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"Not single, and not on dating sites....what's POF by the way please? " Its a site,, " Plenty of fish,, ",, I ve a profile on there, can t say I ve visited it in months, | |||
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"I am on POF...I am activitly dating so use that for that purpose ans fab for my sexual purpose.." Dont you get sex from your dates?? | |||
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"I am on POF...I am activitly dating so use that for that purpose ans fab for my sexual purpose.. Dont you get sex from your dates??" nope...I am completely different in my dating attitude than my fab attitude.. | |||
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"Come on be honest how many of u lovely singles are on dating sites, I was on POF and sure I came across a few from here too?" I joined POF, but have never met anyone from there...not sure if I'm the dating type! Was having a wobble and wondering if I wanted something more, but it soon passed | |||
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"I had a guy working for me who met a girl off pof and ended up married to her, altogether now...ahhh bless!! " Wow so it does work occasionally! | |||
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"I had a guy working for me who met a girl off pof and ended up married to her, altogether now...ahhh bless!! " A friend of mine met her fiancée on there too so it does happen...you can set your searches to those looking for 'the one' and those looking for 'the next one'! | |||
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"I was on POF for a while and came across quite a few fab members, some with the exact same profile " Cut and paste profiles now whatever next | |||
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"I was on POF for a while and came across quite a few fab members, some with the exact same profile " I find it funny especially when they put down they are looking for a relationship! | |||
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"I was on POF for a while and came across quite a few fab members, some with the exact same profile Cut and paste profiles now whatever next " I know ... shocking | |||
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"im on pof but not met anyone ofdf ther in about 18months " And what do you say on your POF profile? do you say your looking for dating, relationship or intimate encounter lol? | |||
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"Do dating sites even exist anymore?!! " Yes, but personal ads published in newspapers have gone the way of the buggy whip Before email, you would leave a voice mail message in response to a posting! | |||
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"I am on POF...I am activitly dating so use that for that purpose ans fab for my sexual purpose.. Dont you get sex from your dates?? nope...I am completely different in my dating attitude than my fab attitude.." and precisely how do you think this will appear to men? a/ I can date her but not fuck her as she is getting that elsewhere b/ I can fuck her but not date her as she is getting that elsewhere hey, not having a go, and you are far from the only one or even the minority but nobody out there ain't clued up to all this, nobody has only heard of pof but not swinging sites, and vice versa which means, unless your different profiles on different sites all say pretty much the same thing, everyone is going to be VERY cynical | |||
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"Use Badoo for dates ... comedy store last weekend and 'the woman in black' at theatre this weekend. Can't ask for that kind of company on here. " Why not? Some of us ladies do enjoy things other than sex you know!! Alternatively, on here its possible to combine the two - tho probably not in Comedy Store or the theatre but I bet some have!!! | |||
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"Come on be honest how many of u lovely singles are on dating sites, I was on POF and sure I came across a few from here too?" I bet almost everyone whos here and looking for more .. | |||
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"Come on be honest how many of u lovely singles are on dating sites, I was on POF and sure I came across a few from here too?I bet almost everyone whos here and looking for more .. " As I said I'm on pof for an intimate encounter No way do I want a relationship! | |||
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"I am on POF...I am activitly dating so use that for that purpose ans fab for my sexual purpose.. Dont you get sex from your dates?? nope...I am completely different in my dating attitude than my fab attitude.. and precisely how do you think this will appear to men? a/ I can date her but not fuck her as she is getting that elsewhere b/ I can fuck her but not date her as she is getting that elsewhere hey, not having a go, and you are far from the only one or even the minority but nobody out there ain't clued up to all this, nobody has only heard of pof but not swinging sites, and vice versa which means, unless your different profiles on different sites all say pretty much the same thing, everyone is going to be VERY cynical " righty ho... | |||
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"I am on POF...I am activitly dating so use that for that purpose ans fab for my sexual purpose.. Dont you get sex from your dates?? nope...I am completely different in my dating attitude than my fab attitude.. and precisely how do you think this will appear to men? a/ I can date her but not fuck her as she is getting that elsewhere b/ I can fuck her but not date her as she is getting that elsewhere hey, not having a go, and you are far from the only one or even the minority but nobody out there ain't clued up to all this, nobody has only heard of pof but not swinging sites, and vice versa which means, unless your different profiles on different sites all say pretty much the same thing, everyone is going to be VERY cynical " But you forgot option C: I can date her, fuck her and we can fall in love with each other being totally open and honest with each other about our sexual preferences and practices, not worrying that it may scare someone off or having to hide who we are. Then we can get a couples profile and be safe and secure in the knowledge that we are in a secure relationship which accepts each other for the sexual beings we are - without exception. Or maybe I'm just an old romantic.... | |||
