FabSwingers.com forum: It started with a kiss ....

By *oxychic OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

So ladies and gentlemen and the wild ones out there !!!!

I must of had my head buried in the sand , and ive been on the scene a long time , I thought everyone loved kissing, i mean what's not to like , u know the kisses that make your toes curls and other parts tingle 😉😉😉untill a few messages with them saying no kissing!

Maybe but sex to me with no kissing is just a definite no no,makes it to mechanical without it for me.

So grab your coffees and let me know your thoughts!!! 😉😉🔥🔥🥵🥵😊😊

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I love kissing but I know some people who see kissing as something that is deeper and more emotional than having sex with them

Do I need kissing…yes I do but respect those that don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"So ladies and gentlemen and the wild ones out there !!!!

Maybe but sex to me with no kissing is just a definite no no,makes it to mechanical without it for me.

So grab your coffees and let me know your thoughts!!! 😉😉🔥🔥🥵🥵😊😊

I couldn’t agree more without kissing just wouldn’t feel right for me at all . Just all a bit cold

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By *oxychic OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

"I love kissing but I know some people who see kissing as something that is deeper and more emotional than having sex with them

Do I need kissing…yes I do but respect those that don’t

Would it be a dealbreaker ? Or would u have sex without them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"I love kissing but I know some people who see kissing as something that is deeper and more emotional than having sex with them

Do I need kissing…yes I do but respect those that don’t

Would it be a dealbreaker ? Or would u have sex without them ? "

For me then sex becomes just a function and honestly I’d rather have a wank

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By *vaRoseWoman
10 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

It would be a dealbreaker. It would feel transactional and cold, passionless. Not for me

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By *oxychic OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

"I love kissing but I know some people who see kissing as something that is deeper and more emotional than having sex with them

Do I need kissing…yes I do but respect those that don’t

Would it be a dealbreaker ? Or would u have sex without them ?

For me then sex becomes just a function and honestly I’d rather have a wank "

Exactly this ! 😊

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
10 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I love kissing, it's important for me. It gets me going, something I need to get the juices flowing. It's a big part of foreplay

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By *iss.BellaWoman
10 weeks ago

To me, sex without kisses feels cold and meaningless. That's not what I'm looking for, so would avoid those who are not into it

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By *oodmessMan
10 weeks ago

yumsville

I get the impersonal bit but sometimes they just aren't thought of. Much as I love kissing, some times heat gets in the way where both of you are a little more intent. Had both one off meets and buddies where I don't remember kissing them, minimum 3 buddies off the top of my head, lasting anywhere from 5ish months to more or less a year.

On a side note... Once licked a palate, she went a bit nuts

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By *eliWoman
10 weeks ago

I can understand why people might not, like BJ. Maybe it's for those who they are in a relationship with. They might not enjoy it. Whatever the reason it's not for them.

Not kissing isn't for me but I can respect that we all do things differently. How I do things might leave another dry.

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By *assy69Man
10 weeks ago

sussex and Wales

Kissing, for me, is an integral part of the sensuality of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I love the kissing it's the best build up & I couldn't do the sexy stuff without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"I love kissing, it's important for me. It gets me going, something I need to get the juices flowing. It's a big part of foreplay "

Without kissing defo dealbreaker

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By *parkleisback79Woman
10 weeks ago

Southend

Kissing is an absolute must for me, I love it

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By *oodmessMan
10 weeks ago

yumsville

I'm just remembering all the one off meets where I've not kissed (or at least can't remember doing) .. there's quite a few!

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"So ladies and gentlemen and the wild ones out there !!!!

Maybe but sex to me with no kissing is just a definite no no,makes it to mechanical without it for me.

So grab your coffees and let me know your thoughts!!! 😉😉🔥🔥🥵🥵😊😊

Totally agree

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By *infullyObedientWoman
10 weeks ago

Woodley

Kissing is very important for me. Prefer socials first and love if they end with a kiss. You can tell a lot from the way someone kisses you and if the kiss is no good then I won't take it further. Harsh? Maybe but that's just me. 😁

No kissing allowed would definitely be a deal breaker for me.

