FabSwingers.com forum: How social are you?

By *rHotNotts OP Man
8 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

In your typical week how many evenings are you with people either sexually or socially? And how many do you like to keep or just you a bit of solitude?

I guess if you have a partner and or children living with you, it’s kind of different and you crave a bit of solitude probably?

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By *vaRoseWoman
8 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Sexually once a fortnight on average

Socially, I visit friends or see friends a couple of times a week

I have a husband and kids but that’s not the only reason I like alone time. I’m a bit of a loner and I’m happy to just chill in my own company

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I'm very anti social!

I think I'm just awkward around people and I like being on my own.

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By *midnight-Woman
8 weeks ago

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Not often, but recently I'm averaging once a week!

I'm having dinner tonight with a bunch of strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Not very, my typical week consists of seeing my husband and kids and maybe once every couple of months I'll pop along to ladies night.

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By *isskxxyvWoman
8 weeks ago

Reading

I hate everyone.

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By *eliWoman
8 weeks ago

"I hate everyone."

Poor Rosie.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
8 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

I have to see people every day with work so I keep my evening people free to recover from the day

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By *ovefist84Man
8 weeks ago

Oswestry

After a hard day at work I like a bit of alone time. The kids are big enough now, so usually I need to chase them for a chat. But the Mrs wants my attention..

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By *litNibbler1Man
8 weeks ago

Hertford

Was quite social sexually until a year ago but now pretty non existent. Socially now mostly family.

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
8 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

I have children with me half of the week but the other half I work 8-8 and then always either go out with friends etc or go to the gym. I’m not very good at solitude and being on my own.

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By *isskxxyvWoman
8 weeks ago

Reading

"I hate everyone.

Poor Rosie.

That actually made me laugh. Thank you🤣

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By *9alMan
8 weeks ago

Bridgend

I live alone but meet people 2 or3 times a week

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By *r.EdibleMan
8 weeks ago

Fraserburgh

It really does depend, I can be very social or I'm more than happy to be alone. I'm never alone for long though, but I work away, so get 3 weeks off at a time with nothing really planned during the days, so I get my me time then.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
8 weeks ago

Ends

I’m a pretty social person.

Shocking I know. But that’s how I am

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
8 weeks ago

Altrincham

"How social are you - In your typical week how many evenings are you with people either sexually or socially? And how many do you like to keep or just you a bit of solitude?

I guess if you have a partner and or children living with you, it’s kind of different and you crave a bit of solitude probably? "

I socialise daily, sometimes I enjoy it, sometimes people just do my bloody head in because they drain you of your niceness, you try to be everything to everyone but it's so tiring

Sexually, I'm married and lucky enough to have a BF too

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By *icecouple561Couple
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8 weeks ago

East Sussex

Zero evenings unless we're on holiday.

During the day between zero and three times a week.

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
8 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"How social are you - In your typical week how many evenings are you with people either sexually or socially? And how many do you like to keep or just you a bit of solitude?

I guess if you have a partner and or children living with you, it’s kind of different and you crave a bit of solitude probably?

I socialise daily, sometimes I enjoy it, sometimes people just do my bloody head in because they drain you of your niceness, you try to be everything to everyone but it's so tiring

Sexually, I'm married and lucky enough to have a BF too

Some people are so draining, aren’t they…. I have a friend that would happily meet me every week for lunch, but I’ve decided I can only really manage twice a month. I feel a bit bad because she’s recently become single and has admitted to me she is lonely but it

drains me so much I need a couple of days after to recover

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By *ein-guyMan
8 weeks ago

East Cowes

I'm a little bit anti-social but not out of choice. I struggle with anxiety in larger groups and need to get to know someone well before I feel comfortable

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
8 weeks ago

Altrincham

"How social are you - In your typical week how many evenings are you with people either sexually or socially? And how many do you like to keep or just you a bit of solitude?

I guess if you have a partner and or children living with you, it’s kind of different and you crave a bit of solitude probably?

I socialise daily, sometimes I enjoy it, sometimes people just do my bloody head in because they drain you of your niceness, you try to be everything to everyone but it's so tiring

Sexually, I'm married and lucky enough to have a BF too

drains me so much I need a couple of days after to recover

Peopling is hard work and you have to be in the mood to people

I'm the friendliest misanthropist ever! 😂

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
8 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Zero evenings unless we're on holiday.

