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By *omo191 OP   Man
13 weeks ago

THETFORD

What's the right thing to do if meeting a person for the first time. Or what do you prefer. Hand shake, hug, wave and say Hi/hello.

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By *iss DevilWoman
13 weeks ago

Bedford

Everyone is different, I don't let people into my personal space easily. So anyone trying to hug me when we meet for the first time is going to put me in a very uncomfortable position. But as everyone likes different things, work with them, ask the person you're about to meet what they'd be comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Air kiss.

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By *ndymac888Man
13 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Depends on what that chat has been like and if it’s just a social, if it’s meet for coffee to just feel each other out then just a peck on the cheek and a slight hug but would give her space after that.

But you can deffo arrange more kinky stuff like “hand me your underwear when we meet” sort of stuff if it’s pre arranged.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Think it depends but you get feel for where expected once you see them.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I usually just jump on them wrap my legs around and then stick my tongue in their mouth OP.

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By *rHotNottsMan
13 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

There is no right thing to do man just do what you feel like you want to do and there’s appropriate and pay attention to her body language and be prepared to do something different if it feels wrong for her. I never know what I’m gonna do until I do it.

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By *rHotNottsMan
13 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


" I usually just jump on them wrap my legs around and then stick my tongue in their mouth OP."

That’s good to know

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By *midnight-Woman
13 weeks ago

...

I do hi and a wave of ice never met them (stranger danger)😆😆

When I leave I'll sometimes do a hug

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By *allipygousMan
13 weeks ago

Leicester

Full on tonguey French kiss with a nice grope of the left buttock.

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By *igR93Man
13 weeks ago

Sarcasm City

Finger them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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13 weeks ago

East Sussex

I guage by their body language and if I think it's ok I'll kiss them on the cheek without going for a full on hug.

That's for fab meets. If meeting someone in a social setting I always offer my hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I just walk on by and discretely stuff my wet panties in their pocket

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"I just walk on by and discretely stuff my wet panties in their pocket"

Obviously meant discreetly... damn autocorrect

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By *ceKweenWoman
13 weeks ago

Bolton

It’s all down to the chat beforehand… there’s one or two I’d love to kiss as soon as we meet up but that’s because we’ve chatted for so long

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
13 weeks ago

Leeds

I like a good old fashioned dick out top off when the sins shining and a handshake.

Mrs

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By *odgerMooreMan
13 weeks ago

Rummage Up The Jumper


"I guage by their body language and if I think it's ok I'll kiss them on the cheek without going for a full on hug.

That's for fab meets. If meeting someone in a social setting I always offer my hand. "

Might be awkward as I often offer my knob

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By *icecouple561Couple
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13 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I guage by their body language and if I think it's ok I'll kiss them on the cheek without going for a full on hug.

That's for fab meets. If meeting someone in a social setting I always offer my hand.

Might be awkward as I often offer my knob "

And how does the interviewer feel about that? 🤔😉

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By *odgerMooreMan
13 weeks ago

Rummage Up The Jumper


"I guage by their body language and if I think it's ok I'll kiss them on the cheek without going for a full on hug.

That's for fab meets. If meeting someone in a social setting I always offer my hand.

Might be awkward as I often offer my knob

And how does the interviewer feel about that? 🤔😉"

Depends what Ive been arrested for on that particular occasion

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
13 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I do hi and a wave of ice never met them (stranger danger)😆😆

When I leave I'll sometimes do a hug "

This has is covered

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By *mmaleiaWoman
13 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Hug & a kiss on the cheek

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By *layfullsamMan
13 weeks ago

Solihull

Slap on the bum and a cheeky get your coat you’ve pulled

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By *ndymac888Man
13 weeks ago

Dumbarton


"I just walk on by and discretely stuff my wet panties in their pocket"

🔥 🥵

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By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Soho

If you're genuinely asking that then I'm questioning the quality and level of chat/messaging you have undertaken prior to meeting them.

For me any doubts around how to engage with them are dissipated after weeks and/or months of chats, Telegram'ing and phone calls.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
13 weeks ago

North West

I’m a hugger … just bring it in!!!

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By *etwife8230Couple
13 weeks ago

Newport

Straight in for a smacker on the lips ,not meeting anyone I don't fancy the pants off 😜

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By *orestHardWoodMan
13 weeks ago

Lymington

I stay silent and let my cock do the talking!!! (then probably get arrested!

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By *sStephenPickleMan
13 weeks ago

Ends

I do the nod.

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
13 weeks ago

Voldsøy

Fist bump. 🤛 Baymax style.

Balalalala!

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
13 weeks ago

Altrincham


"Air kiss. "

Afternoon dharlink! Mwah-mwah 😍

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By *ittlebirdWoman
13 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

A curtsy…. Obviously

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By *omo191 OP   Man
13 weeks ago

THETFORD

I haven't had any conversation or chat. Was just pre-empting a possible meet in the future and wondered what other people did. Of course it depends on the pre chat/conversations on how comfortable you are with the person. Even then as we can see some people are more comfortable than others.

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By *rRiosMan
13 weeks ago

dublin

I wave from the bushes, most of the time they don’t notice though

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By *electableicecreamMan
13 weeks ago

The West


"I haven't had any conversation or chat. Was just pre-empting a possible meet in the future and wondered what other people did. Of course it depends on the pre chat/conversations on how comfortable you are with the person. Even then as we can see some people are more comfortable than others. "

If you are not sure you really can't go wrong with doing absolutely nothing. No need to add to the awkwardness.

After that it's perfectly reasonable to play it by ear and go with how it feels. Let them lead and go with the flow.

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