FabSwingers.com forum: What do all girls think black guys are dominant not sub?

By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

What do all girls think black guys are dominant? (I'm a black guy who likes to be submissive and that's a problem.) I can travel to London. Is anyone interested?

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By *eliWoman
12 weeks ago

I don't think all, that's as much a generalisation as the idea that all black men are dominant.

Some will have that view but I won't get in to reasons why today.

It is sad though.

Have you tried looking at a site that caters more to fetishes and kink? You might have more luck there as those kinds of things are more openly discussed and people go to the site with that in mind.

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By *ou only live onceMan
12 weeks ago

London

Stereotypes are indeed a bit shit, OP.

You might also though put it on your profile so people know what you're into?

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
12 weeks ago

Norwich

That question has so many layers to it. You have to spent some considerable time with black men to realise that's the case. There's so much to say about this subject but this is a sex site and people have fantasies which feed into that stereotype.

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
12 weeks ago

Cambs

I come across all kinds of people who look all different ways that are into all kinds of things, stereotypes are frustrating (I get it a lot myself) but keep looking for your tribe OP, there are more open minded people on this type of site, hopefully you'll find the right ones.. but adding some more detail about what you're looking for in your bio helps a lot.

Blas x

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By *exxyyDy11Man
12 weeks ago

North West

"That question has so many layers to it. You have to spent some considerable time with black men to realise that's the case. There's so much to say about this subject but this is a sex site and people have fantasies which feed into that stereotype.

True and I have noticed a lot of people can't separate their fantasies from reality. Black men like White, Brown and others come in all shapes and sizes. Some are muscular, some are skinny, some are nerdy etc etc.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Stereotypes.

Why do you think 'all' girls believe that?

There is quite often a cultural thing to it. Most cultures have their own lines for what counts as masculine or feminine behaviours, and those with closer knit families and communities who adhere to those roles will have a lot of difficulty breaking out of that, compared to us godless brits with little concern for what our families or home communities think.

Not to argue that all are, obviously. I've known submissive men in a lot of skintones. Just offering potentials for why the stereotype exists 💜

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
12 weeks ago

Niche

Possibly an assumption based on gender as much as skin.

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
12 weeks ago

London

"What do all girls think black guys are dominant? (I'm a black guy who likes to be submissive and that's a problem.) I can travel to London. Is anyone interested?"

I have met lots of sub black guys - nothing wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

All girls don't.....

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By *urvescurvesMan
12 weeks ago

leeds

???? Wtf has coulor got to do with it.

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By *vaRoseWoman
12 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"All girls don't....."

Exactly

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By *vaRoseWoman
12 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"What do all girls think black guys are dominant? (I'm a black guy who likes to be submissive and that's a problem.) I can travel to London. Is anyone interested?"

I’ve just read your profile. You mention an ig username that uses the word Bull…. Therein lies your issue

Nothing on your profile tells anyone that you enjoy submission and in fact that one word says the opposite.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
12 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

"What do all girls think black guys are dominant? (I'm a black guy who likes to be submissive and that's a problem.) I can travel to London. Is anyone interested?"
‘not all’ girls

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By *issmorganWoman
12 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Tbh it's not something I've ever assumed.

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