FabSwingers.com forum: Sexual Regrets

By *l Zorro777 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Lazy Town

Just musing upon things I wish I had done in terms of sexual adventures and now regret not doing. Feel free to contribute. I regret not sharing my ex wife in a 4 some. We were younger and hot and it would have been amazingly hot to swap.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
10 weeks ago

West Dublin

Not being more adventurous when younger. Not having more sexual partners.

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By *edSirenWoman
10 weeks ago

magic mountain

That I hadn’t listened to those who told me I needed to tone down my sexuality.

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By *ashMan
10 weeks ago

Westhoughton

Having only one partner at a time policy when young

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By *vaRoseWoman
10 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"That I hadn’t listened to those who told me I needed to tone down my sexuality. "

This

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By *carlettsWoman
10 weeks ago

Harpenden

Taking one for the team in a foursome ...shivers!!

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By *upanovaMan
10 weeks ago

Sheffield

No regrets

They don't work

No regrets now

They only hurt

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
10 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

I regret not saying yes to 2girls when I was much younger. ‘We don’t mind sharing’ was when I became a cowered and got up and went to the kitchen for a drink, grabbed my mate and made an excuse to leave. 🤦‍♂️

I do regret that, all 3 of us could have a much much better memory of what happened.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
10 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Have you ever looked back on an interaction or relationship, only to realise much later they were “up for it”?

Story of my life 🤷🏽‍♂️I was either too bashful, too dense or too gentlemanly.

Aaand now I’m on Fab, trying to make up for it 😄

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Biggest regret was having rubbish sex with a girl when I was 21. She was a beautiful person inside and out.

I was a very selfish "lover" (not cruel or degrading or rough or anything) I just didn't really give her any decent pleasure out focus on her needs or know what I know now about being a giving lover.

I only found out during she was still a virgin. It was probably a horrible experience for her. I wish I could give her that time back and make it better for her. I actually get quite emotional about this.

Additionally I ended it with after a about a year together (don't know why probably because I was cheating). I think she was actually a wonderful person and I've come to know she was exactly my type.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

No regrets as I don't think my lifestyle now would have suited me when I was younger.

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By *olinfunMan
10 weeks ago

Galway

Stoped seeing a girl who was amazing in bed but I got scared of committing at the time. She was very adventurous and I missed out on alot

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

I turned down sex with the sexiest person I’ve ever met for a stupid reason.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
10 weeks ago

Chatham

Not being more adventurous when younger.

Staying with men who were sexually inept because society told me being in a relationship is better than being single

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By *reddie DerbysMan
10 weeks ago

matlock

Getting married

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"I turned down sex with the sexiest person I’ve ever met for a stupid reason. "

What was the reason ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

The conscious choices to ignore red flags when in self destruct mode 💜

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
10 weeks ago

Niche

I don't have regrets in general life-choice things.

Sex-wise?

I do have a lot of regrets for opening up to a few people sexually. There are a couple of people that I debated with myself over and eventually did decide to trust, I ignored my gut instinct that they were not a good match or good people.

And they did indeed turn out to be not good people. I really wish I could scrub the experiences from history. I hate those experiences and the memories of the sex give me hard cringe regret. Actually make me want to take a shower.

It has definitely hardened my resolve to take my time choosing. And what/who to avoid.

But I truly don't have regrets about any of the things that I didn't do.

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By *alm_one4Man
10 weeks ago

RM16

Happy with what I’ve done, would love to do more. No regrets then but a couple of unfortunates

Getting up with a trapped nerve in my back on holiday last year that stopped me meeting a very nice Couple I met on a nudist beach the day before.

Not proof reading a message on here that got me ‘not invited’ to a small group meet that carried on regularly for a few years after.

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By *ilva69Man
10 weeks ago

stockport

Just a gangbang missing off my CV which I eventually got to enjoy at weekend

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By *ackformore100Man
10 weeks ago

Tin town

Je ne regrette rien

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By *a LunaWoman
10 weeks ago

o o OO o o

Nothing really, I’ve had pretty awesome sex throughout. There are about two people I wish I hadn’t slept with though, I don’t know what I was thinking there, but otherwise I’m good

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By *ntcovMan
10 weeks ago

Church Gresley / Swadlincote

I never regret, if it wasn't that great, chalk it up to experience, learn from it and move forward

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By *ittlebirdWoman
10 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Nah no regrets here. What’s the point? I just dust myself off and move on to the next adventure 😘

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By *ornucopiaMan
10 weeks ago

Bexley

"Having only one partner at a time policy when young"

It can keep you out of trouble. Otherwise keep them for separate days of the week.

