FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone meet, others but not for sex ?

By *annessa OP TV/TS
12 weeks ago

Denham

Last night I had a call from an past female contact who was feeling a bit down, we agreed to meet and just go for a drive, no sex, just to chat, we had such a giggle and did end up playing with each other but no sex.

Anyone else like meeting others without a sexual commitment ?

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I still see my ex wife, sometimes we have sex, sometimes we dont

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By *oxychicWoman
12 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Yes i like to have socials first , and then i go from there

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
12 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

No, I don't do the whole friends thing

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I don’t commit to anything other than meeting someone especially anything sexual

I will always want a social meet first

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By *ikesEmBigMan
12 weeks ago

Herts

"Last night I had a call from an past female contact who was feeling a bit down, we agreed to meet and just go for a drive, no sex, just to chat, we had such a giggle and did end up playing with each other but no sex.

Anyone else like meeting others without a sexual commitment ?"
Yeah but we usually end up shagging anyway

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By *eliWoman
12 weeks ago

Yes. Friendship is wonderful and I can meet people I've previously fucked solely as friends if that's how things go.

Most of the time; I have my weaknesses.

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By *ardforall56Man
12 weeks ago

lisburn

In my day we did not do female friends or mates things.The only reason we chatted/talked to a lady was to get into her knickers.There was a mutual understanding of this from both sexes.If you seen a friend with a bird first think you asked was,are you bucking her.Or the old Belfast one.does she do a turn.lol

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By *ake_or_deathMan
12 weeks ago

Manchester

Absolutely. I tend to only want to meet people I have established some connection with, so whether we slept together or not I would also be happy to hang out with.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I don't have any social circles so I'm trying to do this as well as find at least a FwB

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By *viatrixWoman
12 weeks ago

Redhill

I spent the day yesterday with my best (female) friend I met on here. Well, on a social that came from here.

We had the best time. And we’re completely platonic.

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By *edSirenWoman
12 weeks ago

magic mountain

Yes. I have quite a few from this lifestyle that I now consider my friends and we meet up, without any intention of fucking, and just have a blast without the sex. Sometimes a connection just progresses that way 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *ou only live onceMan
12 weeks ago

London

"In my day we did not do female friends or mates things.The only reason we chatted/talked to a lady was to get into her knickers.There was a mutual understanding of this from both sexes."

You've literally started a thread about your female friend of 20 years?!?

🤷🏽 🤣

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By *eliWoman
12 weeks ago

"In my day we did not do female friends or mates things.The only reason we chatted/talked to a lady was to get into her knickers.There was a mutual understanding of this from both sexes.

You've literally started a thread about your female friend of 20 years?!?

🤷🏽 🤣"

Shusssssh never question the inconsistencies. They're part of the fun of the forums.

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By *ealitybitesMan
12 weeks ago

Belfast

If I can't meet people for anything other than sex I don't want to meet them at all.

If they are only interested in me for sex, we won't be friends so therefore won't be compatible.

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By *orphia2003Woman
12 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Yes, all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Yes I've met for coffee many times.

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
12 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Yes, i meet quite abit for coffee/lunch dates. The social side is just as important to me if not more, that's where the true friendships are found.

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By *eoBloomsMan
12 weeks ago

Springfield

Socials are a waste of Costa points, straight to the fuckery is my preference.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
12 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

We love socials, eapecially with other couples.

We have friends on the scene we have coffee/lunch with all the while.

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By *inxy777Woman
12 weeks ago

essex

"Yes, i meet quite abit for coffee/lunch dates. The social side is just as important to me if not more, that's where the true friendships are found. "

^^ this!

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

For me it's not always about the sexual dalliances. I often meet friends from here for lunches, dinners, libations and trips to art galleries or museums.

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By *oiluvfunMan
12 weeks ago

Penrith

Two of my long term lady friends I meet for coffee, and lunch dates. It’s not always about sex….

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By *utofthebluexxxWoman
12 weeks ago

London

"I spent the day yesterday with my best (female) friend I met on here. Well, on a social that came from here.

We had the best time. And we’re completely platonic.

Love you 💘

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
12 weeks ago

Reading

Yes my people are friends first, the benefits don't always happen.

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By *urry BlokeMan
12 weeks ago

Yes

I love proper socials

Where sex isn't even potentially on the menu

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Yes, I go on a lot of nights out with friends, Tgirls and genetic females. Apparently I'm good value on a night out hitting bars

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By *elightful 2Couple
12 weeks ago

Not living in the UK

We have had many socials when sex hasn't been on the cards and enjoyed them all.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Chichester

I spent day this week at studlands nude beach with a couple from fab just to hangout socially. Great day

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
12 weeks ago

Reading

"Yes, I go on a lot of nights out with friends, Tgirls and genetic females. Apparently I'm good value on a night out hitting bars

I would so believe that!

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By *JandCMCouple
12 weeks ago

cardiff

Never meet anyone on here apart from hook ups n even then we never meet them for a social.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
12 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

No I only meet up for sex.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
12 weeks ago

London

All the time.

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By *aizyWoman
12 weeks ago

west midlands

Yes I do.

