FabSwingers.com forum: what's wrong with people?

By *ingdang OP TV/TS
9 weeks ago

manchester

Someone approached me and asked for a meet. I agreed and just a few hours before the meet, I found myself blocked.

Seriously, what's wrong with people? Where is the respect, decency and politeness? Why approach someone who you don't want to meet? This site really bring out the worst of humanity. Such a shame!

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

His loss, you look amazing x

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By *sWyldWoman
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

He obviously had his wank over the idea then he was done.

Remember it says more about them than you.

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By *eliWoman
9 weeks ago

Sorry to read this OP, sometimes people are crappy.

Did you do something else to take your mind off of it a little?

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By *obilebottomMan
9 weeks ago

All over

Sadly there are plentu of odd people. Of course someone can change their mind but there are decent ways to communicate that. At least you had not set off for somewhere and they did then. Sorry btw.

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By *maginitivemindMan
9 weeks ago

nottingham

"He obviously had his wank over the idea then he was done.

Remember it says more about them than you. "

😂😂 definitely does say more about them

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By *hickthighs25Woman
9 weeks ago

Stockton

Maybe your sexiness was too much for them. There loss. Hope you had a good night either way.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Someone approached me and asked for a meet. I agreed and just a few hours before the meet, I found myself blocked.

Seriously, what's wrong with people? Where is the respect, decency and politeness? Why approach someone who you don't want to meet? This site really bring out the worst of humanity. Such a shame!

OK. I'll ask the usual questions.

Was it all arranged via a couple of messages on here over a very briwf timescale, or did you chat for a while, speak to them on the phone, actually verify as much as possible they were who they claimed via a quick video chat or a coffee somewhere?

Because putting all your faith in words on a screen from a stranger will sadly increase the risk of being ghosted, catfished and having your time wasted.

There's much due diligence that can be done to minimise the chances of being let down. 🤷‍♂️

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
9 weeks ago

Portstewart

The person obviously came too quickly and didn't want the shame of being a quick squirter

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By *ingdang OP TV/TS
9 weeks ago

manchester

I did talk to him for a good few months, while I was on holiday abroad. I just came back a week ago. So it was not just a few messages, but had long conversations before. And this made me feel quite sad that people treat each other like this.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
9 weeks ago

North West

I was meant to have a meet last month, middle of April. Day of the planned social. Was ghosted and blocked. Made me feel like a right dickhead.

Sadly OP people are twats. Onwards and upwards though.

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By *inky PerkyCouple
9 weeks ago

Kingston

Timewasters are rife on here unfortunately.

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By *haiababeWoman
9 weeks ago

North devon

It's hapoened to me too with someone i had been talking to for a while. Although i dontake it as part and parcelmof whatnhappebs on herem it still pisses me off a bit.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Kent

Most people are selfish dicks nowadays. Selfish, self absorbed, self obsessed and self serving. They don't seem to understand basic manners or courtesy. Consider yourself a better person and move on in the knowledge you dodged a bullet.

Mrs x

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By *iscrete GloryholeMan
9 weeks ago

Ashford kent

Sadly..very common on here..

Men get guilt(with me) mainly, enjoy the chase but cant follow through, as god forgive they would enjoy it.. it shatters their fragile ego's. Leaves them questioning their fragile sexuality.. what I do for the record has sweet F all to do with sexuality.. but they can't see that..

.. or feel they have built up by chatting stuff about themselves that when they have to "prove" it to you..they fold..like a cheap knapkins...

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By *orbidden eastMan
9 weeks ago

london dodging electric bikes

Unfortunately, happened in here OP

Try not to let it put you off and I think there will be plenty of other willing candidates in this funny place

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By *aybeLadyWoman
9 weeks ago

West Dublin

Takes all sorts of gobshites to make the world spin.

Just count your blessings you wont have to interact with someone like that. They actually did you a favour x

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By *ove2lick27Man
9 weeks ago

Sheffield

He probably has no intention of meeting anybody and just here to wind genuine people up. There's more of them than us.

Keep smiling. He wouldn't have been worth anymore of your time.

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By *rucking-HellMan
9 weeks ago

Northampton

Welcome to Fab. You must be new around here.

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