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By *orrestgumpMan
10 weeks ago

penzance

Love kissing but beard so not popular with some people

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By *asty tatsyMan
10 weeks ago

london

Kissing is a must for me, without kissing I would just feel there is something missing

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By *asty tatsyMan
10 weeks ago

london

"Kissing is very important for me. Prefer socials first and love if they end with a kiss. You can tell a lot from the way someone kisses you and if the kiss is no good then I won't take it further. Harsh? Maybe but that's just me. 😁

No kissing allowed would definitely be a deal breaker for me. "

Not harsh I’m the same to be fair

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By *oneyBee200Woman
10 weeks ago

Kent

I hadn't found this until recently. A couple's boundaries are no kissing the man but the women can 😘

Kissing is a must for me but do it well

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By *inxy777Woman
10 weeks ago

essex

Oh has to be kissing, sometimes the kissing is more than enough!😉

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By *aybeLadyWoman
10 weeks ago

West Dublin

Kisses kisses and more kisses.

That deep intense kiss. Hard to beat it.

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By *oodmessMan
10 weeks ago

yumsville

Just looking at some replies and seeing things like deal breaker.

Do people get up and leave if there's no kissing if you meet someone in a club nowadays?

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By *ildTimes.Man
10 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

Always thought it's a bit weird where couples say no kissing but the Mrs is happy to stick a strangers dick in her gob 5 minutes after meeting at a club... 🤷🏻‍♂️ That's fab for ya 🥪

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By *iss.BellaWoman
10 weeks ago

"Always thought it's a bit weird where couples say no kissing but the Mrs is happy to stick a strangers dick in her gob 5 minutes after meeting at a club... 🤷🏻‍♂️ That's fab for ya 🥪"

#hoelife .. or would it be cuck life? 🤷‍♀️

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By *olo180Man
10 weeks ago

West London

"Always thought it's a bit weird where couples say no kissing but the Mrs is happy to stick a strangers dick in her gob 5 minutes after meeting at a club... 🤷🏻‍♂️ That's fab for ya 🥪"

Hahaha yes good point!

Feels a bit unatural without kissing…it’s an automatic urge to kiss the person you are having fun with!

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By *lex0147Man
10 weeks ago

Bedford

Kissing is very special to me, i have to feel the chemistry to be able to kiss anyone

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By *hongmanMan
10 weeks ago

Nearby

Kissing is an absolute must. Love kissing it's a massive turn on for me

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
10 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

We started off as no kissing but soon changed that as it felt like an important part of the whole experience!

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
10 weeks ago

Next Door

I love kissing, it's a big part of seducing me, its hot and horny.

It's no a deal breaker, but I would feel like there's some missing

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

Love kissing. It really is my favourite thing. If the kissing isn't good I wouldn't move onto anything else.

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By *randmrs 1st timeCouple
10 weeks ago

bolton

Definitely kissing a must can’t beat a sexy French kiss in the heat of passion love it sex would be so boring without for me

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By *dalisqueWoman
10 weeks ago

land of make believe

Kissing is the ultimate for me.

I love spending hours just kissing & loosing myself in the desire.

You can tell a multitude of things from a kiss.

If the kissing didn't feel right,there would be no progression.

Now I'm craving gorgeous kisses 🩵

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham

"So ladies and gentlemen and the wild ones out there !!!!

Maybe but sex to me with no kissing is just a definite no no,makes it to mechanical without it for me.

So grab your coffees and let me know your thoughts!!! 😉😉🔥🔥🥵🥵😊😊

I couldn't be physical with someone without kissing, kissing is a massive part of it for me

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
10 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

I loke to kiss. Especially that intense passionate kiss that’s returned when the heat rises.

