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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So us women get ready for a meet, we shower, shave, moisturise, paint nails, make up, hair, dress in the appropriate manner that u guys seem to like a little make sure we r fully groomed and perfect, it can take a while!!!!

U guys shower shave and dress!

Do u notice if a lady hasn't painted her toes or shaves her lags that day?

Is it all really necessary I wonder when the lust takes over is just being clean and tidy not enough maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So us women get ready for a meet, we shower, shave, moisturise, paint nails, make up, hair, dress in the appropriate manner that u guys seem to like a little make sure we r fully groomed and perfect, it can take a while!!!!

U guys shower shave and dress!

Do u notice if a lady hasn't painted her toes or shaves her lags that day?

Is it all really necessary I wonder when the lust takes over is just being clean and tidy not enough maybe? "

It definitely makes a difference. I think you will find we are all different. For me, I am not bothered whether you have painted your nails or not - although nail varnish half chipped/peeled off doesn't look good. However, running my tongue over sandpaper legs would be a real passion killer......

Some effort required all round, but not so much to make it stressful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd notice but it wouldn't put me off or detract from the effort you made.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I've never met a prison warden. They've never given me the impression of being so meticulous with their grooming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the man and it's more than that I go to the hairdressers, have a wet shave there a massage then start getting ready some men out a lot of effort into what they look like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It really interests me as everyone is so different in their grooming regimes, and it only struck me after recent club visits that although ladies might be shaved and smooth te hair and make up is less of an issue as u all end up in the jacuzzi and it all turns to shit then lol well I do anyway, the make up washed away and the sleek hair turns to a mass of curly rats tails

Though I do always have my perfectly waxed pussy and pretty nails and my smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really interests me as everyone is so different in their grooming regimes, and it only struck me after recent club visits that although ladies might be shaved and smooth te hair and make up is less of an issue as u all end up in the jacuzzi and it all turns to shit then lol well I do anyway, the make up washed away and the sleek hair turns to a mass of curly rats tails

Though I do always have my perfectly waxed pussy and pretty nails and my smile "
But i bet the start of the night thay looked lovely ..... and washed away look after wild sex some find very sexy , lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well game some seem to come already looking as if they had a good seeing to and I avoid them like the plague, I like to look my best at the start of the night personally but others.......... Well best I not say lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never met a prison warden. They've never given me the impression of being so meticulous with their grooming. "

Ryan u need a better class of b&b babe x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am the man and it's more than that I go to the hairdressers, have a wet shave there a massage then start getting ready some men out a lot of effort into what they look like "

I guess it depends on how often u get to meet, I could maybe help with te massage part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it makes a difference from the ladies point of view

If she feels confident and sexy, then surely it is beneficial

Some women need to get tuttied up and dressed up to have that confidence, others don't

So it's whatever works in my eyes

A natural look will always attract me more than a contrived one though, but I understand many guys go for the opposite

So again, what works best for the 2 people involved

Hello Sidders btw -not spoken in yonks & hope you're keeping good xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just so long as she ain't got Blue Waffle, Im happy!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I've never met a prison warden. They've never given me the impression of being so meticulous with their grooming. "

Having worked in a prison, I can confirm that (like everywhere else) there's good and bad, but the male Screws I've played with (and still do occasionally) are very well groomed and the female Screws I know personally are the same

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I will admit to not shaving legs and pussy if I've done it day before - if I shave too often, particularly the lady garden, it just gets sore and raised red bits. I find if everything clean and well moisturised, it's just as soft and smooth feeling as freshly shaved, and my hair grows very fine and light anyway. Might be a different story if I had pubes like wire wool!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I've never met a prison warden. They've never given me the impression of being so meticulous with their grooming.

Having worked in a prison, I can confirm that (like everywhere else) there's good and bad, but the male Screws I've played with (and still do occasionally) are very well groomed and the female Screws I know personally are the same "

I dont doubt there own grioming but do they really shave the prisoners legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never met a prison warden. They've never given me the impression of being so meticulous with their grooming.

Having worked in a prison, I can confirm that (like everywhere else) there's good and bad, but the male Screws I've played with (and still do occasionally) are very well groomed and the female Screws I know personally are the same "

Thanks Caz

That's a whole day of the theme tune from Cell Block H rattling round my head

Is it revenge for puttin u off ur lunch yesterday ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky enough to have most the people i have met make an effort.

One guy wasn't trimmed even tho we had spoke and i had said it was a preference...I didn't mind so much but he missed out himself as i was less willing to get my face so close

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Just so long as she ain't got Blue Waffle, Im happy! "
We all have some standards, dont we...;-)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I never paint my nails hands or toes, did have them done at the beauty salon a few months ago but thats it, I dont wear to much makeup either, well i dont wear any unless im going somewhre special.

But i like to think when im going somewhere or have a meet i look my best.

