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By *ref OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Right up your street

Folks I’m curious what your first impressions are like on my profile.

Too crude? Too tame?

I’m looking to meet couples and girls so I’d value their feedback the most: that’s not to say there isn’t knowledge in our male populace

I know everyone is different, which is why I guess you get mixed input from people either looking for more, or less, penis pics

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By *vaRoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Profile text is fine - it doesn’t tell me much about you but it’s a decent effort

Pics…. I have a really strong objection to action shots on a singles profile. Especially as many of these shots feature more of your companions than they do yourself. I do understand you have a couples profile but this is your space, to showcase you and what you offer… you aren’t doing that

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By *ref OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Right up your street

Interesting- thank you!

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

I think Eva ^ has pretty much encapsulated what I was going to say. You'll appeal to some of your target audience but repel a significant proportion as well.

The profile is fine, generally speaking, but "look at me I'm getting laid and I have photos to prove it" wouldn't align with the calibre of women that I meet.

I wish you luck, OP. 🩶🤍

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I do have a couples profile I cba to switch, pics would immediately put me off.

I get you can have sex but the whole consent thing and generally seeing single guys hanging out of others is just off-putting personally.

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By *vaRoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"I do have a couples profile I cba to switch, pics would immediately put me off.

I get you can have sex but the whole consent thing and generally seeing single guys hanging out of others is just off-putting personally."

OP

Mrs KOTCT has it spot on. She has her profile, Mr has his, they have their couples profile. Each one is crafted to appeal to their target audience and to showcase what they offer as individuals and as a couple. Definitely worth checking out this and any other couples who also have separate accounts.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
9 weeks ago

Norwich


"I do have a couples profile I cba to switch, pics would immediately put me off.

I get you can have sex but the whole consent thing and generally seeing single guys hanging out of others is just off-putting personally."

I feel the same. Seeing men with loads of other women in their profiles is a turn off particularly as a lot of the time it appears to be without a condom.

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By *rHotNottsMan
9 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

At first glance, I thought it was a picture of you sat wearing tights, and close inspection.

I would estimate , just anecdotal and from conversations on here , around 5% - 10% of women enjoy or don’t mind seeing action shots on a single men’s profile so you are putting off a lot of people. The numbers are probably higher for excessive cock pics but generally women prefer to get to know the person the face the body first not the sex, of course there are always some exceptions.

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By *dalisqueWoman
9 weeks ago

land of make believe

I didn't look past your first few pictures.

I appreciate you are in a relationship,however this isn't your partner & it is a single man's profile .

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I clicked off after the first few action shots tbh. I appreciate you're part of a couple, as am I, however if the pics are of your partner, they should be on a joint profile or private.

If I'm looking for a single male, I want to see him, not his partner or past play mates in various positions.

But it's your profile, your choice. They seem to appeal more to men than women, action shots,although I can't speak for all women obvs.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Personally speaking as a single male I wouldn’t have any action shots made public. I’m a great believer in that stays private between you and that person.

You articulate yourself really well mate however as others have pointed out the very heavily weighted couples pictures maybe need revisiting…in my humble opinion 😂

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

If it's working keep it.

A personal dislike of mine is women being referred to as 'girls' but lots don't mind. Another is action shots on a single profile.

Apart from those two things it seems fine to me.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

What they ^^^^ all said. 🤷‍♂️

We all know people have sex. But images that focus more on someone other than the profile owner aren't telling anyone anything about the person who's profile it is, other than 'look at me, I had sex'.

You actually run the risk of putting more people off than you attract, as some may compare themselves to those in your images and decide they don't in some way 'measure up'. 🤷‍♂️

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By *tlanshiaWoman
9 weeks ago

Chatham

Your profile picture is lovely. I like the contrast used.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
9 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane


"I do have a couples profile I cba to switch, pics would immediately put me off.

I get you can have sex but the whole consent thing and generally seeing single guys hanging out of others is just off-putting personally."
^ was just going to say this

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
9 weeks ago

land of overweight munters


"If it's working keep it.

A personal dislike of mine is women being referred to as 'girls' but lots don't mind. Another is action shots on a single profile.

Apart from those two things it seems fine to me. "

I agree, girls is just a bit, I don't know, makes my teeth on edge....

That may not have made sense

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By *isskxxyvWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

First impressions - 🥵🥵

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By *isskxxyvWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

I guess I differ to the norm, I like seeing photos of men with others at times!

To me, it shows a glimpse of what you could be in for😇

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex


"If it's working keep it.

A personal dislike of mine is women being referred to as 'girls' but lots don't mind. Another is action shots on a single profile.

Apart from those two things it seems fine to me.

I agree, girls is just a bit, I don't know, makes my teeth on edge....

That may not have made sense "

It makes sense

For me, I'm 68 I haven't been a girl for many a long year

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair


"...For me, I'm 68 I haven't been a girl for many a long year "

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I can't wait for you to be 69. Teehee, chuckle, chortle, guffaw, snigger...billy bunter style. 😘

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex


"...For me, I'm 68 I haven't been a girl for many a long year

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I can't wait for you to be 69. Teehee, chuckle, chortle, guffaw, snigger...billy bunter style. 😘"

You're hardly Billy Bunter though Nero. 🤣

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

Another vote against the action shots. So you have sex that tells me nothing.

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By *ref OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Right up your street


"I guess I differ to the norm, I like seeing photos of men with others at times!

To me, it shows a glimpse of what you could be in for😇"

Thanks. Yes it does seem to have its fans, but I’m interested to hear both sides.

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