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By *uckoldandWife OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Manchester

We have never been to a club or Fab social, which would you recommend for first timers who are nervous about both?

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By *layfullsamMan
12 weeks ago

Solihull


"We have never been to a club or Fab social, which would you recommend for first timers who are nervous about both? "

I’d say social if you’re nervous ?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
12 weeks ago

Reading

Social as you keep your clothes on.

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By *ature bi couple61Couple
12 weeks ago

Derby

Social first

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By *uckoldandWife OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Manchester


"Social as you keep your clothes on. "

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By *eyond PurityCouple
12 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Socials are like being in a pub with people.

Clubs are the same, especially in the bar areas which you can stick to, however, some people may be a little less dressed.

Clubs tend to have a bar when you walk in, so it’s no different to walking in to a pub. Play rooms are usually upstairs or away from the bar.

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By *uckoldandWife OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Manchester


"Socials are like being in a pub with people.

Clubs are the same, especially in the bar areas which you can stick to, however, some people may be a little less dressed.

Clubs tend to have a bar when you walk in, so it’s no different to walking in to a pub. Play rooms are usually upstairs or away from the bar.

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We noticed some clubs expect you to strip off even for the bar

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Definitely recommend a Social First,

You're Dressed (reasonably dependant on where the Social is), You're with like-minded People of which some will be just as nervous as Yourselves, No expectations or pressure for Play (in fact a good amount are in Public places so You can't really Play) and You can leave whenever You want..

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Covent Garden

In accordance with the above — a social. It's a perfectly normal setting, in a bar, imbibing and chatting to fellow fabbers with no agenda or expectations of anything other than building your nexus of friends and making new acquaintances.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
12 weeks ago

Leeds

Socials, there basically just a bunch of people in a public/club, there's no pressure, it's a no play thing, it's just a way to meet new people.

If you decide on a club, tell them you are new and they'll show you around etc, just treat it like any normal night out, don't feel pressured to do anything just chill at the bar if you want.

Mrs

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
12 weeks ago

Stockport

We noticed some clubs expect you to strip off even for the bar

Some are dress down on arrival , Some aren't

All are dress down for play rooms

We like a social ourselves , and see how things go

X

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
12 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

Absokutely social first. Or a club night where dress down isnt required.

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By *imherjgCouple
12 weeks ago

andover

We did a social for our first and found it very helpful, everyone was really nice and welcoming

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By *uckoldandWife OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Manchester

thanks everyone

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By *aomilatteCouple
12 weeks ago

Midlands


"We have never been to a club or Fab social, which would you recommend for first timers who are nervous about both? "

Why not try both? Clubs are generally a social to start the night anyway (and for the whole night if you wish). Don't think you're walking into an all night orgy in a club because that's not the case, people chat socially and go to a playroom if they wish. Many people go to clubs and stay at the bar and dance floor.

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