwise inferences can always be made based on a loaded sentence but hey, you do you! Sparkle is the most genuine kind heart person, I don’t think many would see her comment as snide… I think you’re well out of line and owe her an apology. " Thanks, though I don't need an apology, he is entitled to his opinion. Some people just like to twist what others say.....says a lot really about them. | |||
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"As I said, I am going by my experience on here. I owe no-one an explanation. That's fair enough, I think it's always good to challenge opinions and see the place they from to understand the other person's viewpoint. Otherwise inferences can always be made based on a loaded sentence but hey, you do you! Sparkle is the most genuine kind heart person, I don’t think many would see her comment as snide… I think you’re well out of line and owe her an apology. Thanks, though I don't need an apology, he is entitled to his opinion. Some people just like to twist what others say.....says a lot really about them." And to think we could live in a world where words aren't twisted if people actually had reasons behind what they say. One day, maybe 🤷♂️ | |||
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" They don't dislike me or ignore me because of something that someone else has done. That's just a lazy excuse. " Out of interest and nothing to do with the thread. Do you believe this to be true away from the forums? Thank about it. Why do women block men. Or don’t reply to men. Simple questions which I could load with leading assumptions, which I’m convinced you’d spin to tell us how successful some people are. -^ this isn’t a dig, I actually admire your attitude, but you are not being honest. Read some profiles, or statuses, or threads which round “all men up unto a long piece of string where “some men at now unable to get a hello through to some women. It spoils the process of good conversation for the genuinely nice people in fab away from the forums This forum is the best thing Fab has, it’s a great tool for those that do want to talk, and regardless to what someone implied with what their experience has been, 99 percent that I’ve had the privilege and luck to talk to or meet have been lovely. | |||
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"As I said, I am going by my experience on here. I owe no-one an explanation. That's fair enough, I think it's always good to challenge opinions and see the place they from to understand the other person's viewpoint. Otherwise inferences can always be made based on a loaded sentence but hey, you do you! Sparkle is the most genuine kind heart person, I don’t think many would see her comment as snide… I think you’re well out of line and owe her an apology. Thanks, though I don't need an apology, he is entitled to his opinion. Some people just like to twist what others say.....says a lot really about them. And to think we could live in a world where words aren't twisted if people actually had reasons behind what they say. One day, maybe 🤷♂️" As I said, I do have my reasons and also that I don't have to explain those reasons to a complete stranger on an open forum. | |||
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" They don't dislike me or ignore me because of something that someone else has done. That's just a lazy excuse. Out of interest and nothing to do with the thread. Do you believe this to be true away from the forums? Thank about it. Why do women block men. Or don’t reply to men. Simple questions which I could load with leading assumptions, which I’m convinced you’d spin to tell us how successful some people are. -^ this isn’t a dig, I actually admire your attitude, but you are not being honest. Read some profiles, or statuses, or threads which round “all men up unto a long piece of string where “some men at now unable to get a hello through to some women. It spoils the process of good conversation for the genuinely nice people in fab away from the forums This forum is the best thing Fab has, it’s a great tool for those that do want to talk, and regardless to what someone implied with what their experience has been, 99 percent that I’ve had the privilege and luck to talk to or meet have been lovely. " I'm not going to spin anything. Why would I need to? On a scale of success, I'm as successful as I want to be which is obviously in a whole different league to some men as I haven't met anyone in 5 years. I've had 4 different profiles in 9 years and while yes I've sent messages that haven't been opened or replied to I don't blame that on anyone else. It's just the nature of the site. In general I've never had any problems starting conversations with women on here. I don't have any problems starting them in real life either but in a completely different context as those conversations never involve sex. I've never had negative issues on fab because of things other men have said or done. The opposite is true. I haven't sent a single opening message here since the beginning of 2020 so every conversation since has been started by women who approach me and every one of those has said the one thing that attracted them was having the courage of my convictions. I don't understand why you might think I'm not being honest. I've never seen a profile stating that they were tarring every male profile with the same brush. I've never spoken to a woman on fab in 9 years who isn't capable of distinguishing between someone who is decent and genuine and worth getting to know and those who aren't. I stand by what I've already said because blaming the actions of others for your own failure is childish and belongs in the playground. | |||
