FabSwingers.com forum: Face pics

By *loydy OP Man
9 weeks ago

British

I find it strange lots of people asking for face pics or no reply. But have none on show

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By *aomilatteCouple
9 weeks ago

Midlands

Lots of things are strange on here. Maybe don't message them and message someone else?

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By *vaRoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Not many profiles choose public face photos, but they’ll send in a message. Perhaps that’s what they mean?

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By *upersonic SamMan
9 weeks ago

wigan

Face pics on profiles can be a risk to people anonymity, I keep mine friends only unless I'm online and actively seeking to chat or meet. Never an issue to send one first though, somebody has to

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

You don't see the difference to sending one privately to having one on show publicly?

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By *uilder.funMan
9 weeks ago

Bristol

I keep mine private but happy to send. I've found most people are ok with this. Some won't reply after sending....although this can hurt the ego slightly we aren't all attracted to everyone we come across.

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By *xydadbodMan
9 weeks ago

Milton keynes

Nah, i don't show mine publicly.. learn my mistake after last time.. I'm happy to share it privately though if we are chatting of course.

With so many strange and bizarre people on here, can't be too careful really

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Not many profiles choose public face photos, but they’ll send in a message. Perhaps that’s what they mean?"

This.

It's why there are options for where to post photos. Public. Friends only. Private.

It's very easy to keep one set to private and attach to a message, and there's even the auto delete option.

This isn't blind date. Most will want to see someone's face if there's any potential to look at meeting, whether on a first message or early in a conversation.

'Strange' to me would be having a long drawn out chat, making plans and then having to back track because there's no attraction when you do finally see eachother. 🤷‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

"Nah, i don't show mine publicly.. learn my mistake after last time.. I'm happy to share it privately though if we are chatting of course.

With so many strange and bizarre people on here, can't be too careful really

What happened last time?

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Lots of us don't have public face pics op, but have them in private or friends only.

Doesn't mean we can't ask for one, then swap ours.

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's also a good filter for those ladies and couples who are inundated with mail.

They can then decide to take it further if there's any attraction.

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By *ewtfaceMan
9 weeks ago

Bracknell

I'll send in private messages....no problem as I'm so handsome

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If they're only responding to profiles with gave pics on show but have none of their own, fuck that noise.

Most times I believe that references sending a picture privately. Sometimes people don't even look at the profile to see if there are face pictures of there weren't any attached to the message.

There's a difference between showing your face to people you may want to bone and just having it out in public where all the lunatics can see 💜

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By *ndymac888Man
9 weeks ago

Dumbarton

I get why people don’t want to do it they don’t want stopped in the street and have an awkward conversation with someone with no boundaries approaching them just because they are in proximity.

Or some immature arsehole at work finds your profile after d*unkenly creating a profile one weekend and decides it’s worth sharing lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Asking privately isn't really comparable to posting them publicly.

If you don't want to send them don't op.

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By *agic.MMan
9 weeks ago

Orpington

"Not many profiles choose public face photos, but they’ll send in a message. Perhaps that’s what they mean?"

What they mean is " you send me a face pic, and if I like your face you might get a reply"

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's safe for me and other Tgirls to have face pics. If people can still recognise us in glam mode, then we're not doing this very well.

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By *hortieWoman
9 weeks ago

Northampton

"Not many profiles choose public face photos, but they’ll send in a message. Perhaps that’s what they mean?

What they mean is " you send me a face pic, and if I like your face you might get a reply"

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By *rtwisted98Man
9 weeks ago

Market harborough

See is rather post face pics public then show the goods later upon request.

I'm not knocking anyone that does different that's just my preference

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By *sStephenPickleMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

Asking someone to send pics in a message is different to asking them to have them on their profile. If they ask for a face pic in a message then why should they have face pics on their profile? They’re welcome to send one in return privately.

That’s how I see it anyway. Hope things go well for you OP

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