FabSwingers.com forum: Training partners

By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

Morning lovely fabbers

What a glorious morning of sunshine

When you train, gym / run / cycle etc …do you have someone to train with ? Or are you a solo trainer?

I’m finding it more difficult recently for motivation…. I need someone to drag to to it and through it

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By *avexxMan
4 days ago

cheshire

i dont do the gym.. little bit of a set up in the garage, so always solo

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
4 days ago

Reading

If I had someone to run with I'd probably do it more consistently 😩

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By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

"i dont do the gym.. little bit of a set up in the garage, so always solo"

I need a garage ha.

I have a few free weights but my motivation to do it has dropped off haha ….

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By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

"If I had someone to run with I'd probably do it more consistently 😩"

Yes I think if I had a runner partner …. That would help get a few extra miles

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By *zeroMan
4 days ago

Glasgow

Solo trainer. I went to the gym once with a friend and there was too much taking.

I prefer to go in, do my work and leave.

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By *rMonkeyMan
4 days ago

Somewhere

Train by myself, broken many a training partner so don't bother anymore.

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By *aomilatteCouple
4 days ago

Midlands

We do the 5k Parkrun every Saturday with 200-300 others. It's a great way to get chatting to others and is good for motivation. We're one of only a few couples at our gym that work out together

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
4 days ago

Next Door

I train alone but think a partner would push me further/harder andvice versa. Chat in-between sets etc.

My 121 PT sessions I do chat inbetween sets etc

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By *ools and the brainCouple
4 days ago

couple, us we him her.

Bit of a mixture.

For as a gym user of 40 off years on and off I've trained alone and with a buddy both work well but I've always found it best to train with someone who is pretty much on same level or it could be difficult also you both have to be committed to the program.

I used to run with a running club, swim with a swimming club and same with cycling and triathlon all great to do as group sessions but very much enjoy training alone.

I think having targets or goals are more of a motivator than a training partner.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 days ago

Central

Maybe switch the exercise to something that's more motivating, for a while or add more variety

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By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

"Solo trainer. I went to the gym once with a friend and there was too much taking.

I prefer to go in, do my work and leave."

I’m very much the same ….but it’s just that motivation for each other to get there ha

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By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

"Train by myself, broken many a training partner so don't bother anymore."

Ha seek the weak

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By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

"We do the 5k Parkrun every Saturday with 200-300 others. It's a great way to get chatting to others and is good for motivation. We're one of only a few couples at our gym that work out together

I like the sound of that

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By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

" I train alone but think a partner would push me further/harder andvice versa. Chat in-between sets etc.

My 121 PT sessions I do chat inbetween sets etc"

See I don’t want the chat ha …. Just the motivation

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By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

"Maybe switch the exercise to something that's more motivating, for a while or add more variety "

Maybe this is where I am falling down

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By *ougarDWoman
4 days ago

cwmbran

I’ve always struggled with exercising alone. I used to do classes until I joined a CrossFit gym almost 4 years ago. It’s the only thing that I have kept up consistently. The workouts are fine for you. You all train together and everyone supports and encourages everyone 💪🏽

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By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

"I’ve always struggled with exercising alone. I used to do classes until I joined a CrossFit gym almost 4 years ago. It’s the only thing that I have kept up consistently. The workouts are fine for you. You all train together and everyone supports and encourages everyone 💪🏽"

Maybe I need to become one of those cross fitter types 😋

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By *ellhungvweMan
4 days ago

Cheltenham

I like to train alone but the gym has a good crowd so there is always encouragement if I need it.

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By *ougarDWoman
4 days ago

cwmbran

Maybe I need to become one of those cross fitter types 😋"

Best decision I ever made

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By *elshnewbies69Couple
4 days ago

valleys

I currently train on my own but it's a nightmare lol, having a partner makes the sessions go quicker and seemingly easier to push through.

(Mr)

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By *rdere OpusCouple
4 days ago

Brum - ish

I mainly prefer to train alone. S and I enjoy going to the gym together, but we’ll go off and do our separate thing. The only difference for me is pole - everyone in my studio is very supportive when someone nails a move and I do find that pretty cool.

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By *HUSH-Man
4 days ago

London

In terms of the gym I occasionally train with a friend as that’s often the only time we see each other.

The vast majority of the time I train on my own. Headphones on. No mingling with others 🎧

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By *lwaysMuffCouple
4 days ago

Bristol

We both go to the gym at the same time but do our own workout / program.

