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"Couldn’t care less if they spend it on drugs, if I’m living on the street I’d also want to be high as much as possible" That's why they end up on the streets in the first place | |||
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"Couldn’t care less if they spend it on drugs, if I’m living on the street I’d also want to be high as much as possible That's why they end up on the streets in the first place " There's a lot more to homelessness than just alcohol and Dr*g addiction | |||
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"The issue i have is you can't tell if that person is a genuine homeless person, I have no issues in helping someone who is hungry and needs help. What i object to is Joe Bloggs who has a better house than mine pretending he/she is homeless and making a whacking salary. I also don't like that the ones in Aberdeen city centre sit at the cash machine 😕 " I understand that but logically, how many of the human beings you see out on the streets are making this 'whacking salary' ? What is a whacking salary ? Shall we say 50k ? a grand a week ? £ 140 per day ? 7 days a week...... Is that possible while most of the country is less well off than before ? If I was guaranteed half of that I'd be out there with them ........ well on as nice sunny day maybe. I'll give and take my chances that someone who got my quid is in Barbados now and the 'real' one got a bag of chips. | |||
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"Begging in the UK is technically illegal under the Vagrancy Act 1824, which prohibits soliciting money or goods in public places. However, enforcement varies, and authorities often focus on addressing aggressive or nuisance begging rather than penalizing individuals in need. " Haha, should have read this before posting ![]() | |||
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"Begging in the UK is technically illegal under the Vagrancy Act 1824, which prohibits soliciting money or goods in public places. However, enforcement varies, and authorities often focus on addressing aggressive or nuisance begging rather than penalizing individuals in need. Haha, should have read this before posting ![]() It has been under repeal since 2022. It is still in force though as nothing as yet has come of the repeal. I wonder if people took put the same judgement on the thousands of men who were homeless and on the streets after ww2..... ? No family left, no home, some with pstd and forced to ask for help after serving their country. I wonder if we thought less of them. | |||
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"Begging in the UK is technically illegal under the Vagrancy Act 1824, which prohibits soliciting money or goods in public places. However, enforcement varies, and authorities often focus on addressing aggressive or nuisance begging rather than penalizing individuals in need. Haha, should have read this before posting ![]() Probably. Compassion and empathy for poor, destitute and homeless people has always been in short supply. | |||
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"Couldn’t care less if they spend it on drugs, if I’m living on the street I’d also want to be high as much as possible That's why they end up on the streets in the first place " I can tell you've never worked with or talked to homeless people. They are generally driven from their houses by abusive relationships, everything else is just an attempt to deal with it. | |||
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"The issue i have is you can't tell if that person is a genuine homeless person, I have no issues in helping someone who is hungry and needs help. What i object to is Joe Bloggs who has a better house than mine pretending he/she is homeless and making a whacking salary. I also don't like that the ones in Aberdeen city centre sit at the cash machine 😕 I understand that but logically, how many of the human beings you see out on the streets are making this 'whacking salary' ? What is a whacking salary ? Shall we say 50k ? a grand a week ? £ 140 per day ? 7 days a week...... Is that possible while most of the country is less well off than before ? If I was guaranteed half of that I'd be out there with them ........ well on as nice sunny day maybe. I'll give and take my chances that someone who got my quid is in Barbados now and the 'real' one got a bag of chips." Funnily enough I've spoken to a few homeless people in Aberdeen, as I myself am happy to buy food and sit and chat to them. One was a teacher and she herself had been homeless for several years due to a divorce etc. She told me many weren't genuine and there was one in particular who wasn't homeless and had a home and made a good living begging. I work a lot of hours for my salary 60+ a week and I don't get to go to Barbados. It's difficult for people who work to make ends meet. Even if it was £140 a day that person made from begging, thats more than someone who works could earn a day. I'd much rather buy someone food and know they've eaten and spend time talking to them than chuck them a pound and say crack on. | |||
