FabSwingers.com forum: Levelling Up My Profile As A Single Guy

By *-Drake OP Man
12 weeks ago

Manchester

I have been in Fabs for a little & I'd say my profile has drastically improved from when I first started but there's something I think I'm missing

I believe I do a good job as a single guy, but there's something I could do better or pictures I could take

If you got any suggestions let me know, I'm down to do the same

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By *aizyWoman
12 weeks ago

west midlands

If it's working for you OP, why change it?! 🤷‍♀️

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

I feel awful for suggesting this, OP, but I'm sensing this thread is a "PR exercise" for you/your profile, as opposed to asking for advice in earnest. 🩶

If it's working for you what is there to fix?

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By *-Drake OP Man
12 weeks ago

Manchester

Sorry It comes across that way , I'm pretty new to this forum stuff.

But when I read my own stuff, it does come come across that way.

I should work on that , but thank for the feedback I'll be more mindful in the future

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By *electableicecreamMan
12 weeks ago

The West

90% of your photos are exactly the same.

Take a chance. Maybe there's another pose you might feel like you look good in.

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By *-Drake OP Man
12 weeks ago

Manchester

"90% of your photos are exactly the same.

Take a chance. Maybe there's another pose you might feel like you look good in."

Definitely, I'll do that your profile does have a variety of pics

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By *exxyyDy11Man
12 weeks ago

North West

How about adding a little something about yourself on your bio mate? Like interests and stuff.

Apart from that you've got 7 veris, so you're doing far better than most.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
12 weeks ago

Reading

You clearly have a very nice body so that bit is sorted. So as said above work on the bio. Show some personality there.

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By *-Drake OP Man
12 weeks ago

Manchester

"You clearly have a very nice body so that bit is sorted. So as said above work on the bio. Show some personality there. "

Noted, I'll add bits of my personality there. I should mention my hobbies outside fab or what a social with me would look like

I love walking while listening to a podcast

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I've wondered as well if I've written mine well as I'm not good with the whole "sell yourself" aspect of talking about myself

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By *-Drake OP Man
12 weeks ago

Manchester

"I've wondered as well if I've written mine well as I'm not good with the whole "sell yourself" aspect of talking about myself "

I'd say there's a lot of conditionals on your profile , I think you could streamline your stuff better

I.e. There's no need to mention you don't smoke or drink in your bio as it's already displayed

Also you leading with you being inexperienced and talking about your penis size , which isn't bad per say but there's pictures that can do the talking

I do like how you are upfront about what you are looking for though

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By *exxyyDy11Man
12 weeks ago

North West

"You clearly have a very nice body so that bit is sorted. So as said above work on the bio. Show some personality there.

Noted, I'll add bits of my personality there. I should mention my hobbies outside fab or what a social with me would look like

I love walking while listening to a podcast "

Me too. Which podcasts you like? I listen to podcasts whilst working out also.

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By *-Drake OP Man
12 weeks ago

Manchester

I'd say anything that's funny or podcast that talk about my hobbies in great length

If there's someone I like who happens to have a podcast, I'll give it a listen

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By *andadbodMan
12 weeks ago

Liverpool

Your pics are a bit samey, so i’d offer something different and remove the images that are very similar to others, your bio could do with a bit more of a personal touch too.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
12 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

It looks pretty good to me OP. The only thing I would add is what you’re looking for. ONS? FWB? More?

And I don’t think your OP sounds like a look at me one… they normally start with “woe is me I’m a single man on fab”….

It’s refreshing to see a positive one

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By *abioMan
12 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I've wondered as well if I've written mine well as I'm not good with the whole "sell yourself" aspect of talking about myself "

Who knows you better than you! Just be the best “you” you can be

So if that means actually taking your time with a pen and a pad and just thinking about what you are writing… then do what is best for you

The thing is…. If you ask a million different people you will get a million different answers… and respect you are not trying to impress the entire site, you are trying to connect with specific people!

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By *abioMan
12 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"It looks pretty good to me OP. The only thing I would add is what you’re looking for. ONS? FWB? More?

And I don’t think your OP sounds like a look at me one… they normally start with “woe is me I’m a single man on fab”….

It’s refreshing to see a positive one "

See….perfect example of Different people, different opinions

There is a thing about “overthinking” a profile…. There is also a thing about never being satisfied regardless of how much success a person has , because expectations are expectations and they don’t see what you made see….

At the end of the all profiles come down to 3 words

You be you!!!!

If you think it represents the best you, don’t change a thing

If you think it doesn’t.. you change it so it does!

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