FabSwingers.com forum: Change of attitude

By *infullyObedient OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Woodley

Why is it one minute my body is gorgeous and they'd do anything to meet me.

then when I don't reply I'm fat, saggy skinned and covered in stretch marks and blocked

🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Some people don’t like rejection

Just be thankful you never met them

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Schrödinger's whore 💜

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By *rtwisted98Man
10 weeks ago

Market harborough

"Why is it one minute my body is gorgeous and they'd do anything to meet me.

then when I don't reply I'm fat, saggy skinned and covered in stretch marks and blocked

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Because narcs and assholes don't like being told no. If someone decided they didn't wanna meet me. I wouldn't be angry I'd just take a look at myself and try work out what I can change.

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By *aomilatteCouple
10 weeks ago

Midlands

Because they're losers?

You're one of many who get messages like that. Funny thing is the people who send them won't comment on this thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"Why is it one minute my body is gorgeous and they'd do anything to meet me.

then when I don't reply I'm fat, saggy skinned and covered in stretch marks and blocked

🤣🤣

Because narcs and assholes don't like being told no. If someone decided they didn't wanna meet me. I wouldn't be angry I'd just take a look at myself and try work out what I can change."

What would you want to change?

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By *issmorganWoman
10 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Yeah, some just can't take rejection. It's why I now block straight after I've said no ta.

I once went from being gorgeous to old and frigid, when I said no thanks to a bloke.

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By *infullyObedient OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Woodley

"Schrödinger's whore 💜"

Omg. This made me chuckle. 🤣🤣

Think I'll have ti use that in the future. Thank you

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By *antsGerfMan
10 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Why do sone people not realise, not everyone is attracted to everyone.

A rejection isn't personal it's just your not there type, just get over it and stop sending abuse.

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By *infullyObedient OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Woodley

I didn't even reject them though. Didn't delete the message. Just read it and hadn't replied as got distracted. 🤣

I'm not bothered. Just don't understand how someone's attitude can change so quickly and wonder what makes them turn nasty. 🤷‍♀️

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By *antsGerfMan
10 weeks ago

Basingstoke

"I didn't even reject them though. Didn't delete the message. Just read it and hadn't replied as got distracted. 🤣

I'm not bothered. Just don't understand how someone's attitude can change so quickly and wonder what makes them turn nasty. 🤷‍♀️

Guess they just thought you were ignoring them on purpose....

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

"I didn't even reject them though. Didn't delete the message. Just read it and hadn't replied as got distracted. 🤣

I'm not bothered. Just don't understand how someone's attitude can change so quickly and wonder what makes them turn nasty. 🤷‍♀️

Their language changed that’s all. They just showed their real personality.

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By *ndymac888Man
10 weeks ago

Dumbarton

They can’t take the message back so the only way to lash out is to reverse it, turn the positive into a negative.

It’s playground thinking really “will you go out with me ?” No “slut”

They dont know that even the over complimentary first message might also be considered a bit of a red flag.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

"Why is it one minute my body is gorgeous and they'd do anything to meet me.

then when I don't reply I'm fat, saggy skinned and covered in stretch marks and blocked

🤣🤣

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I say thank gawd you dodged the bullet if that’s what they really think it’s just a pity you can’t name them for being abusive

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Apparently I have no class or manners because I delete messages unread. I shall continue to do so though...

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends

I wonder if men on here only message women they’re interested in or if they just message everyone.

Anyway I think people who get abusive when rejected are often upset at the fact that someone they aren’t really attracted to would dare to reject them.

Just strange people who get a kick out of knocking the confidence of others maybe? I don’t know.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
10 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.

As a couple of messers (we have kids) and timewasters (have jobs and lives) we get a fair bit of that.

First message she is a goddess with curves, next she is a fat pig.

Funny how that happens.

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By *eo PublicMan
10 weeks ago

Lincoln

Because some people are complete tossers, and destined to be so forever. Had a guy message me offering me his arse anytime,and because I was non-committal in my reply I was suddenly putting it about too much and he didn't want to meet anyone who didn't value their sexual health. He then blocked me before I could reply which was probably a good thing t be fair.

