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By *one_maverick OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford

This isn't me being bitter, just genuine curiosity.

All I see on here is more and more profiles popping up primarily begging for black guys... Is it that black guys are a race kink or is it something else?

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By *one_maverick OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford

Also I'd like to add that if it's about size... There are just as many 10 inch white and brown guys as there are black guys.

The worlds biggest dick is actually a white American haha

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By *abioMan
10 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"This isn't me being bitter, just genuine curiosity.

All I see on here is more and more profiles popping up primarily begging for black guys... Is it that black guys are a race kink or is it something else?"

For every profile you see “begging for black guys” I bet I can show you one that says Caucasian/white only……

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By *jorkishMan
10 weeks ago

Seaforth


"This isn't me being bitter, just genuine curiosity.

All I see on here is more and more profiles popping up primarily begging for black guys... Is it that black guys are a race kink or is it something else?

For every profile you see “begging for black guys” I bet I can show you one that says Caucasian/white only……

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

For every profile you see asking for caucasian/white I can show you those that exclaim their abhorrence to Indian/Asian men.🪯

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By *ude LawMan
10 weeks ago

Harrogate


"The worlds biggest dick is actually a white American haha "

Trump?

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By *one_maverick OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford


"For every profile you see asking for caucasian/white I can show you those that exclaim their abhorrence to Indian/Asian men.🪯"

This I haven't seen so much honestly. I've seen some but not many

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading


"The worlds biggest dick is actually a white American haha

Trump?"

He's orange. Orange Mussolini

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By *ildTimes.Man
10 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"Also I'd like to add that if it's about size... There are just as many 10 inch white and brown guys as there are black guys.

The worlds biggest dick is actually a white American haha "

Hey, I'm not American!!🥪

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By *ude LawMan
10 weeks ago

Harrogate


"Also I'd like to add that if it's about size... There are just as many 10 inch white and brown guys as there are black guys.

The worlds biggest dick is actually a white American haha

Hey, I'm not American!!🥪"

But you are white bread 🥪

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By *ildTimes.Man
10 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"Also I'd like to add that if it's about size... There are just as many 10 inch white and brown guys as there are black guys.

The worlds biggest dick is actually a white American haha

Hey, I'm not American!!🥪

But you are white bread 🥪"

As long as you didnt say in-bread...🥪

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By *ndymac888Man
10 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Is the question more like, is it ok to fetishise black men ?

Probably yes it’s not like you can help what you have a fetish for (gym outfits for me) if any ladies had a fetish for sarcastic jocks I would probably welcome the attention as long as they aren’t dicks.

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By *ongAndThick123Man
10 weeks ago

Leeds


"Also I'd like to add that if it's about size... There are just as many 10 inch white and brown guys as there are black guys.

The worlds biggest dick is actually a white American haha "

That’s not true

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By *ikesEmBigMan
10 weeks ago

Herts


"This isn't me being bitter, just genuine curiosity.

All I see on here is more and more profiles popping up primarily begging for black guys... Is it that black guys are a race kink or is it something else?"

There's better things to worry about

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By *ongAndThick123Man
10 weeks ago

Leeds


"Is the question more like, is it ok to fetishise black men ?

Probably yes it’s not like you can help what you have a fetish for (gym outfits for me) if any ladies had a fetish for sarcastic jocks I would probably welcome the attention as long as they aren’t dicks."

This is a weird one for me. I’ve realised that a fetish isn’t a clear cut thing. Multiple people might have a fetish for black guys, but their underlying reasons for that fetish can be drastically different.

Some might like the visual appeal, some might be turned on by the stereotypical “bbc” thing from porn, some might relate to black guys more. Then there’s the other side where some see black guys as “dangerous” and “taboo” which I find quite weird. There’s also people who see black guys as sex crazed low IQ men that they can demand pleasure from (I’ve had loads of couples approach me as if I should meet their demands).

Even worse is the “queen is spades” (erm wtf calling someone a spade?) who wants to rule over black guys.

So yeah for some people I think it’s cool. And others I think it’s questionable. I don’t mind if someone is into me for my skin tone or dick size or even mildly based on porno fantasies (as long as respectful). But when it crosses a line then I’m totally disinterested and find it weird, distasteful and not the kind of people I’d ever associate with.

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By *ndymac888Man
10 weeks ago

Dumbarton


"Is the question more like, is it ok to fetishise black men ?

Probably yes it’s not like you can help what you have a fetish for (gym outfits for me) if any ladies had a fetish for sarcastic jocks I would probably welcome the attention as long as they aren’t dicks.

