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By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

Drink spiking has horrifyingly become almost common place (my daughter was possibly a victim of this)

Have you been affected by this awful trend?

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By *idssissyTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Nr cricket ground birm

Possibly happened to me when I was much younger on a scout camp. Will never know for sure.

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
10 weeks ago

Sheffield

I haven't but I have close friends who have.

I actually saw a video recently of a social experiment at a US college of people dropping gummy sweets (eg haribo) or sherbet into people's drinks to demonstrate how easy it can be to get spiked.

Really is kind of sad.

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By *oughmanMan
10 weeks ago

Sunderland

Disgusting. People who do that need to be delt with, permanently.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

"I haven't but I have close friends who have.

I actually saw a video recently of a social experiment at a US college of people dropping gummy sweets (eg haribo) or sherbet into people's drinks to demonstrate how easy it can be to get spiked.

Really is kind of sad."

Yes...especially as (i feel at least) the idea of drink spiking is seen as somehow trivial...or...almost accepted by society...weird.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

So sorry for your daughter. So glad it wasn't a thing when I was a student.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham

I was a few years ago, luckily my girlfriends noticed how "d*unk" I got and took me home

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
10 weeks ago

London

I’ve been in bars and clubs and noticed men hovering close to woman and looking over their drinks. Absolutely vile and I always make a point of telling the possible victim and saying it quite loudly too, and of course tell the bar staff. These “men” usually leave quite quickly then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

"So sorry for your daughter. So glad it wasn't a thing when I was a student. "

Thank you....the worst of it was it was unprovable...which leaves things hanging...won't go into detail.

But this is how predators prevail.

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
10 weeks ago

South Wales

Sadly this has happened to me…..not when I was younger but when I was 46. Not sure what they were trying to achieve, luckily my husband knew something was wrong and took me home but I was ill for a couple of days.

It was a horrible experience and I’m sorry your daughter has had that happen to her xx

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By *heonixrising500Man
10 weeks ago

Barnsley

Ssaw it happen a few weeks ago i call i accidently knocks the girls drink over and got her another tu lads that did it judt ldughed and walk out

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
10 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

It also happened to someone we know. These men are vile opportunistic scum!!!

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Horsham

Not me personally, but it happened to a mate at one of his friends parties. Not sure what he was given, but he went psychotic, saying that we were after him and wanted to kill him.

It took 5 of us at once to overpower him, he wasn't a big lad either.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Sort of.

Years ago when I was at Uni one of my housemates liked a drink, but she didn't like to be the only one d*unk and when she went to the bar she had a nasty habit of dropping something extra into people's drinks.

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By *parkle1974Woman
10 weeks ago

Leeds

I was years ago. Ended up in hospital for over a week. I ordered a drink, took a sip then went for a dance, came back, downed it and that's the last thing I remember..apparently I started being really sick. Thankfully my brother and sister were at hand and called an ambulance x

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I’m sorry to hear that this has happened to your daughter, absolutely vile.

I’ve had experience, just keep an eye on your daughter for the next 24hrs and make sure she’s hydrating on water. Try not too have any fizzy drinks or foods that have a high sugar content.

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By *ongAndThick123Man
10 weeks ago

"Drink spiking has horrifyingly become almost common place (my daughter was possibly a victim of this)

Have you been affected by this awful trend?

(Dms will stay private)"

Yes, it happened to me at the end of last year. Awful experience. I’ll save the details, but it’s pretty scary not knowing what happened

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By *ongAndThick123Man
10 weeks ago

"I was years ago. Ended up in hospital for over a week. I ordered a drink, took a sip then went for a dance, came back, downed it and that's the last thing I remember..apparently I started being really sick. Thankfully my brother and sister were at hand and called an ambulance x"

By any chance had you been to Be At One ?

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By *ay6eeMan
10 weeks ago

South Wales

Not me (obvs) but happened to a friend on a works night out, several years ago now. Horrible, we didn't know what was going on with her.

Of course these days the mind should automatically assume a spiked drink. Honestly these assholes should be force-fed overdoses.

And ladies, if your drink leaves your line of sight even for a second - assume it's been tampered with and get a fresh one. Not worth the risk.

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By *ndymac888Man
10 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Yes I’ve had friends men and woman that have been victims of this.

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By *parkle1974Woman
10 weeks ago

Leeds

By any chance had you been to Be At One ?"

