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By *urrfectPussy OP   Woman
13 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Wondering if any woman have come across arrogant men?

Like seriously there’s no need for it, puts me off wanting to be on here!

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By *he MinionMan
13 weeks ago

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Fab has many arrogant members.

Some, arent even men

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By *vaRoseWoman
13 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"Fab has many arrogant members.

Some, arent even men "

This

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By *ools and the brainCouple
13 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"Fab has many arrogant members.

Some, arent even men "

This made me laugh 🤣

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By *oneyBee200Woman
13 weeks ago

Kent

There are arrogant men and women on here just like every day life. Makes the nicer ones stand out

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By *iss DevilWoman
13 weeks ago

Bedford

Yep, plenty of arrogant men on here. I think some are over-confident, believe they are god's gift, and that really shows. Confidence is good, arrogance I steer clear of.

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By *urrfectPussy OP   Woman
13 weeks ago

Gloucestershire


"Fab has many arrogant members.

Some, arent even men "

Haha well I hope I don’t come across arrogant to guys. Actually no I wouldn’t because I don’t think I’m better than anyone else!

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By *urrfectPussy OP   Woman
13 weeks ago

Gloucestershire


"Yep, plenty of arrogant men on here. I think some are over-confident, believe they are god's gift, and that really shows. Confidence is good, arrogance I steer clear of. "

Haha I totally agree

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
13 weeks ago

Hatfield

OP .. I’m sure you have suffered arrogant men but don’t let the 100 bad apples spoil it for the occasional good ( moi) … lots of decent men and women on here … focus on the decent ones .. ignore the others …

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By *urrfectPussy OP   Woman
13 weeks ago

Gloucestershire


"There are arrogant men and women on here just like every day life. Makes the nicer ones stand out "

You are correct it does make the nicer ones stand out.

I’ve met some great guys off here

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By *urrfectPussy OP   Woman
13 weeks ago

Gloucestershire


"OP .. I’m sure you have suffered arrogant men but don’t let the 100 bad apples spoil it for the occasional good ( moi) … lots of decent men and women on here … focus on the decent ones .. ignore the others …

"

Noted and I have been just wanted a little rant

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
13 weeks ago

Reading

I hate the ones that treat you like a free sex worker, That you will drop everything to meet them for sex at the time and place of their choosing. This approach must always fail so why do it?

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By *viatrixWoman
13 weeks ago

Redhill

Many… on the forum 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I am attracted to a bit of arrogance… as long as it doesn’t blur into twattiness territory 🥸

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By *urrfectPussy OP   Woman
13 weeks ago

Gloucestershire


"I hate the ones that treat you like a free sex worker, That you will drop everything to meet them for sex at the time and place of their choosing. This approach must always fail so why do it? "

Yes!! Now with me I’m not into car sex or outdoor sex and I’ve said this on my profile yet they still say “let’s meet for a quick fuck in the car”

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Chichester


"Fab has many arrogant members.

Some, arent even men "

Based answer

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By *urrfectPussy OP   Woman
13 weeks ago

Gloucestershire


"Many… on the forum 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I am attracted to a bit of arrogance… as long as it doesn’t blur into twattiness territory 🥸"

I don’t know just something about someone thinking they’re better than everyone else just turns me right off

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"Wondering if any woman have come across arrogant men?

Like seriously there’s no need for it, puts me off wanting to be on here!"

Some say the only thing unattractive about me is my arrogance.. 💔

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By *urrfectPussy OP   Woman
13 weeks ago

Gloucestershire


"Wondering if any woman have come across arrogant men?

Like seriously there’s no need for it, puts me off wanting to be on here!

Some say the only thing unattractive about me is my arrogance.. 💔 "

I can’t believe that

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
13 weeks ago

Someplace

Yeah, there's a few on the forums, and they're not even attractive so it's strange

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

There’s arrogance of all sorts on here

But define when confidence becomes arrogant

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I'm only meeting arrogant men right now. Keeps things simple.

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By *urrfectPussy OP   Woman
13 weeks ago

Gloucestershire


"Yeah, there's a few on the forums, and they're not even attractive so it's strange "

I think they’re everywhere now lol

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
13 weeks ago

Someplace


"Yeah, there's a few on the forums, and they're not even attractive so it's strange

I think they’re everywhere now lol "

They are, they're getting too brave. Some men actually need a reality check

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By *hat.coupleCouple
13 weeks ago

Kent


"Wondering if any woman have come across arrogant men?

Like seriously there’s no need for it, puts me off wanting to be on here!"

