FabSwingers.com forum: Best piece if advice you'd give to a newbie swinger 🍍

By *oveToPlay. OP Couple
11 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Hey you lovely lot

As the title says, what's the best piece of advice you'd give to a newbie swinger???

Looking forward to reading your replies

S xxx

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By *eoBloomsMan
11 weeks ago

Springfield

I think it would completely depend on their status and circumstances.🤷

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By *erry bull1Man
11 weeks ago

doncaster

Visit a club and chat to other swingers and watch some couples playing

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Never be pushy and always be respectful.

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By *VANDYMan
11 weeks ago

Dawlish

My advice. Come here for advice.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
11 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Don't take it so seriously, have a sense of humour, leave entitlement behind and expect nothing.

Be respectful.

But mostly, patience, honesty, cleanliness and cake 🍰

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By *exxyyDy11Man
11 weeks ago

North West

Just be yourself, don't try to be something you're not and understand boundaries.

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By *ceKweenWoman
11 weeks ago

Bolton

Let things flow naturally and attend group socials 😊

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By *oodmessMan
11 weeks ago

yumsville

Don't follow your loins at 12 midnight, you'll end in a field 30 miles from home thinking shit I've got a speeding ticket and have work in the morning.

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By *oughmanMan
11 weeks ago

Sunderland

Well I've got no room to talk as I've yet to have a single meet, but I'd have to say be patient. Don't harass, don't keep messaging of they haven't responded to you first one after they've read it. Be calm and learn to take rejection gracefully.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
11 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Don't let anyone try and persuade you to follow their rules.

Stick to your own boundaries and communicate with each other.

Its best to have no experience, than a bad one.

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By *DoRe181Couple
11 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Don't be afraid to be yourself! X

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By *DoRe181Couple
11 weeks ago

Huddersfield

"Don't let anyone try and persuade you to follow their rules.

Stick to your own boundaries and communicate with each other.

Its best to have no experience, than a bad one. "

This is great advice x

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By *rSuave88Man
11 weeks ago

Mirfield

My advice is.. the first rule of fight club is that you do not talk about fight club!... oh wait... 😬

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
11 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.

Communicate with each other.

Be honest.

Trust your gut.

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By *layfullsamMan
11 weeks ago

Solihull

Lower your expectations and don’t forget there’s fun to be had away from fab

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By *illy IdolMan
11 weeks ago

Midlands

Be aware of the forum rules before posting.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Just say no

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Don't drop your standards.

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By *reuup4itMan
11 weeks ago

pinhoe

Be female or in a couple

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By *issmorganWoman
11 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Go to organised socials, rather than just relying on fab.

You'll Meet people in real life and make more connections.

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By *issmorganWoman
11 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Also be realistic in your expectations.

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By *he Filthy Gorgeous OnesCouple
11 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Come over for a cup of coffee/tea with A

It usually sorts the players from the serious swingers .

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By *icolerobbieCouple
11 weeks ago

walsall

Get baby wipes…. They’re your friend.

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
11 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

My advice.... being proud of your cock is amazing, but sharing it with everyone on the first message is probably not advisable

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Be respectful, not pushy and don’t send random cock photos.

Go to socials and meet others. And don’t expect it to be like a gang bang each time.

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By *pontaneous_coupleCouple
11 weeks ago

Hoddesdon

Chat first! Make sure you suss out they’re both comfortable and not one doing it for the others approval x

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By *ucka39Man
11 weeks ago

Newcastle

Read the FAQ and remember it

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Your expectation will massively outweigh reality.

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By *andadbodMan
11 weeks ago

Liverpool

Go to social events, contacting people on networking platforms such as this, is pretty much a waste of time.

Meeting face to face in a social environment is by far much easier to make a good first impression.

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