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"As I said, I am going by my experience on here. I owe no-one an explanation. That's fair enough, I think it's always good to challenge opinions and see the place they from to understand the other person's viewpoint. Otherwise inferences can always be made based on a loaded sentence but hey, you do you! Sparkle is the most genuine kind heart person, I don’t think many would see her comment as snide… I think you’re well out of line and owe her an apology. Thanks, though I don't need an apology, he is entitled to his opinion. Some people just like to twist what others say.....says a lot really about them. And to think we could live in a world where words aren't twisted if people actually had reasons behind what they say. One day, maybe 🤷♂️ As I said, I do have my reasons and also that I don't have to explain those reasons to a complete stranger on an open forum." And that's totally fair enough, you just can't then moan about words being twisted if people make judgments and inferences based on the little information given 👍 | |||
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"As I said, I am going by my experience on here. I owe no-one an explanation. That's fair enough, I think it's always good to challenge opinions and see the place they from to understand the other person's viewpoint. Otherwise inferences can always be made based on a loaded sentence but hey, you do you! Sparkle is the most genuine kind heart person, I don’t think many would see her comment as snide… I think you’re well out of line and owe her an apology. Thanks, though I don't need an apology, he is entitled to his opinion. Some people just like to twist what others say.....says a lot really about them. And to think we could live in a world where words aren't twisted if people actually had reasons behind what they say. One day, maybe 🤷♂️ As I said, I do have my reasons and also that I don't have to explain those reasons to a complete stranger on an open forum. And that's totally fair enough, you just can't then moan about words being twisted if people make judgments and inferences based on the little information given 👍" Moaning 🤣 | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x" Yes there are! Us "good guys" who are respectful, not pushy and not shoving cock pics in your face get a bad rap. | |||
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"Men are cool, cocks are awesome. We can all be pricks, feel single white men- get a hard time nowadays." I think you are right! We are seen as the entitled! | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x Yes there are! Us "good guys" who are respectful, not pushy and not shoving cock pics in your face get a bad rap. " Not true. It's just that that's the bare minimum, it doesn't make someone a "good guy" | |||
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"Always polite and respectful. Treat others how you would like yourself to be treated. " Exactly
I always thought courtesy and chivalry (if that's still a thing?) would get me a long way ...
How wrong can someone be?
Doesn't stop me though. I'd rather be me and have no luck, than be a bellend and have a different girl every night.
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x" I totally agree 💜💜💜 But there seems to be confusion, even in this thread as to the meaning of 'single men' since most 'single' guys are playing away from home without consent. It's a minefield, so it's amazing to find genuinely single/separated/divorced guys who are enjoying the scene and respectful of everyone. They are the real unicorns  | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x I totally agree 💜💜💜 But there seems to be confusion, even in this thread as to the meaning of 'single men' since most 'single' guys are playing away from home without consent. It's a minefield, so it's amazing to find genuinely single/separated/divorced guys who are enjoying the scene and respectful of everyone. They are the real unicorns "Finally I am legitimised as a unicorn! Unfortunately fabs advantage of anonymity also facilities deception and infidelity. | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x I totally agree 💜💜💜 But there seems to be confusion, even in this thread as to the meaning of 'single men' since most 'single' guys are playing away from home without consent. It's a minefield, so it's amazing to find genuinely single/separated/divorced guys who are enjoying the scene and respectful of everyone. They are the real unicorns
Finally I am legitimised as a unicorn!
