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"I'm never really sure what I'm looking for. Often its just found me!" Love this ☺️ | |||
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"I've found various people and relationships on here, even love for those that believe such a thing exists. I don't think it's a direct product of much energy one puts in to seeking, those things. There's a kind of optimal balance of discovery and engaging. I try to be informed by my past, my present desires, but not defined rigidly by them. I am not sure wasting my time, is the way I look at it. I think I can use my time ineffectually or non-optimally, but if I learn from that then it's not wasted time." I’m take not of this. Needed to hear this today 💜 | |||
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"Whilst being on Fab have any of you found exactly what you were looking for on here?Maybe you weren't looking for anything at the time but then found a connection with someone your really into? Have you been lucky enough to find someone for the dynamic you specifically want such as a regular hook up,FWB etc or even just friendship and someone to hang our with? Maybe even found love with someone special you met on here? Or do you find your wasting your time and find it difficult to find what you are looking for on here?" I've found exactly what I wanted and very happy with the situation 😁 | |||
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"I came looking for hotwife / stag + Vixen / Cuckold couples, and have found them over the years, but it is hard work. It’s like Snowboarding, if it was easy then everybody would do it. ![]() Lol good analogy | |||
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"I’ve always found what I’m looking for with men over the years I’ve been here even though it’s always taken a lot of time! I find it very hard to find ladies to meet though 😥. Would love to find some ladies to meet socially with the potential for more. " *a-hem* 😁 | |||
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"As this is a swinging site, I can here looking for NSA sex, I have found plenty of it. " A few months ago on a similar thread a man posted a response very like this and got absolutely hammered by quite a few forumites telling him that this wasn't a site for NSA. He was told to make himself more aware of what the lifestyle really was and join the social scene and stop treating people like pieces of meat. NSA and swinging are not compatible apparently according to some. It was a strange reaction on what is supposed to be an open and welcoming site but quite a few people are here for NSA and like you have found exactly that. | |||
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"I'm not really looking for anything specific on here. There are things that would be nice to find that I'm open to, but I'm not actively searching for them. I'm just letting things occur naturally. When I first joined I simply wanted to find one fwb who didn't want a romantic relationship with me at that point. But I've gained so many new friends, made new connections, had amazing experiences and explored things about myself I didn't realise existed. So what I got was so much more than I had planned for. " That is such a nice way to put it, I had an fwb when I first joined didn't end well so I have been a bit hesitant about finding one again but, I think I am ready to try again now. You are so right about exploring and finding things out about yourself. | |||
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"As this is a swinging site, I can here looking for NSA sex, I have found plenty of it. A few months ago on a similar thread a man posted a response very like this and got absolutely hammered by quite a few forumites telling him that this wasn't a site for NSA. He was told to make himself more aware of what the lifestyle really was and join the social scene and stop treating people like pieces of meat. NSA and swinging are not compatible apparently according to some. It was a strange reaction on what is supposed to be an open and welcoming site but quite a few people are here for NSA and like you have found exactly that." The definition of swinging is people meeting up for sex. The thing is lots of people still here having issues with people meeting up just for the pleasure of sex. Society has told us us we shouldn't. | |||
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"Sometimes I still wished I lived in London.. *big sigh* ![]() You ain't the only one! | |||
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"Sometimes I still wished I lived in London.. *big sigh* ![]() Socks to be the arse end of nowhere.. but think I'm needing a holiday ![]() | |||
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"I'm not really looking for anything specific on here. There are things that would be nice to find that I'm open to, but I'm not actively searching for them. I'm just letting things occur naturally. When I first joined I simply wanted to find one fwb who didn't want a romantic relationship with me at that point. But I've gained so many new friends, made new connections, had amazing experiences and explored things about myself I didn't realise existed. So what I got was so much more than I had planned for. That is such a nice way to put it, I had an fwb when I first joined didn't end well so I have been a bit hesitant about finding one again but, I think I am ready to try again now. You are so right about exploring and finding things out about yourself." Joining fab definitely opened up my eyes to a lot of new experiences I would never have considered before, and I feel like quite a different person from the version of me that joined up 4 years ago. | |||
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"Sometimes I still wished I lived in London.. *big sigh* ![]() Why? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've found various people and relationships on here, even love for those that believe such a thing exists. I don't think it's a direct product of much energy one puts in to seeking, those things. There's a kind of optimal balance of discovery and engaging. I try to be informed by my past, my present desires, but not defined rigidly by them. I am not sure wasting my time, is the way I look at it. I think I can use my time ineffectually or non-optimally, but if I learn from that then it's not wasted time. I’m take not of this. Needed to hear this today 💜" You are very welcome. There's days I need to take note of it too. 💜 | |||
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"Sometimes I still wished I lived in London.. *big sigh* ![]() ![]() ![]() Umm.. great place to live ![]() | |||
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"Found the one thing I was adamant I didn't want, or so I thought. 4 years later and I still feel like the luckiest woman alive. " Awwww.. 🤗 | |||
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"I'm only here because they cancelled Jeremy Kyle " You mean the forums? Yeah I can see it..." Tonight at the Forum Fab Hour - is it gay if a woman watches gay men porn? Stay tuned to find out" | |||
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"Whilst being on Fab have any of you found exactly what you were looking for on here?Maybe you weren't looking for anything at the time but then found a connection with someone your really into? Have you been lucky enough to find someone for the dynamic you specifically want such as a regular hook up,FWB etc or even just friendship and someone to hang our with? Maybe even found love with someone special you met on here? Or do you find your wasting your time and find it difficult to find what you are looking for on here?" It took me a year to find a couple with whom to enjoy mmf threesomes and we were together for six years, until quite recently when they split up. So yes, I did find exactly what I was looking for but whether I'll be lucky again is a big question. | |||
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"Whilst being on Fab have any of you found exactly what you were looking for on here?Maybe you weren't looking for anything at the time but then found a connection with someone your really into? Have you been lucky enough to find someone for the dynamic you specifically want such as a regular hook up,FWB etc or even just friendship and someone to hang our with? Maybe even found love with someone special you met on here? Or do you find your wasting your time and find it difficult to find what you are looking for on here?" As a male I find it more than a challenge on here Couples and females looking for females I think do better than men | |||
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