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Grrrrr some people do like to lead you a merry dance on here

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By *hampersDarling OP   Woman
9 weeks ago

Norwich

The face pic question why does it have to be so hard?

Why do some like to mess you around so much?

One despite me asking what he looks like he's now added me as a friend. I go to look, it's just dick pics and pics with him and other women which I find a turn off tbh.

Or if they send you a face pic they have sunglasses on.

This is a sex site stop messing about! I'm nearly 50 I'm not into playing games!

I have of course blocked the guy now.

There's so many guys that complain that they get no attention from women on here and then when they get it they mess you around.

So many married cheating men too. Eugh can I just talk to some straight forward single men please!

I know there will be women on here that do the same thing but I can only talk from my perspective.

Rant over thanks for your time.

😅

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By *etsplay90Man
9 weeks ago

Leicester

I know exactly what you mean.

I hate people.who mess you around,

Been talking to a "Lady" for a while now,

Been getting on great, Sent face pics, (never sent dick pics whats the point)

Chatted on phone arrange to meet for coffee (hers and my safety paramount)

I turned up to a well known coffee establishment.

Waited an hour۔

Blocked on here, blocked phone number.

Whats the point.

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By *hampersDarling OP   Woman
9 weeks ago

Norwich


"I know exactly what you mean.

I hate people.who mess you around,

Been talking to a "Lady" for a while now,

Been getting on great, Sent face pics, (never sent dick pics whats the point)

Chatted on phone arrange to meet for coffee (hers and my safety paramount)

I turned up to a well known coffee establishment.

Waited an hour۔

Blocked on here, blocked phone number.

Whats the point."

That's so out of order and just downright mean and rude.

That's not okay. Sorry you had that.

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By *oewes69Man
9 weeks ago

wakefield

Its not hard to send a face pic. A clear one at that. Id think if they are so reluctant to have normal pics then they are hiding something. Usually cheating and trying to remain in the shadows. Sad part i believe that is the majority. Still plenty of genuine decent blokes on here though.

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By *hampersDarling OP   Woman
9 weeks ago

Norwich


"Its not hard to send a face pic. A clear one at that. Id think if they are so reluctant to have normal pics then they are hiding something. Usually cheating and trying to remain in the shadows. Sad part i believe that is the majority. Still plenty of genuine decent blokes on here though. "

Yes I assume that too tbh. Or I think it can be that they are just not very confident and are concerned they may get rejected if they send their pics. I understand that but you may as well send your pic at the beginning and see how it goes or at least when asked.

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By *oewes69Man
9 weeks ago

wakefield


"Its not hard to send a face pic. A clear one at that. Id think if they are so reluctant to have normal pics then they are hiding something. Usually cheating and trying to remain in the shadows. Sad part i believe that is the majority. Still plenty of genuine decent blokes on here though.

Yes I assume that too tbh. Or I think it can be that they are just not very confident and are concerned they may get rejected if they send their pics. I understand that but you may as well send your pic at the beginning and see how it goes or at least when asked. "

I usually will send one within the first sort of 5 messages. Not on the 1st unless requested. Feel like it puts people in that yes no situation straight away. Can be awkward. Anyway though its not hard.

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By *ansoffateMan
9 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I'm nearly 50 and I am very happy to receive a sunglasses face pic.

You can tell a lot about people from their sunglasses choices. Far more personality revealing than shoes.

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By *hampersDarling OP   Woman
9 weeks ago

Norwich


"Its not hard to send a face pic. A clear one at that. Id think if they are so reluctant to have normal pics then they are hiding something. Usually cheating and trying to remain in the shadows. Sad part i believe that is the majority. Still plenty of genuine decent blokes on here though.

Yes I assume that too tbh. Or I think it can be that they are just not very confident and are concerned they may get rejected if they send their pics. I understand that but you may as well send your pic at the beginning and see how it goes or at least when asked.

I usually will send one within the first sort of 5 messages. Not on the 1st unless requested. Feel like it puts people in that yes no situation straight away. Can be awkward. Anyway though its not hard."

It doesn't have to be straight away but it's nice if it is. There just really needs to be an easy part of your interaction or alarm bells start ringing.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
9 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

I don’t see why people can’t be straight up, aren’t we all adults?

Anyway, I’m not into sending a face pic, I like to cat fish for as long as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"I know exactly what you mean.

I hate people.who mess you around,

Been talking to a "Lady" for a while now,

Been getting on great, Sent face pics, (never sent dick pics whats the point)

Chatted on phone arrange to meet for coffee (hers and my safety paramount)

I turned up to a well known coffee establishment.

Waited an hour۔

Blocked on here, blocked phone number.

Whats the point.

That's so out of order and just downright mean and rude.

That's not okay. Sorry you had that. "

I have actually done this. Saw the man waiting , he didn't look at all like the face photo he sent me. So I turned around and went home. Blocked him on Fab. It was meant to be a social only initially but he had expressed hopes of it turning into a sex meet. I find that's often the case with single males the expectation of sex from a social.

Yes it's mean and rude but it was also dark and safety comes first always.