That's why some bisexual women prefer to 0lay with couples. That way you still get to have fun with a guy but his female partner grounds him out and makes him behave himself! Win win!! Me and my husband are almost complete opposites so we balance eachother out wonderfully x

Mrs x

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
13 weeks ago

Morioh-Cho, Stourbridge

We don't get arrogant guys, we aren't even on their radar 😂

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
13 weeks ago

Leeds

Sorry darling it’s not my fault I inherited such a tall horse 🧐🧐🧐

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By *he MinionMan
13 weeks ago

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"Yep, plenty of arrogant men on here. I think some are over-confident, believe they are god's gift, and that really shows. Confidence is good, arrogance I steer clear of. "

Ok...

Is over confidence just regular confidence when you "know" you are gods gift. Being Gods gift myself, its not arogance when its just a cross to bear (bare?) Its actually almost humbling.

Almost.

Said with confidence

🤭🤭

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
13 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle


"Wondering if any woman have come across arrogant men?

Like seriously there’s no need for it, puts me off wanting to be on here!"

No. I have to say this is the first thread complaining about men that i've ever come across.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
13 weeks ago

Swansea


"Fab has many arrogant members.

Some, arent even men "

Absolutely this^^

It's just people.

Mrs

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By *layfullsamMan
13 weeks ago

Solihull


"Wondering if any woman have come across arrogant men?

Like seriously there’s no need for it, puts me off wanting to be on here!"

Treat this as being a positive thing, you’re finding out early that they’re not for you and so much better than finding out after you’ve invested to much time into them

Always glass half full

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
13 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle


"Fab has many arrogant members.

Some, arent even men

Absolutely this^^

It's just people.

Mrs"

I used to scream that from the rooftops ..... seems people just want an easy answer e.g. oh it's cos he's a bloke / she's a woman yada yada.....

No No No ..- that PERSON is just a shitbag

Women V Men tsk ...

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By *he MinionMan
13 weeks ago

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I refer to the fab forum mantra (I think its on Page 2 of the FAQ's)

"Some will, some wont. Some do, some dont"

Arrogance, entitlement, over confidence, demanding, whichever it is, is basically another filter that can be used aa a journey to the ever growing block section

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
13 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

In my life I’ve learnt, people are not good judges of character. I’ve been called “cocky” or “arrogant”. By people who don’t know me. Truth is…

I’m just comfortable in my own skin, have no fear of public speaking. And my misanthropy means I genuinely don’t care what people think of me.

When people call others arrogant, they just showing their own insecurities.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
13 weeks ago

Swansea


"Fab has many arrogant members.

Some, arent even men

Absolutely this^^

It's just people.

Mrs

I used to scream that from the rooftops ..... seems people just want an easy answer e.g. oh it's cos he's a bloke / she's a woman yada yada.....

No No No ..- that PERSON is just a shitbag

Women V Men tsk ... "

Yep totally agree 👍

Mrs

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By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Soho

I've come across arrogant and supercilious couples. It's next level with them. 🩶

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By *urrfectPussy OP   Woman
13 weeks ago

Gloucestershire


"In my life I’ve learnt, people are not good judges of character. I’ve been called “cocky” or “arrogant”. By people who don’t know me. Truth is…

I’m just comfortable in my own skin, have no fear of public speaking. And my misanthropy means I genuinely don’t care what people think of me.

When people call others arrogant, they just showing their own insecurities."

Oh no I had a message from a guy saying that I wouldn’t find better than him, cause he’s done this and done that and he’s successful, he’s had loads of women!

All because I wasn’t interested in a meet as the attraction wasn’t there.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
13 weeks ago

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"I've come across arrogant and supercilious couples. It's next level with them. 🩶"

Have to agree, fair few arrogant women on here too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

13 weeks ago

East Sussex

The only arrogant person I've encountered on here left years ago. They were extremely arrogant and completely unaware of it.

I think there are a lot of people who are self deprecating or overly humble far outweighs the cocky ones.

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By *orphia2003Woman
13 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I've encountered many arrogant people on here, of all ages, sexuality and gender.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
13 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"In my life I’ve learnt, people are not good judges of character. I’ve been called “cocky” or “arrogant”. By people who don’t know me. Truth is…

I’m just comfortable in my own skin, have no fear of public speaking. And my misanthropy means I genuinely don’t care what people think of me.

When people call others arrogant, they just showing their own insecurities."

There is a difference between people that are arrogant and confident.

The God's/Goddess, gift, the look down their noses kinda, I expect you to put me on a pedestal and worship me, be centre of your attention. Nothing in your life is as important as me kind are the arrogant ones.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

13 weeks ago

East Sussex


"In my life I’ve learnt, people are not good judges of character. I’ve been called “cocky” or “arrogant”. By people who don’t know me. Truth is…

I’m just comfortable in my own skin, have no fear of public speaking. And my misanthropy means I genuinely don’t care what people think of me.

When people call others arrogant, they just showing their own insecurities."

I'm not sure about them showing their own insecurities but I do agree that people often mistake confidence for arrogance.

