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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle

How do you hook up or like to hook up in a vanilla club these days?

Does it even happen? Gone are the days of a bum pinch

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By *nmyownio79Man
10 weeks ago

belfast

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By *nmyownio79Man
10 weeks ago

belfast

eats yours?

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"eats yours?"

???

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham


"How do you hook up or like to hook up in a vanilla club these days?

Does it even happen? Gone are the days of a bum pinch "

I have never, EVER, been approached in a regular pub

💔

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By *dalisqueWoman
10 weeks ago

land of make believe


"How do you hook up or like to hook up in a vanilla club these days?

Does it even happen? Gone are the days of a bum pinch

I have never, EVER, been approached in a regular pub

💔"

What is wrong with people where you live????

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By *nmyownio79Man
10 weeks ago

belfast

id be worried now about chatting up in a bar now. been 20 years since I've been single. No idea what to do lol

don't think I'd be into that swiping stuff.

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
10 weeks ago

land of overweight munters


"eats yours?

???"

It's old lol how do you eat yours...creme egg

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham


"How do you hook up or like to hook up in a vanilla club these days?

Does it even happen? Gone are the days of a bum pinch

I have never, EVER, been approached in a regular pub

💔

What is wrong with people where you live???? "

I think I might have a resting crazed look about me 🤷🏼‍♂️ 😂

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
10 weeks ago

North West

Sadly, the days of the unsolicited bum pinch are not gone.

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"How do you hook up or like to hook up in a vanilla club these days?

Does it even happen? Gone are the days of a bum pinch

I have never, EVER, been approached in a regular pub

💔"

Are the blind or scared??! What would you do if they did?

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By *estructionDollyWoman
10 weeks ago

Manchester

I don't

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"id be worried now about chatting up in a bar now. been 20 years since I've been single. No idea what to do lol

don't think I'd be into that swiping stuff."

Same- that's my point!

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
10 weeks ago

here there and everywhere


"How do you hook up or like to hook up in a vanilla club these days?

Does it even happen? Gone are the days of a bum pinch "

Bum punches were never ok, especially in a vanilla club

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham


"How do you hook up or like to hook up in a vanilla club these days?

Does it even happen? Gone are the days of a bum pinch

I have never, EVER, been approached in a regular pub

💔

Are the blind or scared??! What would you do if they did?"

I have no idea. I make eye contact, I smile n nowt, nothing, zip!

If someone came over I'd be polite and chat back but it never gets that far 😂

I have no problem chatting to random women though 🤷🏼‍♂️

.

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"Sadly, the days of the unsolicited bum pinch are not gone. "

It used to be quite common & a compliment or not depending on the pincher! It was done by men & women. I had it a lot but didn't really do it in all honesty!

Mad now when you think back!

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"How do you hook up or like to hook up in a vanilla club these days?

Does it even happen? Gone are the days of a bum pinch

I have never, EVER, been approached in a regular pub

💔

Are the blind or scared??! What would you do if they did?

I have no idea. I make eye contact, I smile n nowt, nothing, zip!

If someone came over I'd be polite and chat back but it never gets that far 😂

I have no problem chatting to random women though 🤷🏼‍♂️

.

"

I think eye contact is the new pinch if I'm honest!!

If you were looking at me I'd think you're out of my league and think you're looking at someone behind me

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham


"How do you hook up or like to hook up in a vanilla club these days?

Does it even happen? Gone are the days of a bum pinch

I have never, EVER, been approached in a regular pub

💔

Are the blind or scared??! What would you do if they did?

I have no idea. I make eye contact, I smile n nowt, nothing, zip!

If someone came over I'd be polite and chat back but it never gets that far 😂

I have no problem chatting to random women though 🤷🏼‍♂️

.

I think eye contact is the new pinch if I'm honest!!

If you were looking at me I'd think you're out of my league and think you're looking at someone behind me "

Behave yourself!

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"How do you hook up or like to hook up in a vanilla club these days?

Does it even happen? Gone are the days of a bum pinch

I have never, EVER, been approached in a regular pub

💔

Are the blind or scared??! What would you do if they did?

I have no idea. I make eye contact, I smile n nowt, nothing, zip!

If someone came over I'd be polite and chat back but it never gets that far 😂

I have no problem chatting to random women though 🤷🏼‍♂️

.

I think eye contact is the new pinch if I'm honest!!

If you were looking at me I'd think you're out of my league and think you're looking at someone behind me

Behave yourself! "

I'm behaving for now....

If you made it clear you were looking at me, I'd give you a crack lol

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By *dalisqueWoman
10 weeks ago

land of make believe


"How do you hook up or like to hook up in a vanilla club these days?

Does it even happen? Gone are the days of a bum pinch

I have never, EVER, been approached in a regular pub

💔

Are the blind or scared??! What would you do if they did?

I have no idea. I make eye contact, I smile n nowt, nothing, zip!

If someone came over I'd be polite and chat back but it never gets that far 😂

I have no problem chatting to random women though 🤷🏼‍♂️

.

I think eye contact is the new pinch if I'm honest!!