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
10 weeks ago

Voldsøy

I didn't realise how important kissing was to me, until not so long ago. I respect those that prefer not to, and I get why. But, that isn't for me. I do it instinctively. So if that isn't for you, neither am I.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
10 weeks ago

Castlebar

Absolute deal breaker

That kiss when you know you have to have that person...where you need them to touch you.

When thinking about it afterwards you get that jolt through you.

Great sex always starts with a great kiss 💋 😘 😈

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By *issmorganWoman
10 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I've only ever seen couples say no kissing, I can totally understand why they'd keep it for themselves, however that's not for me.

I love a good snog and it sets the mood for everything else that follows.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

Love kissing and would never enter a sexual relationship without it.

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By *hrills and adventureMan
10 weeks ago

Winchester

Kissing is one of, or the most sensual acts between two people. I can therefore understand why couples might insist on no kissing. As for single individuals I can only assume they use it as a barrier from becoming emotionally involved with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I respect peoples choices but it’s a deal breaker for me, I just wouldn’t meet someone if they didn’t kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Kissing done just right, the soft, slow, teasing, erotic type, is foreplay in itself

It’s an absolute must for me

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By *lanbstardMan
10 weeks ago

Northampton

No kissing allowed would definitely be a deal breaker for me. "

Same! No kissing would be a deal breaker for me

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By *eyond PurityCouple
10 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

When we started out as a couple on here, I found it harder to see C kiss a guy than give him a BJ. I guess there’s more emotional feeling in a kiss.

It soon disappeared but I recall me not knowing what to do with myself when C was kissing a guy, like I shouldn’t have been watching 😬

So I do get it but we love kissing and couldn’t meet without it - I think you can tell how compatible someone will be in bed by their kiss.

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By *ripfillMan
10 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

I love kissing … it’s the real gateway to pleasure and at that moment, it’s a commitment.

It’s lovely to feel the feed back through kissing, and the giving and receiving of intense energy.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham

I've recently had a lip procedure and on a kissing ban for a week, hubby is overjoyed. Not!!

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By *uckboy786Man
10 weeks ago

London

Kissing is definitely the best part of a meet and enhances everything else, so I wouldn't want a meet where it's not allowed

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By *each needs some creamWoman
10 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I really enjoy kissing, but I had a meet yesterday it was amazing but the only kiss was a little peck on a cheek as he said goodbye.

It does depend on the dynamics of a meet. Sometimes it would change the mood in the wrong way to be kissing.

Also on gangbangs there is very little kissing.

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By *elightful 2Couple
10 weeks ago

Not living in the UK

For us kissing is a very important part of foreplay.. for us if kissing wasn't on the menu then it would go no further.

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By *ames_dieselMan
10 weeks ago

London

Kissing is a must!!

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By *sWyldWoman
10 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Kissing is essential for me. Before, during and after. Even all on its own.

If our lips don't play well together, nothing else will.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
10 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

When you have a MMF or MFM is there much kissing?

I know when I have a MMF there normally isn't.

On a MFM it's sometimes but not much.

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By *ozzybear1981Man
10 weeks ago

preston

No other form of intimacy can start if the meeting of the mouths doesn’t instigate the chain on events.

It’s deep, wholesome, filled with fire, anticipation, excitement and heart racing blow racing through our bodies.

It’s intense and speaks more than a million words within us 😘

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By *sWyldWoman
10 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"When you have a MMF or MFM is there much kissing?

I know when I have a MMF there normally isn't.

On a MFM it's sometimes but not much. "

An MFM is on my wish list and I absolutely imagine it with lots of kissing. I don't want it otherwise

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
10 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

Oh. And 3 way kisses are hot. 🔥

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By *iss DevilWoman
10 weeks ago

Bedford

I need kissing when I'm intimate with someone. Otherwise, it's just way too clinical.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
10 weeks ago

London

Kissing is remarkably underrated in the lifestyle I feel.

