FabSwingers.com forum: too many men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't find that an issue.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Personally I disagree...

But there ARE way too many people who complain that they can't get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

Well do the rest of us a favour and bugger off

"sarcasm"

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

Errr that ll be the reason you ve not had much luck

what do you suggest,,!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also do not consider too many men a problem. In fact try organising a GB you will soon find out there's actually only 4 on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always send nice messages, and my private pics aren't bad. Yet no one replies

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I always send nice messages, and my private pics aren't bad. Yet no one replies

They need to be public pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to many men?

no such thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A defeatist attitude isn't a terribly big selling point. Remain positive and stick at it....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can't cos I'm married and need to be discreet. But I do know there are a lot of married ppl on here, and ppl who don't let on they're attached

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Trying to be positive mate, but its been months, and not even a chat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sell yourself. Highlight your attributes, get out to clubs and socials and get to know people through the forums and in the chat rooms.

Yes, its hard for us single guys but not impossible....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perhaps try putting the effort you spend on here into your marriage, then you wouldnt need to be on here in the first place...... just a suggestion

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"to many men?

no such thing

Buggar you beat me to it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Can't cos I'm married and need to be discreet. But I do know there are a lot of married ppl on here, and ppl who don't let on they're attached"

Ah-ha! In that case, simply put that you're married in your profile. Married men have an advantage of not being clingy, turning up as their meet time is valuable and are discreet. Put a torso pic up then. Put in your profile not only what you want but what you can offer, your age range is confusing. You have to put something of your personality into your profile. IMO it is a tad too bland. Make it stand out. Don't make me mention Jedi mind tricks.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Sell yourself. Highlight your attributes, get out to clubs and socials and get to know people through the forums and in the chat rooms.

Yes, its hard for us single guys but not impossible...."

Mine's hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually missed that you're married.

You need to be honest on your profile, people don't like being deceived...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sell yourself. Highlight your attributes, get out to clubs and socials and get to know people through the forums and in the chat rooms.

Yes, its hard for us single guys but not impossible....

Mine's hard

Lmao....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

Perhaps it's down to attitude rather than too many men?

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

"I also do not consider too many men a problem. In fact try organising a GB you will soon find out there's actually only 4 on here

Five, actually, thank you very much.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

im always amazed when men post numerous pics of their cock and nothing else and expect ladies to agree to meet them on the strength of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Can't cos I'm married and need to be discreet. But I do know there are a lot of married ppl on here, and ppl who don't let on they're attached"

this may have occured to you..

ask your OH to join you, and meet other couples, single fems and guys for her etc..?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

This town ain't big enough for the both of us

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Personally I disagree...

But there ARE way too many people who complain that they can't get a meet

Amen to that sister!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"im always amazed when men post numerous pics of their cock and nothing else and expect ladies to agree to meet them on the strength of that "

It always amazes me why married men start threads about not getting meets!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

This town ain't big enough for the both of us

But I ain't gonna leave.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"im always amazed when men post numerous pics of their cock and nothing else and expect ladies to agree to meet them on the strength of that

It always amazes me why married men start threads about not getting meets!

yes, the sense of entitlement..

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

This town ain't big enough for the both of us

But I ain't gonna leave. "

the pace of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't cos I'm married and need to be discreet. But I do know there are a lot of married ppl on here, and ppl who don't let on they're attached"

People just like you then!!

Nobody would have known you are married from your profile!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't cos I'm married and need to be discreet. But I do know there are a lot of married ppl on here, and ppl who don't let on they're attached"

Now i see this as a problem because you are pretending to be single when in fact you are not and if someone meets a person like you then the rest of us get tarred with the same brush.

Now you either need to get a couples account or talk to your wife about the reason you are not getting any.All you are doing is adding to the amount of single men on here when the reality is that you are already taken and spoiling it for the rest of us geniunly single men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always state I'm married in my messages and explain why I'm looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

I could lend you a frock

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I always state I'm married in my messages and explain why I'm looking "

without putting even more of a downer on you....A lot of women won't meet as you are married...

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

lol soo agree with you on that point. given up trying to organise gb

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Look at all the other similar posts on this issue, and there are clear defined aspects to deal with.

You have been on here only 3 months; is some respects, you are still a mere beginner! You have to give it time!!

If you thought this could be an "Instant Fix" site, think again!

Your profile, whilst it gives some details, lacks other information. Like, why you can't accommodate, which is a negative point unless you explain why!

Ditch the cock pics to private use only! You need to get a face pic included; look at things this way, if you went out on a meet, you wouldn't recognise people by their genitals, you'd know them by their faces!!

You need to get out to socials, or clubs in your area. Get on the Forums.

Yes, you are competing against many other guys but in short, you have to "sell yourself", get noticed and stand out against the rest of them.

But, as you've indicated in responses to this post, that you do inform anyone approaching you that you are actually married and what you seek, but then you don't get any further, doesn't that tell you something about your lack of honesty in your Profile?

People want to see clear and honest details.

Be honest from the start.

That way, you might get somewhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

There's not enough it would be even better if we had even more to choose from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's too many men that complain on this site...

