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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago

I need help on how to apply mascara, i have Essential Tremors so i'm very shaky and find it really difficult to put on mascara, i stab my eye, my face, wipe it all over the place trying to apply it, especially to my left eye.

Does anyone else have this problem and any tips on how to put it on ?

I mostly have my eye lashes tinted but it doesn't last very long so really need to be better with mascara

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Bristol

Perhaps try holding the brush as steady as you can right the tips of the lashes... then quickly blink your lashes through the brush

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
9 weeks ago

scunthorpe

I have no experience in this at all but could it help if you rest your elbow on something so you’re only really holding your forearm?

Donna x

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By *iss.BellaWoman
9 weeks ago

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https://youtu.be/fJ8HLoHFWK4?si=dJfLrFOxRLToyy04

A few ideas there, I'm not surenif she covers this but have you tries resting your elbow on a table etc? I'm not sure how much that would help?

I've also just read whilst finding this popping the wand in a hair tie on your wrist to help with steadiness.. might be worth a try?

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
9 weeks ago

Altrincham

Would resting your elbow on a solid surface help?

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By *vory_RoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Cotswolds

You can get mascara shields that you either stick on above /below your lashes or a plastic guard version you hold. This then allows you to just apply the mascara and it won't transfer onto your skin/smudge and doesn't matter how messy you are as it won't go past the guard.

Amazon have different versions

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By *om and JennieCouple
9 weeks ago

Chams or Socials

I used to have my lashes tinted then wear a clear mascara (back in the days when I had a social life )

J x

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By *cedGemWoman
9 weeks ago

your dreams


"I need help on how to apply mascara, i have Essential Tremors so i'm very shaky and find it really difficult to put on mascara, i stab my eye, my face, wipe it all over the place trying to apply it, especially to my left eye.

Does anyone else have this problem and any tips on how to put it on ?

I mostly have my eye lashes tinted but it doesn't last very long so really need to be better with mascara "

I'd say eyelash lift & tint,if done well it should last 6 weeks

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By *teff_RedTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Greenhouse or Attic

Maybe false lashes, then again I’ve yet to get them to fit myself, bloody nightmare for me 😂

But other girls do ok x

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By *orny PTMan
9 weeks ago

Peterborough

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By *orny PTMan
9 weeks ago

Peterborough


"I need help on how to apply mascara, i have Essential Tremors so i'm very shaky and find it really difficult to put on mascara, i stab my eye, my face, wipe it all over the place trying to apply it, especially to my left eye.

Does anyone else have this problem and any tips on how to put it on ?

I mostly have my eye lashes tinted but it doesn't last very long so really need to be better with mascara "

I don't have this problem, I don't wear make up, outside of Halloween.

but I do have terrible handwriting, so I get the frustration.

Your question might be best answered by an occupational therapist, as they deal with this sort of question all of the time.

Different conditions: granted, but who's to say you can't copy these sort of techniques? (Think which condition shares the same experience as yourself, then hunt down the charity's forums for advice.). Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago

Thank you for the suggestions. I do have my elbow on the dressing table to keep as still as possible but it doesn't help.

I will try the bobble idea and moving my lashes rather than the brush.

I have my eye lashes tinted approx every 5 weeks but my hair grows so fast , my eye lashes too i presume, that after 3 weeks they need doing again but i can't afford to have them done that often

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By *uckboy786Man
9 weeks ago

London

I have essential tremors too. I think using two hands is the suggestion I have. In particular, grabbing one hand by the wrist with the other to steady it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago

I've looked on a Parkinsons website and they also suggest a shield as was suggested here so i'm off to amazon to have a look

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"I have essential tremors too. I think using two hands is the suggestion I have. In particular, grabbing one hand by the wrist with the other to steady it"

Thank you

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By *oodmessMan
9 weeks ago

yumsville

There was something on Dragons Den a while ago... Just looked the name up and the company is called Human Beauty. They did a range of products that were very well received no only for the type but ergonomics

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By *oodmessMan
9 weeks ago

yumsville

There will be a video around if you google dragons den human beauty, make up. It'll give you an idea of them before any purchase as opposed to a simple website

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

When I have the shakes, I rest my elbow on the sink and apply it, I don't know if that's any help for you.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
9 weeks ago

bradford


"I need help on how to apply mascara, i have Essential Tremors so i'm very shaky and find it really difficult to put on mascara, i stab my eye, my face, wipe it all over the place trying to apply it, especially to my left eye.

Does anyone else have this problem and any tips on how to put it on ?

I mostly have my eye lashes tinted but it doesn't last very long so really need to be better with mascara "

may i ask if you also have trouble with the eyeliner pencil or pen.

as goes for the mascara and eyeliner my advice for shaky hands is dont put it on as eyes are most important.

alternative is use 2 different eyeshadows one near the eyes and another so it gives the effect of the eyeliner

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By *orny PTMan
9 weeks ago

Peterborough


"I've looked on a Parkinsons website and they also suggest a shield as was suggested here so i'm off to amazon to have a look

Thank you"

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"I need help on how to apply mascara, i have Essential Tremors so i'm very shaky and find it really difficult to put on mascara, i stab my eye, my face, wipe it all over the place trying to apply it, especially to my left eye.