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"I’ve seen a documentary in the past where it showed organised gangs sending people out into the public to beg and then taking most of the money off them. Also ordinary people making a nice living, not homeless or destitute, just very good at what they do. But I don’t think it should be banned. As has been said, there’s no obligation to give. I personally give to the charities that support them as I know the money isn’t going to gangs " There could be a comparison drawn between organised gangs taking most of the money and registered charities taking large proportions of the money on CEO salaries etc, etc, but I get the point you are making. | |||
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"The reason for banning it is because in many cases they are not actual homeless people but actually part of large criminal gang's, organised begging is a massive money maker particularly if they target the right areas. In London for example Piccadilly line on the tube there used to be gangs of children with laminated cards claiming to be orphans. I'm too cynical about it now and know too many stories about false beggars. This country has gotten itself into a real mess with homelessness and people scamming. How do you tell them apart?? It's impossible " Someone who has been on the streets for a month looks very different to someone who sleeps in a bed every night. I agree that we've got ourselves into a mess with homelessness it's a very real problem. | |||
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"It's a bit of an invasion of civil liberties. People should be free to ask and people should be free to give or not. The problem of homelessness should be addressed. Stopping somebody from begging is an attempt to sweep it under the carpet and solves nothing. If somebody has no option but to beg, what are they supposed to do do if the option is taken away from them? Are they just supposed to go away and starve? If there was a robust alternative that was easily accessible and widely known then maybe this would be an option, but I don't see that's what we have right now. " Hi _partharmony, yes, you are right there, they should be free to ask and people should be free to give or not, yes, if they have no choice then they have no option than to do it too ![]() | |||
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"I’ve seen a documentary in the past where it showed organised gangs sending people out into the public to beg and then taking most of the money off them. Also ordinary people making a nice living, not homeless or destitute, just very good at what they do. But I don’t think it should be banned. As has been said, there’s no obligation to give. I personally give to the charities that support them as I know the money isn’t going to gangs There could be a comparison drawn between organised gangs taking most of the money and registered charities taking large proportions of the money on CEO salaries etc, etc, but I get the point you are making. " This argument about charity CEOs getting massive salaries is a bit of a red herring. The numbers are accurate, but what they don’t report is how much revenue they have generated through their social and business networks. Do you think the dragons on dragons den hang out with people on universal credit? Or other multi millionaires? People tend to spend most of their free time with people similar to themselves. I’m in the process of getting sponsorships for a charity event. The biggest single donation was for £25. So me offering to replace a guy on £250k for £25k is counter productive. If I was Peter Jones I’d be getting £1k donations from my friends because to his friends, that’s the same as £10 to mine | |||
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"I'd rather ban excessive wealth. How many private jets does someone really need?" I'd be happy with one. | |||
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"No 'they' shouldn't ban begging. We're demonising the people who have nothing. " Hi nicecouple, yes, you are right there, we are demonising the people who have nothing too ![]() | |||
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"I only give to those selling the big issue They have been vetted They are doing something to help themselves and others But I’ve never taken the magazine" To be clear Big Issue vendors aren't begging. Why don't you take the magazine, it sometimes has some interesting stuff in it. I haven't seen a Big Issue seller round here for ages. | |||
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"I think they were hoping going cashless will help get rid of it" I've seen beggars with card machines. | |||
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"The reason for banning it is because in many cases they are not actual homeless people but actually part of large criminal gang's, organised begging is a massive money maker particularly if they target the right areas. In London for example Piccadilly line on the tube there used to be gangs of children with laminated cards claiming to be orphans. I'm too cynical about it now and know too many stories about false beggars. This country has gotten itself into a real mess with homelessness and people scamming. How do you tell them apart?? It's impossible Someone who has been on the streets for a month looks very different to someone who sleeps in a bed every night. " No, they are very clever at looking unwashed. Seen too many con artists working in London fleecing the tourists fresh off the plane. | |||
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"I think they were hoping going cashless will help get rid of it I've seen beggars with card machines. " I never said it worked ![]() | |||
