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By (user no longer on site) OP   
11 weeks ago

Do people chat or meet on here ,seems to me they do not

If you message someone a simple reply like no thanks or not interested would be nice

I have enjoye a threesum in the past so know whats it all about

It could be my age but i dont look my years im still active and doing gardens for a living keeps me well fit

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

You've got to realise that the ratio of men to women/couples here is huge..

Consequently women get pestered constantly, their inboxes are full..mostly with nasty or lazy messages...and they just get fed up of it.

So standing out from the crowd and getting seen and being able to come across as someone worth meeting is very hard.

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By *illbe9999Man
11 weeks ago

Holmfirth

It's a very common subject posted here in the forums.

Thing is, women and couples get bombarded with messages on here they couldn't possibly answer every one.

The rule is that if you don't get a reply they're not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Would be nice, but understand as to why it's not the case

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
11 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.

Last guy who we sent a polite no thank you to told us to kill ourselves, we were too fat for him anyway and people only meet us if they are desperate.

So the lack of replies might be due to alot of us being exhaused of the abuse and decide to not interact.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
11 weeks ago

I get that i really do but ive only messaged a couple whos close by and theyve not even read them think its time to give up

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"Last guy who we sent a polite no thank you to told us to kill ourselves, we were too fat for him anyway and people only meet us if they are desperate.

So the lack of replies might be due to alot of us being exhaused of the abuse and decide to not interact."

Yeah that sucks. Adults should be able to be told no without throwing a tantrum

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Fyi chonky duo I think you both look great

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
11 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.


"I get that i really do but ive only messaged a couple whos close by and theyve not even read them think its time to give up "

We get ignored all the time. It is what it is.

They aren't interested and that's absolutely fine and ignoring us is their choice. Can't win em all.

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By *midnight-Woman
11 weeks ago

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Hundreds of people meet and probably thousands are chatting!

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"I get that i really do but ive only messaged a couple whos close by and theyve not even read them think its time to give up

We get ignored all the time. It is what it is.

They aren't interested and that's absolutely fine and ignoring us is their choice. Can't win em all."

It is a bit of a numbers game at times lol

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By *MandMMCouple
11 weeks ago

Welwyn

We do tend to reply to messages with a no thanks. And not had any nasty replies. But you're expecting a reply from a message they haven't asked for. You are sending them the equivalent of a flyer or advert. Do you reply to those when you get them in your post or email?

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"We do tend to reply to messages with a no thanks. And not had any nasty replies. But you're expecting a reply from a message they haven't asked for. You are sending them the equivalent of a flyer or advert. Do you reply to those when you get them in your post or email? "

Good way to look at it

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
11 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.


"I get that i really do but ive only messaged a couple whos close by and theyve not even read them think its time to give up

We get ignored all the time. It is what it is.

They aren't interested and that's absolutely fine and ignoring us is their choice. Can't win em all.

It is a bit of a numbers game at times lol"

We are fat, disabled and neurodivergant people who only meet chubby bi men, we know it is 😂

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By *heLeadbettersCouple
11 weeks ago

Reading


"Do people chat or meet on here ,seems to me they do not

If you message someone a simple reply like no thanks or not interested would be nice

I have enjoye a threesum in the past so know whats it all about

It could be my age but i dont look my years im still active and doing gardens for a living keeps me well fit "

Personally we like an honest profile and one that's not cock centric.

J

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By *udamet666Woman
11 weeks ago

Kilbirnie


"Do people chat or meet on here ,seems to me they do not

If you message someone a simple reply like no thanks or not interested would be nice

I have enjoye a threesum in the past so know whats it all about

It could be my age but i dont look my years im still active and doing gardens for a living keeps me well fit "

I have "DO NOT MESSAGE" on my profile but single men obviously can't read or are just plain ignorant. I still get dozens of messages every day, which I delete without opening.

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair


"It's a very common subject posted here in the forums.

Thing is, women and couples get bombarded with messages on here they couldn't possibly answer every one.

The rule is that if you don't get a reply they're not interested."

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This pretty much sums it up. ⬆️

The women on here are under-represented and they experience the consequences of their ever-increasing inboxes with messages from men.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
11 weeks ago

Ipswich

Good afternoon all hot in Essex have happy Friday all

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Good afternoon.

Yes op plenty meet and chat on here, but also on here you are just 1 penis in a sea of 16302010 penis.

Get yourself out and about meeting people, pop to a social or a club it's far easier at face value than striking a conversation with genitals.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

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By *exyDiversCouple
11 weeks ago

Surrey / Hants

Good afternoon x

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By *oupleSeducedCouple
11 weeks ago

Canterbury/Greenwich

We sometimes open our profile to guys, when the Mr is away for a while. I always respond to well written messages even if it's a polite No. We want to explore MFM and will be looking for a guy for this.

I have a fantasy we want to fulfill of being tied up and blindfolded in a room and the guys comes up and uses me as a toy with the Mr then he leaves.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
11 weeks ago

All over the place

People definitely meet, I had a very fun meet last week

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By *issmorganWoman
11 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

People do chat and meet, but they've got to be interested and attracted to someone first.

Most ladies /couples will look at a profile before a message, if there's nothing eye catching on it, it'll be a delete.

Nobody has to reply to anyone else on here and so many don't read others profiles anyway.

Make your profile the best it can be,and delete any sent messages so you're not just watching it get read or deleted.

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By *issmorganWoman
11 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"Last guy who we sent a polite no thank you to told us to kill ourselves, we were too fat for him anyway and people only meet us if they are desperate.

So the lack of replies might be due to alot of us being exhaused of the abuse and decide to not interact."
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That's absolutely vile, some people can't take a rejection at all. Yes many won't reply if not interested, because it can then turn into abuse or asking why not etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Piece of piss, don’t know what you’re talking about. I don’t even try and I’ve got loads of minge in my inbox.

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Piece of piss, don’t know what you’re talking about. I don’t even try and I’ve got loads of minge in my inbox. "

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"Piece of piss, don’t know what you’re talking about. I don’t even try and I’ve got loads of minge in my inbox.

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See, Nero knows the score.

This guy is so smooth, one comment in the forum and there’s wet patches on multiple kitchen floors across the uk. And it didn’t come from the sink full of dishes.

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By *oxychicWoman
11 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Yes ppl meet on here , but get yourself to a social , its hard being a man on here pardon the pun 😂😂 its a woman world on fab 😂😂

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