FabSwingers.com forum: Do women like lingerie being bought for them

By *ightofdesire OP Man
9 weeks ago

Northwest

Do women like lingerie being bought for them or do you prefer to pick their own ?

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9 weeks ago

I prefer lego

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

I've had lovers buy me some stuff, sometimes it's horrible bit occasionally they hit gold.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
9 weeks ago

Wirral

I'd much rather buy my own.

I know what I like, what suits me and what I can manage against my skin (scratchy fabrics make me want to claw my own boobs off).

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By *ightofdesire OP Man
9 weeks ago

Northwest

"I prefer lego"

I mean we'd all love a Lego star destroyer but the lingerie is cheaper

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By *exyScientistsCouple
9 weeks ago

Castlebar

Would never trust anyone else to buy it for me...

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
9 weeks ago

Norwich

I'd prefer to buy my own. Nice thought though happy for someone else to pay for it though! 🤣

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By *ightofdesire OP Man
9 weeks ago

Northwest

This is kind of what I thought.

Seems like a sexy idea but actually, ladies know what you like and more importantly don't

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By *exyScientistsCouple
9 weeks ago

Castlebar

"This is kind of what I thought.

Seems like a sexy idea but actually, ladies know what you like and more importantly don't

It is a lovely idea but taking things back and changing it kinda defeats the purpose!

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

God no. If you want to buy me something buy me books. That I actually want to read not ones you think I'd like. Actually, maybe don't.

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By *ife NinjaMan
9 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I haven't got a clue. I would probably buy something I'd like to see, but that would be totally inappropriate 🤓

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By *ripfillMan
9 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Not as such - but it’s exciting shopping together and sneaking a peak in the changing room !

Which has happened a couple of times, !

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By *ightofdesire OP Man
9 weeks ago

Northwest

"I haven't got a clue. I would probably buy something I'd like to see, but that would be totally inappropriate 🤓"

Yeaa I feel like I've missed the mark a couple of times haha

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
9 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

I’d rather the £ to pick/try on as my size isn’t a just a pick up from a supermarket

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By *estructionDollyWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester

No, not unless it's something I have personally picked out and they want to pay for it as a gift. I only want to wear things I like and feel good in (and that fit me properly).

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By *ightofdesire OP Man
9 weeks ago

Northwest

"No, not unless it's something I have personally picked out and they want to pay for it as a gift. I only want to wear things I like and feel good in (and that fit me properly). "

This seems to be a prettt straightforward thing then .

Leave the lingerie to the ladies

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
9 weeks ago

Aberdeen

No i'd rather take him shopping for what i want then he can pay if it's a gift. Usually I buy my own

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Its kinda hard to find things that fit so prefer to buy my own. If they wanted to a gift card would work I guess

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By *rHotNottsMan
9 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Some do , the ones I bought it foe seem to like it ! Some don’t. Unfortunately, smaller sizes are much easier to buy for , more likely to fit and much more choice

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By *oveandfastWoman
9 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

I love going lingerie shopping as a couples trip! 😊

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
9 weeks ago

Next Door

I would love undies bought for me as a surprise and I would hope the buyer knows me well enough to go through my current undies and see what I like and get the right size.

Shops and styles vary in sizes, so makes the shopping hard.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
9 weeks ago

Niche

It's a double edged sword 😁 Hard to win this one tbh.

You need to have a bit of knowledge to get it right. But too much knowledge might stike a bum note.

Like, do you buy it for oodles and oodles of ladies?

Makes it nice and not nice all at the same time 🤷🏼‍♀️

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
9 weeks ago

Niche

*strike

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By *gent CoulsonMan
9 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I have done this, but never without the other person being there to choose

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I much rather prefer going with them. Choosing together what they will wear. The excitement to get back and to try it on

Make a real tease out of the process

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By *verageHoesCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

It's only happened to me once. The size was correct...for a tall woman with significant boobage

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

No one has ever bought me anything. Am I doing fab wrong? Or just not worthy?🤣

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
9 weeks ago

Altrincham

"Do women like lingerie being bought for them or do you prefer to pick their own ?

I don't like any clothes being bought for me *ick*

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By *ig1gaz1Man
9 weeks ago

bradford

ive bought it loads of times but thats with knowledge of what they are after and knowing there sizes.

one thing i have learnt is never trust the sizes between different companies as they are so different between them.

Take me into the lingerie department and im going to have some fun

I tease rather well and have had many a comment from the staff even when buying the lingerie.

whilst ive also been given it back

but its all in good fun

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By *43SomeCouple
9 weeks ago

Staines

I wouldn’t mind them making a game of it and sending me 5 different types of lingerie they would like to see me in and me putting them in order of preference or just choosing 1

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By *EAT..85Woman
9 weeks ago

Nottingham

I've never been bought any.

As for choosing my own, I don't spend much so it's not exactly a luxury session. It is nice to imagine his/hers/their reactions as I pick things though.

Otherwise I'm a giant pants and t-shirt bra kinda gal for maximum comfort

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
9 weeks ago

Hatfield

"I prefer lego"

What size bra cup are you in Lego …?

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By *ightofdesire OP Man
9 weeks ago

Northwest

"I wouldn’t mind them making a game of it and sending me 5 different types of lingerie they would like to see me in and me putting them in order of preference or just choosing 1"

That sounds like a great game !

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I prefer to buy my own. That way I get nice stuff that I want and also, there's no, 'Well, let's see you in it.'

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By *a LunaWoman
9 weeks ago

o o OO o o

I’d rather they buy me jewellery. Underwear, even fancy underwear, doesn’t do much for me excitement wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

"I prefer lego"

Great shout

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By *vaRoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

The only time I’ve been bought any my husband got totally the wrong size so I can’t say I’ve had a great experience with that

Oddly enough if a real tangible gift was warranted I’d much rather something personal, meaningful than lingerie. I’d honestly rather a cute keyring over clothes which will eventually wear out.

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By *unseeker v2Man
9 weeks ago

Cardiff

"I’d rather they buy me jewellery. Underwear, even fancy underwear, doesn’t do much for me excitement wise."

Would be ironic if a gift of jewellery made your fancy underwear fell down

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