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
10 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I don't have regrets, I put it down to life experiences, Some good some not so good. I feel I've done everything I wanted and all at the right time

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By *oveandfastWoman
10 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

"Biggest regret was having rubbish sex with a girl when I was 21. She was a beautiful person inside and out.

I was a very selfish "lover" (not cruel or degrading or rough or anything) I just didn't really give her any decent pleasure out focus on her needs or know what I know now about being a giving lover.

Additionally I ended it with after an about a year together (don't know why probably because I was cheating). I think she was actually a wonderful person and I've come to know she was exactly my type. "

This feels so wholesome. The self reflection is so honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I was a very late bloomer with sex and gfs. Lost virginity at 17 definitely something I regret as the wrong person.

Didn't sleep with anyone until I was 23. Again the wrong person as shat on so much. Then went on abit of a sexual rampage

But glad I wasn't tied down at a young age as most of family/friends had kids at very young ages and miserable

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By *pforanything22Man
10 weeks ago

March

Go to public toilet and never tried the glory holes in 1980 when lots about.

I in my 50’s and I am bi oral wish I knew this in my 20’s

I love walking around naked in clubs and love people looking at me would love to have done this on a nudist beach

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By *oveandfastWoman
10 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

I regret not being honest about how important sex is to me in relationship. I thought I could thrive with the “best friend” with no sexual chemistry and I feel like I didn’t make the most of my best years.

Oh well, live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

There’s nothing I regret. Everything that I have done, discovered and learned has made the me person I am today, and I am very happy with who I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

No regrets ..had some disappointing encounters but don't regret .

Life's far to short to regret and not look forward. .

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By *eyond PurityCouple
10 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"That I hadn’t listened to those who told me I needed to tone down my sexuality. "

Mine’s the opposite. I pissed away too many of my youthful years being a “career man” and neglecting all forms of intimacy. Even when friends were telling me I was making a mistake I didn’t listen…..They were right, I was wrong.

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By *azarMan
10 weeks ago

Strabane

Not putting myself out there more,

Not reading the signs of other woman being into me,

staying in a sexless relationship for 3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Not really.

Quite a few sexual opportunities have been passed because I could foresee a train wreck ensuing.

I think I value peace over excitement.

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By *idssissyTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Nr cricket ground birm

Letting Catholic guilt stop me exploring

Letting nerves stop me exploring

Not taking up previous opportunities

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
10 weeks ago

Norwich

Regret or wise decision, but turned down bareback with girl who really wanted it recently, on balance wish I had, we could still have been fbs

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By *ewbootsandpanties99Man
10 weeks ago

Darkest South East Surrey

Not having had sex with more women when I was younger because I spent my time 'looking for the one' rather than living in the moment.

I'm also pretty convinced I'll die without ever having a threesome or foursome which has been my life's fantasy.

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By *aveed74Man
10 weeks ago

a round and a bout Midlands

Yes, this!

Thought that a monogamous relationship for more than 20 years, despite very infrequent, poor, unadventurous sex, was alright and proper. She left me for a other woman (no, I didn't know and feel sad for her that she wasn't quite who she thought she was).

Had many offers over the years (do all monogamous chaps get this?). Never took up an opportunity.

Now, opportunities are rarer than unicorn saddles.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I have no regrets

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I have more regrets than I care to list. I think that's the nature of getting older, we accumulate more and more of them.

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By *r Light YearMan
10 weeks ago

Brighton

"Not being more adventurous when younger. Not having more sexual partners. "

Very much this for me.

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By *enno1TV/TS
10 weeks ago

Burntwood ish

I was fucking a 17yo and also her mother but not together..

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"Not being more adventurous when younger. Not having more sexual partners.

Very much this for me."

Agreed. Only ever had 4 partners.

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By *arried curious guyMan
10 weeks ago

Motherwell

Same as above was too naive when younger

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"I'm also pretty convinced I'll die without ever having a threesome or foursome ..."

That'll be me too.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
10 weeks ago

moved to cuckold land

I regret we didn't persue for my wife to have pleasure with another joining us when we first married & im 100% sure that if internet had been around then like it is now then it def would have happened.

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By *nlyessexCouple
10 weeks ago

Hornchurch

Missing out on the 4 children I fathered before I married my current wife

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By *tsJustKateWoman
10 weeks ago

London

Like a few others, I wish I had been more adventurous when younger.

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Nowhere

It being honest with who I really am and starting that journey a lot lot sooner . Them sticking to it .

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By *dalisqueWoman
10 weeks ago

land of make believe

Non,je ne regrette rien.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

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By *lakeyMan
10 weeks ago

somewhere close

Been a few woman I regretted sleeping with ha ha

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