Unfortunately fabs advantage of anonymity also facilities deception and infidelity. "Get your horn out then! | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x Yes there are! Us "good guys" who are respectful, not pushy and not shoving cock pics in your face get a bad rap. " I like to push as deep as I can, and I’m pretty ‘good’ at that | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x" 100% agree. Single men are the dynamic we look for the most, and we’ve met and spoke to some gems. As always there are ones who let the side down, but that’s the same for all profiles on here. Never tar them all | |||
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"Do you know what, single men on here often get a hard press but there are so many single men who are respectful, friendly, polite and absolutely deserve responses from so many different profiles 🥰 Donna x 100% agree. Single men are the dynamic we look for the most, and we’ve met and spoke to some gems. As always there are ones who let the side down, but that’s the same for all profiles on here. Never tar them all " There's still afew of us good ones left | |||
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Probably because they saw shitty comments such as this and blocked.
In contrast I’ve found the forum guys (& gals) to be funny, intelligent, interesting and decent. Their banter is second to none, they challenge me to see different perspectives, and their posts actually brighten up my day. While I might not agree with some on here, I’d like to think I respect all. Forum users or not, everyone here is a human being. Who are you to publicly deem anyone or make them feel substandard?? ‘Insert smiley face because then it’s ok’"I wonder if any man will come along and tell you to apologise immediately 🤔😂 | |||
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In contrast I’ve found the forum guys (& gals) to be funny, intelligent, interesting and decent. Their banter is second to none, they challenge me to see different perspectives, and their posts actually brighten up my day. While I might not agree with some on here, I’d like to think I respect all. Forum users or not, everyone here is a human being. Who are you to publicly deem anyone or make them feel substandard?? ‘Insert smiley face because then it’s ok’
I wonder if any man will come along and tell you to apologise immediately 🤔😂"😁 I would like an apology for that 😁😜 | |||
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"But there seems to be confusion, even in this thread as to the meaning of 'single men' since most 'single' guys are playing away from home without consent... ... Confusion? What confusion? There was no confusion until you conjured up that very notion in your remark. The quest to find "genuinely single /separated / divorced guys" is less insurmountable than the quest to find genuinely unattached women. Last year every woman I met, dallied with, engaged in whatever clandestine encounter or socialised with were either married, betrothed, estranged or engaged. Despite their cloak and dagger dispositions they were, without any confusion, perfectly genuine to me. Allow me to disabuse you of any confusion: I often find single / 'single' women less genuine than the married ones on here." Some individuals defy common expectations. 🩵 | |||
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In contrast I’ve found the forum guys (& gals) to be funny, intelligent, interesting and decent. Their banter is second to none, they challenge me to see different perspectives, and their posts actually brighten up my day. While I might not agree with some on here, I’d like to think I respect all. Forum users or not, everyone here is a human being. Who are you to publicly deem anyone or make them feel substandard?? ‘Insert smiley face because then it’s ok’
I wonder if any man will come along and tell you to apologise immediately 🤔😂
😁 I would like an apology for that 😁😜"And what are you gonna do if I refuse? 😏😂 | |||
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I wonder if any man will come along and tell you to apologise immediately 🤔😂"• There's no need Joe, she's already absolved herself with the obligatory 'smiley face' emoji. The smiley face is like a talisman for the sexy sinners.  😉 | |||
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In contrast I’ve found the forum guys (& gals) to be funny, intelligent, interesting and decent. Their banter is second to none, they challenge me to see different perspectives, and their posts actually brighten up my day. While I might not agree with some on here, I’d like to think I respect all. Forum users or not, everyone here is a human being. Who are you to publicly deem anyone or make them feel substandard?? ‘Insert smiley face because then it’s ok’
I wonder if any man will come along and tell you to apologise immediately 🤔😂
😁 I would like an apology for that 😁😜
And what are you gonna do if I refuse? 😏😂"I’d… ah bollocks. You’d probably like it 😂 | |||
