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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Some people find they attract people with problems, minor and bigger ones. Some people have a natural trend to advise others.

What are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oiiiiiiiiiiii this had better not be aimed at me ..................

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"oiiiiiiiiiiii this had better not be aimed at me .................. "
Noooooo, not at all. I did not even think about you when I wrote it but that said, come to think....;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

deeply hurt u weren't thinking of me ........ gonna strop off and sulk now and appear on my own thread ...........

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's a bit of give and take.

I have had people come into my life, particularly at work, where I was there at the right time to be of help.

It has taken me a long time to allow people to help me but they are there.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I attract people with problems. Even if I'm sitting quietly waiting for a bus someone will start talking to me about a problem

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"oiiiiiiiiiiii this had better not be aimed at me .................. Noooooo, not at all. I did not even think about you when I wrote it but that said, come to think....;-)"

So it was me then

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"oiiiiiiiiiiii this had better not be aimed at me .................. Noooooo, not at all. I did not even think about you when I wrote it but that said, come to think....;-)

So it was me then "
OMG nooooo - I had nobody in mind - I wsa just daydreaming, minding my own business...

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I attract people with problems. Even if I'm sitting quietly waiting for a bus someone will start talking to me about a problem "
You probably give off vibes of being a good listener.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"It's a bit of give and take.

I have had people come into my life, particularly at work, where I was there at the right time to be of help.

It has taken me a long time to allow people to help me but they are there."
I think it is so much harder to receive than to give. For me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oiiiiiiiiiiii this had better not be aimed at me .................. Noooooo, not at all. I did not even think about you when I wrote it but that said, come to think....;-)

So it was me then OMG nooooo - I had nobody in mind - I wsa just daydreaming, minding my own business..."

haha u have really landed yourself in trouble all by yourself here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup i attract people with problems/issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a bit of give and take.

I have had people come into my life, particularly at work, where I was there at the right time to be of help.

It has taken me a long time to allow people to help me but they are there.I think it is so much harder to receive than to give. For me anyway "

speak for yourself lovey ......... oh u did

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have learned the hard way, now I don't and can be quite cold about it... I wish the people no ill will but I don't want to be central to any solution

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"It's a bit of give and take.

I have had people come into my life, particularly at work, where I was there at the right time to be of help.

It has taken me a long time to allow people to help me but they are there.I think it is so much harder to receive than to give. For me anyway

speak for yourself lovey ......... oh u did "

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I have learned the hard way, now I don't and can be quite cold about it... I wish the people no ill will but I don't want to be central to any solution"
And at the end of teh day you cannot make decisions for anybody - they have to find what is right for them themselves, dont they.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I attract people with problems. Even if I'm sitting quietly waiting for a bus someone will start talking to me about a problem You probably give off vibes of being a good listener. "

I've got the kind of face that people want to talk at (or smack lol) and I will chat to just about anybody.

But I don't mind listening and offereing the occasional word of advice if asked.

Slightly at a tangent. I was in a shop with my parents (86, 79) and an elderly gent commented on the biscuits I was putting in my basket, we exchanged a few good humoured words and I moved on. I looked back and my father was chatting to him , they were laughing and were there for about ten minutes. On the way home my dad said that the man was recently widowed, in his eighties and very lonely and that brief chat with both of us had made him feel less so.

That's why I don't really mind people chatting to me

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I attract people with problems. Even if I'm sitting quietly waiting for a bus someone will start talking to me about a problem You probably give off vibes of being a good listener.

I've got the kind of face that people want to talk at (or smack lol) and I will chat to just about anybody.

But I don't mind listening and offereing the occasional word of advice if asked.

Slightly at a tangent. I was in a shop with my parents (86, 79) and an elderly gent commented on the biscuits I was putting in my basket, we exchanged a few good humoured words and I moved on. I looked back and my father was chatting to him , they were laughing and were there for about ten minutes. On the way home my dad said that the man was recently widowed, in his eighties and very lonely and that brief chat with both of us had made him feel less so.

That's why I don't really mind people chatting to me "
Aw, that is so sweet - and I know what you mean - that is why I dont mind talking or rather listening to people either. You never know what they have going on in their lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really have time for those who seem to attract issues, intentionally or otherwise, and forever seeking help/advice/sympathy/whatever from others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've spent many many years fixing people, problems and things.

Sadly, it took many years to realise that I never took time to fix the things wrong in my life - because I was too busy finding solutions for everyone else.

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