Nope, just a local nightclub back home.

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By *g16discreetMan
10 weeks ago

Derby/Notts

Wife had hers spiked a few years back, some guy claimed to be her brother and was telling bouncers she was d*unk and needed to leave. Thankfully she was out with my sister who noticed what was happening and bought her home. They both had their phones go missing that night too

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Yes just the once thankfully, I was lucky I was with a group of friends, I don't remember much but I'd only had two drinks and remember dancing away as usual then the next second I was crazy dizzy and couldn't see straight luckily I grabbed a friend to say I don't feel good and all of them came outside with me, wouldn't allow anyone near me, got me home and we had all 12 of us fast asleep on my floor.

I'd hate to have known what would have happened if I was alone.

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By *eird_With_a_BeardMan
10 weeks ago

Falkirk

Not directly to me, but this happened last year to my friends, daughters best friend. He was spiked, followed and assaulted in Glasgow.

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By *iamond couple twoCouple
10 weeks ago

Wakefield

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By *ust want fun 888Man
10 weeks ago

nearby

I don’t honestly know but I do suspect I was.

I’m a person who can drink quite a lot and one night I left a pub to go to another, I was sober, went to the other pub and ordered my usual drink, the next thing I woke up about 12 miles away outside another pub and still to this day don’t know what happened

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
10 weeks ago

your head

Yep, twice. It's fucking horrible.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
10 weeks ago

your head

I hope your daughter is okay OP ❤️

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Central

I've sadly had it happen to friends, when out..we must all now keep hold of our drinks, all of the time and have full visibility of them

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By *rHotNottsMan
10 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I don’t believe it’s almost common place at all, sounds like you’re getting a distorted version of reality by the news you read

I’ve travelled in some places frequently where it’s meant to be common, I have three daughters , we don’t know anyone who’s been a victim of this

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By *ongAndThick123Man
10 weeks ago

"I don’t believe it’s almost common place at all, sounds like you’re getting a distorted version of reality by the news you read

I’ve travelled in some places frequently where it’s meant to be common, I have three daughters , we don’t know anyone who’s been a victim of this"

Sounds like you have a distorted reality. You know three people it hasn’t happened to. Therefore it’s not common. Right.

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By *ecky and justCouple
10 weeks ago

Godalming

We can’t be 100% sure but we think Becky was spiked a couple of years ago, at a swinger social of all places.

Now, I’ve seen Becky drinking and this was way different. Totally incoherent and not even able to stand or make sense speaking. Ot took 4 separate cabs to get her home as she was so ill.

It’s never happened since, even after some heavy nights and the memory of it still gives her issues.

Not going to name the event as it was held in a pub and could’ve been anyone but we are cautious now.

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By *ddie7XXXMan
10 weeks ago

wigan

100% sure I was spiked in Magaluf in the early 90s so the barman could make a move on the girl I was with. I woke up in his flat upstairs with absolutely no recollection of what had happened from about two drinks prior to wanting to go home. I never knew what actually happened but I know that something was wrong and the girl I was with wasn’t the same person the rest of the holiday

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By *ackformore100Man
10 weeks ago

Tin town

"Drink spiking has horrifyingly become almost common place (my daughter was possibly a victim of this)

Have you been affected by this awful trend?

(Dms will stay private)"

My daughter was. Ended up in hospital. Her friend was spiked with a needle and collapsed in a night club. I was blissfully unaware of this but it's horrifying and criminal what some men do to women, presumably to get their jollies.

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
10 weeks ago

South Wales

"I don’t believe it’s almost common place at all, sounds like you’re getting a distorted version of reality by the news you read

I’ve travelled in some places frequently where it’s meant to be common, I have three daughters , we don’t know anyone who’s been a victim of this"

Considering the amount of people in this thread that have experienced this I’m not sure I agree with your statement at all

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By *ackformore100Man
10 weeks ago

Tin town

"I don’t believe it’s almost common place at all, sounds like you’re getting a distorted version of reality by the news you read

I’ve travelled in some places frequently where it’s meant to be common, I have three daughters , we don’t know anyone who’s been a victim of this"

Sadly not. For girl students...

Key Statistics on Sexual Assault at UK Universities:

62% of students and graduates have experienced sexual violence at UK universities.

70% of female respondents reported experiencing sexual violence.