Does anyone else have this problem and any tips on how to put it on ?

I mostly have my eye lashes tinted but it doesn't last very long so really need to be better with mascara

may i ask if you also have trouble with the eyeliner pencil or pen.

as goes for the mascara and eyeliner my advice for shaky hands is dont put it on as eyes are most important.

alternative is use 2 different eyeshadows one near the eyes and another so it gives the effect of the eyeliner "

Hi

I don't use eyeliner, far to sharp and pointy looking. Good idea about the 2 different eye shadows, i'll try it.

Thank you everyone

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By *ophie_GTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Gainsborough

I use a plastic mascara shield and MAC travel mascara.

The travel mascara have shorter wands which are easier to keep steady.

I hope you find something which helps x

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
9 weeks ago

Altrincham


"Thank you for the suggestions. I do have my elbow on the dressing table to keep as still as possible but it doesn't help.

I will try the bobble idea and moving my lashes rather than the brush.

I have my eye lashes tinted approx every 5 weeks but my hair grows so fast , my eye lashes too i presume, that after 3 weeks they need doing again but i can't afford to have them done that often

"

I know it's costly but what about having semi permanent lashes done?

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By *ig1gaz1Man
9 weeks ago

bradford


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Hi

I don't use eyeliner, far to sharp and pointy looking. Good idea about the 2 different eye shadows, i'll try it.

Thank you everyone "

this video shows eye shadows to good usage all by using brushes

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pqBBVY-yxpw

you can pause it just before she applies mascara as the affect is already there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago

Thank you so much everyone x

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By *orny PTMan
9 weeks ago

Peterborough

Would you be willing to post a before and after video on Youtube , so we can see your progress?

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By *hat.coupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Dartford

Do you have a friend that you can ask to help you maybe? I only really wear mascara and make up onspecial occasions

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"Would you be willing to post a before and after video on Youtube , so we can see your progress?"

Possibly, i've just videoed myself just now, mascara everywhere lol. Will see how good i get

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"Do you have a friend that you can ask to help you maybe? I only really wear mascara and make up onspecial occasions

Mrs x"

I could ask my daughter to help me if she's free, we have a wedding late summer to go to. My hubby could possibly help !!! I could also book with the beautician that does my eye lash tint. x

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By *hat.coupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Dartford


"Do you have a friend that you can ask to help you maybe? I only really wear mascara and make up onspecial occasions

Mrs x

I could ask my daughter to help me if she's free, we have a wedding late summer to go to. My hubby could possibly help !!! I could also book with the beautician that does my eye lash tint. x"

Sounds like a plan xx

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"Do you have a friend that you can ask to help you maybe? I only really wear mascara and make up onspecial occasions

Mrs x

I could ask my daughter to help me if she's free, we have a wedding late summer to go to. My hubby could possibly help !!! I could also book with the beautician that does my eye lash tint. x

Sounds like a plan xx

Mrs x"

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
9 weeks ago

North West

I've not read it all so apologies if this has been mentioned already.

The pre-glued lash clusters are really easy, go under your own lashes and usually last at least 5 days even through sleeping showering etc. Lola's Lashes are my favourite. Your daughter would probably need to help you put the on but then you're sorted for a week.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"I've not read it all so apologies if this has been mentioned already.

The pre-glued lash clusters are really easy, go under your own lashes and usually last at least 5 days even through sleeping showering etc. Lola's Lashes are my favourite. Your daughter would probably need to help you put the on but then you're sorted for a week. "

Thank you

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By *wgcMan
9 weeks ago

Mountsorrel

I can help but I may glue your eyelids together xx

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By *wgcMan
9 weeks ago

Mountsorrel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"I can help but I may glue your eyelids together xx"

I'll take you off the list of helpers

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By *oveandfastWoman
9 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

As well as all the other tips above, maybe try tubing mascara, it doesn’t smudge as easily and provides really beautiful definition to boot! My favourites are Maybelline sky high and Charlotte Tilbury Exaggereyes

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By *amantha_NiteTV/TS
8 weeks ago

The Lake District

If only it was just the mascara i need help with,false lashes do the trick but like a lot of things its all about taking a bit of time and practice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
8 weeks ago


"As well as all the other tips above, maybe try tubing mascara, it doesn’t smudge as easily and provides really beautiful definition to boot! My favourites are Maybelline sky high and Charlotte Tilbury Exaggereyes"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
8 weeks ago


"If only it was just the mascara i need help with,false lashes do the trick but like a lot of things its all about taking a bit of time and practice "

I do take my time and i've been practicing for years but because i shake so much (essential tremors) that doesn't help, practicing doesn't reduce the shaking

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