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By *ou only live onceMan
9 weeks ago

London


"I'm nearly 50 and I am very happy to receive a sunglasses face pic.

You can tell a lot about people from their sunglasses choices. Far more personality revealing than shoes."

It's hard to find a pic of me without sunglasses - I love mine!

🤣

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By *etsplay90Man
9 weeks ago

Leicester


"I know exactly what you mean.

I hate people.who mess you around,

Been talking to a "Lady" for a while now,

Been getting on great, Sent face pics, (never sent dick pics whats the point)

Chatted on phone arrange to meet for coffee (hers and my safety paramount)

I turned up to a well known coffee establishment.

Waited an hour۔

Blocked on here, blocked phone number.

Whats the point.

That's so out of order and just downright mean and rude.

That's not okay. Sorry you had that.

I have actually done this. Saw the man waiting , he didn't look at all like the face photo he sent me. So I turned around and went home. Blocked him on Fab. It was meant to be a social only initially but he had expressed hopes of it turning into a sex meet. I find that's often the case with single males the expectation of sex from a social.

Yes it's mean and rude but it was also dark and safety comes first always.

"

For me a social is just that, I never ever expect a sex meet on the first meet,

I actually prefer to get to know a person

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By *immers123Woman
9 weeks ago

South Molton


"The face pic question why does it have to be so hard?

Why do some like to mess you around so much?

One despite me asking what he looks like he's now added me as a friend. I go to look, it's just dick pics and pics with him and other women which I find a turn off tbh.

Or if they send you a face pic they have sunglasses on.

This is a sex site stop messing about! I'm nearly 50 I'm not into playing games!

I have of course blocked the guy now.

There's so many guys that complain that they get no attention from women on here and then when they get it they mess you around.

So many married cheating men too. Eugh can I just talk to some straight forward single men please!

I know there will be women on here that do the same thing but I can only talk from my perspective.

Rant over thanks for your time.

😅

"

Oh I agree totally. One guy said oh I don't really share pics i prefer to meet for a coffee... see how it goes. I said well there's no way I'm doing that as a solo female..meeting a total stranger. Then when they eventually send one totally not my type and its just a waste of each others time.

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By *immers123Woman
9 weeks ago

South Molton

I also don't want to see pics of a potential meet having sex unprotected with another women. That's a block

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By *oughmanMan
9 weeks ago

Sunderland

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By *oughmanMan
9 weeks ago

Sunderland

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By *oughmanMan
9 weeks ago

Sunderland

You see, that pisses me off. You asked him a simple question and he would not give you a simple answer. Instead he gave you things that he wanted you to see and you don't, somehow thinking it would impress you. A complete tool and waste of time. You know he's just going to complain about it too.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
9 weeks ago

Altrincham

It sounds calculated but when I get a message I first make sure they've sent a face pic... No pic no reply then I read their profile amd look for verifications

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

That's why I don't accept many friend invites, the gallery is often full of dick pics only.

If someone won't give me a straight answer or send pics etc, I'd just move on Tbf though.

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By *ature4fun300Man
9 weeks ago

Willaston

So many timewasters, better just to chat in the forums and not try to meet

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By *olo180Man
9 weeks ago

West London


"The face pic question why does it have to be so hard?

Why do some like to mess you around so much?

One despite me asking what he looks like he's now added me as a friend. I go to look, it's just dick pics and pics with him and other women which I find a turn off tbh.

Or if they send you a face pic they have sunglasses on.

This is a sex site stop messing about! I'm nearly 50 I'm not into playing games!

I have of course blocked the guy now.

There's so many guys that complain that they get no attention from women on here and then when they get it they mess you around.

So many married cheating men too. Eugh can I just talk to some straight forward single men please!

I know there will be women on here that do the same thing but I can only talk from my perspective.

Rant over thanks for your time.

😅

Always welcome to have a rant. I personally send a face pic with my first message. I don’t like to have a face pic on public view as I do reserve the right to some privacy on here. Have suffered being messed around here too. Chatting to a lady for a few days, arranged a meet and then got blocked out of nowhere. I appreciate people change their minds but if you’ve been chatting regularly, it’s politeness to just say no thanks.

Wishing us all better luck on here x

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By *ature4fun300Man
9 weeks ago

Willaston

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By *ature4fun300Man
9 weeks ago

Willaston


"Its not hard to send a face pic. A clear one at that. Id think if they are so reluctant to have normal pics then they are hiding something. Usually cheating and trying to remain in the shadows. Sad part i believe that is the majority. Still plenty of genuine decent blokes on here though.

Yes I assume that too tbh. Or I think it can be that they are just not very confident and are concerned they may get rejected if they send their pics. I understand that but you may as well send your pic at the beginning and see how it goes or at least when asked.

I usually will send one within the first sort of 5 messages. Not on the 1st unless requested. Feel like it puts people in that yes no situation straight away. Can be awkward. Anyway though its not hard."

I agree, happy to send if they ask

It's like being sent a friend invite when they have no pictures or just their profile picture

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Central

I think a large number of men still haven't grasped the volume effort and how smart they have to be here . When you encounter them, it's helpful if they easily make it clear that they are, so that you can let them get on with it, away from you

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