48% of female students have been sexually assaulted.

73% of disabled students have experienced sexual violence, with 54% experiencing sexual assault.

26% of male respondents experienced sexual violence at university.

Only 6% of victims reported their experience of sexual violence to their university.

Just 2% of students who reported sexual violence were satisfied with the university’s process.

57% of incidents involved a perpetrator known to the victim, with 75% of those perpetrators being another student.

31% of students felt pressured into doing something sexual during their time at university.

28% of sexual violence incidents occurred in halls of residence, with 24% happening at social events.

Only 47% of students believe that groping is considered sexual assault at their university.

78% of respondents agreed that some people blame the victim for the sexual violence they experienced.

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By *ulie.your. bottom. slutTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Near Glasgow

"Ssaw it happen a few weeks ago i call i accidently knocks the girls drink over and got her another tu lads that did it judt ldughed and walk out"

Why did you not report it to the management and they would hopefully got the law involved.

It's a criminal offence that carries upto a 10 year prison sentence. What you did, admiral has it was meant the perpetrators got away and could find another victim.

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
10 weeks ago

Voldsøy

Yes, when I was 18/19. Luckily, I was at one of our local pubs with my partner (at the time), and some friends. They took me home and stayed the night, to watch over me. I remember being in the pub, had 3 drinks and a good time. Then, waking up with the biggest headache of my life, and was told I was nasty to my friends and partner before falling asleep. Anything between those times is non-existant.

It's scary that no matter how careful you are with your drinks, they still have other ways!

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By *aybeLadyWoman
10 weeks ago

West Dublin

Yes at a Fab private party in fact, few yrs ago.

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By *orphia2003Woman
10 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

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By *orphia2003Woman
10 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Yes, it's happened twice. Once at a club, where the door staff refused to believe I was anything other than d*unk, and threw me out.

I'm lucky that the local taxis knew me and I got taken home.

Second was at a fab social event a few years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I had my drink spiked when I was in my 20's, if I had any doubt the guy in question apologised years later when I ran into him.

Knob.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

Wow! I'm so shocked that in this small community so many others have had similar experiences...I won't respond to each of you directly but my heart goes out for you...and I appreciate also the support towards my daughter.

I just don't understand the mind of the kind of person who would drug another for kicks, or for the pleasure of abusing a virtually unconcious person.

The effects go beyond the physical and can have a life long psychological affect on those affected.

For someone's unthinking (or worse cold calculating) actions.

Makes my blood boil. (Long rant deleted).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

"I don’t believe it’s almost common place at all, sounds like you’re getting a distorted version of reality by the news you read

I’ve travelled in some places frequently where it’s meant to be common, I have three daughters , we don’t know anyone who’s been a victim of this"

The majority of posts on here have been about or from people who have actually experienced this first hand.

It is not heresay or exaggeration.

The fact that you and your daughters have not experienced it personally does not mean that it isn't happening.

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By *midnight-Woman
10 weeks ago

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Happened to me as a teen - had been working all night on a pub and then we went to a nightclub (yeah I'm that old

). Was drinking my first (and only) alcoholic drink (a g+t I think) and I was like a slow motion d*unk person, with a group of men surrounding me -vone of them inappropriately touched me - I slapped him (again 'in slow motion') they all laughed and I staggered out, couldn't understand what was wrong with me. No idea how I got home.

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By *midnight-Woman
10 weeks ago

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"Yes, it's happened twice. Once at a club, where the door staff refused to believe I was anything other than d*unk, and threw me out.

I'm lucky that the local taxis knew me and I got taken home.

Second was at a fab social event a few years ago."

A fab social event

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

London/Kent

Hi OP, Yes I had my drink spiked many years ago when I was a late teenager by a well enough Band member at the time.

I hadn't many drinks but I totally blacked out & several hours later I awoke to him having smelling salts under my nose in a hotel room

Yes Fact.

It took me awhile to come around. I was naked & felt the after affects of vaginal sexual penetration.

I don't remember a thing of what happened, I just remember being at the after party after he performed in his band & in his company & he buying me drinks & about 12 hours later being woken up with foul smelling salts.