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In contrast I’ve found the forum guys (& gals) to be funny, intelligent, interesting and decent. Their banter is second to none, they challenge me to see different perspectives, and their posts actually brighten up my day. While I might not agree with some on here, I’d like to think I respect all. Forum users or not, everyone here is a human being. Who are you to publicly deem anyone or make them feel substandard?? ‘Insert smiley face because then it’s ok’
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I wonder if any man will come along and tell you to apologise immediately 🤔😂
😁 I would like an apology for that 😁😜
And what are you gonna do if I refuse? 😏😂
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In contrast I’ve found the forum guys (& gals) to be funny, intelligent, interesting and decent. Their banter is second to none, they challenge me to see different perspectives, and their posts actually brighten up my day. While I might not agree with some on here, I’d like to think I respect all. Forum users or not, everyone here is a human being. Who are you to publicly deem anyone or make them feel substandard?? ‘Insert smiley face because then it’s ok’"As said previously, everyone is entitled to their opinion, I've given mine as you (and others have). Who is to say who's is right or wrong. We don't all have the same experiences on here so not every response is going to be positive! | |||
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In contrast I’ve found the forum guys (& gals) to be funny, intelligent, interesting and decent. Their banter is second to none, they challenge me to see different perspectives, and their posts actually brighten up my day. While I might not agree with some on here, I’d like to think I respect all. Forum users or not, everyone here is a human being. Who are you to publicly deem anyone or make them feel substandard?? ‘Insert smiley face because then it’s ok’
As said previously, everyone is entitled to their opinion, I've given mine as you (and others have). Who is to say who's is right or wrong. We don't all have the same experiences on here so not every response is going to be positive! "You’re making the claim that you’ve interacted with the majority of men on the forums and that you don’t think they’re decent people. Do you have any evidence to support this inflammatory statement? I’m sure you’d agree that anecdotal claims can’t be used as evidence. As for everyone being entitled to an opinion you’re right. Everyone does. That doesn’t make that opinion valid and it certainly doesn’t mean it needs to be respected. I personally don’t think yours is valid. I don’t think you’ve spoken to the majority of men on the forums (unless you can prove otherwise) and I don’t respect you slagging off the majority of men on here. A completely unnecessary, callous remark. | |||
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"Doesn’t matter how respectful, friendly, polite someone is that doesn’t deserve them a reply. But if you have the time want to reply to them and feel free… if I don’t like the look of someone I just delete .
I got an instant block after deleting a message after looking at his profile earlier on."I sent a message to a couple and got an instant block, no idea why always polite. | |||
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"The majority of the decent ones don't seem to use the forums
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In contrast I’ve found the forum guys (& gals) to be funny, intelligent, interesting and decent. Their banter is second to none, they challenge me to see different perspectives, and their posts actually brighten up my day. While I might not agree with some on here, I’d like to think I respect all. Forum users or not, everyone here is a human being. Who are you to publicly deem anyone or make them feel substandard?? ‘Insert smiley face because then it’s ok’
As said previously, everyone is entitled to their opinion, I've given mine as you (and others have). Who is to say who's is right or wrong. We don't all have the same experiences on here so not every response is going to be positive!
You’re making the claim that you’ve interacted with the majority of men on the forums and that you don’t think they’re decent people. Do you have any evidence to support this inflammatory statement? I’m sure you’d agree that anecdotal claims can’t be used as evidence.
As for everyone being entitled to an opinion you’re right. Everyone does. That doesn’t make that opinion valid and it certainly doesn’t mean it needs to be respected. I personally don’t think yours is valid. I don’t think you’ve spoken to the majority of men on the forums (unless you can prove otherwise) and I don’t respect you slagging off the majority of men on here.
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"The majority of the decent ones don't seem to use the forums
Probably because they saw shitty comments such as this and blocked.