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Why is it one minute my body is gorgeous and they'd do anything to meet me.

🤣🤣"

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Tastes vary, penchants change, men are capricious creatures oh fåir måiden. They lack benevolence.

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By *avexxMan
10 weeks ago

cheshire

these kind of people have no respect or manners,, you look great op anybody can see that..

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By *ife NinjaMan
10 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Why is it one minute my body is gorgeous and they'd do anything to meet me.

then when I don't reply I'm fat, saggy skinned and covered in stretch marks and blocked

🤣🤣

I guess you said no. Gentleman should react with manners and withdraw. 🤓

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By *partharmonyCouple
10 weeks ago

Ruislip

"Why is it one minute my body is gorgeous and they'd do anything to meet me.

then when I don't reply I'm fat, saggy skinned and covered in stretch marks and blocked

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Because they are a twat. We'd always say you're a hottie, even in the unlikely scenario that you wouldn't jump at the chance to see us.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

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By *ack1971Man
9 weeks ago

Cork

"Why is it one minute my body is gorgeous and they'd do anything to meet me.

then when I don't reply I'm fat, saggy skinned and covered in stretch marks and blocked

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There's also the fact a lot of guys would make contact with a compliment knowing they face rejection with a high probability it will be some form of rejection, and when it happens they get pissy and take it out on the woman.

Nothing new there. Some people are just cunts.

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By *ubikslongswordMan
9 weeks ago

Rubiksville

People insult after rejection because it reassured them that you're the problem not them so it makes them feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
9 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

"Why is it one minute my body is gorgeous and they'd do anything to meet me.

then when I don't reply I'm fat, saggy skinned and covered in stretch marks and blocked

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Wine and cheese does that to me too.

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By *m3232Man
9 weeks ago

maidenhead

"Why is it one minute my body is gorgeous and they'd do anything to meet me.

then when I don't reply I'm fat, saggy skinned and covered in stretch marks and blocked

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Myself I think it’s great and I would love to meet you and I am local

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By *ulie.your. bottom. slutTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Near Glasgow

"I didn't even reject them though. Didn't delete the message. Just read it and hadn't replied as got distracted. 🤣

I'm not bothered. Just don't understand how someone's attitude can change so quickly and wonder what makes them turn nasty. 🤷‍♀️

So many people with substance issues these days. The become a bit of a Jeckyl and Hyde characters.

Also online distance makes some people braver than they would be in the real world.

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By *orbidden eastMan
9 weeks ago

london dodging electric bikes

Some people are not mature enough to take rejection simple as this. 🤷‍♂️🤠

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By *opedomMan
9 weeks ago

Hayle

"I didn't even reject them though. Didn't delete the message. Just read it and hadn't replied as got distracted. 🤣

I'm not bothered. Just don't understand how someone's attitude can change so quickly and wonder what makes them turn nasty. 🤷‍♀️

Isn't that the way of it these days though?

Instant gratification or they throw the toys out of the pram.

It feels like a constant battle to counteract the influence of illiterate, pushy, ego driven bellends demanding attention from a one sentence message.

Rant over, but don't start me ghosting. 🤣🤣

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By *opedomMan
9 weeks ago

Hayle

"Why is it one minute my body is gorgeous and they'd do anything to meet me.

then when I don't reply I'm fat, saggy skinned and covered in stretch marks and blocked

🤣🤣

I guess you said no. Gentleman should react with manners and withdraw. 🤓"

The words gentleman and manners made me look at yr profile. As I suspected, age seems to matter when it comes to such issues. Unfortunately manners are as common these days as sense is.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
9 weeks ago

London

"I didn't even reject them though. Didn't delete the message. Just read it and hadn't replied as got distracted. 🤣

I'm not bothered. Just don't understand how someone's attitude can change so quickly and wonder what makes them turn nasty. 🤷‍♀️

Guess they just thought you were ignoring them on purpose.... "

Even if they did there's no need for insults. We all have lives, people just need to chill.

Not every message gets read, even less get replies.

Patience, civility and manners go a long way, even on fab.

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