One of my friends was coming over one night and for some reason i wasnt wearing makeup and just a plain chemise. He never even noticed lol. Im very much the natural look, but it still takes me ages to get ready

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

oh and all my bits are are hairless, legs arms everywhre, sometimes i keep a little bit of downing on my fanny but thats it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get all dolled up and then go to a club and get in the jacuzzi, so now If I'm going to a wet club, I wont put make up on. I do still wash my hair and try to remember to take a hair bobble (I always have my hair brush) I have many a time had my (elasticated) locker key wrapped in my hair but shaven, nails, always new stockings/hold ups and everything else is done before I go out.

Ive never had anyone say anything about me not wearing make up and have never been declined anything so I've either been really lucky or men dont need me in full face make up.

One bloke I arranged a meet with aked me not to wear foundation as he didnt want his sparkly new cotton bedding to be wearing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh and all my bits are are hairless, legs arms everywhre, sometimes i keep a little bit of downing on my fanny but thats it"

See my sister thought i was nuts the other week as when she asked what i was doing id told her i was veeting my arms i get rid of the lot from the head down.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I've never met a prison warden. They've never given me the impression of being so meticulous with their grooming.

Having worked in a prison, I can confirm that (like everywhere else) there's good and bad, but the male Screws I've played with (and still do occasionally) are very well groomed and the female Screws I know personally are the same

I dont doubt there own grioming but do they really shave the prisoners legs "

Don't think so lol, but as an aside, the prison population must be VWE as I lost count of how many told me to be careful patting them down as their nickname was "Tripod"

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I've never met a prison warden. They've never given me the impression of being so meticulous with their grooming.

Having worked in a prison, I can confirm that (like everywhere else) there's good and bad, but the male Screws I've played with (and still do occasionally) are very well groomed and the female Screws I know personally are the same

Thanks Caz

That's a whole day of the theme tune from Cell Block H rattling round my head

Is it revenge for puttin u off ur lunch yesterday ? "

Sure is, plus I'd just about managed to stop gagging on my porridge after posting on JohnSoda's thread when I noticed your post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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as an aside, the prison population must be VWE as I lost count of how many told me to be careful patting them down as their nickname was "Tripod" "

now you're just toying with my over active imagination

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it makes a difference from the ladies point of view

If she feels confident and sexy, then surely it is beneficial

Some women need to get tuttied up and dressed up to have that confidence, others don't

So it's whatever works in my eyes

A natural look will always attract me more than a contrived one though, but I understand many guys go for the opposite

So again, what works best for the 2 people involved

Hello Sidders btw -not spoken in yonks & hope you're keeping good xxxxx"

Keeping very good thank u sweetheart, lovely to see my fav pic back up on the profile there!

And I agree I love te natural look but there is a wonton slut like quality to the full made up wreaked from fucking face that does something for me and many others no doubt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to get all dolled up and then go to a club and get in the jacuzzi, so now If I'm going to a wet club, I wont put make up on. I do still wash my hair and try to remember to take a hair bobble (I always have my hair brush) I have many a time had my (elasticated) locker key wrapped in my hair but shaven, nails, always new stockings/hold ups and everything else is done before I go out.

Ive never had anyone say anything about me not wearing make up and have never been declined anything so I've either been really lucky or men dont need me in full face make up.

One bloke I arranged a meet with aked me not to wear foundation as he didnt want his sparkly new cotton bedding to be wearing it "

Loving this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well game some seem to come already looking as if they had a good seeing to and I avoid them like the plague, I like to look my best at the start of the night personally but others.......... Well best I not say lol "
clubs you go too must have good lights , lol be hard to tell if need there legs shaved .. and things and would have to get up close in some clubs and feel as cant see to well .. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well game some seem to come already looking as if they had a good seeing to and I avoid them like the plague, I like to look my best at the start of the night personally but others.......... Well best I not say lol clubs you go too must have good lights , lol be hard to tell if need there legs shaved .. and things and would have to get up close in some clubs and feel as cant see to well .. xx "

The bar in Newport is well lit yes, not bright but enough! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never met a prison warden. They've never given me the impression of being so meticulous with their grooming. "

Blimey by the time i've showered, shaved me chest me legs me bits n bobs, washed me hair, blow dried n ironed it, moisturised,squirted aftershave n eau de toiletted, mouthwash, eye drops, checked for straggly eyebrows, nose hair,ear hair, clipped nails n got dressed I'M USUALLY TOO KNACKERED FOR A MEET

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get my legs waxed, the problem with waxing is tho it lasts a few weeks before you need it doing again you do have to let it grow before they can wax it again so for a week or so before your next waxing session you have to have stubble if you have a meet the night before your booked in and shave your legs they cant wax it the next day, ive never had a guy do a runner on me because I have a little stubble on my legs, saying that I wouldn't meet a new guy in that state and would only meet someone I had met before so I could warn him im due for a wax without him thinking im a scruffy minger lol

I never paint my toe nails its just not something I do, again its never bothered anyone

not all guys like the same, i've had some guys ask me not to wear make up, or perfume etc, some guys like the made up look so prefer the natural look, so long as your clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry, you mean it doesn't take several hours for guys to get ready?