In contrast I’ve found the forum guys (& gals) to be funny, intelligent, interesting and decent. Their banter is second to none, they challenge me to see different perspectives, and their posts actually brighten up my day. While I might not agree with some on here, I’d like to think I respect all. Forum users or not, everyone here is a human being. Who are you to publicly deem anyone or make them feel substandard?? ‘Insert smiley face because then it’s ok’
As said previously, everyone is entitled to their opinion, I've given mine as you (and others have). Who is to say who's is right or wrong. We don't all have the same experiences on here so not every response is going to be positive!
You’re making the claim that you’ve interacted with the majority of men on the forums and that you don’t think they’re decent people. Do you have any evidence to support this inflammatory statement? I’m sure you’d agree that anecdotal claims can’t be used as evidence.
As for everyone being entitled to an opinion you’re right. Everyone does. That doesn’t make that opinion valid and it certainly doesn’t mean it needs to be respected. I personally don’t think yours is valid. I don’t think you’ve spoken to the majority of men on the forums (unless you can prove otherwise) and I don’t respect you slagging off the majority of men on here.
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In contrast I’ve found the forum guys (& gals) to be funny, intelligent, interesting and decent. Their banter is second to none, they challenge me to see different perspectives, and their posts actually brighten up my day. While I might not agree with some on here, I’d like to think I respect all. Forum users or not, everyone here is a human being. Who are you to publicly deem anyone or make them feel substandard?? ‘Insert smiley face because then it’s ok’
As said previously, everyone is entitled to their opinion, I've given mine as you (and others have). Who is to say who's is right or wrong. We don't all have the same experiences on here so not every response is going to be positive!
You’re making the claim that you’ve interacted with the majority of men on the forums and that you don’t think they’re decent people. Do you have any evidence to support this inflammatory statement? I’m sure you’d agree that anecdotal claims can’t be used as evidence.
As for everyone being entitled to an opinion you’re right. Everyone does. That doesn’t make that opinion valid and it certainly doesn’t mean it needs to be respected. I personally don’t think yours is valid. I don’t think you’ve spoken to the majority of men on the forums (unless you can prove otherwise) and I don’t respect you slagging off the majority of men on here.
A completely unnecessary, callous remark.
Jeez you'd think I slagged of all the guys who use the forums
Just the majority and you don’t even have the common decency to apologise for it.
Pathetic "I think it's more pathetic that some people are feeling slagged off. It's ironic that it reinforces the original comment that seems to be upsetting so many. I've had crappy experiences with some forum users over the years and never felt the need to apologise for having an opinion on them. This thread is supposed to be about the good guys, very few of whom are capable of maintaining their carefully curated personas on the forums. I thought I'd seen the last of the schoolyard antics when I left my teens. Btw the word callous means to have an insensitive and cruel disregard for others. The only callous remarks I'm reading have been through the fake outrage and bruised egos. And before anyone mentions white knights, we aren't even in the same country so I'm not looking a pat on the head from anyone. I just think some people need to give their head a wobble. | |||
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"The majority of the decent ones don't seem to use the forums
Probably because they saw shitty comments such as this and blocked.
In contrast I’ve found the forum guys (& gals) to be funny, intelligent, interesting and decent. Their banter is second to none, they challenge me to see different perspectives, and their posts actually brighten up my day. While I might not agree with some on here, I’d like to think I respect all. Forum users or not, everyone here is a human being. Who are you to publicly deem anyone or make them feel substandard?? ‘Insert smiley face because then it’s ok’
As said previously, everyone is entitled to their opinion, I've given mine as you (and others have). Who is to say who's is right or wrong. We don't all have the same experiences on here so not every response is going to be positive!
You’re making the claim that you’ve interacted with the majority of men on the forums and that you don’t think they’re decent people. Do you have any evidence to support this inflammatory statement? I’m sure you’d agree that anecdotal claims can’t be used as evidence.
