FabSwingers.com forum: Message admin

By *enegadeM OP Man
9 weeks ago

Witney

Evening fab loves

So when do you do your ‘fab admin’? Try to answer your messages?

Do you trawl rough? Or just reach a number and mass delete ?

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By *aomilatteCouple
9 weeks ago

Midlands

When we find time in our busy schedule we'll look through the average of two messages a week we get, then reply if interested.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
9 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Avatar + cock = delete without reading

No avatar or pics on profile = delete without reading as they’ve gone against my settings.

Anything else is a read their profile, if they don’t spark anything for me = delete

So I’d say I reply to 1 in 100

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
9 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.

Single male with straight on their profile is most likely a delete as it shows they havent looked at our profile.

Single male who isn't chubby/fat is a delete because of the same.

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By *omeones GrumpMan
9 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

I don't have to as I don't get messages

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
9 weeks ago

Next Door

Delete quite a few after seeing the profile/ message. I also read and don't reply and then I do a mass admin clear out about every few months

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By *iss DevilWoman
9 weeks ago

Bedford

My filters are up so I don't get many messages. But I like to deal with them as and when.

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By *ellinever70Woman
9 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I like to be efficient

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I use a fair few filters, so I don't get loads of mail.

I just delete them one by one.

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By *viatrixWoman
9 weeks ago

Redhill

I don’t get like 2,000 messages at a time. I get them in batches of 3-5 throughout the day. I am not working atm so can deal with them as and when they arrive. Of those, say, 50-80 messages I get, I might reply to 2. Maybe more if I am extremely bored 🤣 but I am on relative caring duties now so not much time!

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By *illan-KillashMan
9 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

My admin is pretty straightforward, I only get 2 types of message:

1 you've spent a fiver

2 you've won a holiday

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By *ealitybitesMan
9 weeks ago

Belfast

Apologies to all of those who aren't messaging me due to my apparent bulging inbox.

Two messages a year is no laughing matter and you've no idea of the stress involved in keeping everyone happy. 🙃

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By *_hot_hornyCouple
9 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

Depends if we're actively looking for a meet or not. When we're looking then we check and reply throughout the day, otherwise we end up with hundreds of messages and get a bit overwhelmed!

If we're not looking then tend to just go through them late at night - spent over an hour going through them last night and still have 80 unread! 😑

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

I deal with them as and when they appear. It's not a daunting task as we receive about 5 a week

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Avatar + cock = delete without reading

No avatar or pics on profile = delete without reading as they’ve gone against my settings.

Anything else is a read their profile, if they don’t spark anything for me = delete

So I’d say I reply to 1 in 100

This sounds pretty accurate to me. 👌

Generally my partner deals with message admin on the couples profile and she's pretty brutal. On here I'm never in a rush. I've had 2 unread sat for a week.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

Most of the messages I get are deleted straightaway just by looking at the first line to me. If it's gross or sounds copy/pasted then I won't open it, I won't look at the profile. Just delete.

From what's left, I might respond to 20% of them. The others don't get a response mostly because they shift the weight of making conversation to me and I've got no time for that.

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