FabSwingers.com forum: The bad sex

By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP Couple
10 weeks ago

West Suffolk

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP Couple
10 weeks ago

West Suffolk

We have a thread on good sex so let’s talk about what makes for bad sex…..go

Mrs

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Lack of chemistry, connection or effort.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

When the guy can’t last long

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By *issmorganWoman
10 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

When they don't respect your boundaries and are all about their own pleasure only.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP Couple
10 weeks ago

West Suffolk

I would definitely say no effort put in and being selfish just thinking of themselves.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
10 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Someone trying to bareback you when you explicitly told them not to

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Men usually

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By *oeBeansMan
10 weeks ago

Derby

"Me usually"

Yeah, same

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By *ildTimes.Man
10 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

Pillow Princesses 🥪

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP Couple
10 weeks ago

West Suffolk

I had a fwb a long time ago who literally lay there motionless, arms by her sides, absolutely zero feedback. The only indication I had that she was enjoying it was that she’d message the next day and say so and be constantly asking me to go over.

I think a guy likes to know the woman thinks he’s good. Not her say it but show it. And when that doesn’t happen…. Well you get the idea. I was raised with old fashioned Victorian values and sex was never mentioned in the house. As a teenage boy i wasn’t even sure if girls actually liked sex. So when i eventually met a girl who couldn’t get enough and wanted to do it all the time, that made all previous sex seem pretty bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"Me usually

Yeah, same"

Oh that was a better answer. And more truthful.

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By *sWyldWoman
10 weeks ago

Edinburgh

No chemistry.

When it feels like you're just going through the motions.

When it's just sex for the sake of sex.

When there is no feedback loop and it feels soulless.

When you're done in 5 minutes and wonder why you shaved your legs for that.

When you realise the sex is lacking in enthusiasm or that first time was a fluke...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
10 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

I might be here for some considerable time ...... no man said ever ! ( joke ) I only have sex for a second time with 'good' partners ...

BUT

1. Men who tip in n tip out ..... it's not clever and it's not funny

2. Men who think it's okay to stop oral to fiddle with something else n think that you can just pick up where they left off....

3. Men with no geographical sense of direction n head for the sewers when you think they are headed for the nursery

4. Men who take you to the heights of ecstasy and then pump for 30 seconds and leave you like this

5. Men who .......

6. Men really ....

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
10 weeks ago

Voldsøy

No foreplay. Selfish partners.

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By *oeBeansMan
10 weeks ago

Derby

"Me usually

Yeah, same

Oh that was a better answer. And more truthful. "

Self deprecation. There's levels to this

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By *iss.BellaWoman
10 weeks ago

"Pillow Princesses 🥪"

Even if they make a bacon butty after?

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By *iss.BellaWoman
10 weeks ago

Vomit

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By *oeBeansMan
10 weeks ago

Derby

"Vomit

Shouldn't deep throat so far then!

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By *ewbootsandpanties99Man
10 weeks ago

Darkest South East Surrey

When it's clear that it's just a box ticking exercise before the next task is moved onto.

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By *vaRoseWoman
10 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

When the connection doesn’t translate in the bedroom.

When they think their tried and trusted technique is the only way to get a woman off and can’t understand why you might require a different touch instead of the 1999 DJ scratching his discs.

When it’s only about their pleasure

When they ignore boundaries or limits.

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By *ildTimes.Man
10 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

"Pillow Princesses 🥪

Even if they make a bacon butty after? "

If it's a particularly good butty, I'll let it slide once...🥪

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP Couple
10 weeks ago

West Suffolk

Are the men taking notes reading these?

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By *ad NannaWoman
10 weeks ago

East London

When they focus on orgasms.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
10 weeks ago

Liverpool

Anal prolapse and overactive sweat glands can put a crimp in anyone's fun

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Are the men taking notes reading these?

Yes, but the gentlemen aren't. Good sex follows them everywhere like a lost puppy. 😉

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

"Anal prolapse and overactive sweat glands can put a crimp in anyone's fun

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I was just about to eat my supper but 🤢 thanks 😂

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By *iss.BellaWoman
10 weeks ago

"Pillow Princesses 🥪

Even if they make a bacon butty after?

If it's a particularly good butty, I'll let it slide once...🥪"

Once is fine, I wasn't planning on repeating

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By *iss.BellaWoman
10 weeks ago

"Vomit

Shouldn't deep throat so far then!"

It wasn't me that vomited..

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By *radeSkinMan
10 weeks ago

withywood

Lack of chemistry, connection or effort. Just looking for a hole to fill.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
10 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Anal prolapse and overactive sweat glands can put a crimp in anyone's fun

I was just about to eat my supper but 🤢 thanks 😂"

Ha, apologies if that made you feel a little queasy! I'm not sure browsing fab is recommended when you're about to eat (unless you want an appetite suppressant).

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By *uri00620Woman
10 weeks ago

Croydon

"When the guy can’t last long "

When the guy lasts too long.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
10 weeks ago

Norwich

When he doesn't make you cum.

When it's not mutual pleasure.

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By *andadbodMan
10 weeks ago

Liverpool

i’ve only ever moved on to sex when the chemistry has been right, wouldn’t even entertain having sex without a connection of the minds, and without that, you get bad sex.

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By *amster1210Man
10 weeks ago

Haslingden

Bad hygiene especially down below

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By *43SomeCouple
10 weeks ago

Staines

Someone please tell me what a pillow princess is

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By *electableicecreamMan
10 weeks ago

The West

When it's not right it's not right.

Alcohol is a good one for ruining a perfectly good night's shagging.

A basic lack of understanding of male physiology is another.(and the older I get the more egregious this feels)

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By *orthern StarsCouple
10 weeks ago

Durham

When the other person just lies there, not interacting, at all. I had this a few years ago when playing with a couple, the man was keen but the woman just laid there. It was absolutely awful.

Ruby

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
10 weeks ago

Norwich

"Bad hygiene especially down below "

This always shocks me. Like how is this possible? Just say no people!🤣

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By *viatrixWoman
10 weeks ago

Redhill

Smoker’s breath… 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

It still haunts me 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

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By *GjaneCouple
10 weeks ago

Bury St Edmunds

Agree with most of the above. Except ‘men’

It takes 2 or more to tango.

The connection has to be there. Both turned on, and ready.

Yes sometimes takes us ladies a little longer.

When it’s tick boxing / trying something before both ready. A woman will feel there’s no connection and check out mentally. She can still have a good time. But won’t cum.

Yes we’ve been know to fake it for this reason.

Guys and gals… want it to be good. Kiss and be in-tuned to your partner. Get your girl out of her head. Be focused on her and she will be on you.

Then it will all come naturally. Anything happens it can be laughed about and then comfortable enough to carry on with bits do like

If nothing oops happens lol the hold on tight as you’ll both be building to that great explosion perhaps even arriving there at the same time

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By *ucka39Man
10 weeks ago

Newcastle

Rushing

Canny get a stiffness

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
10 weeks ago

Brum

When you find two haribo sour keys up her chuff while you’re giving it your best come to me finger technique against her g spot.

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By *ycleguy300Man
10 weeks ago

Ely

No chemistry kills it. Feels almost wooden.

Need to have a desire to it… both really want it and it becomes amazing

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