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By *oxychic OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

So the conclusion is kissing is very much needed 😘😘😘😘😘😘😊😊😊😊😘😘😘

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
10 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

"So the conclusion is kissing is very much needed 😘😘😘😘😘😘😊😊😊😊😘😘😘"

Rule number ten. 😉

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By *oxychic OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

"So the conclusion is kissing is very much needed 😘😘😘😘😘😘😊😊😊😊😘😘😘

Rule number ten. 😉

What are rules 1-9 asking for a friend of course 😂😂😂😊😉😉😉

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By *rHotNottsMan
10 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I would rather have a great kiss and no sex, than mediocre sex. I find kissing one of the most intimate things and there are some pretty amazing kissers on here.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
10 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

"So the conclusion is kissing is very much needed 😘😘😘😘😘😘😊😊😊😊😘😘😘

Rule number ten. 😉

What are rules 1-9 asking for a friend of course 😂😂😂😊😉😉😉"

1. Hello. Or The classic Hi 👏🏻

2. Light touch – “Oops, was that your arm? My bad… 😏

3. Flirty compliment – “That top’s doing God’s work. Just saying.” (When imagining them naked) 😉

4. Closer – Standing closer than necessary, like personal space just got cancelled.😅

5. Whisper, your close enough, you might as well whisper in their ear, an excuse to smell their perfume 😉

6. Bold touch. Hand on thigh, or lower back. Definitely not just friendly now. 🫠

7. Stare-down . That look. The “If we were alone…” kind 🔥

8. First move . A cheeky grab or lingering touch that says “game on.” 😈

9. Lips hover. So close, your breath’s a tease. Almost… 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

10. Kiss

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By *exyScientistsCouple
10 weeks ago

Castlebar

"So the conclusion is kissing is very much needed 😘😘😘😘😘😘😊😊😊😊😘😘😘

Rule number ten. 😉

What are rules 1-9 asking for a friend of course 😂😂😂😊😉😉😉

1. Hello. Or The classic Hi 👏🏻

2. Light touch – “Oops, was that your arm? My bad… 😏

3. Flirty compliment – “That top’s doing God’s work. Just saying.” (When imagining them naked) 😉

4. Closer – Standing closer than necessary, like personal space just got cancelled.😅

5. Whisper, your close enough, you might as well whisper in their ear, an excuse to smell their perfume 😉

6. Bold touch. Hand on thigh, or lower back. Definitely not just friendly now. 🫠

7. Stare-down . That look. The “If we were alone…” kind 🔥

8. First move . A cheeky grab or lingering touch that says “game on.” 😈

9. Lips hover. So close, your breath’s a tease. Almost… 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

10. Kiss"

🥵🥵🥵😈😈😈😈

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
10 weeks ago

North West

No kisses … no action. Simples 🍭

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By *VineMan
10 weeks ago

Just north of Bristol

I love kissing, it would be a deal breaker if it wasn’t on offer

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By *oxychic OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

"So the conclusion is kissing is very much needed 😘😘😘😘😘😘😊😊😊😊😘😘😘

Rule number ten. 😉

What are rules 1-9 asking for a friend of course 😂😂😂😊😉😉😉

1. Hello. Or The classic Hi 👏🏻

2. Light touch – “Oops, was that your arm? My bad… 😏

3. Flirty compliment – “That top’s doing God’s work. Just saying.” (When imagining them naked) 😉

4. Closer – Standing closer than necessary, like personal space just got cancelled.😅

5. Whisper, your close enough, you might as well whisper in their ear, an excuse to smell their perfume 😉

6. Bold touch. Hand on thigh, or lower back. Definitely not just friendly now. 🫠

7. Stare-down . That look. The “If we were alone…” kind 🔥

8. First move . A cheeky grab or lingering touch that says “game on.” 😈

9. Lips hover. So close, your breath’s a tease. Almost… 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

10. Kiss"

Ahhhhhh🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *ndymac888Man
10 weeks ago

Dumbarton

I don’t think I could sleep with someone I couldn’t kiss.

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