FabSwingers.com forum: Sex with the lights on or off?

By *hagTonight OP Man
12 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I actually like both, it depends more on the situation and the mood I am in. I actually think it is alot sexier when it is off, well not totally off but slightly dimmed down, what I do then Is to have the door slightly open to let the in, the reason I dont want it toally dark is because I want to enjoy the view, when the lady is riding me.

It would be interesting to see what you prefer, are you like me and like both ways or do you just like one way with the lights off?

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By *mmaleiaWoman
12 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Lights on, all the time

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By *amilla99TV/TS
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

Lights on for me. Why would you not want to be able to see what you were doing?

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By *ude LawMan
12 weeks ago

Harrogate

"what I do then Is to have the door slightly open to let the in"

But when is a door not a door?

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
12 weeks ago

nottinghamshire

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By *ray_BTWMan
12 weeks ago

Worcester

Definitely subdued lighting for me....

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By *otsowickedCouple
12 weeks ago

Galway

Lights on definitely 😈

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
12 weeks ago

Southport

Lights on, or off with a few candles etc if a romantic atmosphere is in order

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
12 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Why would I want them off? So I can imagine you’re someone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I want the lights in, but understand if people don’t want to have to look at me

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By *uncouple153Couple
12 weeks ago

Abergavenny

Dimmed lights but lights on

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By *ellhungvweMan
12 weeks ago

Cheltenham

On. How else is her hubby going to watch?

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By *race in LaceWoman
12 weeks ago

Preston

Lights on with the blinds open x

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Lights on and mirrors please 🤭😍

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Lights on. With mirrors, blinds open, curtains open and cameras rolling.

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By *.R.MMan
12 weeks ago

Norfolk

Floodlights on

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By *agic.MMan
12 weeks ago

Orpington

The chances of accidental anal is higher with lights off...statistically speaking

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"The chances of accidental anal is higher with lights off...statistically speaking"

I would like deep, intentional anal please

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By *a LunaWoman
12 weeks ago

o o OO o o

I don’t care. Sex is sex!

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By *dventurous biMan
12 weeks ago

tesside

Whilst it’s good to be able to see the reaction on a partners face and to be able to be certain that you’re touching a boob and not upper arm it can also be intensely sensual to be together in a room that is totally blacked out.

Undressing and exploring each other by feel alone.

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By *oneyBee200Woman
12 weeks ago

Kent

Soft lighting like a small lamp.

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By *luerooMan
12 weeks ago

Bridgwater

lights off normally, if they dont have a bag to stick over my head

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By *ustlooking18Man
12 weeks ago

Dingwall

Preferably on but it's not normally something I'm even aware of it the time

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
12 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

Either is fine but if lights are on I'm probably cumming quicker because, well, my wife is super hot and that ass is... 🥵

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By *vaRoseWoman
12 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Depends on the context

*I love seeing natural sunlight on skin so that works for me.

*Nice lighting from lamps works beautifully on an evening.

*Candlelight on skin is just beautiful

*Natural light in the dawn and dusk is muted but very much appreciated

*total darkness at 3 am when you wake up needing, and reach for them in bed

What I don’t like is the big light on or glaring fluorescent overhead lights

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By *etwife8230Couple
12 weeks ago

Newport

Younger slimmer no wrinkle me lights off . Middle aged me couldn't give a fuck x

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By *eyond PurityCouple
12 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

"Depends on the context

*I love seeing natural sunlight on skin so that works for me.

*Nice lighting from lamps works beautifully on an evening.

*Candlelight on skin is just beautiful

*Natural light in the dawn and dusk is muted but very much appreciated

*total darkness at 3 am when you wake up needing, and reach for them in bed

What I don’t like is the big light on or glaring fluorescent overhead lights

This ☝️

We also have a (light up) canvas over the bed that bathes the room in a golden glow. It's very sexy

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple
12 weeks ago

Preston

Easy with either.

If you are having sex whilst fantasising about having sex with someone else, lights off is good 👍

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By *ature bi couple61Couple
12 weeks ago

Derby

Both are good

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By *sStephenPickleMan
12 weeks ago

Ends

I don’t like big lights. But light is ok. On or off is good. But not the big light.