I never did anything about it & just dressed very quickly & legged it out of hotel room, it actually took me awhile to realise what exactly happened & I was groggy for the whole day like in a sedated trance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

"Happened to me as a teen - had been working all night on a pub and then we went to a nightclub (yeah I'm that old

Awful..definitely a spike...glad you got away from it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

"Hi OP, Yes I had my drink spiked many years ago when I was a late teenager by a well enough Band member at the time.

I hadn't many drinks but I totally blacked out & several hours later I awoke to him having smelling salts under my nose in a hotel room

Yes Fact.

It took me awhile to come around. I was naked & felt the after affects of vaginal sexual penetration.

The bastard..just goes to show how long this stuff has been going on. Glad you've put it behind you now..x

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By *ungle JesusMan
10 weeks ago

Liverpool

Just gonna put this in here, cos I've seen a few comments, IT IS NOT JUST MEN!! I have caught many women doing the exact same thing in my years working bars.

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
10 weeks ago

London

"Just gonna put this in here, cos I've seen a few comments, IT IS NOT JUST MEN!! I have caught many women doing the exact same thing in my years working bars. "

Really? You’ve seen women drug men or other woman? I’ve not heard of one case of a woman doing this? Do men not come forward and report it?

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By *oBoCoupleCouple
10 weeks ago

Bournemouth

My daughter and her friends drink was spiked, luckily my daughter managed to call her boyfriend in time and he went to get her. That was in Bournemouth…scumbags….

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By *aramel.desiresMan
10 weeks ago

Laleham

One of the worse crimes around and the law should come down heavy on anyone who does this.

We need covers for our drinks. Inconvenient but helpfully.

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By *ungle JesusMan
10 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Just gonna put this in here, cos I've seen a few comments, IT IS NOT JUST MEN!! I have caught many women doing the exact same thing in my years working bars.

Really? You’ve seen women drug men or other woman? I’ve not heard of one case of a woman doing this? Do men not come forward and report it?"

I've taken drinks away from women when I've seen other women put something in it.

I'm just saying anyone can do this so don't just expect it to be a man. Everyone need to be careful out there

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By *abioMan
10 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I had it happen to me when I was a uni back in the day… just as well I had some bloody good friends and suspected something because all I remember was going to a club and the next thing I remember is waking up in an A&E bed

Apparently I was in a bad way….

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By *ellinever70Woman
10 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Just gonna put this in here, cos I've seen a few comments, IT IS NOT JUST MEN!! I have caught many women doing the exact same thing in my years working bars. "

But mostly though, right?

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By *ongAndThick123Man
10 weeks ago

"Just gonna put this in here, cos I've seen a few comments, IT IS NOT JUST MEN!! I have caught many women doing the exact same thing in my years working bars.

Really? You’ve seen women drug men or other woman? I’ve not heard of one case of a woman doing this? Do men not come forward and report it?"

My friend was spiked, taken back to some dodgy house and had his belongings, cash, cards, camera, phone and wallet taken by two women. So yes it does happen. He didn’t tell anyone because he was embarrassed by it. We were together on a night out and I went to the cash machine, came back and he had vanished. He didn’t even tell me what happened until a few days later (he initially said it was two guys who took his stuff in the street).

So yeah plenty of women do it.

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
10 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Yes...especially as (i feel at least) the idea of drink spiking is seen as somehow trivial...or...almost accepted by society...weird."

I don't think it's necessarily seen as trivial.

Legally it counts as poisoning (and there are serious implications if there is an allergic reaction or interaction with someone's medication)

It's also often associated with sexual assaults which is serious as all hell.

If individuals don't take it seriously it will be assuming, "I'm really careful. It couldn't happen to me"

In the same way that people assume lots of martial arts or carrying a gun will prevent them getting mugged. Until they get mugged.

It's why thing like the video I saw of people dropping jelly babies into people's drinks without anyone noticing makes such an important point.

Hope your daughter is safe and nothing too bad happened

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

London/Kent

"Hi OP, Yes I had my drink spiked many years ago when I was a late teenager by a well enough Band member at the time.

I hadn't many drinks but I totally blacked out & several hours later I awoke to him having smelling salts under my nose in a hotel room

Yes Fact.

It took me awhile to come around. I was naked & felt the after affects of vaginal sexual penetration.

The bastard..just goes to show how long this stuff has been going on. Glad you've put it behind you now..x "

I'm just glad I don't remember ✌️👍🙏👍✌️I was

Knocked Out!!!!!!! By a spike 🍹

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