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"I think they were hoping going cashless will help get rid of it I've seen beggars with card machines. I never said it worked ![]() ![]() | |||
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"The reason for banning it is because in many cases they are not actual homeless people but actually part of large criminal gang's, organised begging is a massive money maker particularly if they target the right areas. In London for example Piccadilly line on the tube there used to be gangs of children with laminated cards claiming to be orphans. I'm too cynical about it now and know too many stories about false beggars. This country has gotten itself into a real mess with homelessness and people scamming. How do you tell them apart?? It's impossible Someone who has been on the streets for a month looks very different to someone who sleeps in a bed every night. No, they are very clever at looking unwashed. Seen too many con artists working in London fleecing the tourists fresh off the plane. " Ah that London. Round here you can tell by the texture of someone's skin and hair whether they're genuinely on the streets but I do don't have any experience of London it's probably a whole different ball game. I do have experience of walking through the streets on Chennai and I'm not exagerating when I say I needed protection. | |||
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"I'm not in favour of a ban i don't think it would help well certainly not the homeless anyway. " Hi wanderer, yes, you are right there. I am also not in favour of a ban, it wouldnt help the homeless ![]() | |||
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"I’ve seen a documentary in the past where it showed organised gangs sending people out into the public to beg and then taking most of the money off them. Also ordinary people making a nice living, not homeless or destitute, just very good at what they do. But I don’t think it should be banned. As has been said, there’s no obligation to give. I personally give to the charities that support them as I know the money isn’t going to gangs There could be a comparison drawn between organised gangs taking most of the money and registered charities taking large proportions of the money on CEO salaries etc, etc, but I get the point you are making. This argument about charity CEOs getting massive salaries is a bit of a red herring. The numbers are accurate, but what they don’t report is how much revenue they have generated through their social and business networks. Do you think the dragons on dragons den hang out with people on universal credit? Or other multi millionaires? People tend to spend most of their free time with people similar to themselves. I’m in the process of getting sponsorships for a charity event. The biggest single donation was for £25. So me offering to replace a guy on £250k for £25k is counter productive. If I was Peter Jones I’d be getting £1k donations from my friends because to his friends, that’s the same as £10 to mine " Aren’t the type of people you mention more likely to be patrons rather than salaried CEO’s, which is a total win as they bring the money from their wealthy chums without drawing anything from the charity. | |||
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"Why should that form of obtaining money be banned ? At least they ask which is more than HMRC does or others like the council, water rates, manufacturers , food producers..... everyone has to overcharge or they can't make profit and you have no say in it. I'd prefer to stop this theft before I even thought about those on the street asking for support. Do I believe they are all genuine? No I don't but morally I feel it's best for me to give and be taken in than to not give and allow a fellow human to starve or die and if they are legitimate or not legitimate the freezing cold temperatures I see them sitting out in in town makes me think they've earned every fucking penny. You'd pay to see David Blaine freeze his bollocks off in the ice but you won't give a quid to a person in need. The number of people in town has grown so huge that it's impossible to shop without being asked at least 6 times and actually seeing them is even more frequent. They are in the near green belt now and outside almost every train stop from the city to the suburbs. To me it's a sign of how shite society is not how shite they are. I know we'd all like out streets to be nice and sanitary and keep the poor people hidden and that people can feel very holier than thou when they give at the food bank , just as long as they haven't got to look at the 'beggars' " Hi, yes, you are right there, this form of obtaining money shouldnt be banned as it is another way to survive on ![]() | |||
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"Couldn’t care less if they spend it on drugs, if I’m living on the street I’d also want to be high as much as possible That's why they end up on the streets in the first place " Awful opinion, there's a multitude of reasons people become homeless | |||
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"No. There's no obligation to give, so no point in banning it." This ^ | |||
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"I wouldn't ban begging but id definitely make it law that it can only bed in a curtain place especially as some have said sat at cash machine " Like John Lewis or Dunelm ..... specially round the back. Good idea actually. | |||
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