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By *avid 50Man
12 weeks ago

kendal

lights on for me I love to see the expressions on her face I love to see her breast swinging and body movement, it all part of the pleasure for me and my partner

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Off with the cost of electricity these days

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By *uffhoundMan
12 weeks ago

Bourne, Lincolnshire

Depends who I'm with

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By *rHotNottsMan
12 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I like low light. I have Turkish lamps each side of my bed. My eyes get sensitive to light at night, but I still like to see my food

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By *hornyx69Man
12 weeks ago

Folkestone

Lights on

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By *histle do nicelyMan
12 weeks ago

Glasgow South

Depends who it is

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
12 weeks ago

Voldsøy

No big, bright light. Dim lighting's good. I don't mind darkness tbh. 🤷‍♀️

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I am not spending hours getting ready just to turn the lights off! He better bloody well look at me and be amazed that he pulled all this!

Plus I like to see what I'm doing, and his face when he climaxes. 🤭

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
12 weeks ago

South Wales

Lights on, I like to see everything and my husband watches. I prefer lamps and fairy lights to a top light though xx 😄

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By *hagTonight OP Man
12 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"Lights on, all the time"
Hi _mmaleia, that is good to have the lights on all the time too

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By *estructionDollyWoman
12 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

Agree with the "not the big light" comments but a lamp/fairy lights/daylight yes! I like seeing what I'm doing.

If you wake up in the middle of the night/early morning with the horn the lights are staying off though.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
12 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"Definitely subdued lighting for me...."
That is good

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By *aizyWoman
12 weeks ago

west midlands

On or off, don't mind either way.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
12 weeks ago

Ends

"Agree with the "not the big light" comments but a lamp/fairy lights/daylight yes! I like seeing what I'm doing.

If you wake up in the middle of the night/early morning with the horn the lights are staying off though. "

I miss that middle of the night sex. Sigh.

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
12 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I dont mind as long as the sex is good

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
12 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

If she’s a munter, the lights off.

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By *r SensualMan
12 weeks ago

London

Lights on for me, albeit dimly to create a sense of ambience. Not about fucking in the dark at all

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"If she’s a munter, the lights off. "

Oh, this explains why guys always switch the lights off with me.

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By *iverstMan
12 weeks ago

Rossendale

"Lights on and mirrors please 🤭😍"

This - the vusual aspect is a huge plus

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

If I shagged a local it would have to be in the dark. Cause they nicked the lightbulbs.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
12 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

"If she’s a munter, the lights off.

Oh, this explains why guys always switch the lights off with me. "

It’s not. I also do that if the credit in the electric is running low. You might still be alright on the eye.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
12 weeks ago

Kent

Low light is good but definitely lights on

Mrs x

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By *apybarasCouple
12 weeks ago

High Lighthouse

That's about 99% lights on then!

Us too. Though mostly so I don't trip over when going for a wee...

Mr C.

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By *y serendipityCouple
12 weeks ago

Warrington

Lights on, but not if he had woke me up in the middle of the night 😉

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
12 weeks ago

Up North

"Low light is good but definitely lights on

Mrs x"

Low lighting is ideal. Stimulates my senses more and I love being able to see our shadows.

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By *inicaCouple
12 weeks ago

Whitton

Oh I love it in the dark. I find that it makes all my senses come alive. The naughty hands that come out of nowhere, the hot moans and groans that can only be heard. Mmmmmm

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By *hagTonight OP Man
12 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"I dont mind as long as the sex is good

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Hi pollypocket, that is good you dont mind, as long as the sex is good too

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By *NormalMan01Man
12 weeks ago

Harrogate

If it’s when it’s dark outside, mood lighting. Otherwise, if you’ve lights on in the daytime, I’ll just assume you’re “at it.”

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By *ornyCouple2049Couple
12 weeks ago

Cockermouth

Dim mood lighting

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By *97doubledipCouple
12 weeks ago

Newcastle under Lyme

Always on for me

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By *ripfillMan
12 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Lights on … but not bright strip lights but naked low lights

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By *r.EdibleMan
12 weeks ago

Fraserburgh

It depends what time it is really, late at night you want mood lighting (- I actually like the tv on for light at night), anything earlier you could have floodlights on as far as I'm concerned, but never in the dark.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
12 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I can dim the lights in the bedroom, so if they are needed it's normal set to 25% power.