Never had a training partner aside from that, find it easier to train alone. Can time my rest, don't have to wait if they are running late etc.

Motivation has never been an issue

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By *alcon2Man
4 days ago

North

Completely alone.

I'll listen to a lecture, when on the treadmill..

I used to have a couple of friends I did hikes with. They're married with kids now.

So go on those alone now too.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
4 days ago

Somewhere in Hampshire

I'm either on my own, or in a group fitness class. Either way, there's no chitchat - it's all about putting in the effort and getting it done.

On the few occasions I've cycled with a friend I've felt like we chatted more than we worked, so I much prefer to keep it solo.

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By *ilffadMan
4 days ago

swansea

I run alone, headphones on, in my own world

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
4 days ago

kendal

A bit of both really l, I'm a crossfitter so group classes 4 times a week, in a group of up to 18, of varying abilities.

But then if I go to the gym outside of that I go alone.

When I go walking or running my partner in crime is my dog! She's the best training partner ever!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
4 days ago

Chichester

If I had some local friends at gym I’d train at same time I guess but my main gym is quite young so I tend not to chat too much to others

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
4 days ago

Niche

I stopped going to the gym years ago as it eats in to my time too much when you factor in the prep time +travel there +gym time+ shower+travel back. Hours.

I do my own thing at home now.

I hate chitchat when working out so a buddy isn't for me. I like to switch off and tune in to the workout and how it feels.

If I get burnout and bored I take a break or change up the routine. Find some new moves to make it challenging again.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
4 days ago

Reading

My cats

They don't let me forget to go walking with them.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
4 days ago

North West mainly. Sometimes London/SouthWest

"Morning lovely fabbers

What a glorious morning of sunshine

When you train, gym / run / cycle etc …do you have someone to train with ? Or are you a solo trainer?

I’m finding it more difficult recently for motivation…. I need someone to drag to to it and through it

Send help

You only had to ask … now put me through my paces 🍭

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By *rafter69Man
4 days ago

upminster

Train solo but would love a training partner

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By *EAT..85Woman
4 days ago

Nottingham

I came in here expecting tips on how to train partners! Reward V punishment etc 🤭

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By *zeroMan
4 days ago

Glasgow

"My cats

They don't let me forget to go walking with them. "

I did a home workout when I was dogsitting. He thought I was playing a game and kept trying to go under me and licking my ears when I was on the floor 😄

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By *edSirenWoman
4 days ago

magic mountain

I’m don’t need someone to motivate me. I need them to drag me there and bully me into training. Once I’m started, I’m good. But that initial step? 😩

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By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

Maybe I need to become one of those cross fitter types 😋

Best decision I ever made"

I’ve heard the community is good

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By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

"A bit of both really l, I'm a crossfitter so group classes 4 times a week, in a group of up to 18, of varying abilities.

But then if I go to the gym outside of that I go alone.

When I go walking or running my partner in crime is my dog! She's the best training partner ever!"

Dogs are great…. Don’t need to chat then ha

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By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

"If I had some local friends at gym I’d train at same time I guess but my main gym is quite young so I tend not to chat too much to others "

You’re only 43 that’s still young

Has the way you train changed as you’ve aged? Is that the difference between you and the young ones at your gym?

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By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

"Morning lovely fabbers

What a glorious morning of sunshine

When you train, gym / run / cycle etc …do you have someone to train with ? Or are you a solo trainer?

I’m finding it more difficult recently for motivation…. I need someone to drag to to it and through it

Send help

You only had to ask … now put me through my paces 🍭"

You know I’d love to

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By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

"Train solo but would love a training partner"

I’ve had training partners in past and it’s definitely helped

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By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

"I’m don’t need someone to motivate me. I need them to drag me there and bully me into training. Once I’m started, I’m good. But that initial step? 😩"

The hardest one they say

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By *lim_bbcMan
4 days ago

barking

Train solo

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
4 days ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Train? Exercise?

I walk my doggy and I've trained her to sit and give me her paw?

