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By *isskxxyvĀ OPĀ Ā Ā Woman
10 weeks ago

Reading

Everyone has their own ideas..

Whatā€™s the best build up.. teasing etc?

In public? Indoors? Whatā€™s your ideal scenario that gets you absolutely desperate for them..šŸ˜‡

An example.. both dressed up, tight dress/ shirt.

Busy bar. eye fucking all night.. thigh caressing and tracing their finger down your collarbones/ spine. some kissing but not too muchšŸ˜‰

maybe a grope or two at the bar.. but holding it out for hours and hours.

you can tell in their eyes what theyā€™re going to do to you when you get homešŸ˜‡ šŸ˜ˆ

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By *oodmessMan
10 weeks ago

yumsville

I don't find pubs, bars, restaurants that personal.. you can rub shoulders but when you barely know each other unless chemistry is bang on, for me it feels first date awkward.

Best build for me is at someone's home or a hotel. Once you are past the initial chat, that (kiss and) undress where ever it is (living, dining, bedroom), for me is great. Playing out of the bedroom heats things nicely.

Away from that, a walk in a park is good as you can both take in the sights as well as each other.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
10 weeks ago

North West

For me it needs to start before we are set to meet. I love that energy so when you do set eyes on one another you want to go feral. That is amplified if you are meeting in public and have to ā€œbehaveā€ yourself but you find you canā€™t keep your hands off one another. So hot šŸ„µ

If there is no tease and build up before the meet and it feels more transactional, I lose or donā€™t have that buzz. It just feels rather flat and would take a while for me to warm up, if at all.

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By *oodmessMan
10 weeks ago

yumsville


"For me it needs to start before we are set to meet. I love that energy so when you do set eyes on one another you want to go feral. That is amplified if you are meeting in public and have to ā€œbehaveā€ yourself but you find you canā€™t keep your hands off one another. So hot šŸ„µ

If there is no tease and build up before the meet and it feels more transactional, I lose or donā€™t have that buzz. It just feels rather flat and would take a while for me to warm up, if at all. "

Just hope they don't have a pre tactical

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
10 weeks ago

North West


"For me it needs to start before we are set to meet. I love that energy so when you do set eyes on one another you want to go feral. That is amplified if you are meeting in public and have to ā€œbehaveā€ yourself but you find you canā€™t keep your hands off one another. So hot šŸ„µ

If there is no tease and build up before the meet and it feels more transactional, I lose or donā€™t have that buzz. It just feels rather flat and would take a while for me to warm up, if at all.

Just hope they don't have a pre tactical

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Hate pre tacticals!!! I wanna see/feel the wet patch! šŸ¤£

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By *AM-93Man
10 weeks ago

north lincolnshire

Starting with sexual tension through messages, then on a social in a pub/busy environment you are constantly just eye fucking and seeing through the innocent looks of the other. Teasing each other through looks and small touch and knowing what you both want to do and each others intentions

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By *ansoffateMan
10 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Comfortable flirtation, evolving through playful teasing and tantalising to the point of torment.

To the point I can feel the heat in my neck and she can dial my growl up and down with the slightest closing of the proximity gap. And then the killer - so who is fucking who eyes. I've had partners who can set in motion with a single eye-brow raise at that point.

I think my favourite of all time, was one where they held it on the cusp for an age and then looked at the desk and said - so what are you going to do? She really was an artisan.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
10 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

When he walks through the bedroom door and and starts to take his clothes off.

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By *ein-guyMan
10 weeks ago

East Cowes

'That look' and the slow rub on my inner thigh is all I need to know what's coming later. And a whisper in the ear of what they are going to do to me as they get up to use the toilet

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By *oodmessMan
10 weeks ago

yumsville


"When he walks through the bedroom door and and starts to take his clothes off.

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Similarly, she doesn't even need to undress much. As much as I prefer nakedness, (lingerie is a ++ bonus), it's surprising how much a woman who knows, maybe just fancies what she wants, dressed or half dressed is a erotic af

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By *eyond PurityCouple
10 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We met a lady for a drink recently. Iā€™ve seen her friends pics on FAB and she looks hot - sexy lingerie, FM heels.

She wore a dress which covered up her whole body, up to her neck. I found it very sexy how she was so demure.

C is like that - looks just as hot dressed as she does undressed.

I couldnā€™t keep my mind from wandering and both ladies knew it. We didnā€™t touch but we eye fucked aplenty! šŸ„µ

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