As for everyone being entitled to an opinion you’re right. Everyone does. That doesn’t make that opinion valid and it certainly doesn’t mean it needs to be respected. I personally don’t think yours is valid. I don’t think you’ve spoken to the majority of men on the forums (unless you can prove otherwise) and I don’t respect you slagging off the majority of men on here.
A completely unnecessary, callous remark.
Jeez you'd think I slagged of all the guys who use the forums
Just the majority and you don’t even have the common decency to apologise for it.
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"The majority of the decent ones don't seem to use the forums
Probably because they saw shitty comments such as this and blocked.
In contrast I’ve found the forum guys (& gals) to be funny, intelligent, interesting and decent. Their banter is second to none, they challenge me to see different perspectives, and their posts actually brighten up my day. While I might not agree with some on here, I’d like to think I respect all. Forum users or not, everyone here is a human being. Who are you to publicly deem anyone or make them feel substandard?? ‘Insert smiley face because then it’s ok’
As said previously, everyone is entitled to their opinion, I've given mine as you (and others have). Who is to say who's is right or wrong. We don't all have the same experiences on here so not every response is going to be positive!
You’re making the claim that you’ve interacted with the majority of men on the forums and that you don’t think they’re decent people. Do you have any evidence to support this inflammatory statement? I’m sure you’d agree that anecdotal claims can’t be used as evidence.
As for everyone being entitled to an opinion you’re right. Everyone does. That doesn’t make that opinion valid and it certainly doesn’t mean it needs to be respected. I personally don’t think yours is valid. I don’t think you’ve spoken to the majority of men on the forums (unless you can prove otherwise) and I don’t respect you slagging off the majority of men on here.
A completely unnecessary, callous remark.
Jeez you'd think I slagged of all the guys who use the forums
Just the majority and you don’t even have the common decency to apologise for it.
Pathetic
So you're saying the majority of men on fab use the forums....OK "Now you’re using a straw man argument. - Reality Bites. You said you’ve had some crappy experiences on here. Would you then say something like the majority aren’t decent people? Probably not. Because that wouldn’t be accurate or acceptable, would it? | |||
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"The majority of the decent ones don't seem to use the forums
Probably because they saw shitty comments such as this and blocked.
In contrast I’ve found the forum guys (& gals) to be funny, intelligent, interesting and decent. Their banter is second to none, they challenge me to see different perspectives, and their posts actually brighten up my day. While I might not agree with some on here, I’d like to think I respect all. Forum users or not, everyone here is a human being. Who are you to publicly deem anyone or make them feel substandard?? ‘Insert smiley face because then it’s ok’
As said previously, everyone is entitled to their opinion, I've given mine as you (and others have). Who is to say who's is right or wrong. We don't all have the same experiences on here so not every response is going to be positive!
You’re making the claim that you’ve interacted with the majority of men on the forums and that you don’t think they’re decent people. Do you have any evidence to support this inflammatory statement? I’m sure you’d agree that anecdotal claims can’t be used as evidence.
As for everyone being entitled to an opinion you’re right. Everyone does. That doesn’t make that opinion valid and it certainly doesn’t mean it needs to be respected. I personally don’t think yours is valid. I don’t think you’ve spoken to the majority of men on the forums (unless you can prove otherwise) and I don’t respect you slagging off the majority of men on here.
A completely unnecessary, callous remark.
Jeez you'd think I slagged of all the guys who use the forums
Just the majority and you don’t even have the common decency to apologise for it.
Pathetic
So you're saying the majority of men on fab use the forums....OK
Now you’re using a straw man argument.
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Reality Bites. You said you’ve had some crappy experiences on here. Would you then say something like the majority aren’t decent people? Probably not. Because that wouldn’t be accurate or acceptable, would it?
"Nobody said that the majority of men on the forums weren't decent. What I took from the comment you are getting upset over is that the poster has met or chatted to lots of decent men on fab but the majority of them don't use the forums. The vast majority of women I've chatted to don't use the forums and some of those certainly aren't decent individuals. | |||
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