Otherwise the only train I'm thinking of that's not on wheels is very different. 🤭

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By *one_maverickMan
4 days ago

Leeds/Bradford

I it all solo. And the days when I don't feel motivated I just get on with it. People complain about motivation all the time but they forget to mention discipline. Nobody feels like going to work every day but they do because there are consequences for not going

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By *allGent99Man
4 days ago

Wirral

I'm trained alone but occasionally ask for a spot when on my heaviest set

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By *ougarDWoman
4 days ago

cwmbran

Maybe I need to become one of those cross fitter types 😋

Best decision I ever made

I’ve heard the community is good "

The community is something else. And what they have done for me personally is just amazing. I went through a tough time last year with my son being ill. They held a huge fundraiser and raised just over £4000 to send us on holiday

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By *usty kayWoman
4 days ago

Burnham on Sea

I need a gym buddy just for the motivation to actually get there

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By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

Maybe I need to become one of those cross fitter types 😋

Best decision I ever made

I’ve heard the community is good

Amazing

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By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

"I need a gym buddy just for the motivation to actually get there"

If only there wasn’t so much distance …

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By *usty kayWoman
4 days ago

Burnham on Sea

"I need a gym buddy just for the motivation to actually get there

If only there wasn’t so much distance … "

It's my biggest issue. I have family members who would come with me but they are hours away 😢

I've booked into classes tue and wed this week just to commit and make sure I go

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By *ophie and DanCouple
4 days ago

North East

Any couples or singles train in Gateshead at Gym Etc let me know, thinking about joining

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By *enegadeM OP Man
4 days ago

Witney

"I need a gym buddy just for the motivation to actually get there

If only there wasn’t so much distance …

It's my biggest issue. I have family members who would come with me but they are hours away 😢

I've booked into classes tue and wed this week just to commit and make sure I go"

Booking is a good start …

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By *smith87Man
4 days ago

totton

I prefer to train alone but some one would be nice to chat to. If anyone use PureGym in Southampton say hi

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By *r.ZeistolfMan
4 days ago

Nottingham

I used to train with my brother, but I found myself focusing too much on helping him out. Now I train mostly by myself which suits me, as long as the motivation to grind on persists.

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By *oeBeansMan
4 days ago

Derby

I tend to train alone but I do think having someone there can help push you and motivate you more.

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By *enegadeM OP Man
3 days ago

Witney

I got the motivation this morning

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By *oingMan
3 days ago

Co. Antrim

I go solo with some music and determination.

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By *asked_ebonyTV/TS
3 days ago

London & Brum

Mostly solo these days

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By *eordieJeansCouple
3 days ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I don’t mind training with a partner the odd time but they always end up letting you down eventually so I would never commit to training with another person.

I usually prefer headphones in, look angry so nobody approaches me and go hard and get out as soon as possible.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
3 days ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I do think the people that rely on motivation to get to the gym never really achieve anything. You need discipline. I can’t remember who said this but nobody ever goes to the gym and then regrets it later. Just get it done and I guarantee you’ll feel better after.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
3 days ago

North West mainly. Sometimes London/SouthWest

"Morning lovely fabbers

What a glorious morning of sunshine

When you train, gym / run / cycle etc …do you have someone to train with ? Or are you a solo trainer?

I’m finding it more difficult recently for motivation…. I need someone to drag to to it and through it

Send help

You only had to ask … now put me through my paces 🍭

You know I’d love to "

Warm up first? 😏

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By *xydadbodMan
3 days ago

Milton keynes

I train alone.. all the things i learned are from things I've picked up that may work for me.. more trial and error really.. especially going out for a run.. the idea running alongside someone that wants to chat would get on my tits. I'll put my head phones on, block the world and leave me be

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
3 days ago

Sheffield

"I’m finding it more difficult recently for motivation…. I need someone to drag to to it and through it"

Having been a solo trainer for years, it is an extra challenge and can be really easy to slip.

Things I've found helpful.

In the gym, having a PT. Even if it's just one of the staff you see once a month or every 2 weeks. It's a physical human being who can keep you honest.

Something I've found remarkably helpful is using classes. It's something I never thought would actually be helpful, but tried it on the advice of a PT. On the days where you don't want to train, sometimes it's nice just to grab your gym gear and a water bottle and be told what to do for 45 mins.

Similarly with teams, clubs, park run etc. It builds friendships, accountability and reduces mental load.

I've tried the electronic version but it's not been as effective.

Lastly, having a target.

I can't just 'go to the gym'. I need a reason to train, and something that shapes what I'm doing while I'm there.

So I've done a marathon, played team sports and these days I do OCRs.

So at the moment I'm doing a lot of circuits and steady state cardio.

Hope this helps

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By *isskxxyvWoman
3 days ago

Reading

Music in. Resting bitch face on.

I don’t focus enough when I train with friends!

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