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By *tr8MrEMan
12 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

Should never go to a meet with the expectation other than a nice time with pleasant company

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Central

It's hard enough to get the time for sexual meetings. I don't rule it out but nonsexual is less likely

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By *eyond PurityCouple
12 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Some of our best friends on here are platonic only.

We’ve become a sounding board for some ladies starting out in the lifestyle too.

It’s just as important to have friends in this lifestyle…we’ve been to many socials and made new friends.

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By *punk n gushCouple
12 weeks ago

New milton

Absolutely we have made some friends on here sometimes we play with them sometimes we just meet socially

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By *gent CoulsonMan
12 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

There are a couple of ladies I occasionally see socially, no sex involved

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By *akedMMan
12 weeks ago

Witney

I would like to meet up for socials

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By *ceKweenWoman
12 weeks ago

Bolton

Most of my friends are now fab related… and I love them all to bits, I love how we are all on the same wavelength yet also trusted in relation to personal and/or family matters.

We all enjoy a fab event and that’s where encounters can happen or more friendships are made 😊

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By *vaRoseWoman
12 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Yes happily

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
12 weeks ago

North Wessex Downs Ares

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
12 weeks ago

North Wessex Downs Ares

Why not? Nice people, if interesting, are fun to spend time with!

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By *ineapplePixie69!Couple
12 weeks ago

Neverland/Wales

Yes happily, and have had some great social meets 😀

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I mostly give bjs when I do meets as I’m mind blowing also I’m tight and don’t want it ruined 🤣

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

"...also I’m tight and don’t want it ruined 🤣"

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You can keep your purse 👛 firmly shut and protected; I'm sure there are others who would foot the bill. 🩶

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By *ou only live onceMan
12 weeks ago

London

"In my day we did not do female friends or mates things.The only reason we chatted/talked to a lady was to get into her knickers.There was a mutual understanding of this from both sexes.

You've literally started a thread about your female friend of 20 years?!?

🤷🏽 🤣

Shusssssh never question the inconsistencies. They're part of the fun of the forums."

But it hurts my brain, Meli...

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By *weetiepie99Woman
12 weeks ago

cardiff

Yes

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By *osweet69Couple
12 weeks ago

portsmouth

Yes Mrs Sosweet keeps in touch with a couple of past female playmates.

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By *8585Man
12 weeks ago

Teesside

I'm not interested in meeting people for sex unless it's with someone I've got to know for a bit first. I am looking and will meet people for play as listed on my profile but I'm not entirely sure people believe me when I say I'm just looking for a bit of play and not wanting more.

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
12 weeks ago

North Somerset

We love being social and making new friends, I (j) actually think I enjoy it as much as the sex side.... we often host vanilla games nights with our fab friends we have met through here or club nights...... may end in an orgy may not ha ha....

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By *layfullsamMan
12 weeks ago

Solihull

I’d love to meet for social when I’m in a hotel for work

Nothing else expected just good company and a nice evening

Especially south west and west wales if anyone wants to dm me

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By *entleman JayMan
12 weeks ago

Wakefield

People keep popping up from the past. One today. She’s had a hard time of it recently. Bad Fab choices. We are going for a coffee catchup.

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By *issLickalottapusWoman
12 weeks ago

La La Land

"Anyone else like meeting others without a sexual commitment ?"

I do! 🙋🏻‍♀️

I met this lady for a social once, no sexual...wait.....ok not her

Oh yeah, I met this other lady, no sex......nope not her either

Yes, this one.....nope

Ok.....it appears I can't meet ladies just for a social 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *ampireLoveMan
12 weeks ago

Essex

If alcohol is involved, I’d meet anyone. Drink, chat and laugh is good by me. Don’t need to expect sex to meet up. Expect someone who can be sociable though 😂

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By *annessa OP TV/TS
12 weeks ago

Denham

Really nice to hear the reply’s

I thought I might have been the only one, that liked to meet just for a chat or giggle.

We don't giggle enough these days

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By *cotty1983Man
11 weeks ago

port glasgow

Met a few friends on here and still in for the laughs x

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By *winkyNerdMan
11 weeks ago

Manchester

Honestly most of my meets on here are just to either go to cool places with cute people or to find people to play video games with. To be honest, I really like it, it makes the eventual sex all the more enjoyable if it does happen and if it doesnt then you've still made a good friend.

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By *ndyman 201Man
11 weeks ago

hereford

Yes .I have a freind ,we meet for just coffee accasionly and not sex

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
11 weeks ago

Sheffield

Absolutely.

Really enjoy the social side of the life style.

Have good friends through swinging who are just friends.

Also chemistry is important so a social meet with no pressure is always fine with me

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
11 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

We have many times

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By *teveanddebsCouple
11 weeks ago

Norwich

A group of us used to meet up monthly for a breakfast social at 'spoons. Sometimes there were about 6 of us, sometimes only 2, depending how busy people were. Some of us had fucked and some hadn't.

It fell by the wayside a bit when some of us got different jobs and couldn't make the morning meetings which was a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Yes I have long term friends which sometimes it’s just purely social a drink a meal sometimes just a coffee and a catch up

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