It's a British trait to an extent. Be comfortable with yourself and aware of your worth and people will want to knock you down.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
13 weeks ago

Leeds


"Fab has many arrogant members.

Some, arent even men "

This, there is plenty of women and couples who fall into this category too.

Mrs

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
13 weeks ago

In fair Verona.


"Fab has many arrogant members.

Some, arent even men

This "

And more of this ^

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
13 weeks ago

Reading

I think some of the arrogance you see on the forum is tongue in cheek.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
13 weeks ago

Ends

Please don’t call me arrogant because I believe what I’m saying is true…

I’m not one of the bottle; I think I am a special one

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By *urrfectPussy OP   Woman
13 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Noted thanks for the feedback

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By *obilebottomMan
13 weeks ago

All over


"I've encountered many arrogant people on here, of all ages, sexuality and gender."

Yes here and out there. Most of us can recognise and appreciate confidence and differentiate from arrogance which can be prevelant here and out there. I have a new neighbour who fits the latter category

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
13 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"It's a British trait to an extent. Be comfortable with yourself and aware of your worth and people will want to knock you down. "

I think it's pretty universal, I've heard it from people of various cultures. Obviously living in Britain I have definitely heard it most from British people though 💜

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Central

Generally it's a very clear 🚩 to avoid. Thoroughly unpleasant

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By *rHotNottsMan
13 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

What’s arrogant to some people on forums is acceptable high confidence to others a lot depends on how well you know the person in real life and how much you can read between the lines and see they are just having a laugh.

Real arrogance is very unattractive, narcissistic, usually based in insecurity rather than confidence

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By *issmorganWoman
13 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Some couples are very arrogant too and think people are grateful for their attention.

It's not just a man thing, even some women are.

I'm straight and had a lady message me a while ago, wanting me to meet up with her. I told her I was straight and that it said so on my bio, she said I know, but thought you might still wanna meet me.

Err no, you won't suddenly make me not straight love.

It's a good filter.

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
13 weeks ago

London


"I hate the ones that treat you like a free sex worker, That you will drop everything to meet them for sex at the time and place of their choosing. This approach must always fail so why do it? "

☝️ This

So many profiles treating women like a service on here. Not even sharing a pic or keeping a decent conversation. Just demanding to meet them right now, in the middle of the night, during their busy business trip.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
13 weeks ago

Between Sudbury n Haverhill


"Wondering if any woman have come across arrogant men?

Like seriously there’s no need for it, puts me off wanting to be on here!"

I am 100% with you on this, men who think they have some god damn given right to fuck you because that’s what they want.

Mrs

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By *ikestokissMan
13 weeks ago

london


"OP .. I’m sure you have suffered arrogant men but don’t let the 100 bad apples spoil it for the occasional good ( moi) … lots of decent men and women on here … focus on the decent ones .. ignore the others …

"

Yes agreed, we would miss you

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By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Soho


"... ...don’t let the 100 bad apples spoil it for the occasional good (moi) … lots of decent men and women on here … focus on the decent ones .. ignore the others …"

Rest assured that the bad apples absolutely do not spoil it for the "decent men". I carve my own path on here and any success is down to my own actions and not the impediments of any bad actors on Fab. No one spoils anything for anyone.

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By *ustAnotherMan
13 weeks ago

Midlands

My member is not arrogant. It's quite humble

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By *eformed_CharactersCouple
13 weeks ago

round and about

Ive come across more arrogant women tbf

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By *weetRoseyxWoman
13 weeks ago

North West


"What’s arrogant to some people on forums is acceptable high confidence to others a lot depends on how well you know the person in real life and how much you can read between the lines and see they are just having a laugh.

Real arrogance is very unattractive, narcissistic, usually based in insecurity rather than confidence"

Good answer!

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By *weetRoseyxWoman
13 weeks ago

North West


"I hate the ones that treat you like a free sex worker, That you will drop everything to meet them for sex at the time and place of their choosing. This approach must always fail so why do it?

☝️ This

So many profiles treating women like a service on here. Not even sharing a pic or keeping a decent conversation. Just demanding to meet them right now, in the middle of the night, during their busy business trip. "

I concur! Some men think we are a given because we are on here, no escor service here and if it was, they couldn’t afford us anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
13 weeks ago

Torquay

I've been told that people who believe we are alone in the universe are arrogant yet they were unable to explain why, just a trite phrase taken from the internet I assume

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
13 weeks ago

Brum

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
13 weeks ago

Brum

To some, the words no thanks is arrogance personified.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
13 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

All sorts of people in this life are arrogant, entitled, rude, obnoxious etc etc etc. I find the block button helps on Fab and the 🖕🏻 button in real life.

They’re a waste of air

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By *he MinionMan
13 weeks ago

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"To some, the words no thanks is arrogance personified."

A "No thanks" from you though is possibly more heartbreaking than anything else

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