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By (user no longer on site) OP   
11 weeks ago

Would you be more inclined to do something sexually youve always wanted to with someone that you know will be a one off or with someone you have had or are in a relationship with

It is often said that we all have fantasies, what stops you acting on them, is it because you feel you may be rejected because of them or judged and therefore makes it easier if it was a one off?

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Rather with stranger 1st I think

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By *eliWoman
11 weeks ago

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Someone I had/have a relationship with. I don't think I could relax enough with a stranger, the trust isn't there. It screams not a good idea and most of the time I'm preytg deaf to that kind of thing so it must be really bad.

I also know that with some people they wouldn't judge at all. It's safe and open. My fantasies/things I'd like to explore are often heavily influenced by the person I hope to do so with and that's enough reason. I wouldn't find it arousing with a stranger/random person.

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By *oxychicWoman
11 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Depends on what the act is , sometimes it works better with a stranger others with established playmate x

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By *eliWoman
11 weeks ago

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Let people edit, Mods. 10 seconds is enough time. You can do it.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
11 weeks ago

Reading

Someone I know and trust.

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By *ein-guyMan
11 weeks ago

East Cowes


"Someone I had/have a relationship with. I don't think I could relax enough with a stranger, the trust isn't there. It screams not a good idea and most of the time I'm preytg deaf to that kind of thing so it must be really bad.

I also know that with some people they wouldn't judge at all. It's safe and open. My fantasies/things I'd like to explore are often heavily influenced by the person I hope to do so with and that's enough reason. I wouldn't find it arousing with a stranger/random person."

Exactly this. I have opened up and explored so much with my fwb over the years. There's nobody that I would trust more than the person who knows me the best and talks to me about kinks and desires in detail. Can't ever second guess a stranger!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Central

It depends. Sometimes friendly support is wonderful

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
11 weeks ago

rochdale

I recently did a bondage scene with someone I trust. I was gagged, blindfolded & cuffed myself and waited on my knees for him to enter my house.

Certainly wouldn't be doing that with a stranger!

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By *ansoffateMan
11 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

In a relationship with.

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By *vaRoseWoman
11 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I recently had one of my oldest fantasies realised and I couldn’t and wouldn’t have done it with someone I didn’t trust. I couldn’t have relaxed and enjoyed myself if I didn’t know them

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
10 weeks ago

North West

For the things I’d be wanting to do it requires connection and trust so strangers are out.

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By *sWyldWoman
10 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I want trust and comfort with someone in order to be able to push boundaries.

I want to know that after whatever we indulge in , they will still want me and that I will be enough.

For instance if I ever had my MMF. I'd want just the two of us right after.

I guess it's a reclaim thing.

It's also those looks you can share, the silent, reassuring conversation during that let's you know you're both comfortable, both getting off on the situation and both still happy.

I think that's why pushing boundaries as a single can and has left me feeling a bit empty in the past .

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Someone I know.

I'm crap the first time I sleep with someone and just basic sex is an effort.

But then guys generally don't want me anymore after the first dismal attempt!

I think I do improve as time goes on though, more inclined to try other things.

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