During the day between zero and three times a week."

I would’ve thought it would be higher for someone retired? Is this by choice you enjoy not being over sociable? Since I stopped working, everyone thinks I have so much free time and I am feeling more burned out than when I was in a high pressure global role

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
8 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I often go out of an evening, but having only coupled up friends locally who either won't leave their partners, or 'have work tomorrow' (hello, so do I!!), my forays out are often on my own - to cinema, theatre or gigs.

I've challenged myself to get to more group socials - despite my social anxiety - in the hope I can improve my lack of fun friends!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
8 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

I have a lovely balance of seeing friends 2 or 3 times a week and the rest on my own ..

Plus obviously the fab socials ..

Quite happy with how that works

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By *antsGerfMan
8 weeks ago

Basingstoke

My social life is very sparse, usually just things like cinema or eating out alone.

Most of my friends live 100+ miles away so don't see them often.

One of the reasons I joined fabs was to find new local open minded friends to enjoy all sorts of stuff with.

I really should start attending some fab socials.

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By *idssissyTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Nr cricket ground birm

I try to get out every day but mostly by myself for food or cinema.

I have one friend I see once a week for lunch and others I see once a month for a pub quiz.

Rest is very hit and miss

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By *verageHoesCouple
8 weeks ago

Leeds

Evenings? I socialise almost always during the day or at weekends. I see 2 or 3 friends a week, on average. Evenings I just need to crash.

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By *ealitybitesMan
8 weeks ago

Belfast

Not something I do at all. I'm up at 4.45 every single day including weekends and holidays and it's over an hour's commute to work each day.

By the time I get home I don't want to be social and just need my own space.

At weekends, if I'm not working, I have a group of friends I go hiking with and a couple of times a year we'll meet up for a meal.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
8 weeks ago

Reading

I live with my daughter and my fab adventures are about as much socializing as I can handle.

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By *a LunaWoman
8 weeks ago

o o OO o o

I’m not socialable at all these days. I was a bit of a clubber back in the day, I think I socialised myself out!

I’m happiest with my family and my dogs. If that makes me weird then I’m ok with that.

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
8 weeks ago

Someplace

I'm a very social person. I love being out, meeting new people, and having fun. I get bored easily

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Social and/or sexual evenings per week average = zero. One or two exceptions through the year.

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By *one_maverickMan
8 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford

Take chats at work out of it... I'm barely social, I'd like to be but my friends are 30 plus miles away (we talk on the phone and message) and it's hard to find new people to be social with on your own

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By *ife NinjaMan
8 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I like it when I'm out, but do like to be in with the kids and grandkids 🤓

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By *smith87Man
8 weeks ago

totton

Sexually I can't remember

Socially awkward man here. I just don't like people.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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8 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Zero evenings unless we're on holiday.

During the day between zero and three times a week.

Partly because we enjoy not being over sociable and partly because we have found it difficult to find people who we get along with since we moved. We don't stay at home twiddling our thumbs we're out and about regularly.

We also have family responsibilities that mean we quite enjoy peace and quiet in our down time.

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
8 weeks ago

Voldsøy

For someone with social anxiety, I love socialising. I just don't often get to.

I spend my daytime getting terrorised by our threenager. Then the other kids come home, we do "family stuff." Then my favourite time of day is chilling in bed with Mr.DS, chatting and watching our tv shows or Youtube.

I was seeing my fwb twice a month for a few months but that's not been possible this month. My hometown friends aren't social anymore. The only one of my best friends who wants to spend time with me lives hundreds of miles away.

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By *olden RatioWoman
8 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

Socially, a couple of times a week.

Sexually? I've forgotten what that is.

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By *ookie46Woman
8 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Some weeks I can be super busy with kids, friends, work events etc then other weeks I quite enjoy doing nothing

Lots of people have socially wanted a piece of me lately for all the right reasons and I’m grateful but at times I just need to rest

Most people I know would describe me as a social butterfly 🦋

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
8 weeks ago

Norwich

I see friends and family at least 2-3 times a week and if I'm lucky I'd like to have sex that often too but it averages about once a week atm.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

If I was single the only time I’d be in the house is when I sleep. But these days having small children means I’m limited.

