FabSwingers.com forum: Meet verified

By *outheastman1992 OP Man
9 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Is it hard to get that? Seems like that’s what everyone wants for even a message back! Have to start somewhere Jesus!

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By *electableicecreamMan
9 weeks ago

The West

It may increase your chance a reply by about 3.7%

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By *rangesmartieWoman
9 weeks ago

Devon

"Is it hard to get that? Seems like that’s what everyone wants for even a message back! Have to start somewhere Jesus!"

Find a local social event, munch, or club that you can attend (may require a verification video call beforehand). Good way to get verified and meet some people with zero expectations

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By *ddie dMan
9 weeks ago

bolton

It's hard as a single guy, I had a few when I was here previously but found it really difficult when I returned, it is a bit of a domino effect though once you have your first you will get more credibility and assuming you're a nice guy you should be able to get more.

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By *riel13Woman
9 weeks ago

Northampton

It might help with some... Some also use it to let you down gently, so to speak

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
9 weeks ago

mid glam

Omg OP it's been 2 weeks and no veri, that's just laziness

Lol

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

Personally I would have waited two months before posing that question on the forå. Two weeks is nothing OP. Get yourself to a Fab group social and make some new acquaintances. 🩶

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
9 weeks ago

Portstewart

Plenty of social events about the place or try starting a help a fabber thread for your part of the country and see if you can organise something for lots of people

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By *punk n gushCouple
9 weeks ago

deal

Don't think it matters if your verified or not meets can still be hard to get

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
9 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

"Is it hard to get that? Seems like that’s what everyone wants for even a message back! Have to start somewhere Jesus!"
is that all you think it takes just to be ‘verified’ & your in the club sort of speak

you still got to put your graft in & make yourself more appealing you youngsters have no clue do you

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By *outheastman1992 OP Man
9 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Think I got this place wrong, thought it was just a I feel horney who’s up for place and your find someone hahaha

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By *rangesmartieWoman
9 weeks ago

Devon

"Think I got this place wrong, thought it was just a I feel horney who’s up for place and your find someone hahaha"

Yep definitely wrong

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Think I got this place wrong, thought it was just a I feel horney who’s up for place and your find someone hahaha"

Better to realise that now, than in a year or so. 🤷‍♂️

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Think I got this place wrong, thought it was just a I feel horney who’s up for place and your find someone hahaha"

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I take it back. I think you were wise to raise your query now and not in two months!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Central

At least you're somewhat better informed now. It could give you the impetus to adjust your expectations and strategy

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

"It may increase your chance a reply by about 3.7%

That’s a 1.3% growth on last year.

In the words of M people. “ moving on up, moving on up “

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

No it's pretty easy actually it just requires a little effort.

Go to a social and ask.

Go to a club and ask.

Get out there and meet people, it's very easy. But then again it's effort isn't it and it should just be an easy lay.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
9 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Took me a year & a half to get a Meet Verification

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Tell me about it! Nobody wants me without the elusive verification.

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By *nsaneronMan
9 weeks ago

PO7

I thought it was just me lol

I had loads when it was a couples account when I changed it to a single account all vary’s were removed so had to start again. I’m not a fan of the club scene as a single guy. Talking in the forums helps as more people replay than straight messages. Plus remember women have such a varied choice on here.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
9 weeks ago

Altrincham

"Is it hard to get that? Seems like that’s what everyone wants for even a message back! Have to start somewhere Jesus!"

I'd rather speak to someone who's verified because there are a lot of people out there *waves arms about* who time waste, ghost, catfish and I've been in all three of those situations. So my personal preference is verified

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By *teveanddebsCouple
9 weeks ago

Norwich

"Is it hard to get that? Seems like that’s what everyone wants for even a message back! Have to start somewhere Jesus!"

Have people actually told you that?

Or are you gong by what other people, assume?

Veris are one of the last things we look at, if we bother looking at them.

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By *rSircumsizedMan
9 weeks ago

Risca

No efforts required, just bombarded women with messages until one sticks. Works a treat.

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By *he MinionMan
9 weeks ago

I recall many years ago when i was young dumb and full of cum. The catch 22 dilema of verification.

Cant get a meet because i'm not verified cant get a verification without a meet. At the time i thought being meet verified would open the pandoras box of sexual exploration and fulfillment.

The meet verification is not the key to this world that many believe it is.

Getting yourself out there, socials, clubs, the forum, this is the key in my opinion. The veri's will come. But being a social butterfly is what opens doors in this world.

In my opinion.

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By *he MinionMan
9 weeks ago

Being hung, six packed and an adonis also helps.

And cake, apparently

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By *apperleymanMan
9 weeks ago

Leicester

"Tell me about it! Nobody wants me without the elusive verification. "

I find that hard to believe frankly..

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I think it's more important that single men are verified to some, probably those who have been stood up or messed about.

However I've only been stood up once on here, years ago and guess what, he was verified.

Verifications only show people have turned up in the past, they don't guarantee they'll turn up to any future meets.

I like the ones that confirm they are like their pics though.

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By *im le2Man
9 weeks ago

AYLESTONE

Tricky question.

Remember most men are str8 on this site so don't want ppl to know they've met 50 men and 2 women.

It took me about a year to get my first verification but when I did I went and verified all the ppl I'd met so they could of they wanted to verify me.

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By *illybeachboyMan
9 weeks ago

Guernsey

I only verify after an actual meet.

Verifying after just messaging is pointless, only an idiot would do it.

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By *ame not takenMan
9 weeks ago

South Devon

It's difficult for a single guy, because there are so many for the ladies to choose from, you have to make yourself stand out.

Catchment area also makes a difference, not catching anything, throw you net further.

All a can say is be genuine, don't be a dick.

Yes veris helps to break down a barrier because it shows you are genuine, also be prepared for the long game too.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
9 weeks ago

Herts

"Is it hard to get that? Seems like that’s what everyone wants for even a message back! Have to start somewhere Jesus!"
It's relatively easy

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By *ngrylookingpenis123Woman
9 weeks ago

"Think I got this place wrong, thought it was just a I feel horney who’s up for place and your find someone hahaha"

Lots of men join with that misconception

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By *ikesEmBigMan
9 weeks ago

Herts

Are you telling me that waving my willy around isn't guaranteed fanny. Ffs. I need to rethink my life choices

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By *tlanshiaWoman
9 weeks ago

Chatham

Find a social and attend. I got two of my veris from a club

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
9 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

"Omg OP it's been 2 weeks and no veri, that's just laziness

Lol"

A women would have had one in 3 hrs.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
9 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

"Is it hard to get that? Seems like that’s what everyone wants for even a message back! Have to start somewhere Jesus!"

Yes, it’s hard for a guy.

But don’t think it’s a race and don’t rush.

Take your time finding someone you like the sound of, but the best way to get a verification, if that’s important to you, is get to an organised social.

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By *randMrsShebaCouple
9 weeks ago

Birmingham

When they say they are verified by lots of people it's a turn off for us.

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By *randMrsShebaCouple
9 weeks ago

Birmingham

Fab is a difficult side quest

It's not the main story line

That's the maker of the games fault. There are better games. I would only casually play this game as a single guy.

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