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By (user no longer on site) OP   
11 weeks ago

I am sub , love pain , I can fuck u so good take long time to cum but like to give me rimming or finger or pegging , I am top , but I love be sub and do hard things , only my limit blood and shit,

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By *unseeker v2Man
11 weeks ago

Cardiff

You ok hun?

Judging by all your threads you seem confused on so many levels.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

So, a bull role in itself is a top or 'dominant' role.

A submissive bull is no use to people who are seeking a bull.

If you want to play bull, play bull. If you want to play sub, play sub.

But advertising yourself as both simultaneously is only going to put people who'd be interested in either side off because the other is not what they are seeking at all.

Hope that helps OP 💜

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
11 weeks ago

I fuck like bull , but I love dom women

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By *exxyyDy11Man
11 weeks ago

North West

Thought bulls were supposed to be dominant in the dynamic? Rather than submissive? Or have I got it all mixed up?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I fuck like bull , but I love dom women "

Right.

I did try to explain.

Best of luck OP 💜

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
11 weeks ago

Niche

Is there a language/terminology thing here?

When you say sub do you mean masochist?

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By *exxyyDy11Man
11 weeks ago

North West


"I fuck like bull , but I love dom women

Right.

I did try to explain.

Best of luck OP 💜"

This is why I'm so confused I thought bulls were supposed to be the dom ones, especially in dynamics involving couples. Or maybe it is all changed now, I don't know.

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By *undee2Man
11 weeks ago

Dundee

A transbull? That will confuse the Supreme Court

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
11 weeks ago

I am , and good fucker

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
11 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.

OP you can do both things, but not really at the same time.

You seem to be having some level of internal conflict.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
11 weeks ago

West Suffolk

Never heard of a sub bull before, as others have said it’s one or the other.

I class a dom as an alpha male taking control whereas a sub does as his told and takes what he is given, total opposites

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By *ensualMan
11 weeks ago

Sutton

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By *ensualMan
11 weeks ago

Sutton

t all comes down to the individual dynamics of couples.

OP as long as you are clear about what you are offering and what you are looking for, be yourself and shoot your best shot.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
11 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I have no words. I still don’t get the OP??

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By *electableicecreamMan
11 weeks ago

The West

Can't the man be a switch?

I feel like there is nuance being lost in translation here.

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By *allipygousMan
11 weeks ago

Leicester

Can't a bull be whatever they feel like a bull should be?

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By *ellinever70Woman
11 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"Can't a bull be whatever they feel like a bull should be? "

Not in the lounge, no

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By *he MinionMan
11 weeks ago

.


"Can't a bull be whatever they feel like a bull should be?

Not in the lounge, no"

But in a china shop, thats fine.

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By *exySenseiCouple
11 weeks ago


"Can't a bull be whatever they feel like a bull should be? "

Not in a china shop, no.

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By *exySenseiCouple
11 weeks ago


"I am sub , love pain , I can fuck u so good take long time to cum but like to give me rimming or finger or pegging , I am top , but I love be sub and do hard things , only my limit blood and shit, "

I'd like to recommend counselling. This is not a healthy life choice.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Can't a bull be whatever they feel like a bull should be? "

A bull is a specific role with certain parameters. If you agreed to a bull meet and got a sub, no-one is getting what they want from that experience. Like if you showed up as the bull to a bull meet, but then the cuck decided he was was going to top you. It's just not the roles as defined for the lifestyle. If I arranged a session with a sub and he tried to switch to bull on me partway through, the session would be over and we would not be connecting again.

It's absolutely fine to be a switch. But those who are looking for one or the other will usually prefer someone who is solidly on one side of it 💜

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By *allipygousMan
11 weeks ago

Leicester


"Can't a bull be whatever they feel like a bull should be?

A bull is a specific role with certain parameters. If you agreed to a bull meet and got a sub, no-one is getting what they want from that experience. Like if you showed up as the bull to a bull meet, but then the cuck decided he was was going to top you. It's just not the roles as defined for the lifestyle. If I arranged a session with a sub and he tried to switch to bull on me partway through, the session would be over and we would not be connecting again.

It's absolutely fine to be a switch. But those who are looking for one or the other will usually prefer someone who is solidly on one side of it 💜"

I'm going to assume you didn't pick up on the heavy sarcasm as indicated by '' but, going with the theme you've heavily contributed to on other threads about other matters, surely it's how the bull feels what a bull is and is not to be dictated by what others think a bull is?

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By *electableicecreamMan
11 weeks ago

The West

I don't know I think it seems more likely that the OP isn't using the word bull in it's traditionally understood role.

All his posts are about being submissive.

He says he fucks like a bull. My interpretation is that he means he's a sub that can pound hard.

And even if he means bull in the traditional sense he doesn't say he insists on being a bull and a sub at the same time.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I'm going to assume you didn't pick up on the heavy sarcasm as indicated by '' but, going with the theme you've heavily contributed to on other threads about other matters, surely it's how the bull feels what a bull is and is not to be dictated by what others think a bull is? "

Expressing sarcasm effectively through text is difficult. Especially when experience shows the author to have some unusual interpretations on other matters.

This is about a role, not an identity. You can't just decide you feel like a accountant and apply for jobs with the claim that you are. Or at least, if you're going to, don't include on the application that you'd love to do some strip teases over your accountant desk. At least not if you're hoping for a positive response from people looking to have that role filled. Even if you are both an accountant and a stripper and outstanding at both, they don't belong on the same application form 💜

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By *allipygousMan
11 weeks ago

Leicester


"I'm going to assume you didn't pick up on the heavy sarcasm as indicated by '' but, going with the theme you've heavily contributed to on other threads about other matters, surely it's how the bull feels what a bull is and is not to be dictated by what others think a bull is?

Expressing sarcasm effectively through text is difficult. Especially when experience shows the author to have some unusual interpretations on other matters.

This is about a role, not an identity. You can't just decide you feel like a accountant and apply for jobs with the claim that you are. Or at least, if you're going to, don't include on the application that you'd love to do some strip teases over your accountant desk. At least not if you're hoping for a positive response from people looking to have that role filled. Even if you are both an accountant and a stripper and outstanding at both, they don't belong on the same application form 💜"

Strip teasing accountant, now that's interesting. I disagree with you by the way, but I'm "unusual" 🤷🏾‍♂️

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By *ady SuzieXXXWoman
11 weeks ago

Chichester


"I am sub , love pain , I can fuck u so good take long time to cum but like to give me rimming or finger or pegging , I am top , but I love be sub and do hard things , only my limit blood and shit, "
. A contradiction in terms….sub and dom.

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By *Silver-Man
11 weeks ago

North Wales


"So, a bull role in itself is a top or 'dominant' role.

A submissive bull is no use to people who are seeking a bull.

If you want to play bull, play bull. If you want to play sub, play sub.

But advertising yourself as both simultaneously is only going to put people who'd be interested in either side off because the other is not what they are seeking at all.

Hope that helps OP 💜"

He's a bull that can switch. Being versatile is a good thing in my book.

As long as he knows what his role is at the time, and sticks to what the other party require is ok?

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