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"I am on POF...I am activitly dating so use that for that purpose ans fab for my sexual purpose.. Dont you get sex from your dates?? nope...I am completely different in my dating attitude than my fab attitude.. and precisely how do you think this will appear to men? a/ I can date her but not fuck her as she is getting that elsewhere b/ I can fuck her but not date her as she is getting that elsewhere hey, not having a go, and you are far from the only one or even the minority but nobody out there ain't clued up to all this, nobody has only heard of pof but not swinging sites, and vice versa which means, unless your different profiles on different sites all say pretty much the same thing, everyone is going to be VERY cynical But you forgot option C: I can date her, fuck her and we can fall in love with each other being totally open and honest with each other about our sexual preferences and practices, not worrying that it may scare someone off or having to hide who we are. Then we can get a couples profile and be safe and secure in the knowledge that we are in a secure relationship which accepts each other for the sexual beings we are - without exception. Or maybe I'm just an old romantic...." | |||
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"Im not on any dating sites and Im not actively meeting on here either. I want someone with whom I can express the sexual freedoms which this lifestyle offers, but with whom I can I have a deep, loving and wonderful relationship. Sadly, there is nothing which bridges the gap - so until I find what I know I need, I don't want to accept 50% of a whole. I've been doing that for far too long and its never turned out well. I hope that makes sense - it does to me!" Well put x | |||
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"Come on be honest how many of u lovely singles are on dating sites, I was on POF and sure I came across a few from here too?" No, this is the only site I'm on. I used to be on another but it lapsed. I don't want to date anyone anyway. | |||
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"I am on POF...I am activitly dating so use that for that purpose ans fab for my sexual purpose.. Dont you get sex from your dates?? nope...I am completely different in my dating attitude than my fab attitude.. and precisely how do you think this will appear to men? a/ I can date her but not fuck her as she is getting that elsewhere b/ I can fuck her but not date her as she is getting that elsewhere hey, not having a go, and you are far from the only one or even the minority but nobody out there ain't clued up to all this, nobody has only heard of pof but not swinging sites, and vice versa which means, unless your different profiles on different sites all say pretty much the same thing, everyone is going to be VERY cynical But you forgot option C: I can date her, fuck her and we can fall in love with each other being totally open and honest with each other about our sexual preferences and practices, not worrying that it may scare someone off or having to hide who we are. Then we can get a couples profile and be safe and secure in the knowledge that we are in a secure relationship which accepts each other for the sexual beings we are - without exception. Or maybe I'm just an old romantic...." I've got option D. | |||
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"Option D for dildo? " Like option C but without the love bit. | |||
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"I was on a dating site a couple of years back, but left after the first vanilla date met decided (after one date) that I was the long lost love she'd been searching for and that we were destined to spend the rest of our lives together and proceeded to stalk me. ...and I didn't even buy her dinner!" Are you still together? | |||
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"I was on a dating site a couple of years back, but left after the first vanilla date met decided (after one date) that I was the long lost love she'd been searching for and that we were destined to spend the rest of our lives together and proceeded to stalk me. ...and I didn't even buy her dinner! Are you still together? " Err no! I had a feeling I would have ended up like James Caan in 'Misery'! | |||
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"im on pof but not logged in for ages. i am thinking that i need to start taking life more serious and yes i do want a relationship. never been sucessful when it comes to commitment but ive enjoyed what ive had for however long it lasted. learnt things and progressed on. ultimately i do want mr right and yes in time a father figure for my daughter. i can dream right? " Why does it have to be a dream? You are still young. If a relationship is what you want then get yourself in shape emotionally to have a relationship and let your soul open up to the possibility. Good luck. | |||
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"im on pof but not logged in for ages. i am thinking that i need to start taking life more serious and yes i do want a relationship. never been sucessful when it comes to commitment but ive enjoyed what ive had for however long it lasted. learnt things and progressed on. ultimately i do want mr right and yes in time a father figure for my daughter. i can dream right? " Let go of the demons and build on the positives.. | |||
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"Well news for all you POF members! Just been on and had a message saying they are changing the site! They are getting rid of the intimate encounter option! As they want to refocus it back to relationships! And any first messages they see with sexual references in them won't be sent! Personally I think this is a good thing " People will still find a way around it, but think it is the right path for POF to take as they aren't meant to be a 'hook up' type site really, they are meant to be a more serious dating site | |||
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