I can feel my way around a body/bodies.

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By *linyMan
12 weeks ago

Manchester/London

Lights off, candles lit

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By *akedMMan
12 weeks ago

Witney

Dimmed lights . Even better if you have smart bulbs you can change the colours

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By *exyScientistsCouple
12 weeks ago

Castlebar

Flashing

Like a disco 😊🧡💛💚💜💙

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By *aughtywelsh89Man
12 weeks ago

Pontyclun

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By *ikestokissMan
12 weeks ago

london

"On. How else is her hubby going to watch?"

Haha of course, and clean up

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By *ikestokissMan
12 weeks ago

london

As the cost of electricity is so high, and I go aaaalll night, has to be off I am afraid

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By *inkyropecoupleCouple
12 weeks ago

carluke

On. Lights off is just a bit creepy!

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
12 weeks ago

North West

On or ambient lighting - I want to see the sex faces

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By *enegadeMMan
12 weeks ago

Witney

Love being able to look into eyes …. Dimmed ??

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By *entmike76Man
12 weeks ago

bury

On i want to see everything

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By *r Man45Man
12 weeks ago

North West

Always have the lights on when I'm driving, don't want to take a wrong turn and end up on a dirt track

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By *partharmonyCouple
12 weeks ago

Ruislip

We usually have sex in the daytime. We're too tired when it's dark.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
12 weeks ago

North West

"Always have the lights on when I'm driving, don't want to take a wrong turn and end up on a dirt track

It’s good to go off road sometimes 😜

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
12 weeks ago

North West

"Love being able to look into eyes …. Dimmed ?? "

Look into my eyes, look into my eyes, the eyes, the eyes, not around the eyes, don't look around the eyes, look into my eyes. [click] You're under! 🍭

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By *ewtfaceMan
12 weeks ago

Bracknell

On ~ .

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By *om Guy caregiverMan
12 weeks ago

Greater Manchester

Me too

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By *om Guy caregiverMan
12 weeks ago

Greater Manchester

Me too

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
12 weeks ago

scunthorpe

I prefer the lights off, I hate the thought of Sean watching me

but he would have the lights on every time

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By *ikestokissMan
12 weeks ago

london

Great way to tease your husband when allowed to stay in the room

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By *hagTonight OP Man
12 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"Oh I love it in the dark. I find that it makes all my senses come alive. The naughty hands that come out of nowhere, the hot moans and groans that can only be heard. Mmmmmm"
Hi _inica, that is good you love the dark, yes, it is the same here, it also makes all my senses come alive too

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By *tr8MrEMan
12 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

Blacklight blue everywhere...you can surprise the lady in your life by fucking like she's in a Jackson Pollock painting 🤣🤣

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By *over500Man
12 weeks ago

Scotland

😳😳😳

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By *hagTonight OP Man
12 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"Lights on and mirrors please 🤭😍"
Hi misskxxyv, that is good with the lights on and mirrors too

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By *uke OzadeMan
12 weeks ago

Ho Chi Minge City

This ^

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By *ot manMan
12 weeks ago

long eaton

Lights off

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By *ot manMan
12 weeks ago

long eaton

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By *ot manMan
12 weeks ago

long eaton

"what I do then Is to have the door slightly open to let the in

But when is a door not a door?"
. when it’s ajar

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By *orkieBar1000Man
12 weeks ago

York

Dimmed, or bedside lights. Not the big light!

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By *hagTonight OP Man
12 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"On or ambient lighting - I want to see the sex faces "
Hi curvesandmischief, that is good to have it on or ambient lighting too

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By *easeandplease99Man
12 weeks ago

exeter

On, love watching a womans face as i make her cum, and love watching tits bounce around in cowgirl position

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By *illowzWoman
12 weeks ago

Exeter

Off but not totally pitch black if that makes sense?

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By *burns7Man
12 weeks ago

walsall

Dark room can be hot

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By *ondonlad90Man
12 weeks ago

London

Lights on I think

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By *im le2Man
12 weeks ago

AYLESTONE

You chose to make love to me so why wouldn't you want to see everything.

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