FabSwingers.com forum: The ‘hoe’ phase

By *S74 OP Man
9 weeks ago

Bury

Maybe Ive been under a rock for a while but never heard this phrase until recently- mainly in relation to women.

Just curious is it a thing as most people’s libido ebbs and flows according to lots of life stressors or is it something different and specific?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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9 weeks ago

East Sussex

What does it mean?

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
9 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

It's when someone is highly promiscuous

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By *gent CoulsonMan
9 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"What does it mean? "
It's another term for a lady of the night based on whore

Very much a wanna be gangster term

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By *each needs some creamWoman
9 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

The hoe phase is when you sleep around or have a lot of hookups after separation or divorce. The theory is it will help you get over your ex or marriage faster.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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9 weeks ago

East Sussex

"What does it mean? It's another term for a lady of the night based on whore

Very much a wanna be gangster term"

So very disrespectful? Or am I misunderstanding?

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By *S74 OP Man
9 weeks ago

Bury

Ah i see, not very down with the kids lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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9 weeks ago

East Sussex

"The hoe phase is when you sleep around or have a lot of hookups after separation or divorce. The theory is it will help you get over your ex or marriage faster."

Oh! So temporarily having sex with lots of people.

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By *eliWoman
9 weeks ago

It's when you go through a slutty phase. Like the kid in a sweet shop analogy.

It's not a bad thing, it can be positive. It depends on how you handle/deal with it.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
9 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"What does it mean? It's another term for a lady of the night based on whore

Very much a wanna be gangster term

So very disrespectful? Or am I misunderstanding? "
That is the entomology of the word.

It can be used in a very disrespectful way

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By *icecouple561Couple
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9 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Ah i see, not very down with the kids lol"

Neither am I. 🤷‍♀️. I'm up with the old 'uns though

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By *icecouple561Couple
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9 weeks ago

East Sussex

"What does it mean? It's another term for a lady of the night based on whore

Very much a wanna be gangster term

So very disrespectful? Or am I misunderstanding? That is the entomology of the word.

It can be used in a very disrespectful way"

I wouldn't be flattered if someone described me in that way for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I’m going through a hoe phase

Getting the vegetable patch ready for planting out. So many lumps of soil to break up

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

I've described myself lightheartedly as being in my slut era but I'd give a mighty side eye at anyone else in my life if they used the same language directed at me. I can make jokes about myself, others can't.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
9 weeks ago

Castlebar

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By *icecouple561Couple
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9 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I’m going through a hoe phase

Getting the vegetable patch ready for planting out. So many lumps of soil to break up "

me too. It's either too wet or too dry I can never catch just at that ideal stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

"I’m going through a hoe phase

Getting the vegetable patch ready for planting out. So many lumps of soil to break up

me too. It's either too wet or too dry I can never catch just at that ideal stage. "

I had a frost this week. I was so happy im not planting out yet

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
9 weeks ago

Voldsøy

"I've described myself lightheartedly as being in my slut era but I'd give a mighty side eye at anyone else in my life if they used the same language directed at me. I can make jokes about myself, others can't. "

This is me to my best friend, too! 😂

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

The ho phase is usually referring to a sudden embracing of freedom, often due to a breakup, but can also come with a surge of newly found confidence or just as a break from the norm 💜

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By *estructionDollyWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Every woman should go through this stage at some point in life, it can be so much fun! Women tend to do it after break up to get over things, men just do it regardless of being in a relationship or not lol

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By *gent CoulsonMan
9 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"Every woman should go through this stage at some point in life, it can be so much fun! Women tend to do it after break up to get over things, men just do it regardless of being in a relationship or not lol"
They do say the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else

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By *tlanshiaWoman
9 weeks ago

Chatham

It's generally after a breakup, when you've been a good girl for a guy who didn't appreciate it, and decide to play the field a little (or a lot.)

Always makes me laugh, men want women who are promiscuous, and adventurous, but then shame them in the next breath. Who you gonna be having fun with? Each other lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
9 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

Is this applied to men off the leash too ?

If it's only women I find it very disrespectful .....

Women have sex and to have sex with more than one partner doesn't make them whores or sluts.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
9 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"a ho for sho"

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By *electableicecreamMan
9 weeks ago

The West

"Is this applied to men off the leash too ?

If it's only women I find it very disrespectful .....

Women have sex and to have sex with more than one partner doesn't make them whores or sluts.

I definitely had a man hoe/slut phase when I became single

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
9 weeks ago

Birmingham

A little bit of playful banter I would say for when those moments of desperation for cock and needing to be fucked slap you in the face and take control of your life for a while. I wouldn't particularly be offended unless said in a way to shame me.

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By *ildTimes.Man
9 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

Can I just take this opportunity to remind the guys

"Bros before Hoe's" ...

Thanks for coming to my TED Talk 🥪

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By *EAT..85Woman
9 weeks ago

Nottingham

I've had a couple of hoe phases. They get boring after a while.

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By *ellinever70Woman
9 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Men use it towards women that get more sex than them

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By *enelope2UWoman
9 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

American term that's caught its way over here .. probably due to the social media burst

Yes it's a thing in the states

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By *unGuy4U1978Man
9 weeks ago

near you

It’s important to remember your priorities OP “bros before hoes”.

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By *enelope2UWoman
9 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"Every woman should go through this stage at some point in life, it can be so much fun! Women tend to do it after break up to get over things, men just do it regardless of being in a relationship or not lol They do say the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else

Or the best way not to catch feelings is to play the field

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By *urora1912Woman
9 weeks ago

Norfolk East anglia

Im in my hoe phase according to my best friends 🤣🤣

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By *eys00Man
9 weeks ago

have boots will travel

"Im in my hoe phase according to my best friends 🤣🤣"

What a time to be alive!! 😍😍😂😂

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By *urora1912Woman
9 weeks ago

Norfolk East anglia

"Im in my hoe phase according to my best friends 🤣🤣

What a time to be alive!! 😍😍😂😂"

It seems to be

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