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By *edSirenWoman
8 weeks ago

magic mountain

I go through flurries of being very social with meets etc. Then dip back into my cave until next time I feel like venturing out.

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By *ust want fun 888Man
8 weeks ago

nearby

Just socially, I pop into my local nearly every day, if I’m on the beer I’m socialising but when I’m off the beer I still calling to meet up with friends and I’m always bumping into people when out walking, not literally although I am blind, but a great town for being Social

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By *ansoffateMan
8 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I like to chill is the best way to describe, as a default state. I like people who get in that chill bubble together.

I enjoy conversation and doing stuff, but I am not a fan of organised fun or activity groups. A touch of spontaneity is where it's at for me. How will everyone know, what we are in the mood for at the time? So what we do is more loose plans that are subject to change, see how we feel. We arrange to hangout, there's no pressure, if we want to it will happen.

If Friday is laid out for me 4 weeks in advance with an optimised schedule, it starts to feel like a chore.

I'm social, but if I'm not feeling it, my brain will check out and go into solitude mode in the middle of a gig stood in a field at a festival. If I try to do small talk, it just comes out as sarcasm, which certain friends appreciate, but it's definitely not for everyone.

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By *abba44Man
8 weeks ago

Broadstairs

I’m lucky to have a great friend who is also my golf partner he has helped me get through a difficult time when I became a widower.

And it wasn’t because I helped him through a tough time with his prostate cancer, he just a great guy.

I now have a new lady who has become my friend and she helps me laugh at the world and supports me in the way I am.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester

I'm a misanthrope who doesn't leave the house

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By *exxyyDy11Man
8 weeks ago

North West

"I go through flurries of being very social with meets etc. Then dip back into my cave until next time I feel like venturing out."

You bloody hermit 😂

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By *ycleguy300Man
8 weeks ago

Ely

"I hate everyone."

Haha me too!! Can’t be dealing with people!

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
8 weeks ago

West Suffolk

"In your typical week how many evenings are you with people either sexually or socially? And how many do you like to keep or just you a bit of solitude?

I guess if you have a partner and or children living with you, it’s kind of different and you crave a bit of solitude probably? "

We go out together once or twice a week, sexually we look for a meet maybe twice a week but between ourselves we have sex maybe 3 times a week and I give me oral only the other days

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By *oldyoudown41Man
8 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Besides the fact I prefer animals to humans I am a pretty social kinda guy..

I use the fact I’m Irish to get away with a lot of crap

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By *uriousscouserWoman
8 weeks ago

Wirral

I am very social, particularly right now when I'm coming out of a withdrawn spell.

In an average week lately I will be out for dinner with friends maybe two or three evenings, family once, at the moment I meet up for sex maybe once a week, sometimes twice depending how much energy I have.

It's rare for me to spend more than two evenings alone in a week at present.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
8 weeks ago

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I’m pretty antisocial… I see friends/family 1-2 times per week and the rest of the time I’m by myself. I talk to people all day at work, so I’m glad to have quiet time in the evening.

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By *radeSkinMan
8 weeks ago

withywood

Sexually, when I get offers. Casual every now and then.

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By *edSirenWoman
8 weeks ago

magic mountain

"I go through flurries of being very social with meets etc. Then dip back into my cave until next time I feel like venturing out.

You bloody hermit 😂"

You know it 🙈😂

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By *ittlebirdWoman
8 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Some days I’m 100% social, others 0%

It’s just how I roll

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By *cottish guy 555Man
8 weeks ago

London

"Some days I’m 100% social, others 0%

It’s just how I roll "

We like how you roll.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
8 weeks ago

Colchester

I might socialise in person a few times a year. Every 3 months or so at a rough guess. Feels about right for me.

I think before lockdowns, it was once a month, but everyone kind of got used to staying at home and after lockdown things didn't "spring back" the way they were before. To be fair, I haven't missed it.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
8 weeks ago

your head

During the week, none. Outside of my immediate family anyway. I'm a bit more sociable on the weekends but even then it's a small closed group. There's few people I like enough to actively spend my free time with.

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By *cotish_GentMan
8 weeks ago

Gloucester

See friends at least twice a week, but do also enjoy taking in music even if by myself

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