You mean we can't spend 20 minutes trying to get your hair right, 40 minutes wondering which shirt and suit combination works the best, 15 minutes working out which shoes to wear depending on how much walking is involved (I look great in cuban heels but they are a killer over long distances), 20 minutes planning the best route and checking the traffic, 20 minutes in the shower, a further 10 minutes changing our shirt because we've stressed out that much over everything else that we are now a bit moist under the arms and lets not forget 20 minutes shaving?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"

as an aside, the prison population must be VWE as I lost count of how many told me to be careful patting them down as their nickname was "Tripod"

now you're just toying with my over active imagination "

Only ever accidentally touched one halfway down his leg...here's a picture of me when it happened...

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"

as an aside, the prison population must be VWE as I lost count of how many told me to be careful patting them down as their nickname was "Tripod"

now you're just toying with my over active imagination

Only ever accidentally touched one halfway down his leg...here's a picture of me when it happened... "

And here's your picture after.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sorry, you mean it doesn't take several hours for guys to get ready?

You mean we can't spend 20 minutes trying to get your hair right, 40 minutes wondering which shirt and suit combination works the best, 15 minutes working out which shoes to wear depending on how much walking is involved (I look great in cuban heels but they are a killer over long distances), 20 minutes planning the best route and checking the traffic, 20 minutes in the shower, a further 10 minutes changing our shirt because we've stressed out that much over everything else that we are now a bit moist under the arms and lets not forget 20 minutes shaving?

"

Glad I wasn't drinking then as I laughed so much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


".......... saying that I wouldn't meet a new guy in that state and would only meet someone I had met before so I could warn him im due for a wax without him thinking im a scruffy minger lol

not all guys like the same, i've had some guys ask me not to wear make up, or perfume etc, some guys like the made up look so prefer the natural look, so long as your clean"

I'm with u on this one there's a difference between someone u know seeing u with stubble and a new meet, for some being clean is enough, a friend always used to come early so he could catch me in or just out if the shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".......... saying that I wouldn't meet a new guy in that state and would only meet someone I had met before so I could warn him im due for a wax without him thinking im a scruffy minger lol

not all guys like the same, i've had some guys ask me not to wear make up, or perfume etc, some guys like the made up look so prefer the natural look, so long as your clean

I'm with u on this one there's a difference between someone u know seeing u with stubble and a new meet, for some being clean is enough, a friend always used to come early so he could catch me in or just out if the shower "

I know a few guys who like the wet hair, natural, just out the shower look

Not all guys need to see you glammed up in make up and hair spray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh and all my bits are are hairless, legs arms everywhre, sometimes i keep a little bit of downing on my fanny but thats it"

On my fanny! Made me laugh lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


".........., a friend always used to come early so he could catch me in or just out if the shower

I know a few guys who like the wet hair, natural, just out the shower look

Not all guys need to see you glammed up in make up and hair spray "

Hair spray is the work of the devil when meeting, love having my hair played with and touching others hair regardless of length so no spray please we're British lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"So us women get ready for a meet, we shower, shave, moisturise, paint nails, make up, hair, dress in the appropriate manner that u guys seem to like a little make sure we r fully groomed and perfect, it can take a while!!!!

U guys shower shave and dress!

Do u notice if a lady hasn't painted her toes or shaves her lags that day?

Is it all really necessary I wonder when the lust takes over is just being clean and tidy not enough maybe? "

Clean is good enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Clean is good enough for me. "

With a dirty mind mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smooth is always good - especially in certain areas!!

I don't want to get stubble rash on my ears!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smooth is always good - especially in certain areas!!

I don't want to get stubble rash on my ears! "

Yeah i once got it on my nose and it wasnt from kissing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Smooth is always good - especially in certain areas!!

I don't want to get stubble rash on my ears!

Yeah i once got it on my nose and it wasnt from kissing "

Oooooooerrerrr mrs

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

A very good friend of mine came to stay with me the night of my op and was a star - he had only ever seen me in full kit...

I am now struggling to see him again as he has seen me at my WORST...

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A very good friend of mine came to stay with me the night of my op and was a star - he had only ever seen me in full kit...

I am now struggling to see him again as he has seen me at my WORST... "

So let him see you at your BEST again then ?

What better validation for him than to think he has helped you get back on your feet.

And better for you to be with someone who thinks that much about you as to be so caring.

I bet he hasn't even thought twice about it

and what a nice guy for being there for ya x

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