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"There's too many men that complain on this site...

you gota luve the wingie 1s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's too many men that complain on this site...

you gota luve the wingie 1s

Oh i do, they're my nightly entertainment lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's too many men that complain on this site...

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"There's too many men that complain on this site...

you gota luve the wingie 1s

Oh i do, they're my nightly entertainment lol

pmsl yep mine to it seems

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

I tend to work by the union matra "last one in... first one out"... so do the decent thing... seeya!!!!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

lmao crawl to be kind lolol

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

although on the positive side,your wife's only been on here for a couple of months,and she's had plenty of meets.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I tend to work by the union matra "last one in... first one out"... so do the decent thing... seeya!!!!

Oh Mr T, I was expecting some sympathy and advice at the very least lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

although on the positive side,your wife's only been on here for a couple of months,and she's had plenty of meets.

I literally spit my tea out laffing then..........plz dont do it again it hurts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

Rewritten my description, and uploaded new pics. Hope it brings more success lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wrote" leave no clues or traces "

No fun for a game of hide and seek then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

Diddums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

Diddums

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

Diddums

pmsl"

Lol, picked the wrong place for sympathy

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Rewritten my description, and uploaded new pics. Hope it brings more success lol

Looks a lot better, go dude go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I'm new here but there's plenty men even though I'm mature but speaking as a woman I wouldn't touch a married man with someone elses cos I wouldn't like 2 think if I was married my husband would be on a site like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I disagree...

But there ARE way too many people who complain that they can't get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There maybe alot of men, which is never a bad thing. But its hard to find men who dont keep cancelling on meets. Too many are all talk and no action

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

more men with big cocks and pics the better I say...

preferably their own cock on display, but not essential

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By *icechap50Man
over a year ago

Dudley

Too many blokes true

Simples no good moaning

Must Try Harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't think thats the case at all. i would say that the ratio of single men to single women isn't remotely even but theres still enough to go round

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"I also do not consider too many men a problem. In fact try organising a GB you will soon find out there's actually only 4 on here

Hahahaha! I hear that!

- Amy. x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I would remind you that lots will delete knowing your married. If you were single then your chances would increase x

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By *icechap50Man
over a year ago

Dudley

I've started divorce proceedings,haven't lived with the ex for 2 years.

How do I become classed as single on here

Any advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've started divorce proceedings,haven't lived with the ex for 2 years.

How do I become classed as single on here

Any advice

I'd simply write it in your profile. Most women will class that as single enough for swinging mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always state I'm married in my messages and explain why I'm looking "

And you wonder why they get deleted???? Hmmm real puzzler.that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

You're right OP - there's way too many of us!

So because i'm such a charitable soul I shall delete my profile this very night at the stroke of midnight - and in the meantime will rally as many other kindly souls to join me and redress the uneven balance of boobs vs balls to aid you in your quest for meets!

*of course I reserve the right to change my mind should I get an offer of a meet before midnight!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Too many men?

Not enough time more like.

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By *oxerjoshleeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I don't bother sending messages. Getting to know people on the forums and chat rooms has worked better for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

honesty is the best policy ..state clearly what your status is and be polite and honest in your messages. I have been here a while have had some fantastic meets and met some fantastic people. Thats what this is about not notches on your bedpost. Relax be genuine and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've cracked your problem here old bean! Your arse looks sad. Grab yourself a marker pen, maybe a jolly green colour (any colour would do) and draw a smiley face on your arse photograph and post!!!!!! The flood gates should open......

No need to thank me shagger!!pleasure.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

You're right OP - there's way too many of us!

*of course I reserve the right to change my mind should I get an offer of a meet before midnight!"

Cheers

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I don't bother sending messages. Getting to know people on the forums and chat rooms has worked better for me. "

These words he speaks are true, never sent a first message in over 4 yrs now and still get a few meets

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

You're right OP - there's way too many of us!

*of course I reserve the right to change my mind should I get an offer of a meet before midnight!"

Errrr you've got one booked in for the social. Don't dare bugger off before then !!

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

lol

because guys really cant think , we had to block guys because they just cant read , just look at pictures , WHATS HARD TO READ ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"to many men?

no such thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages

You're right OP - there's way too many of us!

*of course I reserve the right to change my mind should I get an offer of a meet before midnight!

Errrr you've got one booked in for the social. Don't dare bugger off before then !! "

So I have!

Sorry OP - i'm staying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's not too many men, there's a shortage of men who actually look like their pics, turn up when they say they will and can politely take no for an answer!

Oh and that can use correct punctuation too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's not too many men, there's a shortage of men who actually look like their pics, turn up when they say they will and can politely take no for an answer!

Oh and that can use correct punctuation too...

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's not too many men, there's a shortage of men who actually look like their pics, turn up when they say they will and can politely take no for an answer!

Oh and that can use correct punctuation too...

Spot on

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"I think I've cracked your problem here old bean! Your arse looks sad. Grab yourself a marker pen, maybe a jolly green colour (any colour would do) and draw a smiley face on your arse photograph and post!!!!!! The flood gates should open......

No need to thank me shagger!!pleasure.......

Actually, PLEASE do this?!

- Amy. x

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