If you were looking at me I'd think you're out of my league and think you're looking at someone behind me "

I always think this 😂

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"How do you hook up or like to hook up in a vanilla club these days?

Does it even happen? Gone are the days of a bum pinch

I have never, EVER, been approached in a regular pub

💔

Are the blind or scared??! What would you do if they did?

I have no idea. I make eye contact, I smile n nowt, nothing, zip!

If someone came over I'd be polite and chat back but it never gets that far 😂

I have no problem chatting to random women though 🤷🏼‍♂️

.

I think eye contact is the new pinch if I'm honest!!

If you were looking at me I'd think you're out of my league and think you're looking at someone behind me

I always think this 😂"

You look incredible Odalisque

They're certainly looking at you!!

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By *each needs some creamWoman
10 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

The last time I hooked up with some at a bar was back in 1989. I think I am a bit out of date with any advice. X

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By *aybeLadyWoman
10 weeks ago

West Dublin

Club?? Whats that now?? 😅😅

Havent been to a club in like 20yrs!🙈

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By *ature bi couple61Couple
10 weeks ago

Derby

Wow that's silly as you look gorgeous xx

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By *sWyldWoman
10 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I've never been 'chatted up' or approached.

I really am the girl no one looks twice at

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By *ingerie DreamerMan
10 weeks ago

telford


"I've never been 'chatted up' or approached.

I really am the girl no one looks twice at "

I’m sure that’s not true. You’re beautiful x

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By *vaRoseWoman
10 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Not a clue, it’s been decades

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By *harmedAndInChargeMan
10 weeks ago

Bath


"I've never been 'chatted up' or approached.

I really am the girl no one looks twice at "

I’m easily into 3 figure numbers so far…

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Just because people aren’t on this site, doesn’t mean they’re “vanilla”

Maybe take a break from here and you’ll realise it’s not the Mecca of sex.

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By *dalisqueWoman
10 weeks ago

land of make believe


"How do you hook up or like to hook up in a vanilla club these days?

Does it even happen? Gone are the days of a bum pinch

I have never, EVER, been approached in a regular pub

💔

Are the blind or scared??! What would you do if they did?

I have no idea. I make eye contact, I smile n nowt, nothing, zip!

If someone came over I'd be polite and chat back but it never gets that far 😂

I have no problem chatting to random women though 🤷🏼‍♂️

.

I think eye contact is the new pinch if I'm honest!!

If you were looking at me I'd think you're out of my league and think you're looking at someone behind me

I always think this 😂

You look incredible Odalisque

They're certainly looking at you!!"

Can I keep you??

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Hmmm, we make eye contact a few times, a cheeky smile.

I wait until she goes to the busy bar, I walk up behind her, place my hand on her hip, lean over to grab a straw, ensuring my chest brushes against her then turn to look at her, smile and walk back to my chair and calmly wait for the bouncers to come over,drag me into the ally and give me a kicking haha

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By *eGingeMan
10 weeks ago

Halesowen

Bars are a nightmare these days. Chatting to a woman in a bar recently, asked her for her number and she said that’s so 90’s, gave me her Instagram?!

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By *ighlandCooWoman
10 weeks ago

Chesterfield

I've found when people are out they're usually just out to enjoy themselves in their own group.

Not been approached since I was 21 🤣

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Central


"How do you hook up or like to hook up in a vanilla club these days?

Does it even happen? Gone are the days of a bum pinch

I have never, EVER, been approached in a regular pub

💔

Are the blind or scared??! What would you do if they did?

I have no idea. I make eye contact, I smile n nowt, nothing, zip!

If someone came over I'd be polite and chat back but it never gets that far 😂

I have no problem chatting to random women though 🤷🏼‍♂️

.

I think eye contact is the new pinch if I'm honest!!

If you were looking at me I'd think you're out of my league and think you're looking at someone behind me

I always think this 😂"

I had a couple of gorgeous men looking at me. Then realised they were looking at some sports coverage, on a screen just behind me. I'd been smiling, to no effect

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"How do you hook up or like to hook up in a vanilla club these days?

Does it even happen? Gone are the days of a bum pinch

I have never, EVER, been approached in a regular pub

💔

Are the blind or scared??! What would you do if they did?

I have no idea. I make eye contact, I smile n nowt, nothing, zip!

If someone came over I'd be polite and chat back but it never gets that far 😂

I have no problem chatting to random women though 🤷🏼‍♂️

.

I think eye contact is the new pinch if I'm honest!!

If you were looking at me I'd think you're out of my league and think you're looking at someone behind me

I always think this 😂

You look incredible Odalisque

They're certainly looking at you!!

Can I keep you?? "

Depends what you're going to do with me

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
10 weeks ago

North West

If someone has caught my eye and I think I’m in with a shot I will accidentally trip them up/bump into them then take it from there 😁

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By *eenALongTime..... OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"If someone has caught my eye and I think I’m in with a shot I will accidentally trip them up/bump into them then take it from there 😁"

Very sneaky!! I'm sure they'll be annoyed until they turn around and see you

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