This is a weird one for me. I’ve realised that a fetish isn’t a clear cut thing. Multiple people might have a fetish for black guys, but their underlying reasons for that fetish can be drastically different.

Some might like the visual appeal, some might be turned on by the stereotypical “bbc” thing from porn, some might relate to black guys more. Then there’s the other side where some see black guys as “dangerous” and “taboo” which I find quite weird. There’s also people who see black guys as sex crazed low IQ men that they can demand pleasure from (I’ve had loads of couples approach me as if I should meet their demands).

Even worse is the “queen is spades” (erm wtf calling someone a spade?) who wants to rule over black guys.

So yeah for some people I think it’s cool. And others I think it’s questionable. I don’t mind if someone is into me for my skin tone or dick size or even mildly based on porno fantasies (as long as respectful). But when it crosses a line then I’m totally disinterested and find it weird, distasteful and not the kind of people I’d ever associate with."

I’ve not heard of the queen of spades ffs 😂

I get you though, totally about a respectful approach, I find Indian woman hot but not because I want to role play the colony years lol.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
10 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"This isn't me being bitter, just genuine curiosity.

All I see on here is more and more profiles popping up primarily begging for black guys... Is it that black guys are a race kink or is it something else?"

Maybe this is a regional thing?

If you live in an area with very mixed race groups chance's are you are likely to see more people being specific with their requirements???

If you live in an isolated rural community people are probably going to do the same.

However as with most things it's a porn driven fantasy and with porn being an addiction for many people it's hardly surprising that these "kink's" are becoming more prevalent

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
10 weeks ago

West Suffolk

Don’t fuss over what others may or may not be into. We all have our own tastes and preferences

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
10 weeks ago

Norwich

The words "begging for" are simply not where I'm at with my love for black men and nor do I beg anyone for attention.

I particularly like black african men as I have lived there. To me it's not a fetish. For me I'm attracted to people who are culturally very different to me. Who I can learn from and get to know them and their background. I also love eating different foods, travelling and music.

There's no taboo attached to my love for black men.

We are all very different and we need to respect that and someone's preferences.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Central

Let people who don't match you, do their own thing. Invest energy only into those who could match you. If you know someone who doesn't have you as a potential partner, sure - go ahead and discuss it. But there are better things to be done

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By *ensualMan
10 weeks ago

Sutton

I would take an alternative view.

I would suggest interracial relationships and or sex is based on fun, sexual satisfaction or relationship suitability.

Fans of boxing would know about the boxerJack Johnson. He was the man whom the white boxing world seeking for someone to beat him created the term "The Great White Hope". Anyway I quote:

"Some attribute enactment of the law [The Mann Act1910 USA] to the case of world-champion heavyweight boxer Jack Johnson.[11] Johnson was known to be intimate with white women, some of whom he met at the fighting venue after his fights. In 1912, he was prosecuted, and later convicted, for "transporting women across state lines for immoral purposes" as a result of his relationship with a white [word can't be used on Fab so use woman of the night] named Belle Schreiber;[11] the month prior to the prosecution, Johnson had been charged with violating the Mann Act due to traveling with his white girlfriend, Lucille Cameron, who refused to cooperate with the prosecution and whom he married soon thereafter.[12]"

Relationships between white women and black men have been happening since before porn and even 1912. The paranoid fascination of white men with such relationships has existed since since slvry days certainly before 1912 and there is the research to prove it.

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By *ack1971Man
9 weeks ago

Cork


"The words "begging for" are simply not where I'm at with my love for black men and nor do I beg anyone for attention.

I particularly like black african men as I have lived there. To me it's not a fetish. For me I'm attracted to people who are culturally very different to me. Who I can learn from and get to know them and their background. I also love eating different foods, travelling and music.

There's no taboo attached to my love for black men.

We are all very different and we need to respect that and someone's preferences.

"

This has to be the most honest, respectful, and positive answer possible.

I have dated women who were very different to me in all aspects to what I grew up with. Being from a small island in the 80's Ireland was mono religious and mono ethnic for the most part. I love culture, food, music, different languages and customs so broadening my horizons and learning about people by actually being with them has only added to my life and I'm very grateful for it.

Reducing people to a fetish is dehumanising and purely selfish.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
9 weeks ago

Bedfuck

Personally I've experienced no difference between colours.

It's who's on the other end that counts.

If they are friendly and polite then things might happen.

Size comes in all colours as does stamina.

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